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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It's not Thursday but I thought this might be a little bit helpful. There seems to be a degree of tension on the forums of late, people sniping at each other, grumpy negative posts and pleasant threads turning nasty.

So folks, consider this your vent valve. Whatever is bothering you, get it out, it's better to express than let it fester...

Any comments on posts please let's try and make them constructive...

Let's try and resolve stuff

Away you go!

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester

Damn good idea...get it off your chest...I hate wrestling with bra hooks...slows everything down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate Fiat !!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Damn good idea...get it off your chest...I hate wrestling with bra hooks...slows everything down!"

If that's what's bothering you then I'm sure there will be people happy to help.

Job done, that's one forumite sorted!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Posting a status is a minefield sometimes. I saw some nice photos of me that someone else had taken and commented in a status that it made me feel good. Apparently I was asking for Fab photographers to come out of the woodwork. Actually, I wasn't, I just liked the pictures that already exist...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

People who say "Stay safe"......fuck off. I find it both condescending and patronising. So once again, fuck right off.

Rant over.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"People who say "Stay safe"......fuck off. I find it both condescending and patronising. So once again, fuck right off.

Rant over.

"

Nah, I feel like playing chicken on a dual carriageway, but cheers for the suggestion!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Posting a status is a minefield sometimes. I saw some nice photos of me that someone else had taken and commented in a status that it made me feel good. Apparently I was asking for Fab photographers to come out of the woodwork. Actually, I wasn't, I just liked the pictures that already exist... "

So basically, random guys pestering you about status updates?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Men who message me to say they really liked my profile, and they have literally Fuck All on theirs, the latest profile only has 2 fucking dots WTF

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

Sub-letters!!

Grrrr...I (with emphasis) have been kicked off some land I was renting because the Tenants were sub-letting to me without permission.

I'm having to move literally truck loads of stuff this side of Christmas because of someone else's dishonesty

Ok, I'm fine now

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"People who say "Stay safe"......fuck off. I find it both condescending and patronising. So once again, fuck right off.

Rant over.

"

I'll get in trouble with trading standards as its not Thursday...

But yes, I dislike dismissive 'niceties' like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow angry people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who pretend to care and ask you about your problems only because they are after gossip and not looking to help you at all just utter bastards them lot

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Men who message me to say they really liked my profile, and they have literally Fuck All on theirs, the latest profile only has 2 fucking dots WTF "

Again, the bottom dwellers of fab never fail to extract ire!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

You know, I’m normally a really miserable bugger but now, given the free opportunity and licence to gripe and whinge.....I can’t think of a bloody thing

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Posting a status is a minefield sometimes. I saw some nice photos of me that someone else had taken and commented in a status that it made me feel good. Apparently I was asking for Fab photographers to come out of the woodwork. Actually, I wasn't, I just liked the pictures that already exist...

So basically, random guys pestering you about status updates? "

Yeah. I like posting things, bit of an insight into my personality at the moment. I've had some interesting conversations that way. But "you like photos? I do photos!" (not an actual message). No.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"People who pretend to care and ask you about your problems only because they are after gossip and not looking to help you at all just utter bastards them lot"

I actually share your emnity on this. They're the same people who ask you just so they can tell you about themselves *without actually listening* to your reply...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Wow angry people."

It's a vent thread!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You know, I’m normally a really miserable bugger but now, given the free opportunity and licence to gripe and whinge.....I can’t think of a bloody thing "

I'm sure it will come to you, don't force it

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Wow angry people."

They're everywhere on the forums at the moment, I'm just giving them licence to rage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow angry people.

It's a vent thread! "

A lot of petty things.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I love your profile you're perfect for me message me back!" Uh, why?

And people, including the above, who argue with my delete-no. Particularly within ten minutes of me deleting! Pestering me to change my mind without waiting (minimum days) and/or considering a different approach is just going to annoy me. I don't care if you're God's gift. No means no.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Wow angry people.

It's a vent thread!

A lot of petty things. "

Maybe. Fab isn't the place for me to share the big important things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fucking Kardashians....and literally any degenerate who has ever thought "Hey, going on Jeremy fucking Kyle is a good idea"

These people need to go straight to some sort of chamber...

Preferably one that no one ever comes out of

Oh, and Chelsea and Arsenal...and the man shitty and man poo

Also balloons and raw cheese

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Wow angry people.

It's a vent thread!

A lot of petty things. "

And what's really bothering you fella?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who pretend to care and ask you about your problems only because they are after gossip and not looking to help you at all just utter bastards them lot

I actually share your emnity on this. They're the same people who ask you just so they can tell you about themselves *without actually listening* to your reply... "

Oh god yeah I can’t stand those sort who manage to make every situation about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I want to get off my chest is this poxy infection and flu.

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester


"Men who message me to say they really liked my profile, and they have literally Fuck All on theirs, the latest profile only has 2 fucking dots WTF "

Now be fair...he made it to two...could have been less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow angry people.

They're everywhere on the forums at the moment, I'm just giving them licence to rage"

Why do you think so many are unhappy then? Can't all be fab related.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"The only thing I want to get off my chest is this poxy infection and flu. "

That's probably quite important to get off your chest yes!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Wow angry people.

They're everywhere on the forums at the moment, I'm just giving them licence to rage

Why do you think so many are unhappy then? Can't all be fab related. "

No, I'm sure it's not. I can't speak for everyone on the forums, nor can I assume what the issues are but it's certainly bad tempered around here at the moment.

I actually intended this in a semi serious vein.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"The only thing I want to get off my chest is this poxy infection and flu. "

Oh.....I thought you were going to say your bra for a moment there

I hope you feel much better swiftly m’lady x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The only thing I want to get off my chest is this poxy infection and flu. "

Feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I want to get off my chest is this poxy infection and flu.

Oh.....I thought you were going to say your bra for a moment there

I hope you feel much better swiftly m’lady x"

Bra hasn’t even been on. Been in bed most of the day

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it made things worserer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did it made things worserer"

OMG how can things be ‘worserer’ ? Have you not calmed down yet since I spoke to you. Listen to Aunty Nora. You know it makes sense

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Ok!

Posting on threads.

Receiving messages linked to that thread.

Do yourself the decency to actually comment on that thread, join in.

Don't be a shady lurker.

Try using your brain, and actually check someone's profile before you click on 'reply'

Don't then get nasty when that person tells you, your floppy cock & saggy balls really don't make her moist.

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did it made things worserer

OMG how can things be ‘worserer’ ? Have you not calmed down yet since I spoke to you. Listen to Aunty Nora. You know it makes sense "
no alls fine now but it got worserer firsterer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xx after every sentence , does my nut in lol , so needy .

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I did it made things worserer

OMG how can things be ‘worserer’ ? Have you not calmed down yet since I spoke to you. Listen to Aunty Nora. You know it makes sense no alls fine now but it got worserer firsterer"

But it got betterer afterer?

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"xx after every sentence , does my nut in lol , so needy ."

Do you think?

Why do you think that's needy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gggggggrrrrrrrrrrrr

Sry I had to get off my chest, I’ll be glad to see the end of this year

On a positive note a fab secretary would be great ????

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ok!

Posting on threads.

Receiving messages linked to that thread.

Do yourself the decency to actually comment on that thread, join in.

Don't be a shady lurker.

Try using your brain, and actually check someone's profile before you click on 'reply'

Don't then get nasty when that person tells you, your floppy cock & saggy balls really don't make her moist.

Rant over

"

U wanna peace a dis luv? (several manky cock pics)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did it made things worserer

OMG how can things be ‘worserer’ ? Have you not calmed down yet since I spoke to you. Listen to Aunty Nora. You know it makes sense no alls fine now but it got worserer firsterer

But it got betterer afterer? "
yeserererer

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Ok!

Posting on threads.

Receiving messages linked to that thread.

Do yourself the decency to actually comment on that thread, join in.

Don't be a shady lurker.

Try using your brain, and actually check someone's profile before you click on 'reply'

Don't then get nasty when that person tells you, your floppy cock & saggy balls really don't make her moist.

Rant over

U wanna peace a dis luv? (several manky cock pics) "

Yyyeeeeash!

And a third time; the bottom dwellers of fab are a skeezy bunch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did it made things worserer

OMG how can things be ‘worserer’ ? Have you not calmed down yet since I spoke to you. Listen to Aunty Nora. You know it makes sense no alls fine now but it got worserer firsterer"

I know. I assumed things had got betterer earlier . You big silly bear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"xx after every sentence , does my nut in lol , so needy .

Do you think?

Why do you think that's needy? "

Oops I always do that

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ok!

Posting on threads.

Receiving messages linked to that thread.

Do yourself the decency to actually comment on that thread, join in.

Don't be a shady lurker.

Try using your brain, and actually check someone's profile before you click on 'reply'

Don't then get nasty when that person tells you, your floppy cock & saggy balls really don't make her moist.

Rant over

U wanna peace a dis luv? (several manky cock pics)

Yyyeeeeash!

And a third time; the bottom dwellers of fab are a skeezy bunch! "

I'm never going to post the absolute worst stuff. This is pretty mundane!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did it made things worserer

OMG how can things be ‘worserer’ ? Have you not calmed down yet since I spoke to you. Listen to Aunty Nora. You know it makes sense no alls fine now but it got worserer firsterer

I know. I assumed things had got betterer earlier . You big silly bear. "
grrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did it made things worserer

OMG how can things be ‘worserer’ ? Have you not calmed down yet since I spoke to you. Listen to Aunty Nora. You know it makes sense no alls fine now but it got worserer firsterer

I know. I assumed things had got betterer earlier . You big silly bear. grrrrr "

Awww wuv u

Shall we get a room

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I did it made things worserer

OMG how can things be ‘worserer’ ? Have you not calmed down yet since I spoke to you. Listen to Aunty Nora. You know it makes sense no alls fine now but it got worserer firsterer

I know. I assumed things had got betterer earlier . You big silly bear. grrrrr

Awww wuv u

Shall we get a room "

It's nice to see the love on the rage thread, a little earlier than I expected though...

I guess I should probably pack up and go home then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did it made things worserer

OMG how can things be ‘worserer’ ? Have you not calmed down yet since I spoke to you. Listen to Aunty Nora. You know it makes sense no alls fine now but it got worserer firsterer

I know. I assumed things had got betterer earlier . You big silly bear. grrrrr

Awww wuv u

Shall we get a room "
sounds like a pwan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"xx after every sentence , does my nut in lol , so needy .

Do you think?

Why do you think that's needy? "

they probably dont want xx's of you , its grovelly , needy ..

but more so , your having conversation , do you stand in a pub chatting with someone and kiss them after every sentence ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See the "lazy Britain" thread,it will become apparent what is pissing me off

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"xx after every sentence , does my nut in lol , so needy .

Do you think?

Why do you think that's needy?

they probably dont want xx's of you , its grovelly , needy ..

but more so , your having conversation , do you stand in a pub chatting with someone and kiss them after every sentence ??"

No, true. Do you ask the person not to end messages with xx?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just grumble and tut and roll my eyes but not give the reason. There is a reason but its barely worth the words to write down. Humph and double humph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I'd share something... I REALLY hate when I send someone a message on here and don't get a reply. Even a no,thanks,or het a life,or f**k off,anything...

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I thought I'd share something... I REALLY hate when I send someone a message on here and don't get a reply. Even a no,thanks,or het a life,or f**k off,anything..."

To be fair, no reply is a no thanks. I totally understand why many people don't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I'd share something... I REALLY hate when I send someone a message on here and don't get a reply. Even a no,thanks,or het a life,or f**k off,anything...

To be fair, no reply is a no thanks. I totally understand why many people don't reply"

Yes,I understand,however,I can see they read it and haven't deleted it,so if they're not interested,then what's the point in keeping the message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh,another thing,I hate the traffic on Fridays!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I thought I'd share something... I REALLY hate when I send someone a message on here and don't get a reply. Even a no,thanks,or het a life,or f**k off,anything...

To be fair, no reply is a no thanks. I totally understand why many people don't reply

Yes,I understand,however,I can see they read it and haven't deleted it,so if they're not interested,then what's the point in keeping the message? "

Maybe they're going to come back to it. Don't stress, send the message and don't look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I'd share something... I REALLY hate when I send someone a message on here and don't get a reply. Even a no,thanks,or het a life,or f**k off,anything...

To be fair, no reply is a no thanks. I totally understand why many people don't reply

Yes,I understand,however,I can see they read it and haven't deleted it,so if they're not interested,then what's the point in keeping the message?

Maybe they're going to come back to it. Don't stress, send the message and don't look at it. "

Yeah,well,you can't do anything about it,can you? About the messages or the traffic.... haha

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

My bra, oh the relief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oouuu, lets see...

When I really like a fab guy and then move into next stage to find out they don't quite match thier picture.

Killed my confidence in fab over & over again on

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By *oseyoudownMan
over a year ago

Trouble! AGAIN! x

I love a good rant!

Love island! What a waste of time!

There! That feels better! Lol x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Men who message me to say they really liked my profile, and they have literally Fuck All on theirs, the latest profile only has 2 fucking dots WTF "

On the upside, I got my PPI claim through today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oouuu, lets see...

When I really like a fab guy and then move into next stage to find out they don't quite match thier picture.

Killed my confidence in fab over & over again on "

It’s probably time for you to try out or try again with an mf couple.

Having them both make love to you would be the perfect remedy for your

and will hopefully leave you feeling

P.s

You’re perfectly welcome to message us to say how wet we’ve made you and how you can’t wait to meet us. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not Thursday but I thought this might be a little bit helpful. There seems to be a degree of tension on the forums of late, people sniping at each other, grumpy negative posts and pleasant threads turning nasty.

So folks, consider this your vent valve. Whatever is bothering you, get it out, it's better to express than let it fester...

Any comments on posts please let's try and make them constructive...

Let's try and resolve stuff

Away you go! "

You're playing with fire mate!!

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By *trangeBrew75Man
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

Peugeot’s even though I’ve not owned one for 2 years

My boss who according to rumour when getting it on with the mrs, she has to climb on top because he can only fuck up!

Other drivers

Cyclists

Pedestrians

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By *oseyoudownMan
over a year ago

Trouble! AGAIN! x

People who insist on a face pic on a profile but have no pics of there own!

People who moan about cock profile pics and have a tit or pussy pic as there own profile pic!

People who insist on a face pic with first message but dont send one in return !

Wrong

Wrong &

Wrong!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I'm rubbish at the 'what would you do with the poster above' games. I post at the same time as someone else, then get ignored. Sob sob...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Messages of five words or less.

If I can read it without opening it it's barely worth the split second I take to delete it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having my five word message deleted. They were an awesome 5 words as well!

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By *oseyoudownMan
over a year ago

Trouble! AGAIN! x


"I'm rubbish at the 'what would you do with the poster above' games. I post at the same time as someone else, then get ignored. Sob sob..."

I just done that! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My online shopping order has just been delivered. They substituted Yorkshire tea with pg tips. I am not a happy bunny right now.

In all fairness I could have actually read the delivery note when it came but I was too sleepy so hey ho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My rants not really to do with fab but...

Idiot ex fwb who is a work colleague, ignoring me, literally not even looking at me if I attempt to make normal work conversation, leaving a room if I walk into it and pissing me the fuck off! Why can't he just be normal! Grrrrrr fuckety fuck.

Rant over

Thank you for listening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not Thursday but I thought this might be a little bit helpful. There seems to be a degree of tension on the forums of late, people sniping at each other, grumpy negative posts and pleasant threads turning nasty.

So folks, consider this your vent valve. Whatever is bothering you, get it out, it's better to express than let it fester...

Any comments on posts please let's try and make them constructive...

Let's try and resolve stuff

Away you go! "

This is why I always love the music threads. No one can really get upset and I'm getting reminder a of some excellent tunes

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Snapchat filters on profile pics. Either on fabs or any other site where people are looking to meet. If you are going to show your face then show it. Leave the floppy bunny ears and noses out of it. Instant no from me when I see them.

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