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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I actually had to Google this because for years I've been convinced that im some kind of freak. I'm not alone thank goodness and it is more common than I thought.. well here goes and get ready for a shock..

I'm a female who does not like receiving oral sex. Doesn't matter how many guys have done it, or the technique. It's not about finding the right chap who knows what he's doing. It does nothing for me it never has and it never will. I don't know why I don't like it, I wish I could explain but I have no explanation.

I enjoy and get off with full sex and I also like giving oral but the minute I say I don't receive it and I don't want to men get really bothered by it and I can't quite understand why. Any other ladies feel the same or are there gentleman that don't like receiving oral?

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"So I actually had to Google this because for years I've been convinced that im some kind of freak. I'm not alone thank goodness and it is more common than I thought.. well here goes and get ready for a shock..

I'm a female who does not like receiving oral sex. Doesn't matter how many guys have done it, or the technique. It's not about finding the right chap who knows what he's doing. It does nothing for me it never has and it never will. I don't know why I don't like it, I wish I could explain but I have no explanation.

I enjoy and get off with full sex and I also like giving oral but the minute I say I don't receive it and I don't want to men get really bothered by it and I can't quite understand why. Any other ladies feel the same or are there gentleman that don't like receiving oral?"

Prepare to receive a load of messages from men who will insist they can change your mind

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Preference is fine, I’m sure you have other dislikes too. No need to analyse it more than preference since you say it won’t change.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"So I actually had to Google this because for years I've been convinced that im some kind of freak. I'm not alone thank goodness and it is more common than I thought.. well here goes and get ready for a shock..

I'm a female who does not like receiving oral sex. Doesn't matter how many guys have done it, or the technique. It's not about finding the right chap who knows what he's doing. It does nothing for me it never has and it never will. I don't know why I don't like it, I wish I could explain but I have no explanation.

I enjoy and get off with full sex and I also like giving oral but the minute I say I don't receive it and I don't want to men get really bothered by it and I can't quite understand why. Any other ladies feel the same or are there gentleman that don't like receiving oral?"

I love receiving and love to give but I’d be respectful enough to say that’s fine let’s get you off however suits you best

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't like receiving either

We put it on our profile in the end.

We're all different.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Why would any sane guy insist on doing something that the person they're with dislikes or doesn't enjoy?

Flogging a dead horse springs to mind.

A

*the saying. Not actually fogging a dead horse obviously.....

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By *oseyoudownMan
over a year ago

Trouble! AGAIN! x

My x was the same! Day bother me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a massive fan of oral myself. I love eating pussy but a blow job doesn't do a whole lot for me and I certainly have never even come close to an orgasm from one. It doesn't bother me though or any of the women I've been with, they haven't said as much anyway lol

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

Everyone is different and you are most certainly no freak in not enjoying receiving oral. You obviously enjoy what you do and if others find it weird or not for them then that is their problem and also their loss, not yours. It takes a lot of courage to post personal things on these forums as the troll fraternity are never far away. I hope you get a lot of support from other forum users.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone it's glad to know that I'm not alone and that people do understand. If I really was forced to analyse it it might be something to do with my upbringing and shyness in my younger years. However I just don't like it. My late husband loved to give it and stupidly I would just go along with it but it's time now that I am single to be honest with fellas upfront. At the end of the day it's a swingers site so if a guy is upset that he can't give me oral there are plenty of women on here that absolutely love it.

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)


"Thank you everyone it's glad to know that I'm not alone and that people do understand. If I really was forced to analyse it it might be something to do with my upbringing and shyness in my younger years. However I just don't like it. My late husband loved to give it and stupidly I would just go along with it but it's time now that I am single to be honest with fellas upfront. At the end of the day it's a swingers site so if a guy is upset that he can't give me oral there are plenty of women on here that absolutely love it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im versatile to whats required

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I actually had to Google this because for years I've been convinced that im some kind of freak. I'm not alone thank goodness and it is more common than I thought.. well here goes and get ready for a shock..

I'm a female who does not like receiving oral sex. Doesn't matter how many guys have done it, or the technique. It's not about finding the right chap who knows what he's doing. It does nothing for me it never has and it never will. I don't know why I don't like it, I wish I could explain but I have no explanation.

I enjoy and get off with full sex and I also like giving oral but the minute I say I don't receive it and I don't want to men get really bothered by it and I can't quite understand why. Any other ladies feel the same or are there gentleman that don't like receiving oral?

Prepare to receive a load of messages from men who will insist they can change your mind "

Absolutely lol I am waiting for the hurt guys that will insist that they are the best at oral and could make me squirt!! And I don't squirt either so they will have extra reason to be butthurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your not the first lady to say this.

and a couple ive meet have also felt like this.

because you dont enjoy something doesnt mean your any different. i hate cheese, people think im mad for that alone.

do what you do, the right people will respect your choices.

take care and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I actually had to Google this because for years I've been convinced that im some kind of freak. I'm not alone thank goodness and it is more common than I thought.. well here goes and get ready for a shock..

I'm a female who does not like receiving oral sex. Doesn't matter how many guys have done it, or the technique. It's not about finding the right chap who knows what he's doing. It does nothing for me it never has and it never will. I don't know why I don't like it, I wish I could explain but I have no explanation.

I enjoy and get off with full sex and I also like giving oral but the minute I say I don't receive it and I don't want to men get really bothered by it and I can't quite understand why. Any other ladies feel the same or are there gentleman that don't like receiving oral?

Prepare to receive a load of messages from men who will insist they can change your mind

Absolutely lol I am waiting for the hurt guys that will insist that they are the best at oral and could make me squirt!! And I don't squirt either so they will have extra reason to be butthurt "

Indeed x so many guys think they can "make you squirt" ...porn has a lot to answer for

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thank you everyone it's glad to know that I'm not alone and that people do understand. If I really was forced to analyse it it might be something to do with my upbringing and shyness in my younger years. However I just don't like it. My late husband loved to give it and stupidly I would just go along with it but it's time now that I am single to be honest with fellas upfront. At the end of the day it's a swingers site so if a guy is upset that he can't give me oral there are plenty of women on here that absolutely love it. "

I don't think you should ever feel wrong for not enjoying something sexual or even think about apologising for it. I also don't think you should over think it. There isn't a one single sexual thing that every single person enjoys.

We mention in our profile that I don't like oral and we don't kiss our casual partners on the lips. Anyone for who these things are necessary can avoid us.

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester


"So I actually had to Google this because for years I've been convinced that im some kind of freak. I'm not alone thank goodness and it is more common than I thought.. well here goes and get ready for a shock..

I'm a female who does not like receiving oral sex. Doesn't matter how many guys have done it, or the technique. It's not about finding the right chap who knows what he's doing. It does nothing for me it never has and it never will. I don't know why I don't like it, I wish I could explain but I have no explanation.

I enjoy and get off with full sex and I also like giving oral but the minute I say I don't receive it and I don't want to men get really bothered by it and I can't quite understand why. Any other ladies feel the same or are there gentleman that don't like receiving oral?"

I am the Same as you dose nothing for me, when you say that to a guy they are shocked, but some guys don't like having oral done to them,it's what we want as we all like deferent things, and if the other person is happy to do what ever we want, then happy days.

(Just jess) xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly all of the points raised here are so true. I know quite a few guys who have never come through oral as well and a couple that just haven't enjoyed it at all.

It's a shame that we take the time to write on our profile what we like and dislike but unfortunately a lot of people just don't bother to read or they they have short memories!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Exactly all of the points raised here are so true. I know quite a few guys who have never come through oral as well and a couple that just haven't enjoyed it at all.

It's a shame that we take the time to write on our profile what we like and dislike but unfortunately a lot of people just don't bother to read or they they have short memories!"

To be fair we've had quite a few men contact us and their profile says that they love giving oral. When we point out that I don't like it they either say it's not vital or they wish us well and agree that we're not compatible. The ones who try and change my mind are in the minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I actually had to Google this because for years I've been convinced that im some kind of freak. I'm not alone thank goodness and it is more common than I thought.. well here goes and get ready for a shock..

I'm a female who does not like receiving oral sex. Doesn't matter how many guys have done it, or the technique. It's not about finding the right chap who knows what he's doing. It does nothing for me it never has and it never will. I don't know why I don't like it, I wish I could explain but I have no explanation.

I enjoy and get off with full sex and I also like giving oral but the minute I say I don't receive it and I don't want to men get really bothered by it and I can't quite understand why. Any other ladies feel the same or are there gentleman that don't like receiving oral?

Prepare to receive a load of messages from men who will insist they can change your mind

Absolutely lol I am waiting for the hurt guys that will insist that they are the best at oral and could make me squirt!! And I don't squirt either so they will have extra reason to be butthurt

Indeed x so many guys think they can "make you squirt" ...porn has a lot to answer for "

Think squirting is more a "guy thing" it looks visually impressive and pornstars generally act like they're having a seizure when doing it, so therefore it must be the epitome of lady-pleasing?

Tbf it's the kids who came of age with much more accessible porn as an educator who think this, the typical 20-something male will think if he can make a woman squirt, he's the business!

When in reality an orgasm for a lady feels much more delightful to experience than squirting?

The trouble is that 20 something women were raised in the same era, so they think squirting makes them the epitome of sexy in a man's eyes too? So they won't actually re-educate him on what actually feels the most delightful for them, so you have a generation of which the majority are without much of a clue of each other in this regard really, as silly as that sounds!

One can only hope they become a little more clued up when they mature though.

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By *ed PetalCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"So I actually had to Google this because for years I've been convinced that im some kind of freak. I'm not alone thank goodness and it is more common than I thought.. well here goes and get ready for a shock..

I'm a female who does not like receiving oral sex. Doesn't matter how many guys have done it, or the technique. It's not about finding the right chap who knows what he's doing. It does nothing for me it never has and it never will. I don't know why I don't like it, I wish I could explain but I have no explanation.

I enjoy and get off with full sex and I also like giving oral but the minute I say I don't receive it and I don't want to men get really bothered by it and I can't quite understand why. Any other ladies feel the same or are there gentleman that don't like receiving oral?

Prepare to receive a load of messages from men who will insist they can change your mind

Absolutely lol I am waiting for the hurt guys that will insist that they are the best at oral and could make me squirt!! And I don't squirt either so they will have extra reason to be butthurt

Indeed x so many guys think they can "make you squirt" ...porn has a lot to answer for

Think squirting is more a "guy thing" it looks visually impressive and pornstars generally act like they're having a seizure when doing it, so therefore it must be the epitome of lady-pleasing?

Tbf it's the kids who came of age with much more accessible porn as an educator who think this, the typical 20-something male will think if he can make a woman squirt, he's the business!

When in reality an orgasm for a lady feels much more delightful to experience than squirting?

The trouble is that 20 something women were raised in the same era, so they think squirting makes them the epitome of sexy in a man's eyes too? So they won't actually re-educate him on what actually feels the most delightful for them, so you have a generation of which the majority are without much of a clue of each other in this regard really, as silly as that sounds!

One can only hope they become a little more clued up when they mature though."

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

I'm similar I don't like recieving oral. Does nothing for me.

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By *ed PetalCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Absolutely. As a 40+ something couple, we had never heard all that much of squirting. Mrs can have the most amazing orgasm with no squirt in sight.

As for oral, neither of us were all that bothered unless Mrs encountered a tongue magician and Mr encountered a mouth magician on our swinging adventures. Mrs still rarely comes from it though, despite quite enjoying the sensation. In the end it needs to move on to full penetration to feel satisfied.

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