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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus

If one of this years Pussy Posse parties could be held at any club except Chameleons.........

Where should it be held?

I know Chams is central etc... but seriously, where would people travel to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abfabs

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Where ever it is, just bear on mind it has to be close enough to an airport

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

ermmmmmmmI don't mind what about a bus trip to partners??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have travelled to Barnsley for a pub meet, so anywhere in between would be fine.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't know where clubs are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xtasia x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where ever it is, just bear on mind it has to be close enough to an airport "

right by Heathrow

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Does it have to be in a club? not knocking the use of clubs, just asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where ever it is, just bear on mind it has to be close enough to an airport

right by Heathrow"

And huge travelodge 2 mins away

From Abfabs that is

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"xtasia x"

Good place to have a social as you can stayed dressed and have a boogie.... Its good there. I have some friends that do a social once in a while on a Friday from another site... Its usually a good crowd.

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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Does it have to be in a club? not knocking the use of clubs, just asking "

Thats a possibility......

Any thoughts on where?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Does it have to be in a club? not knocking the use of clubs, just asking

Thats a possibility......

Any thoughts on where?"

No lol... sorry my geography is shocking... there was a great masquerade ball recently in Glasgow, was fab.... they hired rooms in a really stylish pub.

so maybe manchester, leeds might have similar

good luck... sounds a great idea tho x

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"ermmmmmmmI don't mind what about a bus trip to partners?? "

don't they keep stationary

wouldn't be much of a shag would it?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"ermmmmmmmI don't mind what about a bus trip to partners??

don't they keep stationary

wouldn't be much of a shag would it? "

Oi stop it you!!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"ermmmmmmmI don't mind what about a bus trip to partners??

don't they keep stationary

wouldn't be much of a shag would it?

Oi stop it you!! "

oooooh, you didn't say that last night

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

i wouldnt be able to get anywhere else

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"ermmmmmmmI don't mind what about a bus trip to partners??

don't they keep stationary

wouldn't be much of a shag would it?

Oi stop it you!!

oooooh, you didn't say that last night

"

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I'd suggest Cupids - airport - motorway - good hotels near by - nice large club - fantastic owener and staff - Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about somewhere a little further South?

Still needs to have a good transport network though, which sort of rules out the South West, and also makes it harder for the Northern contingent, but you could go further north next time, even it out a little....

Abfabs wouldn't be the worst idea...

But as View said.. does it have to be a club?

A lot of folks find clubs a bit intimidating..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Butlins, Minehead, loads of adult weekends available. We could "socialise" for 3 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We could take over butlins Skegness on one of their adult themed weekends.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We were members of another site who hired a large room in a hotel. All thought it was fine as it was expected that all the rooms in the hotel would be taken by the group, unfortunately they weren't and as any landlord would do the unused rooms were still available to the general public, it did make it rather awkward later on in the evening when some people were running around almost naked The group picture (which we missed fortunately) appeared in a very well known daily rag

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Manchester is sort of central for the south of England and Scotland and has good rail, motorway and flight networks

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By *andj65Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Xtasia here also...on a Sat nite maybe...defo big enuf for this mad lot

Also could visit Chams on Sunday before coming home...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to go back to cupids. Or maybe buddies in Blackpool or whats the swingers hotel there be nice to go the sea side.

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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Please bear in mind that IF and it's a big IF, I do this....... I'm going to need feedback on whether the Sat or the Sun would be best.

Now..... If it's a Saturday, any club, pub or whatever would have to be big enough to cope with all of us, and the club would also have to accept us on the terms that I already have with Chams.

If it's a Sunday, we would do it with the bank holiday and alot of clubs don't open. So, could we get them to open, feed us and let us run amok etc.

IF we did another club, they would have to allow non members in and I would want to do the bring your own booze.

Would people prefer a non-club, fancy dress, a ball etc...... do we need play rooms, somewhere to put bags etc.....

I need suggestions, suggestions, suggestions and I MAY then consider it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a look in the club section there is Buddies, Infusions swinger hotel, Blackpool fun house quite a few choices there. A hotel may work better than a club and cater for us better. Especially if not peek time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends when as well as it is an Olympic year so the South East is gonna be a no no for all of that period- no availability on hotels or venues, I would presume?

Chams is starting to look good after what you said!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

How about alton towers?

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

we could always hire a few boats on the broads

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Just had a look in the club section there is Buddies, Infusions swinger hotel, Blackpool fun house quite a few choices there. A hotel may work better than a club and cater for us better. Especially if not peek time."

Buddies apparently stinks and is dirty - Infusions is fantastic and the blackpool fun house is a b & b who have swingers weekends - we haven't been to the fun house for a couple of years and would never go to buddies - Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a look in the club section there is Buddies, Infusions swinger hotel, Blackpool fun house quite a few choices there. A hotel may work better than a club and cater for us better. Especially if not peek time.

Buddies apparently stinks and is dirty - Infusions is fantastic and the blackpool fun house is a b & b who have swingers weekends - we haven't been to the fun house for a couple of years and would never go to buddies - Z"

Never been to Blackpool so don't know but have heard great things about Infusions and have met the couple that run it at chams great couple.

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By *andj65Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Prefer a club and if its not Chams would prefer it a Sat night...

I know i said Xtasia, which i think is ideal for what your thinking but everyone has things they like or even dont like about different clubs, it has a reasonably priced bar also and we dont mind bringing bottle or other...

The lack of locker space is a downside unless its changed since we've been but we dont take a lot to clubs anyway

We dont mind travelling to clubs and make a weekend of it so no probs here whatever you decide...

Probably not gonna please everyone with this so best ta decide and jus go with it ...

I will wait in anticipation

Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is xstasia the club that has the huge dance floor with the curtains and the sofas that look like they belong in a 1970's working mans club?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Is xstasia the club that has the huge dance floor with the curtains and the sofas that look like they belong in a 1970's working mans club? "

Thats the one!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Please bear in mind that IF and it's a big IF, I do this....... I'm going to need feedback on whether the Sat or the Sun would be best.

Now..... If it's a Saturday, any club, pub or whatever would have to be big enough to cope with all of us, and the club would also have to accept us on the terms that I already have with Chams.

If it's a Sunday, we would do it with the bank holiday and alot of clubs don't open. So, could we get them to open, feed us and let us run amok etc.

IF we did another club, they would have to allow non members in and I would want to do the bring your own booze.

Would people prefer a non-club, fancy dress, a ball etc...... do we need play rooms, somewhere to put bags etc.....

I need suggestions, suggestions, suggestions and I MAY then consider it."

I'd say xstastia.. their bar is cheap as chips premier inn next door.. And those that feel uncomfortable in wearing a towel can wear clothes.. They have play rooms also and if you are you on the social list you don't have to be a member and people can come as fancy dress or whatever... A mascarade ball even....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is xstasia the club that has the huge dance floor with the curtains and the sofas that look like they belong in a 1970's working mans club?

Thats the one!! "

Thought so in that case I wouldn't go there I didn't like it 1 little bit it's dirty and yes it's a sex club but I found found it sleazy , just my opinion tho

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Is xstasia the club that has the huge dance floor with the curtains and the sofas that look like they belong in a 1970's working mans club?

Thats the one!!

Thought so in that case I wouldn't go there I didn't like it 1 little bit it's dirty and yes it's a sex club but I found found it sleazy , just my opinion tho "

Its got a bit better..

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Is xstasia the club that has the huge dance floor with the curtains and the sofas that look like they belong in a 1970's working mans club?

Thats the one!!

Thought so in that case I wouldn't go there I didn't like it 1 little bit it's dirty and yes it's a sex club but I found found it sleazy , just my opinion tho "

we thought the same when we went there too

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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus

It would be for the Jubilee..... along the lines of last years Red, White and Blue.

So no trawling down the motorway and fighting with the Olympic traffic.

I honestly don't know if Xtasia would cope. Don't forget, it only has one jacuzzi, the playrooms are open and in the eaves..... and if you are over 4ft, you have to practically crawl into them.

If people wanted it as a pure social, it may be ok..... but for what I have in mind, it's probably a no go.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Is xstasia the club that has the huge dance floor with the curtains and the sofas that look like they belong in a 1970's working mans club?

Thats the one!!

Thought so in that case I wouldn't go there I didn't like it 1 little bit it's dirty and yes it's a sex club but I found found it sleazy , just my opinion tho "

i swore id never go to another club after going xtasia hated the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If one of this years Pussy Posse parties could be held at any club except Chameleons.........

Where should it be held?

I know Chams is central etc... but seriously, where would people travel to?"

bet its nowhere near me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If one of this years Pussy Posse parties could be held at any club except Chameleons.........

Where should it be held?

I know Chams is central etc... but seriously, where would people travel to?

bet its nowhere near me "

It's no where near me either but was well worth the long long drive there and back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont drive so traveling a long way is hard for me as public transport dont run at club kicking out times and it get expensive if you have to pay for trains and hotels, but with enough notice i would try to make the effort if possible, so long as its not xtasia, even tho its on my door step i still wouldnt go lol

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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus

To be honest, if people don't give me feedback, maybe it's time to stop doing these parties.

I need suggestions as to what people want, not what they don't want.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would like a social only ( non themed ) in a classy venue, located centrally with a good choice of hotels available. Disco or good band ( prefer Disco ), a bar, some introduction games to get to know people... maybe a 2nd smaller room without music for chatting in.

hope that helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a car so somewhere near rail links would be good.

I would like to see some ice-breaker games at social gatherings.(Maybe you are already doing that?)

I haven't been to any yet but would love to meet some of the peeps on here.

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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"I would like a social only ( non themed ) in a classy venue, located centrally with a good choice of hotels available. Disco or good band ( prefer Disco ), a bar, some introduction games to get to know people... maybe a 2nd smaller room without music for chatting in.

hope that helps x"

Thank you. Thats exactly the sort of thing I am after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, if people don't give me feedback, maybe it's time to stop doing these parties.

I need suggestions as to what people want, not what they don't want."

not experienced enough to know

I like Chams, because they have the rooms to stay in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like a social only ( non themed ) in a classy venue, located centrally with a good choice of hotels available. Disco or good band ( prefer Disco ), a bar, some introduction games to get to know people... maybe a 2nd smaller room without music for chatting in.

hope that helps x"

why u coming over

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"Where ever it is, just bear on mind it has to be close enough to an airport

right by Heathrow"

how about chartering a flight stopping of around the uk - a swingers mile high event - probably get in the guiness book of records

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I would like a social only ( non themed ) in a classy venue, located centrally with a good choice of hotels available. Disco or good band ( prefer Disco ), a bar, some introduction games to get to know people... maybe a 2nd smaller room without music for chatting in.

hope that helps x

why u coming over "

I am definitely going to come to a social this year.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

If it`s going to be another club, as long as it will accept single guys! I don`t mind going to a club and socialising only! Did it a couple of years ago when some friends had a do at A&G`s!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

cant see how maddie is going to please everyone judging by whats been posted....so we shall just have to wait n see

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Any social organiser is never going to please all.... never aim to, as you will fail... you can just do your best, organise something and then it is over to the attendees to make the most of it....

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

clubf cos it is only 20 minutes away, and a great club

seriously love the idea of moving it, but is any other club in the country big enough?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

not london though...sorry but it is just too costly

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I suppose some would say, if it ain't broke, don't fix it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

La Chambre? It's big, but not sure if they'd waive membership. Having said that they hosted the BMFC lot late last year so I reckon they'd be open to negotiation.

Not entirely sure why Xtasia would be an alternative - it's in the same city as Chams! At least Sheffield is more accessible for the northern lot.

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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus

If people who have never been to one of my parties want to make unhelpful remarks...then I'll let them organise the next party..........

Like that would happen!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i was wondering about blackpool, but i have never been(swingin), it might be a possibility,

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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Any social organiser is never going to please all.... never aim to, as you will fail... you can just do your best, organise something and then it is over to the attendees to make the most of it...."

Thanks hun. At least you understand what I'm up against!

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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"not london though...sorry but it is just too costly "

I totally and utterly agree.

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford


"i was wondering about blackpool, but i have never been(swingin), it might be a possibility,"

Infusions was named early in this post as a possible venue. And after reading some of the location put forward sound like a good place to check out with availability for the weekend your looking for. It dose have a smallish bar area you take your own beer /drinks small hot tub good size pool sauna, rooms for fun lounge area the one down side is it does have a very limited smoking area, there is also a pool table lounge area as for music- DJ. You may have to ask about this.

A hotel there is plenty around the area where the club is.

People could make it a weekend away from all the hype of the Olympics’

Unsure when it’s being planned for month, just a foot note London. Birmingham, Manchester, Sheffield and the north east are all holding events during the Olympics hotel and venue will be limited and may even cost more during July / August.

This is only my opinion on this (Kev)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your house Maddie xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"i was wondering about blackpool, but i have never been(swingin), it might be a possibility,

Infusions was named early in this post as a possible venue. And after reading some of the location put forward sound like a good place to check out with availability for the weekend your looking for. It dose have a smallish bar area you take your own beer /drinks small hot tub good size pool sauna, rooms for fun lounge area the one down side is it does have a very limited smoking area, there is also a pool table lounge area as for music- DJ. You may have to ask about this.

A hotel there is plenty around the area where the club is.

People could make it a weekend away from all the hype of the Olympics’

Unsure when it’s being planned for month, just a foot note London. Birmingham, Manchester, Sheffield and the north east are all holding events during the Olympics hotel and venue will be limited and may even cost more during July / August.

This is only my opinion on this (Kev)

"

OMG Birmingham is doing something for the olympics... Oh dear I am going on holiday for the olympics

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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"i was wondering about blackpool, but i have never been(swingin), it might be a possibility,

Infusions was named early in this post as a possible venue. And after reading some of the location put forward sound like a good place to check out with availability for the weekend your looking for. It dose have a smallish bar area you take your own beer /drinks small hot tub good size pool sauna, rooms for fun lounge area the one down side is it does have a very limited smoking area, there is also a pool table lounge area as for music- DJ. You may have to ask about this.

A hotel there is plenty around the area where the club is.

People could make it a weekend away from all the hype of the Olympics’

Unsure when it’s being planned for month, just a foot note London. Birmingham, Manchester, Sheffield and the north east are all holding events during the Olympics hotel and venue will be limited and may even cost more during July / August.

This is only my opinion on this (Kev)

"

I've been to Infusions and it is all you say, including being extremely clean.

It is definately up there as a possibility........ IF the southerners would travel.

The other plus side is that if we could get a decent price for say a dozen B&B's or hotels, people who didn't like clubs could come and we could do something the next day!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"If people who have never been to one of my parties want to make unhelpful remarks...then I'll let them organise the next party..........

Like that would happen!"

You asked for suggestions, there is no need to keep getting abrupt with people when they answer.

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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"If people who have never been to one of my parties want to make unhelpful remarks...then I'll let them organise the next party..........

Like that would happen!

You asked for suggestions, there is no need to keep getting abrupt with people when they answer.

"

I am getting some very good suggestions but I'm trying very hard to keep people on track as I need help with this.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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My remark was meant as a compliment.

I have never attended a Pussy Posse Party, but from remarks on the Forums and from friends of mine who have attended, they are great fun and well organised. So why spoil a winning formula

In no way was it meant as being unhelpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any social organiser is never going to please all.... never aim to, as you will fail... you can just do your best, organise something and then it is over to the attendees to make the most of it...."
Yep..don't do too much asking and consulting, that just invites too much opinion in a vast arena like Fab..don't ASK, just DO..and leave others to make up their mind on a matter thats settled.

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford


"If people who have never been to one of my parties want to make unhelpful remarks...then I'll let them organise the next party..........

Like that would happen!

You asked for suggestions, there is no need to keep getting abrupt with people when they answer.

I am getting some very good suggestions but I'm trying very hard to keep people on track as I need help with this."

we haven't been to any off your party's not that we haven't wanted too.

just never been the right time work commitments and all,

Also this one might even be out of the question as the company i work for is planning not to allow any annual leave during the 2 months of the Olympics

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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Just to reassure people.

This is NOT for during the Olympics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any social organiser is never going to please all.... never aim to, as you will fail... you can just do your best, organise something and then it is over to the attendees to make the most of it.... Yep..don't do too much asking and consulting, that just invites too much opinion in a vast arena like Fab..don't ASK, just DO..and leave others to make up their mind on a matter thats settled. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was wondering about blackpool, but i have never been(swingin), it might be a possibility,"

Good thing about Blackpool is all the guest houses local to Infusions

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By *adchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I know I'm not going to please everyone.

I know there are some who want clubs and some that don't.

I know there are some who want jacuzzi's.

I know there are some who want dresses and dancing.

I've spent the last 4 years organising parties the best I can. I've been berated (and had the forumites who weren't attending turn against me once), I've had arguments about buffets, condoms, black girls, locker space and babysitters!!

But on the plus side, I've had a blast and I would hope that all those who have attended in the last 4 years have enjoyed themselves.

We've got very comfortable with Chams and they have been very good to us, but it is maybe, just maybe, time to step out of our comfort zone for one party this year.

Knowing that I can't please everyone and not even guaranteeing I will go with the masses, I do still need imput, after all, I don't do these parties for profit and I don't get anything out of them apart from some dam good weekends but at the end of the day..... I don't do these for me, I do them for those that attend and therefore, it is those peoples suggestions I seek as to a possible way forward.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I know I'm not going to please everyone.

I know there are some who want clubs and some that don't.

I know there are some who want jacuzzi's.

I know there are some who want dresses and dancing.

I've spent the last 4 years organising parties the best I can. I've been berated (and had the forumites who weren't attending turn against me once), I've had arguments about buffets, condoms, black girls, locker space and babysitters!!

But on the plus side, I've had a blast and I would hope that all those who have attended in the last 4 years have enjoyed themselves.

We've got very comfortable with Chams and they have been very good to us, but it is maybe, just maybe, time to step out of our comfort zone for one party this year.

Knowing that I can't please everyone and not even guaranteeing I will go with the masses, I do still need imput, after all, I don't do these parties for profit and I don't get anything out of them apart from some dam good weekends but at the end of the day..... I don't do these for me, I do them for those that attend and therefore, it is those peoples suggestions I seek as to a possible way forward."

and u do a fab job..

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over a year ago


"I know I'm not going to please everyone.

I know there are some who want clubs and some that don't.

I know there are some who want jacuzzi's.

I know there are some who want dresses and dancing.

I've spent the last 4 years organising parties the best I can. I've been berated (and had the forumites who weren't attending turn against me once), I've had arguments about buffets, condoms, black girls, locker space and babysitters!!

But on the plus side, I've had a blast and I would hope that all those who have attended in the last 4 years have enjoyed themselves.

We've got very comfortable with Chams and they have been very good to us, but it is maybe, just maybe, time to step out of our comfort zone for one party this year.

Knowing that I can't please everyone and not even guaranteeing I will go with the masses, I do still need imput, after all, I don't do these parties for profit and I don't get anything out of them apart from some dam good weekends but at the end of the day..... I don't do these for me, I do them for those that attend and therefore, it is those peoples suggestions I seek as to a possible way forward."

Hmmm..'Madchick'? Brave chick more like..but point fairly made

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over a year ago


"I know I'm not going to please everyone.

I know there are some who want clubs and some that don't.

I know there are some who want jacuzzi's.

I know there are some who want dresses and dancing.

I've spent the last 4 years organising parties the best I can. I've been berated (and had the forumites who weren't attending turn against me once), I've had arguments about buffets, condoms, black girls, locker space and babysitters!!

But on the plus side, I've had a blast and I would hope that all those who have attended in the last 4 years have enjoyed themselves.

We've got very comfortable with Chams and they have been very good to us, but it is maybe, just maybe, time to step out of our comfort zone for one party this year.

Knowing that I can't please everyone and not even guaranteeing I will go with the masses, I do still need imput, after all, I don't do these parties for profit and I don't get anything out of them apart from some dam good weekends but at the end of the day..... I don't do these for me, I do them for those that attend and therefore, it is those peoples suggestions I seek as to a possible way forward."

Hmmm..'Madchick'? Brave chick more like..but point fairly made

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over a year ago

Just had a thought why not join forces with Radlett they me able to help.

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over a year ago


"I know I'm not going to please everyone.

I know there are some who want clubs and some that don't.

I know there are some who want jacuzzi's.

I know there are some who want dresses and dancing.

I've spent the last 4 years organising parties the best I can. I've been berated (and had the forumites who weren't attending turn against me once), I've had arguments about buffets, condoms, black girls, locker space and babysitters!!

But on the plus side, I've had a blast and I would hope that all those who have attended in the last 4 years have enjoyed themselves.

We've got very comfortable with Chams and they have been very good to us, but it is maybe, just maybe, time to step out of our comfort zone for one party this year.

Knowing that I can't please everyone and not even guaranteeing I will go with the masses, I do still need imput, after all, I don't do these parties for profit and I don't get anything out of them apart from some dam good weekends but at the end of the day..... I don't do these for me, I do them for those that attend and therefore, it is those peoples suggestions I seek as to a possible way forward."

Nothing like a change we all like it that's essentially what swinging is about. The adventure of playing with someone new. It goes the same for venues so why not some place new it can be still centrally located for all so wouldn't have to move far and the parties can be even bigger and better. I am sure many of the local clubs would jump at having all that custom brought their way.

The king is dead long live the king.

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over a year ago


"Just had a thought why not join forces with Radlett they me able to help."

Radlett Adult Parties check it out wow

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over a year ago

And with the high speed trains due next few years lol Birmingham to London in 49 mins lol

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over a year ago


"And with the high speed trains due next few years lol Birmingham to London in 49 mins lol"

Unfortunately the cost will be astronomical and fuck all use for all the Scousers, Toons, Scotts Yorkies up north.

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"And with the high speed trains due next few years lol Birmingham to London in 49 mins lol

Unfortunately the cost will be astronomical and fuck all use for all the Scousers, Toons, Scotts Yorkies up north. "

Whoops sorry

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"And with the high speed trains due next few years lol Birmingham to London in 49 mins lol

Unfortunately the cost will be astronomical and fuck all use for all the Scousers, Toons, Scotts Yorkies up north.

Whoops sorry "

I can't understand half of them anyway

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By *andj65Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Grrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grrrrr "

Ten to one

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