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Should the word ‘naughty’ be banned from Fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Naughty is used to described having the sex quite a lot here on Fab, we’re adults after all, is it puerile or just swinging lingo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what should we replace it with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nawty is even worse.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’d like to be having the sex today

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes but only if we can stop calling sex "playing" as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nawty is even worse."

Crikey yes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I call it ‘The sex’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what should we replace it with?"

Something adult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I get the use of dirty/filthy, it's all very subversive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure I get the use of dirty/filthy, it's all very subversive "

Makes me think of mud wrestling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure I get the use of dirty/filthy, it's all very subversive

Makes me think of mud wrestling. "

Really? Tell me more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what should we replace it with?

Something adult "

let’s hear some suggestions

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By *onic2Man
over a year ago

Bromley

Am I the only person that wants to give a like or a thumbs up to individual posts when they make me laugh or smile but I can't so the only option is to do a quote reply which takes up valuable space and reading time for everyone else

I think it's really naughty that the administration staff haven't sorted this out. I'm not going to keep it a dirty little secret anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only person that wants to give a like or a thumbs up to individual posts when they make me laugh or smile but I can't so the only option is to do a quote reply which takes up valuable space and reading time for everyone else

I think it's really naughty that the administration staff haven't sorted this out. I'm not going to keep it a dirty little secret anymore "

Like a certain social network, they must have a trademark on it or some shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like naughty "

But the word fun makes me cringe. It would make reading rather interesting if we could all ban certain words we didn't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just use the word kinky? In general most thinks swingers do would be considered kinky??

Or adventurous? Naughty and playing do seem a bit wrong

We say good old fashioned adult pursuits

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Yes but only if we can stop calling sex "playing" as well"

And fun. "Want some fun?" Oh, are we off to Alton Towers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naughty is used to described having the sex quite a lot here on Fab, we’re adults after all, is it puerile or just swinging lingo? "

Surely 'play' is worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naughty is used to described having the sex quite a lot here on Fab, we’re adults after all, is it puerile or just swinging lingo? "

If you want to ban the word you should offer up an alternative at least

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Naughty is used to described having the sex quite a lot here on Fab, we’re adults after all, is it puerile or just swinging lingo?

If you want to ban the word you should offer up an alternative at least"
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Didn’t say I wanted it banned, just putting it out there for discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it’s childish at best saying it’s naughty, but then, we’re all a little childish at times right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nawty is even worse."

fully agreee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what should we replace it with?"

Nutter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what should we replace it with?

Nutter "

or sexi

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

How about sexy time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see why the word naughty might not be ok. Goes back to being told that sex for fun is wrong.

But many words have alternative meanings used in certain contexts.

Naughty fun is right for a swingers site because it goes against the mainstream views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about sexy time "

It's business time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care what words people use to describe it, actions speak far louder than any words ever can... They can call it what they like as long as I leave satisfied

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Naughty is used to described having the sex quite a lot here on Fab, we’re adults after all, is it puerile or just swinging lingo? "

Of course you are right but you are also on a slippery slope to assimilation. There is no escaping the sith (anagram)

Sex is nawty. Sex is dirty. Women are sluts or ladies . Sex is bangin' beef curtains. Degradation is just someone's preference.

Eventually you read D.P. as double penetration instead of Dorothy Perkins. In M and S you wonder why you want to slap everyone around the leather belt counter and ram butternut squashes up their arses.

Resistance if fooftiel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's certain lingo on here and I personally like the term playing... And I like meeting naughty like minded people as they're usually fun... As long as naughty spelled correctly!

I also don't consider most swinging practices as kink or kinky until you head in to bdsm territory.

Not sure on alternate terms without going in to clinical or completely twee terms

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Naughty is used to described having the sex quite a lot here on Fab, we’re adults after all, is it puerile or just swinging lingo? "

I find it puerile. Howeverrrrrrrr, men must be shit scared at how to approach things. Ask for a fuck and you are EVIL. Ask for sex you are CLINICAL. Ask for Sexy time and you some South American Gay ENTERTAINER.

I've got it at last...........

Do a Barry White voice n say ........

Let's geddit orrrrrrrrrrrn !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh it’s a word - people use it as they will

If we are going to ditch it can we also drop asspussy and man cunt at the same time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shenanigans, conveys so much! Ideal word for any context of use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle with"fun", when you really mean sex,

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By *cceptedKinkMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Ban words? 1930's Germany or 2018 Scotland anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always used to call sex time R and R.

Definitely is rest and recovery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about sexy time "

Can't use sexy time.

Borat uses it in the film, all I can hear is him saying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turnup. Let’s change it to turnip Kid free this weekend anyone fancy meeting up for some turnip?? Who cares what it’s called as long as we are getting some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv got it.

It has to be NOOKY ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you gotta be a little bit naughty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv got it.

It has to be NOOKY ??"

Wanna be nooky with me?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Ban “mmmmmmmm” how’s that convey anything other than creepy?

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

How a bout

Getting saucy,

Are you feeling fruity,

You want to get Jiggy with me, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm my new approved language profile is dull...

"I like sex, adult sex, anyone else like sex?"

Play, naughty, adult fun, are all nice twists on the English language. Love him or hate him it would be a shame if William Shakespeare was confined to plain speaking all his plays could be done in a few minutes.

And the good old "shall I compare thee" sonnet would be rewritten as "nice tits, want sex?"

I vote naughty fun, play, kinky and any other variation should stay...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv got it.

It has to be NOOKY ??

Wanna be nooky with me?"

Love some nooky with you

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Rumpy pumpy - what could possibly be wrong with that? Other than spell checker issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we should all revert to the Latin words and stop shilly-shallying...if you enjoy intercourse and are looking for someone to perform felatio on or, just want someone to get on their knees and give you some mind bending cunilingus... just ask!

Are you a pedacator or pathicus? Just say.

Most are hear looking for copulation of some form or another... we're all grown-ups so, let's not mince our words.

No reason why it can't be naughty or fun though...no need to ban either of these things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think words should be banned OP?

What next....ban thoughts?

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I call it ‘The sex’"

You ARE Miranda and I claim my £5

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

What about 'nudey prod games'? That can be used instead of nawty, fun etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You think words should be banned OP?

What next....ban thoughts?

"

Didn’t say I wanted it banned, Throwing the question out there for discussion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I call it ‘The sex’

You ARE Miranda and I claim my £5"

Bear with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was a tongue in cheek question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was a tongue in cheek question "

You expressed an opinion - always dangerous around these parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

noooo i love naughty sexy playtime

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve seen the errors of my ways, think it’s actually a good playful word to use. I’ll get my coat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve seen the errors of my ways, think it’s actually a good playful word to use. I’ll get my coat. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ban words? 1930's Germany or 2018 Scotland anyone? "

Please do educate me. What words are banned in Scotland?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naughty is used to described having the sex quite a lot here on Fab, we’re adults after all, is it puerile or just swinging lingo?

Surely 'play' is worse."

I second that!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Naughty is used to described having the sex quite a lot here on Fab, we’re adults after all, is it puerile or just swinging lingo?

I find it puerile. Howeverrrrrrrr, men must be shit scared at how to approach things. Ask for a fuck and you are EVIL. Ask for sex you are CLINICAL. Ask for Sexy time and you some South American Gay ENTERTAINER.

I've got it at last...........

Do a Barry White voice n say ........

Let's geddit orrrrrrrrrrrn !"

Fuck me Granny, you're just like a fine wine aren't you? You just improve with age

No really, fuck me Granny

Or we could have a fumble between the flanelettes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naughty is used to described having the sex quite a lot here on Fab, we’re adults after all, is it puerile or just swinging lingo?

I find it puerile. Howeverrrrrrrr, men must be shit scared at how to approach things. Ask for a fuck and you are EVIL. Ask for sex you are CLINICAL. Ask for Sexy time and you some South American Gay ENTERTAINER.

I've got it at last...........

Do a Barry White voice n say ........

Let's geddit orrrrrrrrrrrn !

Fuck me Granny, you're just like a fine wine aren't you? You just improve with age

No really, fuck me Granny

Or we could have a fumble between the flanelettes "

Careful you don't get cum on the candlewick bedspread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey what a miserable view, I use naughty and you know what, my willy is as good as anyone's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just use the word kinky? In general most thinks swingers do would be considered kinky??

Or adventurous? Naughty and playing do seem a bit wrong

We say good old fashioned adult pursuits "

Kinky doesn't apply to everyone though

But to the OP... Does it REALLY matter in the grand scheme of things?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Crikey what a miserable view, I use naughty and you know what, my willy is as good as anyone's. "

What’s your willy being good as anyone’s got to go with it, to paraphrase Tina turner?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 05/04/18 08:37:35]"

Wonder how you have written 'no' on that one for you to remove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tittilating... Now there’s a word that should be banned...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crikey what a miserable view, I use naughty and you know what, my willy is as good as anyone's.

What’s your willy being good as anyone’s got to go with it, to paraphrase Tina turner?!"

Just a wee suggestion that the language we use has little credence to our swingability to misquote Ian Dowie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ban the word saucy. I cannot stand it. It conjures up images of humans covered in pasta sauce for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooooooo how would I be able to describe myself as a naughty princess if they banned the word naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they should ban anyone with a sense of humour. Sex is a serious business.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Nawty is even worse."

Often written by an immature person messaging us, such as a 48 years old nawtylad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being what others may perceive as naughty and if it was banned, I would have to change my profile name

Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nawty is even worse."

Adult fun ... makes me laugh every time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like being what others may perceive as naughty and if it was banned, I would have to change my profile name

I

Lol x"

Ok, it definitely stays then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like being what others may perceive as naughty and if it was banned, I would have to change my profile name

I

Lol x

Ok, it definitely stays then! "

Haha, thanks

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

moist

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"I like naughty "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"moist"

I don't get why people hate this so much

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

No but the site don't seem us adult enough to say "I went out last night and had a few drinks and got d*unk"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinger should be scrubbed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clitty and titties must be banned.

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
over a year ago

louth


"I like naughty "

We love Naughty and Norty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naughty is used to described having the sex quite a lot here on Fab, we’re adults after all, is it puerile or just swinging lingo?

I find it puerile. Howeverrrrrrrr, men must be shit scared at how to approach things. Ask for a fuck and you are EVIL. Ask for sex you are CLINICAL. Ask for Sexy time and you some South American Gay ENTERTAINER.

I've got it at last...........

Do a Barry White voice n say ........

Let's geddit orrrrrrrrrrrn !"

Haha exactly this! Well maybe not the Barry White voice... my advice to guys is be yourself, use whatever words you like. You might use a word like naughty, some might love it, some might hate it. Most likely won't care either way. For those that are in one of the extreme camps, loving or hating, well surely it justs helps decide if you might be compatible or not

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