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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

While I enjoy a bit of sexual flirty banter i also like a bit of class and especially some humour.

Do you get turned on or off by excessively crude profiles or messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Definitely. Bin or block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its a big turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off.

However I appreciate a lot of my forum posts are crude that's for shits n giggles, not because I'm trying to woo anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of crudeness. You can discuss things without it having to be like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a naughty flirt but can’t stand crudeness, it’s a total turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On someones profile or in a message from someone I don't know at all, it often just turns my stomach rather than turning me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am never crude ... even when telling a fantasy I still try and keep it classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It a turn off. I can be crude when I’m joking around

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

Not a big fan of it but it wouldn't necessarily make us pass the profile over

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Turned off. It’s different if it’s someone I know and have met and we’re talking about our next meet. But I don’t want an in charge full of what a stranger thinks will turn me on - which is of course purely what turns the writer on.

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

Phew, not just me then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hilarious

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Having watched both Inbetweeners movies this morning I find crudeness has it's time and place.

Fab messages isn't one of them. Any message with reference to clunge or gash goes straight in the bin.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

One person's crudeness is another person's sweet talk.

I can be crude on the forums and Barbara Cartland between the sheets.

Generally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no, not at all. As was said above very well ... it's more what the messager wants with no thought about the person they are talking too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh no, not at all. As was said above very well ... it's more what the messager wants with no thought about the person they are talking too "

I'll stop messaging then

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Oh no, not at all. As was said above very well ... it's more what the messager wants with no thought about the person they are talking too

I'll stop messaging then "

Haha

Crudeness, rudeness and general lewdness are my hobbies.

But for you Vine I will take up Macrame instead x

Deal?

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"Oh no, not at all. As was said above very well ... it's more what the messager wants with no thought about the person they are talking too

I'll stop messaging then

Haha

Crudeness, rudeness and general lewdness are my hobbies.

But for you Vine I will take up Macrame instead x

Deal?"

Marcrame, that involves tieing things up, right?

I can work with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh no, not at all. As was said above very well ... it's more what the messager wants with no thought about the person they are talking too

I'll stop messaging then "

Lol ok

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I don’t like crude messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like crude messages. "
i like your boobs is that crude

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes. I find it very cringey.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Excessively it's a turn off if on a profile. It reads more often than not like the person is wanking away while typing. Messages - it depends on who from. Someone I've not spoken to or barely, not really for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Note to self. Be more crude in future. My profile is not working as sufficient deterrent to message me so I’ll resort to fucking crudity as well.

#FanfuckingtasticTopTipsToGetBlocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turned off

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I don’t like crude messages. i like your boobs is that crude "

Nope. I like them as well

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Innuendo and flirt I find acceptable.. the sort of stuff that the Carry on films are made of..

Crude... no thanks..

I got some very nice messages on Saturday in response to my status update, one particularly turned my stomach with an offer of fucking my arse until it bled..

As nice an offer it was, I felt on this occasion I couldn't oblige..

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By *t my DesiresWoman
over a year ago

Bitchville

Guilty as charged!!

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I will make do with any sort of message crude or otherwise.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Crude profiles are a complete turn off.

Love receiving a flirty message, never received a crude one. As for pictures classy ones are a turn on and as I get to know the person enjoy more and more risqué ones.

(oops does a F.A.F. message count as crude in my defence I have only sent the one to someone I know)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t like crude, flirty and naughty is ok. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off "

That’s what she said.

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