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"Some good people in wakey" yes.....us lol | |||
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"Come at costa " I did, once. I am now banned from all of their branches... | |||
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"Looks like others may be thinking the same way??" Being retired I am free most days during the daytime and a coffee meet sounds good. | |||
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"Most days I find I have time on my hands with nothing to do and then thought how nice it would be to have a weekly, mid day, coffee meet somewhere local to wakefield. Somewhere people could meet for a chat. Do you think it would be a good idea" Sounds initially like a good idea, until you think about it a bit more. Load of Fab members regularly in the same place?......in the silly news seasons it'll save the gutter press a lot of work tracking players down one by one. Other "unfriendlies"/neighbours and/or work colleagues or business acquaintances just might be around too. For many people "what plays on Fab stays on Fab" is the best method. If you're going to organise "socials" it will definitely be a case of being discreet with the when and where. Remember how dogging got ruined once the locations/times got out to the ejeets? Remember all those folks who have advertised a party on social media and got flash-mobbed by unwanted guests? | |||
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"Most days I find I have time on my hands with nothing to do and then thought how nice it would be to have a weekly, mid day, coffee meet somewhere local to wakefield. Somewhere people could meet for a chat. Do you think it would be a good idea Sounds initially like a good idea, until you think about it a bit more. Load of Fab members regularly in the same place?......in the silly news seasons it'll save the gutter press a lot of work tracking players down one by one. Other "unfriendlies"/neighbours and/or work colleagues or business acquaintances just might be around too. For many people "what plays on Fab stays on Fab" is the best method. If you're going to organise "socials" it will definitely be a case of being discreet with the when and where. Remember how dogging got ruined once the locations/times got out to the ejeets? Remember all those folks who have advertised a party on social media and got flash-mobbed by unwanted guests?" Optimism isn't your best subject I see. | |||
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"Come at costa I did, once. I am now banned from all of their branches... " Go to Nero next time, their policy on ppl's comming is bit better | |||
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"Come at costa I did, once. I am now banned from all of their branches... Go to Nero next time, their policy on ppl's comming is bit better " Thank you..have a biscotti.. | |||
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"If there is enough interest then I will arrange a time, date and location to meet somewhere" Il come have a brew in wakey with yas i work all round leeds wakey so i can bob in for a brew no issue | |||
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"Most days I find I have time on my hands with nothing to do and then thought how nice it would be to have a weekly, mid day, coffee meet somewhere local to wakefield. Somewhere people could meet for a chat. Do you think it would be a good idea" I have done quite a few coffee meets, in male mode of course. I found them more relaxing, as there is no pressure to do anything else other than chat, laugh and get to know someone. | |||
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"I’m a regular at Costa/Starbucks as makeshift office, alas not in Wakefield " Is that so lol | |||
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"Most days I find I have time on my hands with nothing to do and then thought how nice it would be to have a weekly, mid day, coffee meet somewhere local to wakefield. Somewhere people could meet for a chat. Do you think it would be a good idea" Its a great idea! I used to do a similar thing with other fab ladies but we met in Chester for shopping and lunch | |||
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"I’m a regular at Costa/Starbucks as makeshift office, alas not in Wakefield Is that so lol" You’ve had your share this week lol | |||
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"Most days I find I have time on my hands with nothing to do and then thought how nice it would be to have a weekly, mid day, coffee meet somewhere local to wakefield .................... If you're going to organise "socials" it will definitely be a case of being discreet with the when and where. Remember how dogging got ruined once the locations/times got out to the ejeets? Remember all those folks who have advertised a party on social media and got flash-mobbed by unwanted guests? Optimism isn't your best subject I see. " There's a difference between optimism and acting foolishly. When you're in a mine-field (and the relationship between the public, the gutter-press and swingers is one hell of a mine-field) optimism is a fools paradise! | |||
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"Most days I find I have time on my hands with nothing to do and then thought how nice it would be to have a weekly, mid day, coffee meet somewhere local to wakefield. Somewhere people could meet for a chat. Do you think it would be a good idea Sounds initially like a good idea, until you think about it a bit more. Load of Fab members regularly in the same place?......in the silly news seasons it'll save the gutter press a lot of work tracking players down one by one. Other "unfriendlies"/neighbours and/or work colleagues or business acquaintances just might be around too. For many people "what plays on Fab stays on Fab" is the best method. If you're going to organise "socials" it will definitely be a case of being discreet with the when and where. Remember how dogging got ruined once the locations/times got out to the ejeets? Remember all those folks who have advertised a party on social media and got flash-mobbed by unwanted guests?" I think you are overthinking it... It would probably be a couple of people at best turning up in a public place for coffee... Which is what loads of normal people do every flipping day... Lighten up lol | |||
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"I’m a regular at Costa/Starbucks as makeshift office, alas not in Wakefield Is that so lol You’ve had your share this week lol " That was last week lol | |||
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"Most days I find I have time on my hands with nothing to do and then thought how nice it would be to have a weekly, mid day, coffee meet somewhere local to wakefield. Somewhere people could meet for a chat. Do you think it would be a good idea Sounds initially like a good idea, until you think about it a bit more. Load of Fab members regularly in the same place?......in the silly news seasons it'll save the gutter press a lot of work tracking players down one by one. Other "unfriendlies"/neighbours and/or work colleagues or business acquaintances just might be around too. For many people "what plays on Fab stays on Fab" is the best method. If you're going to organise "socials" it will definitely be a case of being discreet with the when and where. Remember how dogging got ruined once the locations/times got out to the ejeets? Remember all those folks who have advertised a party on social media and got flash-mobbed by unwanted guests? I think you are overthinking it... It would probably be a couple of people at best turning up in a public place for coffee... Which is what loads of normal people do every flipping day... Lighten up lol" I think they make a fair point. If the time and location is advertised, idiots might turn up. There have been socials advertised openly on the forum and the Press turned up. A wedding at Chams got Press attention/ harassment. | |||
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"Most days I find I have time on my hands with nothing to do and then thought how nice it would be to have a weekly, mid day, coffee meet somewhere local to wakefield. Somewhere people could meet for a chat. Do you think it would be a good idea Sounds initially like a good idea, until you think about it a bit more. Load of Fab members regularly in the same place?......in the silly news seasons it'll save the gutter press a lot of work tracking players down one by one. Other "unfriendlies"/neighbours and/or work colleagues or business acquaintances just might be around too. For many people "what plays on Fab stays on Fab" is the best method. If you're going to organise "socials" it will definitely be a case of being discreet with the when and where. Remember how dogging got ruined once the locations/times got out to the ejeets? Remember all those folks who have advertised a party on social media and got flash-mobbed by unwanted guests? I think you are overthinking it... It would probably be a couple of people at best turning up in a public place for coffee... Which is what loads of normal people do every flipping day... Lighten up lol I think they make a fair point. If the time and location is advertised, idiots might turn up. There have been socials advertised openly on the forum and the Press turned up. A wedding at Chams got Press attention/ harassment. " A social meet for coffee is hardly in the same league as a wedding at a swingers club | |||
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"Most days I find I have time on my hands with nothing to do and then thought how nice it would be to have a weekly, mid day, coffee meet somewhere local to wakefield. Somewhere people could meet for a chat. Do you think it would be a good idea Sounds initially like a good idea, until you think about it a bit more. Load of Fab members regularly in the same place?......in the silly news seasons it'll save the gutter press a lot of work tracking players down one by one. Other "unfriendlies"/neighbours and/or work colleagues or business acquaintances just might be around too. For many people "what plays on Fab stays on Fab" is the best method. If you're going to organise "socials" it will definitely be a case of being discreet with the when and where. Remember how dogging got ruined once the locations/times got out to the ejeets? Remember all those folks who have advertised a party on social media and got flash-mobbed by unwanted guests? I think you are overthinking it... It would probably be a couple of people at best turning up in a public place for coffee... Which is what loads of normal people do every flipping day... Lighten up lol I think they make a fair point. If the time and location is advertised, idiots might turn up. There have been socials advertised openly on the forum and the Press turned up. A wedding at Chams got Press attention/ harassment. A social meet for coffee is hardly in the same league as a wedding at a swingers club " I know. But some papers would still print it. | |||
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"Can I jump on this thread and see who'd be up for a social get together on an evening? " im in | |||
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"Can I jump on this thread and see who'd be up for a social get together on an evening? " we most certainly would x | |||
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"Most days I find I have time on my hands with nothing to do and then thought how nice it would be to have a weekly, mid day, coffee meet somewhere local to wakefield. Somewhere people could meet for a chat. Do you think it would be a good idea" yes a fab coffee morning at starfucks love it | |||
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"Just need someone who is organised and can use a spreadsheet to work out who is close to who..... I'm out! " I'm not out yet | |||
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"If there is enough interest then I will arrange a time, date and location to meet somewhere" Definitely interested in coffee and chat. | |||
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"Most days I find I have time on my hands with nothing to do and then thought how nice it would be to have a weekly, mid day, coffee meet somewhere local to wakefield. Somewhere people could meet for a chat. Do you think it would be a good idea Sounds initially like a good idea, until you think about it a bit more. Load of Fab members regularly in the same place?......in the silly news seasons it'll save the gutter press a lot of work tracking players down one by one. Other "unfriendlies"/neighbours and/or work colleagues or business acquaintances just might be around too. For many people "what plays on Fab stays on Fab" is the best method. If you're going to organise "socials" it will definitely be a case of being discreet with the when and where. Remember how dogging got ruined once the locations/times got out to the ejeets? Remember all those folks who have advertised a party on social media and got flash-mobbed by unwanted guests?" “The Secret Tea Party” has been going for 8 years.... it does work !! And its a great idea. A social is a social! As long as everyone respects the concept. We are all adults surely discretion is in all our interests... start small and see what happens.... it’s a great idea ! Go for it | |||
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"If anyone would like an evening coffee get together who is in and around the Leeds area, send me a message and let's see if we can arrange something x" . Lots of interest here x | |||
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"If anyone would like an evening coffee get together who is in and around the Leeds area, send me a message and let's see if we can arrange something x. Lots of interest here x" Sorry to jump on your thread x | |||
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"If anyone would like an evening coffee get together who is in and around the Leeds area, send me a message and let's see if we can arrange something x. Lots of interest here x Sorry to jump on your thread x" You buying ? | |||
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"If there is enough interest then I will arrange a time, date and location to meet somewhere Definitely interested in coffee and chat." well we nearly have a table full now lol | |||
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"If anyone would like an evening coffee get together who is in and around the Leeds area, send me a message and let's see if we can arrange something x. Lots of interest here x Sorry to jump on your thread x You buying ? " Yip x | |||
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"If anyone would like an evening coffee get together who is in and around the Leeds area, send me a message and let's see if we can arrange something x. Lots of interest here x Sorry to jump on your thread x You buying ? Yip x" Noted x | |||
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"If anyone would like an evening coffee get together who is in and around the Leeds area, send me a message and let's see if we can arrange something x. Lots of interest here x Sorry to jump on your thread x You buying ? Yip x" I'm in | |||
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"Thank you for the coffee #youknowwhoyouare" just for the record it wasn't me | |||
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"Thank you for the coffee #youknowwhoyouarejust for the record it wasn't me " I know hes talkin about his thundercats mug | |||
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"Coffee always makes me fall asleep. I fear I would be terrible company " I will keep you awake by other means | |||
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"Coffee always makes me fall asleep. I fear I would be terrible company I will keep you awake by other means " Ooh | |||
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"Coffee always makes me fall asleep. I fear I would be terrible company " I'm good company I'd keep you awake | |||
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"Coffee always makes me fall asleep. I fear I would be terrible company I will keep you awake by other means Ooh " Muffins | |||
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