FabSwingers.com forum: I just want to have sex with you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah. It’s a dream conversation.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

At this moment in my life, the answer would be no, I need more than just a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, just sex?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Yes. But it doesn't mean I'll say yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd still respect you in the morning

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends on the context...

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By *uffin-Man-Man
over a year ago

muffin lane

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?"

If it was a way to get you to reply to a message of be open to it lol

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Yes of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite happy with it.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Absolutely - within the context of mutual attraction though. I’m not on Fab for the one. Just the one that can make me smile a little while.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"At this moment in my life, the answer would be no, I need more than just a shag "

I thought this was for men to answer!? Who knew?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Depends who it was and what situation I was in for them to say that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the context..."

The context is she wants to fuck you.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?"

I'd be fine if either a guy or woman asked me, I like upfront honesty, how I responded would depend who asked though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?"

Is this in the cafe or on fab

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"At this moment in my life, the answer would be no, I need more than just a shag

I thought this was for men to answer!? Who knew?

Not if you actually read the OP it's directed at both!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Depends on context.

In a club or swingers party, sure, no worries.

In Tescos frozen food aisle... hell no, I'd knock the mad bitch out with a frozen lasagne!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At this moment in my life, the answer would be no, I need more than just a shag

I thought this was for men to answer!? Who knew?

Read the question, it’s only a few lines.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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Dopey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well these answers are going to be blindingly predictable (from both genders).

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"At this moment in my life, the answer would be no, I need more than just a shag

I thought this was for men to answer!? Who knew?

Not if you actually read the OP it's directed at both!

Well.....i didn't. So there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been said to me before, it didn't offend me. In fact it probably worked

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"[Removed by poster at 05/07/18 22:16:03]

Dopey"

It's been a long day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At this moment in my life, the answer would be no, I need more than just a shag "

Shoes ?

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

I'd like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be flattered but would still think about whether I wanted to!

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By *ugbylad12392Man
over a year ago

leicester

I would be a bit un nerved but i would be happy to i think i would be looking for the bottle of chloform though and a huge dildo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To put it into context say it's not a fab person that's accustomed to the way of fab. Someone from the real world that you're attracted to and they tell you they just want to fuck you because they're sexually attracted to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who says it.

I really hoped Keith Chegwin would've asked me that question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah. Just gimme your penis!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"At this moment in my life, the answer would be no, I need more than just a shag

Shoes ?"

As much as I love shoes, it wouldn't quite cut it

Now if they were Jimmy Choos……….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To put it into context say it's not a fab person that's accustomed to the way of fab. Someone from the real world that you're attracted to and they tell you they just want to fuck you because they're sexually attracted to you. "

Yes. As they're being quite upfront you shouldn't expect/hope for anything more though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At this moment in my life, the answer would be no, I need more than just a shag

I thought this was for men to answer!? Who knew?

The OP asked how men or women would respond to the same question.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Oh then yes.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?"

That would entirely depend on whether I was actually attracted to her, and another factor that's crept in as I've got older is if she's sane or if she's going to turn into a fruitloop stalker afterwards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yeah. Just gimme your penis!"

Is this a trap?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"At this moment in my life, the answer would be no, I need more than just a shag

I thought this was for men to answer!? Who knew?

The OP asked how men or women would respond to the same question."

You should read the whole thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yeah. Just gimme your penis!

Is this a trap?"

Definitely gimme your penis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing as it's a sex site then yeah. I'm not after a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tits above

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Good question. Depends what mood and day of the week it was I suppose. Get me on a good day and I'd think yeah great,get me on a hormonal touchy day and I'd think what am I a piece of bloody meat. Yeah don't know.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I did this once. Said to this guy in a pub would you have sex with me. He looked around and looked puzzled.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

Probably wouldn’t work in the first message, but ultimately that’s the reason I’m here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be fine with them saying it. It would depend on how I feel about them though as to whether I’d engage with the sex. There are some that I’m attracted to and I would be fine to continue and there are some that I’m attracted to where I wouldn’t continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?

I'd be fine if either a guy or woman asked me, I like upfront honesty, how I responded would depend who asked though."

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Oh. In that case, I’ll let you know when it happens

(Don’t wait up though)

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Tits above

It looks like your head has disappeared in them.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I've a feeling that asking that question here you're not going to get a balanced view, as everyone is likely to be more open minded than your average fabless human x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"At this moment in my life, the answer would be no, I need more than just a shag

I thought this was for men to answer!? Who knew?

All the people who read the OP. See Cordelia's paradox thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits above

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what about them lol.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

In that case definitely! I’d jump on them there and then!

I’m one of those mingers that behaves like a diva on Fab yet can’t get a shag in the real world

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By *irk Diggler 02Man
over a year ago

Swindon

To an extent of course...isn’t that why we’re all here as opposed to a traditional dating site?? Though there has to be that phwoooar factor irrespective

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I've a feeling that asking that question here you're not going to get a balanced view, as everyone is likely to be more open minded than your average fabless human x "

In my experience. No. So called vanilla people are far more sexually active and open to one off sexual encounters than female members of fab who are "looking for more".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've a feeling that asking that question here you're not going to get a balanced view, as everyone is likely to be more open minded than your average fabless human x

In my experience. No. So called vanilla people are far more sexually active and open to one off sexual encounters than female members of fab who are "looking for more"."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits above

It looks like your head has disappeared in them."
had many men saying they would love to lose their head between them lol

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

In that case definitely! I’d jump on them there and then!

I’m one of those mingers that behaves like a diva on Fab yet can’t get a shag in the real world

You're in good company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yeah. Just gimme your penis!

Is this a trap?"

Well spotted ...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes. That suits me perfectly.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Even then it would depend on the context (and location). I would be concerned about the consequences following my response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op did you not catch the YouTube video where a good looking guy asked this of 100 women and a good looking woman asked it of 100 guys? I think about 80 guys were up for it vs 1 woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?"

Depends if they are on my hotlist

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

In that case definitely! I’d jump on them there and then!

I’m one of those mingers that behaves like a diva on Fab yet can’t get a shag in the real world

Damn! I can't get one here either. What's my classification?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did this once. Said to this guy in a pub would you have sex with me. He looked around and looked puzzled.

He thought it was a wind up ... such things rarely happen!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Tits above

It looks like your head has disappeared in them. had many men saying they would love to lose their head between them lol "

Strangely no man has ever said that to me.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Op did you not catch the YouTube video where a good looking guy asked this of 100 women and a good looking woman asked it of 100 guys? I think about 80 guys were up for it vs 1 woman "

I watched that so thought I would try it for myself on that guy in the pub. He did look around and said " are you joking"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits above

It looks like your head has disappeared in them."

I fucking wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits above

It looks like your head has disappeared in them. had many men saying they would love to lose their head between them lol

Strangely no man has ever said that to me."
I'm sure they have.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"I've a feeling that asking that question here you're not going to get a balanced view, as everyone is likely to be more open minded than your average fabless human x

In my experience. No. So called vanilla people are far more sexually active and open to one off sexual encounters than female members of fab who are "looking for more"."

I bow to your experience then as I was just assuming based on the sites purpose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it was, would rather not have sex than with someone I didn't like or want to cuddle with afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits above

what about them lol."

They’re excellent tits, also you reminded I must pick up some water melons in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits above

It looks like your head has disappeared in them.

I fucking wish."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits above

It looks like your head has disappeared in them. had many men saying they would love to lose their head between them lol

Strangely no man has ever said that to me."

I would live to lose my head between your tits.

There you go. You're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits above

what about them lol.

They’re excellent tits, also you reminded I must pick up some water melons in the morning.

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glad to be of assistance

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I've a feeling that asking that question here you're not going to get a balanced view, as everyone is likely to be more open minded than your average fabless human x

In my experience. No. So called vanilla people are far more sexually active and open to one off sexual encounters than female members of fab who are "looking for more".

I bow to your experience then as I was just assuming based on the sites purpose

Purpose and use are not always aligned.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Tits above

It looks like your head has disappeared in them. had many men saying they would love to lose their head between them lol

Strangely no man has ever said that to me.

I would love to lose my head between your tits.

There you go. You're welcome."

Fify

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I've a feeling that asking that question here you're not going to get a balanced view, as everyone is likely to be more open minded than your average fabless human x

In my experience. No. So called vanilla people are far more sexually active and open to one off sexual encounters than female members of fab who are "looking for more"."

I disagree with that to be honest, the females on here may just be a little more jaded to it all, as I am, after 10 years of hearing all the shit!

I was more promiscuous when younger (not on here) but that was through 'beer goggles' and not proud. The mere fact that you rely on the message system on here and sober when doing so, the men don't really stand a chance! As their mentality cannot stand out in the sober world or they just don't have a clue how to speak to women through the written word, so the men are fucked and I am not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op did you not catch the YouTube video where a good looking guy asked this of 100 women and a good looking woman asked it of 100 guys? I think about 80 guys were up for it vs 1 woman

I watched that so thought I would try it for myself on that guy in the pub. He did look around and said " are you joking"

To be honest I'd probably go bright red and not know where to look before squeezing out a forced quizzical "yes???"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what mood I was in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, many women say that all the time, be creative

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I've a feeling that asking that question here you're not going to get a balanced view, as everyone is likely to be more open minded than your average fabless human x

In my experience. No. So called vanilla people are far more sexually active and open to one off sexual encounters than female members of fab who are "looking for more".

I disagree with that to be honest, the females on here may just be a little more jaded to it all, as I am, after 10 years of hearing all the shit!

Yes I've often wondered what women want to read. I must see 50 or so messages from men per day and on average 2 might get a reply per week. Fickle beasts.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me. "

Oh! You should have said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me. "
maybe if I was single I might be looking for more than just a one off fuck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At this moment in my life, the answer would be no, I need more than just a shag "

same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind anybody asking me for just sex. It's only a question after all.

If it was someone I really fancied, I think it would be rather nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At this moment in my life, the answer would be no, I need more than just a shag "

same here

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me. "

Why would you feel insulted though? He thinks you're attractive enough to put his willy in. Why does there have to be a possibility of dating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me. "

I don't think guys are regularly objectified and so don't get tired of that. So when a woman objectified them like this it would be a total novelty, unchartered waters, an embarrassing compliment, and they'd think "why me?" or suspect something fishy but ultimately be down for it.

Women struggle more with objectification, so find it annoying and a bit dismissive of their value as a person. I would share some fascinating insights I've had into eye contact along these lines but I'd only be back talking about stuff I no longer want to discuss on here because people take it the wrong way

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me.

Why would you feel insulted though? He thinks you're attractive enough to put his willy in. Why does there have to be a possibility of dating?"

See Cordelia's paradox thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?"

Surely it depends on whose saying it? Someone as gorgeous as you, would simply be, game on!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me.

Why would you feel insulted though? He thinks you're attractive enough to put his willy in. Why does there have to be a possibility of dating?"

Cos I'd think there's more to me than just being someone to have sex with.

Would feel like I'm only good enough to fuck and that's not a nice feeling

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me.

Why would you feel insulted though? He thinks you're attractive enough to put his willy in. Why does there have to be a possibility of dating?

See Cordelia's paradox thread.

Oh dear. I was trying to keep to the light threads tonight but I shall go read.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

That how it should be instead of all this pussy footing around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did this once. Said to this guy in a pub would you have sex with me. He looked around and looked puzzled.

So where exactly is this pub?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends firstly if it’s the opening message, but if it’s after we’ve been talking then I’d appreciate the honesty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits above

It looks like your head has disappeared in them. had many men saying they would love to lose their head between them lol

Strangely no man has ever said that to me.

I would love to lose my head between your tits.

There you go. You're welcome.

Fify

Cheers buddy. Knew I could rely on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did this once. Said to this guy in a pub would you have sex with me. He looked around and looked puzzled.

So where exactly is this pub?...

Far, far away, mate

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Tits above

It looks like your head has disappeared in them. had many men saying they would love to lose their head between them lol

Strangely no man has ever said that to me.

I would live to lose my head between your tits.

There you go. You're welcome."

Live?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Re word the question. I would dearly love to make love to you.

Does the response change? ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Situational.

Surely if you're both happy with just a fuck then it's fine.

I don't think everyone having one night stands expects wedding bells.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me. "

How about if he only wanted to fuck you because you have a mutual sexual attraction and enjoy each others company during those encounters, but you are never going to be life partners?

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

I'd be ok with them saying it.

Acting on it as some random activity ...probably less so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did this once. Said to this guy in a pub would you have sex with me. He looked around and looked puzzled.

So where exactly is this pub?...

Far, far away, mate"

Shit a brick, that's my local!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits above

It looks like your head has disappeared in them. had many men saying they would love to lose their head between them lol

Strangely no man has ever said that to me.

I would live to lose my head between your tits.

There you go. You're welcome.

Live?! "

Yes, I've packed my suitcase and will arrive in a few hours.

Keep them cool for me.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Tits above

It looks like your head has disappeared in them. had many men saying they would love to lose their head between them lol

Strangely no man has ever said that to me.

I would live to lose my head between your tits.

There you go. You're welcome.

Live?!

Yes, I've packed my suitcase and will arrive in a few hours.

Keep them cool for me."

Excellent you can be my live in man slave. Leave your shit at home though they'll be no use for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Re word the question. I would dearly love to make love to you.

Does the response change? ??? "
noooo lol I think you can only make love with someone you love. Everything else is a shag or fuck to me lol.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Re word the question. I would dearly love to make love to you.

Does the response change? ??? "

Yes it would be a no from me and a sharp exit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In that case definitely! I’d jump on them there and then!

I’m one of those mingers that behaves like a diva on Fab yet can’t get a shag in the real world

Bugger!!! You mean this isnt the real world?

Damn thats where I'm going wrong

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Re word the question. I would dearly love to make love to you.

Does the response change? ???

Yes it would be a no from me and a sharp exit

I mean if the OP question was this, I wasn't meaning if you asked personally , ok I'll shush now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did something similar many years ago. It worked out fine, although we never actually had sex.

I’d be happy if a woman said it to me but it wouldn’t mean we’d have sex

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

It’s still a bit ambiguous in written form.

Is it, as in, “I really, really want to do this,” (like, the way somebody would say, “I just want some chocolate,”) or is it as in, “that’s the sum total of the interaction I want with you (like, the way somebody would say, “I just want one piece of chocolate”)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d think I’d gone to heavrn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d think I’d gone to heavrn"
see you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im available lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love it

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

From most women, I’d love to hear that and be happy as Larry to get down to it with her. (Larry, I hear you’re a very happy bloke lol!)

Have to admit, there is a small percentage of women I’d have to say no to though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this in my twenties on a night out once or twice...never been turned down either lol

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to admit I did just want a fuck the night I met my now husband. Be careful what you wish for lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me. "

I wouldn't feel insulted. I've had sex with men that I've just purely been physically attracted to and that's all its been. I've not seen them as anything else. Then again I've no interest in dating. May be that's the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d think I’d gone to heavrn see you there

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that would be lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d think I’d gone to heavrn see you there

that would be lovely

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By *he Dork KnightMan
over a year ago

Newport

Be a nice message to recieve but my initial reaction would be very cautious.

Most of the people I am drawn to on here prefer a social first and that is the way I am leaning if I ever had the chance.

I'd at least want a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my theory is right you could chart a graph. Women who are most conventionally objectified by men (Scarlett Johansson) will be more insulted by this, whilst women who aren't (Pat Butcher) won't.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If my theory is right you could chart a graph. Women who are most conventionally objectified by men (Scarlett Johansson) will be more insulted by this, whilst women who aren't (Pat Butcher) won't. "

Pat fucking Butcher?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who said it, had it said to me once as a teen. Said yes and I was a very good decision to do so.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me.

Relieved some ladies think like you! If every woman I wanted to have sex with demanded a full relationship as a prerequisite for a shag I’d probably still be a virgin lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on who said it, had it said to me once as a teen. Said yes and I was a very good decision to do so. "
also depends where & when they said it. On here would be more acceptable than if I was reaching for something off the shelf in tescos

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd be ok with that doesn't mean I would though. I'd probably just have a giggle about it with my friends.

I don't think it's insulting at all.

Love Pat x

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"If my theory is right you could chart a graph. Women who are most conventionally objectified by men (Scarlett Johansson) will be more insulted by this, whilst women who aren't (Pat Butcher) won't.

Pat fucking Butcher?

Have to confess I’ve probably objectified Scarlett! But I don’t remember ever objectifying Pat Fucking Butcher! Or indeed fucking Pat Butcher!

Do send her my best wishes next time you see her - I hope she’s doing well for herself these days... whoever the fuck she happens to be!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me.

Relieved some ladies think like you! If every woman I wanted to have sex with demanded a full relationship as a prerequisite for a shag I’d probably still be a virgin lol! "

And if a guy demanded a full relationship for a shag, I'd stick with my dildos and wand!

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me.

Why would you feel insulted though? He thinks you're attractive enough to put his willy in. Why does there have to be a possibility of dating?"
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I totally agree with you Meli. I only have sex with people I feel attracted to and don’t (initially

) come across as a total beliend. I assume if he’s willing to put his penis in me he might think the same (although I realise that might not always be the case). Nothing insulting about any of that, but I guess it would depend on what the other person is looking for. If they are searching for something more meaningful they might be disappointed.

Why do some people still think that a purely sexual connection is a bad thing?

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me.

Relieved some ladies think like you! If every woman I wanted to have sex with demanded a full relationship as a prerequisite for a shag I’d probably still be a virgin lol!

And if a guy demanded a full relationship for a shag, I'd stick with my dildos and wand! "

Ha! Snap!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I also think that most men (had to put that to stop the 'put out' ones at ease) read profiles but ignore them. I had one guy tonight who blatantly lied to me in his first message, then admitted that he met none of my criteria in the next message so I guessed he was attached which he admitted to, so why do men contact females in the first place when they know from the off that they are not what that person is looking for? Why do they think that an exception will be made for them? I really don't understand it, can anyone explain? And has it worked for you in the past? (head wobble emoji)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on who said it, had it said to me once as a teen. Said yes and I was a very good decision to do so. also depends where & when they said it. On here would be more acceptable than if I was reaching for something off the shelf in tescos

I think the shock value in Tesco would add to the appeal for me, more chance of a positive response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be ok with that doesn't mean I would though. I'd probably just have a giggle about it with my friends.

I don't think it's insulting at all.

Love Pat x

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

That's how it all started with my first wife. So I'd probably want her to sign all kinds of legal stuff first. Which would kinda spoil the moment.....O suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it crude and unnessesary and ten a penny chat x

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By *ild PhoenixMan
over a year ago

London

If she wasn't my type I will not do it, but if she was I will suggest to chat for a while and than go for it, do you agree with that ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?

Is this in the cafe or on fab

We're on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If my theory is right you could chart a graph. Women who are most conventionally objectified by men (Scarlett Johansson) will be more insulted by this, whilst women who aren't (Pat Butcher) won't.

Pat fucking Butcher?

*In bed East end voice, MELI!*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on your situation and whether you’re actively looking for dating or something more casual. If I were to be searching for something more than just sex, then I’d be a little put out, although flattered at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That how it should be instead of all this pussy footing around

No woman has ever asked me to pussy foot her.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

All depend on how you bring it up and our relationship. This can go either way some people will be mortified while others could have been thinking the same.

Bring it up as a question for a friend but with him in the scenario. Then go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the women I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be fine with it.

I've had it said to me a few times in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?"
every guy is going to say yes and if they don't then they are trying to play the gentleman but trust me guys would quit their jobs if a girl said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's keep it simple:

Yes.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"every guy is going to say yes and if they don't then they are trying to play the gentleman but trust me guys would quit their jobs if a girl said that "

Just for the record, you don’t ever get to speak on everyone’s behalf ever again.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd appreciate their honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me. "

I'm not sure that's nessesarily true of the younger generation these days.

With hook up sites posing as dating sites, it's easy for either sex to just hook up for casual encounters. It's becoming the norm.

I think the worst thing is for a guy to lead you on just to get a shag. Be upfront and honest about what you want, don't play games.

Younger women should be more sexually liberated and be allowed to be. If they just want a shag and nothing more then they should be able to without fear of being judged by society.

Why would you be insulted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and i have done

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By *o3somesMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?"

I’d love it, in fact that’s exactly what I want lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?"
probably but I'd feel guilty after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?"

Yes.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?"

Ya id be ok with it.

Don't meen id accept it thoe.

If it wos from a complete stranger then probably not. I'd say let's get to no eatch other a bit 1st.

If it wos from sumone i new or id got to no then i probably wood

But that's never happened and i dout it ever will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My point is *most* guys in the real world wouldn't give a shit if a woman just wanted to fuck them and had no interest in dating or being open to a relationship.

Myself and most women in the real world would feel slightly insulted if a guy said he only wanted to fuck me.

I'm not sure that's nessesarily true of the younger generation these days.

With hook up sites posing as dating sites, it's easy for either sex to just hook up for casual encounters. It's becoming the norm.

I think the worst thing is for a guy to lead you on just to get a shag. Be upfront and honest about what you want, don't play games.

Younger women should be more sexually liberated and be allowed to be. If they just want a shag and nothing more then they should be able to without fear of being judged by society.

Why would you be insulted? "
People judge and it takes very little to achieve it

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By *orningtonCroissantMan
over a year ago

notts and humberside

Yes I’m a club. In a social situation it’s more fantasy than reality although it happened when I was a holiday rep. Nuff said ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on how you view sex and who’s doing the asking.

In the context of the OP could the feeling more along the lines of “miffed” that he only wanted sex rather then being “insulted.” I assume you’re still looking for more boyfriend/ partner material.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I guess it depends on how you view sex and who’s doing the asking.

Yeah that's more the feeling. However massive double standards as I just want to have sex with a guy in the gym, but that said only because I'm happy with him knowing me sexually than personally (cos we have to work together)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess it depends on how you view sex and who’s doing the asking.

May I ask a question? Have in understood that given you work together you would be fine to know him sexually intimately but that to date him would be too personal for someone who is a colleague? I’m intrigued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I* understood

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I guess it depends on how you view sex and who’s doing the asking.

Yep. We all know that I have form for being a bit full on. To date someone would mean inviting them into knowing me on a different level, I wouldn't want to risk someone I have to see through work seeing that side of me. But, I still fancy him like mad, it's getting on for 3 years now that I've been crushing on him. I see him in shorts and t shirt all the time and he sometimes comes in to use the gym himself as well as training people. I have thoughts of doing things to him in his little office and I would act on them if he was up for it!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I do so love these posts without context -did you bump into said person on street, are you working in a psychiatric or demtia ward, is the person in a full body cast/ a victim of a horrific accident and suffering the effects of concussion, are you attracted to or repulsed by their habits or apparrent hygene...

As in all things, it has more to do with what led up to the moment that the person thought it was appropriate to ask such a question -Even themost desperate of us may have doubts if when waiting for the car to be serviced, the mechanic/ receptionist popped in with the remains of their lunch smeared across their face and asked whether you wanted to have a ride in the used parts bin while the boss is looking the other way.

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By *ixfootinthecityMan
over a year ago

London

It’s definitely worked on me before, i probably should be ashamed to say but aren’t. (In a public context).

But then it’s also not worked, so depends who’s asking I guess.

Either way it’s always very flattering and a very welcome proposition.

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"Guys if a woman said that to you would you be ok with that?

Women, if a guy said that to you would you be ok with it?"

Depending who it was I’d be over the bloody moon but I’d be very optimistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the type of car she drives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the type of car she drives "

How about a Ford Escort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the type of car she drives

How about a Ford Escort

The car of the devil if you want my honest opinion

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love it,

Outside of swinging, I like to go slowly, and it has been said to me a few times, to get a move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'd washed my hair then I'd be okay with it.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Depends on the type of car she drives

How about a Ford Escort

The car of the devil if you want my honest opinion "

Yes but it obviously goes with PRADA -did someone say chavvie?

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