FabSwingers.com forum: Pms of the back of threads

By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What threads do you type on that you get most pms about.

For me it was when i used to do the mental health threads id get lots of pms and then its the smoking fetish threads always the smoking fetish people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What threads do you type on that you get most pms about.

For me it was when i used to do the mental health threads id get lots of pms and then its the smoking fetish threads always the smoking fetish people"

Shall I pm you and tell you?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

If I post on a smoking thread I can get quite a lot of pm's off the back of that as well. Also types of porn I like, and bareback threads.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"What threads do you type on that you get most pms about.

For me it was when i used to do the mental health threads id get lots of pms and then its the smoking fetish threads always the smoking fetish people

Shall I pm you and tell you?"
it would be the first from this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile reviews. I don't know why they don't just reply in the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually ones where I've expressed a sexual preference. Some people think it's an invitation to have a private fantasy sex chat.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Other people's sexual preferences. I usually answer fairly neutrally and in the abstract, and get specific offers. It's yet to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What threads do you type on that you get most pms about.

For me it was when i used to do the mental health threads id get lots of pms and then its the smoking fetish threads always the smoking fetish people

Shall I pm you and tell you?it would be the first from this thread

Did you forget you blocked me

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"What threads do you type on that you get most pms about.

For me it was when i used to do the mental health threads id get lots of pms and then its the smoking fetish threads always the smoking fetish people

Shall I pm you and tell you?it would be the first from this thread

Did you forget you blocked me"
onviously lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Usually ones where I've expressed a sexual preference. Some people think it's an invitation to have a private fantasy sex chat. "

Ugh, yes. I try not to say too much about my sexual preferences or even mood publically, because apparently everyone has a cock for me for that purpose. Just because I like X doesn't mean I want X with whatever guy sees me express the preference.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

It's very rare that we get PMs from forum threads unless it's a specific "send a message to" type thread.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

None x storm x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'll pm someone if I think they're taking a bit of a battering on a thread...or I really fancy them

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I'll pm someone if I think they're taking a bit of a battering on a thread...or I really fancy them"
that wasnt the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a lot of P.M's of Gardeners, I mean you stick one Butternut squash pic on your profile and Wow inundated

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Apart from the expected ones (send a pic to type things) there's no general theme to those I either get or send PMs from - if there's a point I want make that is specific to the person not the thread then I'll take it to PM whatever the subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What threads do you type on that you get most pms about.

For me it was when i used to do the mental health threads id get lots of pms and then its the smoking fetish threads always the smoking fetish people"

I get them from threads that don't require a pm response, and tbh it annoys the hell outta me, reply in the thread!! It puts me off replying sometimes and I've thought of adding a disclaimer at the bottom of my posts!

There's also one forum poster who starts new threads who used to pm every single time, I avoid his topics now.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Goats......lots of PM’s from that thread

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I'll pm someone if I think they're taking a bit of a battering on a thread...or I really fancy themthat wasnt the question"
oooo pardon me for taking part in the discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll pm someone if I think they're taking a bit of a battering on a thread...or I really fancy themthat wasnt the questionoooo pardon me for taking part in the discussion"

I think OP was just inviting you to take part in the thread by commenting on the question posed, which you hadn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally the hairy chest threads, and sexual preferences. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The unwelcome PMs, they are nearly always from the fetish topics.

The ones which become enjoyable chats, they can come from any thread.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Oh and there was one about vikings I commented on, I got quite a lot of pm's from that too

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

Threads where I make controversial comments and get into arguments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently none, I’m heavily filtered.

Historically, negative PMs when discussing more rehabilitative approaches to criminal justice system, and positive PMs when talking about mental health or psychology based threads I’ve posted, and climax-wanky PMs when I post anything remotely female dominant sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMs? The ones that are specifically related to anything I’ve said on a thread are time-out ones from admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Threads where I make controversial comments and get into arguments

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All of them then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is PM you are all talking about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What threads do you type on that you get most pms about.

For me it was when i used to do the mental health threads id get lots of pms and then its the smoking fetish threads always the smoking fetish people

Shall I pm you and tell you?it would be the first from this thread

Did you forget you blocked me"

Glad it’s not just me then.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Not now that single male profiles are blocked. But previously when I make comments about appreciating cock pics, that always seemed to read, “I want to see your cock pic”

Lex

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

We haven't received any but I am intrigued by the fact that people do. I wonder if it is just people using it as an excuse to get in touch and maybe break the ice.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Mainly threads where I have been a bit arsey. Oh Christmas ones! Lovely messages off the back of those threads.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Usually anything to do with phones or cams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know what a pms is never get any loo

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Ummm.... Face pic Friday or hotlist threads usually (filters permitting)..... Other than that I might occasionally get one as a response to something I've posted if it particularly resonates with someone....

I try not to comment on bondage or domination threads anymore because guys seem to assume I'm into pain and/or humiliation when I do. I'm fed up trying to explain that 1) S&M isn't my thing and 2) that S&M is just one particular aspect of B&D, chosen by those who enjoy pain and humiliation, but that there are myriad other B&D aspects which people enjoy that are nothing to do with pain.... Unless you count blue balls from edging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lately just nice pm's but random- not any kind of threads really.

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

"What threads do you type on that you get most pms about.

For me it was when i used to do the mental health threads id get lots of pms and then its the smoking fetish threads always the smoking fetish people

Shall I pm you and tell you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything and everything..

There is no rhyme or reason but i rarely respond anyway as thats my pet hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck kiss avoid

Or the flirty ones

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've posted on a few health, weightloss, fitness threads, but I've stated I'm more than happy for people to pm me.

A few from 'the poster above' type threads.

I do seem to get a lot of pms which are obviously off the back of a comment I've made somewhere, but when I check the sender hasn't even posted on the thread in question.

That annoys me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha no one cares what I type so I don't get many, if any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Threads where I make controversial comments and get into arguments

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Often then Zzzzzz

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Usually age related threads I get the ‘No way are you...’ private messages

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