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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been asked by a shy non posting friend to ask your opinions on how to differeniate love and lust

She will be watching your answers with interest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust is when you want nothing but sex from them, love is when you want the rest of them too. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been asked by a shy non posting friend to ask your opinions on how to differeniate love and lust

She will be watching your answers with interest xx

Swallow and Spit

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Lust is purely physical attraction whereas love is about a chemistry/ relationship between two people which may or may not include the "lust" part.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Lust is when they walk through your front door you have an absolute fantastic time and when they leave you dont think about them again until the next time if there is a next time.

Not sure you can define love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust last when your having fun . Love last a life time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously... If you have a good partner they are coexistent... IMHO..

And if your friend doesnt believe it... I have proved it before.....;-)

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By *illyrocCouple
over a year ago

north west

Lust is an attraction of the moment.

Love is when you always want to be around the person you love and sex has nothing to do with it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

lust is that attraction you first get sometimes it grows into love other times it just stays at lust...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

lust can be explosive, rampant, clothes pulling hair tearingly awesome..

it can start with a look..

love is...

many things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust only lasts a month or two and like a fire, soon burns down.

Love burns forever - and if not, it should

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is something unique between two people

Lust is something erotic and seductive between two people

amazing if its the same person for both

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Totally agree with previous posts on this and what a fab question.

Lust is the first few weeks of fantastic sex. Love is what sees you through the good times as well as the bad times. xx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Lust is when you want to rip their clothes off and shag them silly.

Love is when you want to rip their clothes off and shag them silly but you don't mind if they snore their way through the night, fart first thing in the morning, drink your coffee, watch car programmes/football on the telly and they don't moan if your feet are cold when you get into bed and they don't mind if you cry when PMT takes over the urge to cry at the drop of a hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a middle ground between the two does anyone think?

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"I have been asked by a shy non posting friend to ask your opinions on how to differeniate love and lust

She will be watching your answers with interest xx

You need someone because you love them. You need to shag someone because you lust after them.

Simples.

If the two are a coincidence it can make life interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, love is a feeling I feel naturally after feeling someone I like.

Lust is a feeling that makes me want to feel someone I'd like to feel.

*toungue in cheek lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Lust is when you want nothing but sex from them, love is when you want the rest of them too. xx"

sounds right to me...with one proviso...there are different forms of love.i have friends i love,some i fuck...but that relationship is nothing like the one i have with kev.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust is conditional

Love is unconditional

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"Love is something unique between two people

Lust is something erotic and seductive between two people

amazing if its the same person for both "

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be easy to confuse the two,especially in the early stages of a relationship.

Here's a case in point from my own experience.

I had been going out with this lass for about a couple of months when one night we were going at it like rabbits.We were enjoying a bit of dirty talk as you do and I tried to say to her "mmmm.....I love your pussy"

I'm not sure what the hell my mind was playing at as I only managed to say "mmmm......I love you!"

We ended up in a relationship for three years and I genuinely belive I was in love with her,but not quite that early on,or maybe I was and it was my subconcious mind doing the talking?

who knows?

I would be interested to know what others make of this? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust is transient, love endures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been asked by a shy non posting friend to ask your opinions on how to differeniate love and lust

She will be watching your answers with interest xx

Well i do the one and not the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been asked by a shy non posting friend to ask your opinions on how to differeniate love and lust

She will be watching your answers with interest xx

Love and lust are basically the same.. what seperates them in my mind is if its selfish acts or not.. for instance for me its love if you will do something for the other person.. Lust is much more selfish emotion..

To many people confuse the two and to be honest they can feel very similar at the start..

I had to write a task on this not so long back for my Master..

its to long to post in but I did properly research it

Cali. x

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

Love is...someone who really loves you,

sees what a mess you can be,

how moody you can get,

how hard you are to handle,

but still wants you in their life.

Lust is wanting a shag and nothing more

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

lust is for the moment,

love is for ever.

if your lucky,you'll be in love,

and have a million moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love to be in lust

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"I have been asked by a shy non posting friend to ask your opinions on how to differeniate love and lust

She will be watching your answers with interest xx

To many people confuse the two and to be honest they can feel very similar at the start..

I had to write a task on this not so long back for my Master..

its to long to post in but I did properly research it

Cali. x"

See I have to differ Cali because I can love people who have no connection whatsoever with my libido. Some of my best friends are people with whom I have no sexual or lustful connection, people with whom I work on projects, who share my interests and who feed my curiosity and my need to be interested.

I also love my parents, while believing that there are certain things one should never try - incest and folk dancing for instance.

And also, I would have to hoist a flag of warning, and admit to occasions of what I call Edwina Currie lust - there are some people you might shag but not give a shit what happens to them afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lust is conditional

Love is unconditional

Lust can be selfish, each taking what they want.

Love is self sacrifice expecting nothing in return, fulfilling the other's needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust come and go ........ LOVE lives in your heart forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True love is a bacon butty after a night of lust....

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Lust makes your genitals throb

Love makes your heart smile

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Love and lust...are very similar...ease to get them confused...

Love is both painful...when the person has gone...out you life even for a minute...and something that lifts the spirit in that look exchanged between the lovers...

Lust has not pain attached but does bring happiness fleetingly...and goes without leaving any feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True love is a bacon butty after a night of lust....

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I LOVE THAT XX can tell its man saying this , lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love is both painful...when the person has gone...out you life even for a minute...and something that lifts the spirit in that look exchanged between the lovers...

One of the best descriptions of love I have ever seen xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust can drive you mad so can Love.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

i think they are intertwinned you can love people without wanting to be with them forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True love is a bacon butty after a night of lust....

I LOVE THAT XX can tell its man saying this , lol

hehehe...I make THE best butties in the north...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all in the brain love and lust its just a feeling and a feeling that can make you jump for joy and can even kill you. Its a feeling we get and at times we have to learn to live with it .. when its so hard too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As kids we've all heard the story of the tortoise and the hare.

Lust is like the hare, flash, fast, adrenaline boosted bursts (and spurts) that are impressive but don't last the distance. It goes as quickly as it arrives.

Love is like the tortoise, you don't always see it's potential at the beginning but you quickly realise that it's constant, steady, strong enough to face adversity or the 'hills and valleys' of life and has the stamina to go the distance.

Some say there is little difference between the tortoise and the hare, I would beg to differ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a middle ground between the two does anyone think?

That would be an FB.

Lust is the fire that drives the emotions, friendship is when you look forward to seeing them again, love is both plus a lot...

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

Lust is fun, love is a four letter word thatends in misery... simples

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