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"And yes, I am grateful to have a job. Ever since I started to work full time in 1087, I have never worked in a job that paid me overtime. If I was lucky, I might get the time back in lieu. I had worked some silly hours in the past in order to achieve "beyond expectation" at my appraisals. However, the moment I cut back on my hours due to changes in circumstances, I was criticised for not being helpful and was not behaving the way a manager should behave. Shortly after that, I left my job as the place was closing in 2 years' time at the end of this month. Nowadays, I am a pleb with no management responsibilities. I have always spoken my mind. However, I no longer have to be so diplomatic when I do nowadays. I will only work the hours I am prepared to work, that means no evenings and weekends. I have to have fun when I work. If the fun disappears, then it will be time for me to look for something else. Having been around for sometime, I have learnt that the grass is not always greener on the other side, same shit, different smell etc. However, a change of scenery from time to time certainly helps. " WHEN did you start work... | |||
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"Oh feck! 1987! " damn it and there was me thinking that there was somebody n this site older than me pmsl | |||
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"our managment dont appreciate us but our lovely residents do and thats all that matters to me " snap in fact i had done a extra night this week so i could have last night off had shift covered when i turned fone on this am found the little **** hadnt turned in for it and they were trying to get hold of me to go in for once i was pleased fone was off as up to other week had to work 7 nights a week with no time off but at least the ladies do thank me for my care that i give them | |||
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"Oh feck! 1987! " Was gonna say pearl you didnt look that old when we meet | |||
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"You've just got to rise above it mate. It's so easy to feel "hard done to" but just turn the other cheek, say "fuck'em" and just get on with it. If you start feeling bad about something like this, it's the first step towards the downward slope. " couldnt agree more. Rise above them and know that your better then they are. | |||
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"As an employer... i have always treated my staff (only 12 staff) more as friends than employees, " You sound like a lovely boss! and your so right, the little things make ALL the difference. | |||
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"Yes.... They are cutting our pensions Making a over 25,000 of us redundant Expect us to do the job of at least 3 people (in some cases that of 6 or 7) Given us a 2 year pay freeze Stopped the yearly £350 bonus. Underpay us by about 30% And we've always had to pay for any christmas party But at the moment........ I'm grateful to have a job. " I'm in the same boat as Madchick. I am expected to do 4 people's work, haven't had a payrise for two years, and am basically ignored by management. But I love my job and am very happy to have it. Best just to expect nothing, so anything good is a bonus. | |||
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"You are absolutely right. I work all over the UK and am usually replacing the boss. The number of workplaces with unhappy staff because of bad management skills, is unbelievable. One place showered me with presents when I left after 2 wks because the relief from the stress had been overwhelming. It's a real truism- no-one sees what you HAVE done, just what you HAVEN't done. Good bosses do, though. PS any jobs going in ur pub? " lol ... can put you on the list xx | |||
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"I did yesterday, our company Xmas party was last night held at Chester racecourse, there was an award ceremony for employee of the year, best this that and the other, I run a dept single handed and have worked my lunch everyday ever since I started nearly a year ago, stayed late when it's been called for with no extra pay, I would say I have gone above and beyond the call of duty on a weekly basis, not one piece of recognition did I get, and from what I heard, the usual suspects got all the recognition, basically those within the circle of the bosses buddies. So, my new year resolution will be to take the breaks I'm entitled to and never to work any extra hours, I'd have been happy with a thanks and a handshake but it seems to me that I'm only ever noticed when I'm not there cause nothing gets done End of rant" its called being taken for granted If you help out regular you tend to blend into the background because people are used to you working your break or doing unpaid over time Its the ones who only do it once or twice that get all the thanks because it stands out when they do it | |||
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"I could write a book on the damage I see done to productivity by incompetent or careless management, but actually, I don't need to. My bookshelves are creaking with them. If recognition is what you're looking for at work, there are lots of places in the UK where you probably don't want to work, since we're back in the throes of an artificial depression made worse by a government who think you should be grateful for having an insecure, badly paid job where real pay is declining." Or you could join the real world. | |||
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"My boss is a right little bastard Never appreciates owt i do Always bloody moaning And the tight bastard never has a Christmas party All in all he treats me like crap xx " Get him sacked... | |||
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"My boss is a right little bastard Never appreciates owt i do Always bloody moaning And the tight bastard never has a Christmas party All in all he treats me like crap xx Get him sacked..." too late, he was made redundant, lazy fecker | |||
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"I could write a book on the damage I see done to productivity by incompetent or careless management, but actually, I don't need to. My bookshelves are creaking with them. If recognition is what you're looking for at work, there are lots of places in the UK where you probably don't want to work, since we're back in the throes of an artificial depression made worse by a government who think you should be grateful for having an insecure, badly paid job where real pay is declining. Or you could join the real world. " Pointless abuse your stock in trade is it? Which world do you think I live in if not the real one? | |||
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"My boss is a right little bastard Never appreciates owt i do Always bloody moaning And the tight bastard never has a Christmas party All in all he treats me like crap xx " Bloody hell we got the same boss Soaps | |||
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"As you work in the same industry as me, here is a top tip; When I want to get even I hide swear words in artwork so it's printed. I once put 'fuck the mags' in a line illustration of the Tyne Bridge that went into a tourist pamphlet for Newcastle." Deffo gunna do that | |||
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"As you work in the same industry as me, here is a top tip; When I want to get even I hide swear words in artwork so it's printed. I once put 'fuck the mags' in a line illustration of the Tyne Bridge that went into a tourist pamphlet for Newcastle. Deffo gunna do that " Now it is one thing feeling unappreciated... it is foolish beyond words to risk losing your job in these tough economic times. You have a young family. Have a word with your bosses, tell them how you feel or speak to HR in confidence Hope it works out x | |||
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"Rise above it Be a role model Be true to yourself and your work ethic Deliver your goals & objectives by being a great leader of your team.... at the end of it all, you walk away with your head held high..... good luck Mally" +1 | |||
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"I ll possibly get shot down for this, but I wonder whether we expect a bit too much sometimes... you can only get disappointed, feel unappreciated if you expect praise! If you do your job to the best of your ability then praise is possibly a nice thing to hear but I would never take it for granted - perhaps that is why I dont get wound up about lack of recognition? " I think what it was is that a few had suggested in the run up that it was going to be me, even the boss made a remark when I found his car keys that he had dropped outside the building, and I quote "guess we know who employee of the year is now, cheers" so you can understand my bitterness. | |||
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"I ll possibly get shot down for this, but I wonder whether we expect a bit too much sometimes... you can only get disappointed, feel unappreciated if you expect praise! If you do your job to the best of your ability then praise is possibly a nice thing to hear but I would never take it for granted - perhaps that is why I dont get wound up about lack of recognition? I think what it was is that a few had suggested in the run up that it was going to be me, even the boss made a remark when I found his car keys that he had dropped outside the building, and I quote "guess we know who employee of the year is now, cheers" so you can understand my bitterness. " Sure I can understand your bitterness if you were led to believe you would be the one... I d be hacked off too. I meant what I wrote more in general terms that it is easy to expect recognition (and I m not saying that getting praise and recognition don't do wonders for motivation) and then end up being disappointed x | |||
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"My motto is 'work to live, not live to work'. Luckily at my place there are many people who want to progress up the career ladder that they go the extra mile. That leaves me to do my job at the best of my ability but on my terms. I may not get employer of the month but then I don't really want it. Scarlett " Just like my place, my colleagues are such yes men, they drop themselves in the crap because they wait for orders, rather than find out. Last week they were so obsessed about a 50K order to get out tomorrow, they missed a 250K (one days production) order that was needed Monday morning, all because the boss mentioned it. I spotted it 2 seconds after logging in on our very expensive ERP software. None of the components were ready. I got both orders done this weekend, just, will I get any thanks for it, no chance. | |||
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"They put me on a pedestal at work. Literally! I am one of those human statues. Chin up Mally mate, don't let the fuckers grind you down. As you work in the same industry as me, here is a top tip; When I want to get even I hide swear words in artwork so it's printed. I once put 'fuck the mags' in a line illustration of the Tyne Bridge that went into a tourist pamphlet for Newcastle." you can go off people ,even if they have beautiful botties you know! | |||
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"New insult today, the boss had supplied a buffet lunch from Costco with drinks pizza and all the rest of it, and i was the only person not invited, I only found out when I walked in to the print room and the entire company (boss included) where tucking in and having what looked like a very enjoyable time, I just dropped the job i'd printed by the guillotine and went back to my room. " I would ask for a meeting with my boss and point out how excluded I was feeling if that happened to me. It's not on in my opinion! | |||
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"New insult today, the boss had supplied a buffet lunch from Costco with drinks pizza and all the rest of it, and i was the only person not invited, I only found out when I walked in to the print room and the entire company (boss included) where tucking in and having what looked like a very enjoyable time, I just dropped the job i'd printed by the guillotine and went back to my room. " Interesting. | |||
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"New insult today, the boss had supplied a buffet lunch from Costco with drinks pizza and all the rest of it, and i was the only person not invited, I only found out when I walked in to the print room and the entire company (boss included) where tucking in and having what looked like a very enjoyable time, I just dropped the job i'd printed by the guillotine and went back to my room. I would ask for a meeting with my boss and point out how excluded I was feeling if that happened to me. It's not on in my opinion!" I agree it sounds like they are taking advantage somewhere. It's one thing trying to progress and taking on extra work, it's another to get walked over | |||
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