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can 6 inches ever feel better than 8

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm 6.5 inches with decent girth but my girlfriend ex was around the 8 inch mark. She says all the right things like i always make her cum and he apparently very rarely to point she would fake them.

However i've seen the way she rides this huge pleasureskin realistic dildo and she loves it but still says i'm better. Our sex is fantastic really is but she def loves it deep just wondered if any women can relate to her at all and tell me i'm being a twat

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

awwwww honeybun, here be dragons! NEVER compare yourself to the ex. if his 8 inches was so good she'd still be getting it but she clearly prefers your 6 1/2.

try to accept it and let go of this. if you don't you will end up driving her away.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks: ) but he left her for another typical hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex with a regular partner is about so much more than how much meat is on the table.

don't let your mind play games with you or you are setting yourself up for a life of internalised sexual anguish.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

You are being a twat

She is with you and shes getting lots of pleasure from you,toys are no substitute for the real thing and are a small part of the fun,listen to what shes telling you and take it in

Enjoy yourself and don't be hung up on things you can't change,its gonna be a long and boring life if you do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer your real cock over a plastic/rubber substitute any day, and it sounds like you are part of the deal when she does that, which is part of the thrill for her, so stop worrying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not what you've got but what you do with it that counts. Not all women like huge cocks. Stop worrying and comparing yourself to her ex. She's obviously enjoying the sex life with you.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"You are being a twat

She is with you and shes getting lots of pleasure from you,toys are no substitute for the real thing and are a small part of the fun,listen to what shes telling you and take it in

Enjoy yourself and don't be hung up on things you can't change,its gonna be a long and boring life if you do that"

agreed apart from you being a twat that is, insecurity will truly fuck you up mate.

and another thing what is it with people looking for a tape measure

just what is that about?, funny that those that do so allways seem to be an exact number.

Never see anyone saying they are 7.9 etc, a bit of creative measuring going on methinks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys just a tad bit of size envy but i do seem to care alot more about it than she does if even at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have dated guys with 10inch, I have dated guys with 5...

It was never about the size.. When you find someone you connect with its just different.

I have a playmate who is about 6 inches, that has become a regular..and I came on the very first meet, something very rare for me.. even when I meet guys much bigger..

However its more about how he is.. and how he fucks me than his size.. I do like big ( master is much bigger) but I cant compare that..as nothing I do with any playmate compares in anyway to what I do with the man I love.

Men do always ask.. was the ex better.. ( or most men) lol and in all honesty what women is going to say yes actually..

enjoy it.. as there is nothing worse than someone worrying about their performance.

Cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i do seem to care alot more about it than she does "

and there you have answered your own question

it's you that has the issue with size not her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's with YOU ain't she? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your insecurities is more of a problem I'd have thought than the lack of inches in your trousers.

I've ditched men who keep needing reassurance about their knobs - needy and ego massaging don't come naturally to me as you might guess!

Your girlfriend is with you at the moment...if you want to keep her longer accept what you have and stop being envious of things you can't change.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Unless it has got to the point where she is laughing at your cock then I would say 'Carry on regardless'.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She doesn't know my insecurities she thinks i think i'm a stud and horny all day long so a bit me pretence really hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was your girlfriend I would be more worried about you being on this site as a single man more than the size if your knob !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I was your girlfriend I would be more worried about you being on this site as a single man more than the size if your knob !"

I come on here purely to perv its my kinda porn these days and see how old friends are getting along. I'd bring her on here but she's totally not interested in more the 1 on 1 unlike a previous gf

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"If I was your girlfriend I would be more worried about you being on this site as a single man more than the size if your knob !

I come on here purely to perv its my kinda porn these days and see how old friends are getting along. I'd bring her on here but she's totally not interested in more the 1 on 1 unlike a previous gf "

Don't want to bust your balls as it's your business.....but that isn't what you say on your profile...but hey ho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So there you go then. She's only interested in 1on 1 and you are the 1 she wants. No reason for question or insecurities.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true not changed it in ages but the day i actually get a couple or single fem message me will be the day...and arn't totally not my type!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was your girlfriend I would be more worried about you being on this site as a single man more than the size if your knob !

I come on here purely to perv its my kinda porn these days and see how old friends are getting along. I'd bring her on here but she's totally not interested in more the 1 on 1 unlike a previous gf

Don't want to bust your balls as it's your business.....but that isn't what you say on your profile...but hey ho!"

uh oh !

naughty boy

you'll be gettin a clout with that dildo if ya don't start behaving !

you may find out exactly what eight inches feels like - round the back of the head !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was your girlfriend I would be more worried about you being on this site as a single man more than the size if your knob !

I come on here purely to perv its my kinda porn these days and see how old friends are getting along. I'd bring her on here but she's totally not interested in more the 1 on 1 unlike a previous gf

Don't want to bust your balls as it's your business.....but that isn't what you say on your profile...but hey ho!

uh oh !

naughty boy

you'll be gettin a clout with that dildo if ya don't start behaving !

you may find out exactly what eight inches feels like - round the back of the head ! "

You just been 'Bus'ted lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totall faithful wouldn't be on here if i wasn't bored out of my mind on a train in to london

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totall faithful wouldn't be on here if i wasn't bored out of my mind on a train in to london"

Might want to take a lttle time in the 'edit my profile' section then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok check it this evening it will be updated just for you x

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

i agree with other comments. you could be hung like a horse and still crap in bed or mr adverage and make the woman exsplode ect every time !

your worry wont be your size if your gf finds you on here trust me ! if its that innocent you would of just told her about being here and wouldnt be stating youve been here before and back now to get into swing of things . sorry but dont look good im afraid .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I seriously don't come on here often! Just thought i'd ask my question here with women who know what there talking about and can give me an honest opinion too x

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

im sure your gf will be fine with that exsplaination then .....

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

m8 stop digging lol, the hole is only getting deeper

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Either be honest to a partner or don't do it.

If she knows you are into online porn and is happy about it, then possibly ok, but given the aim of a swingers site she may look on membership here as not a good thing. All it takes is one of her friends to spot you...

A big difference to cracking one out to a tube porn site and then coming on a chat/cam site.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Yes i cant walk in 8 " heels but i can walk in 6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i cant walk in 8 " heels but i can walk in 6 "

And me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i cant walk in 8 " heels but i can walk in 6

And me xx "

you need all the extra lift u can soapster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seriously don't come on here often! Just thought i'd ask my question here with women who know what there talking about and can give me an honest opinion too x"

Youre askin the Pussy Posse advice???

Buddy... Ya ***ked

{ Seriously... They call me Justin... But I dont get many complaints }

Sounds like your issue is trusting your partner to tell you the truth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing I'm curious about is how the OP knows the ex is 8 inches. Have you seen it or is it just.what your gf has tod you? If you haven't seen it then it could be a nugget for all you know!

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By *rummpsMan
over a year ago

thanet

Get yourself a short length of string and a brick.

Tie the string to the brick and the other end to your knob. Do this every day for as long as you can bear the pain.

By the time the old man has turned black and dropped off, your gf will have departed for someone less hung up.

Problem solved.

_rummps x

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

its not the size of the boat or the motion of the ocean.

its the skill of the man at the wheel in getting the ship into the harbour..

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By *heekyladyCouple
over a year ago

manchester

For me personally, its all about the guy.... Although saying that the ex had all the equipment but not the skill and in 19 years together I never had an orgasm through penetrative sex.

That being said, my regular playmate is an average size and trust me I orgasm pretty much constantly when I'm with him and a first for me, through penetrative sex ....

Its bloody brilliant !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see you edited lol

Be honest with yourself- the rest will follow x

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