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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fully agree. When you've found a good few. Why do you need the rest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who has said it’s a big deal?

I’ve got the impression on here that most like repeat meets because they say the sex gets better the more they get to know each other’s bodies.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Regular is always better than one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here just sex once would be a big deal, never mind repeat sessions haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever had one offs

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! totally confused..... I'd prefer regular! Get to know what works for them. It's the serial one night stand syndrome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it gets better and better the more you explore someone and find out how their bodies respond.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I fully agree. When you've found a good few. Why do you need the rest? "

Becoming massively disillusioned here as that was always my understanding

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough

We do meets with the view to it becoming a regular thing. Even at the club we tend to meet with the same guys/couples.

Mrs S x

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

I don't think this a problem everyone else has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? "

So greedy! You'll get what you're given and be grateful!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I feel akward in asking for a repeat - there are people I would love to repeate with

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I go back for seconds, thirds and more! I don’t have anything that I’d class as regular but I do have lovely fab playmates that I meet up with from time to time. The sex definitely improves and we can have a chat, relax and enjoy each other’s company.

Doesn't mean I’m looking for a relationship just because I see someone again. I’ve known some playmates for several years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat meets very difficult to find in my experience. Granted I could be crap in bed, but more likely because men always think there's something better round the corner. And I didn’t come here for a series of one-offs. Most disappointing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel akward in asking for a repeat - there are people I would love to repeate with "

Why feel awkward if you've already done it once, awkwardness shudnt be there, just come out with it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regular is ideal , saves the time wasted searching , and more relaxing and fulfilling times getting to know a fb , and hate the nerves and unexpected with a new contact , would leave site as soon as met fulfilling regular if compatible and good sex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeat meets very difficult to find in my experience. Granted I could be crap in bed, but more likely because men always think there's something better round the corner. And I didn’t come here for a series of one-offs. Most disappointing. "

This is exactly how I feel and why I've almost quit looking. They stay friends with you though as a back up if they can't get any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeat meets very difficult to find in my experience. Granted I could be crap in bed, but more likely because men always think there's something better round the corner. And I didn’t come here for a series of one-offs. Most disappointing.

This is exactly how I feel and why I've almost quit looking. They stay friends with you though as a back up if they can't get any. "

Haha how very true!

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Wife has a couple of guys she meets regular. But also loves her one off meets too

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I feel akward in asking for a repeat - there are people I would love to repeate with "
why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would much prefer regular meets.... get to know eachother..... try new things..... it's much more fun.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Repeat meets very difficult to find in my experience. Granted I could be crap in bed, but more likely because men always think there's something better round the corner. And I didn’t come here for a series of one-offs. Most disappointing.

This is exactly how I feel and why I've almost quit looking. They stay friends with you though as a back up if they can't get any. "

I've experienced this, they think the grass is greener, find out it isn't and want to meet again. I politely decline. I won't be anyone's booty call when they can't get it elsewhere and see me as their back up plan. It's insulting.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Repeat meets very difficult to find in my experience. Granted I could be crap in bed, but more likely because men always think there's something better round the corner. And I didn’t come here for a series of one-offs. Most disappointing.

This is exactly how I feel and why I've almost quit looking. They stay friends with you though as a back up if they can't get any. "

Yeah i unfriend them

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I understand a one off if you both are on holiday and live a few hundred of miles apart but most of my good sex is with people in a different country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just prefer a meet haha

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
over a year ago

Derby


"Who has said it’s a big deal?

I’ve got the impression on here that most like repeat meets because they say the sex gets better the more they get to know each other’s bodies."

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

I had a few that I met a couple of times or more & it got better each time. Then Frank came along & after a few months we naturally stopped meeting others as singles

B x

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

I think it can be down to the fear of getting attached to someone or someone getting attached to them that makes some just wanting one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be happy with just once, I don’t want to appear greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Why not ask for second meet ... Quite agree it does get better when you get to know each other's bodies.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

As for being a boot call hell no!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely "

Some that I've met when I first joined would say they wanted regular, never to be heard from again. That's part of the reason I insist on social meets first it we eds them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get asked for a second/third/fourth time. It doesn't always work out that we can meet regularly; due to free time and location.

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people enjoy the thrill of the chase as much as an actual meet.

Some people dangle meets like a carrot, but ultimately they enjoy the flattery of your attention but they have a far better offer that they are pursuing.

If they only ever intend things to be a one off, let them crack on. The worst thing you can do on here is devalue yourself for the sake of a fuck.

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I prefer regular! I don't go into anything thinking it will be a once off. I like building that bond, better sex

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I fully agree. When you've found a good few. Why do you need the rest?

Becoming massively disillusioned here as that was always my understanding "

Don’t be, there are ppl who want repeat meets, I only ever met if it was with a view to repeating. Obviously it may be that after meeting one or both of you don’t want to repeat, that’s life. I never met anyone who only wanted one offs there was no point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s life these days... and I have yet to successfully form anything regular with the right FB’s. A couple of lovely folk I’m hoping this will happen with at this moment in time, but I would never pin hopes on it - as in all my time on this site over these years, it’s yet to really properly happen. I don’t think regular FB’s scenarios exist as often as people idealise. Not in this day and age, sadly. I live in hope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* ducks * what about trying before you but though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely

Some that I've met when I first joined would say they wanted regular, never to be heard from again. That's part of the reason I insist on social meets first it we eds them out. "

I think when we first join, it's all new and we can be a little naive in our choosing. As we are on here for longer, we get a feel for the ones who are telling you what you want to hear, to meet you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Having seen the problems and misunderstandings that can occur when people meet more than once I can understand why people don't.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Some people enjoy the thrill of the chase as much as an actual meet.

Some people dangle meets like a carrot, but ultimately they enjoy the flattery of your attention but they have a far better offer that they are pursuing.

If they only ever intend things to be a one off, let them crack on. The worst thing you can do on here is devalue yourself for the sake of a fuck."

Oh i never would.... I'm just disillusioned with the attitude of only wanting a one off. I've had guys message me after saying I was on their bucket list as their fantasy fuck but they believe a fantasy should only happen once.......

Sex was easier in the 90's haha

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By *roticfunmanMan
over a year ago

the North

A regular connection helps build the dynamic .. and ensure you know what really works for each other .that said in a club is a touch different

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely "

The problem Ive found is they say the same but alas lie. Then you soon realise actions dont match the words. Then you realise they have many fingers in many pies. The truth doesnt always lie within the profile. Follow your instincts they are normally right.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Having seen the problems and misunderstandings that can occur when people meet more than once I can understand why people don't."

I can too, but it would be nice if they made it clear that they only want one off, that's fine, it's the ones that lie and say they want regular with no intention of it. At least we can make an informed choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely

The problem Ive found is they say the same but alas lie. Then you soon realise actions dont match the words. Then you realise they have many fingers in many pies. The truth doesnt always lie within the profile. Follow your instincts they are normally right. "

That's why I say it's not fool proof. You can't always trust what someone says on here. You are right. The gut instinct always plays a major part

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Having seen the problems and misunderstandings that can occur when people meet more than once I can understand why people don't.

I can too, but it would be nice if they made it clear that they only want one off, that's fine, it's the ones that lie and say they want regular with no intention of it. At least we can make an informed choice. "

And that's the problem. People lie to get sex, a partially informed choice is all you'll ever get. It's wise to assume that what you're being told is geared to getting you into bed once and no more.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

You can't beat a regular 'friend'. I don't really do one off's.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Having seen the problems and misunderstandings that can occur when people meet more than once I can understand why people don't.

I can too, but it would be nice if they made it clear that they only want one off, that's fine, it's the ones that lie and say they want regular with no intention of it. At least we can make an informed choice.

And that's the problem. People lie to get sex, a partially informed choice is all you'll ever get. It's wise to assume that what you're being told is geared to getting you into bed once and no more."

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Having seen the problems and misunderstandings that can occur when people meet more than once I can understand why people don't.

I can too, but it would be nice if they made it clear that they only want one off, that's fine, it's the ones that lie and say they want regular with no intention of it. At least we can make an informed choice. "

Yes this....its about informed choices with people who can be open and bloody honest.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Having seen the problems and misunderstandings that can occur when people meet more than once I can understand why people don't.

I can too, but it would be nice if they made it clear that they only want one off, that's fine, it's the ones that lie and say they want regular with no intention of it. At least we can make an informed choice.

And that's the problem. People lie to get sex, a partially informed choice is all you'll ever get. It's wise to assume that what you're being told is geared to getting you into bed once and no more. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? "

Repeated encounters are far better in my opinion. It takes a while to learn what makes the other tick so to speak. The first time is never as good as the tenth, inhibitions are lost as time goes by and you learn as you go as to how to make the other happy and I’m all about making a girl happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeat meets very difficult to find in my experience. Granted I could be crap in bed, but more likely because men always think there's something better round the corner. And I didn’t come here for a series of one-offs. Most disappointing.

This is exactly how I feel and why I've almost quit looking. They stay friends with you though as a back up if they can't get any.

Yeah i unfriend them "

This.. And I think a lot of people like the chase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanders in reads thread...

Sees so many saying they want more than one off meets and it always gets better as we learn each other.

Thinks I'm sure I have written that it something close to it so many times....and yet...

*smiles* introspectivly.

Wanders silently back into the man cave....

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

If it’s good, it’s good. And if it’s good, I want more.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Depends on the person. I've had great one offs, then the repeat hasn't lived up to the first time.

I've had one offs which were good but I wouldn't want to repeat.

And I've had repeats which get better and better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like Repeat NSA meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ideal is to find someone who wants to meet more than once but it’s a struggle to find someone who wants the same...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it’s good, it’s good. And if it’s good, I want more. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? "

Perhaps they are that bad sexualky they know you will never want to meet them again.

Maybe theu are subliminally warning you, that you will be let down.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We're not too concerned if it's one off or repeats. The kind of thing we enjoy needs a certain knowledge of each other but that's easily discussed socially. If it works out well and they want to repeat that's fine but the people we meet from here owe us nothing beyond discretion and respect and vice versa.

I can see no problem with a guy meeting other people then coming back, it's swinging that's how many people do it.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We had this conversation on a night out with two guys off here not long back.

I said no to a guy who wanted a second meet as it wasn’t all that and he then blocked me.

Don’t like to dent anyone’s ego but if it was wow then I would definitely go back for more.

Mrs M

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I also think that often with repeat meets one party is doing it because it's regular, guaranteed sex and the other because they like to feel a connection. That's when the trouble starts.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Wanders in reads thread...

Sees so many saying they want more than one off meets and it always gets better as we learn each other.

Thinks I'm sure I have written that it something close to it so many times....and yet...

*smiles* introspectivly.

Wanders silently back into the man cave.... "

Stop hiding then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! totally confused..... I'd prefer regular! Get to know what works for them. It's the serial one night stand syndrome "

If they are honest and say they only want a one night stand do you still fuck them, even if that's not what you want?

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! totally confused..... I'd prefer regular! Get to know what works for them. It's the serial one night stand syndrome

If they are honest and say they only want a one night stand do you still fuck them, even if that's not what you want?"

I say you can then make that call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! totally confused..... I'd prefer regular! Get to know what works for them. It's the serial one night stand syndrome

If they are honest and say they only want a one night stand do you still fuck them, even if that's not what you want?"

Only one person has only ever admitted to that, and I did because he was so hot! Also clubs are a different matter, as I don't live near any I don't expect repeat meets from those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think guys say it will be a one off because their experience of sleeping with the same person mulitiple times may have led to the females getting attached, if that's not something they want, it's safer and easier to just sleep with someone the once.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely

The problem Ive found is they say the same but alas lie. Then you soon realise actions dont match the words. Then you realise they have many fingers in many pies. The truth doesnt always lie within the profile. Follow your instincts they are normally right. "

But why wouldn't folk have their fingers in many pies? Surely it is the nature of the site, for men to be like a kid in a candy shop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely

The problem Ive found is they say the same but alas lie. Then you soon realise actions dont match the words. Then you realise they have many fingers in many pies. The truth doesnt always lie within the profile. Follow your instincts they are normally right.

But why wouldn't folk have their fingers in many pies? Surely it is the nature of the site, for men to be like a kid in a candy shop."
or women.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely

The problem Ive found is they say the same but alas lie. Then you soon realise actions dont match the words. Then you realise they have many fingers in many pies. The truth doesnt always lie within the profile. Follow your instincts they are normally right.

But why wouldn't folk have their fingers in many pies? Surely it is the nature of the site, for men to be like a kid in a candy shop. or women."

They wouldn't do such a thing surely? It's only the men who behave in such a manner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"* ducks * what about trying before you but though? "

This has to be how you approach sex off here. You can't commit to anything, in case you aren't sexually compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to try it before you buy it after you buy it there are 28 days to properly try it then you are fucked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular sex with same person.....oh boy

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Maybe that it always ends in one offs shows a weakness in you selection process? As seen on this thread not every man wants one offs and not every woman experiances the same as you (at least not as frequently). Maybe a rethink into to type of men or how you vet potential men may change this situation for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular sex with same person.....oh boy "

Exactly, aren’t we here to avoid that lol

Darlo oh Darlo lll

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely

The problem Ive found is they say the same but alas lie. Then you soon realise actions dont match the words. Then you realise they have many fingers in many pies. The truth doesnt always lie within the profile. Follow your instincts they are normally right.

But why wouldn't folk have their fingers in many pies? Surely it is the nature of the site, for men to be like a kid in a candy shop."

Nothing wrong with that...its about being honest, open with integrity. Some people have a lot to lose others nothing

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"You have to try it before you buy it after you buy it there are 28 days to properly try it then you are fucked! "

It's a refund policy

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely

The problem Ive found is they say the same but alas lie. Then you soon realise actions dont match the words. Then you realise they have many fingers in many pies. The truth doesnt always lie within the profile. Follow your instincts they are normally right.

But why wouldn't folk have their fingers in many pies? Surely it is the nature of the site, for men to be like a kid in a candy shop.

Nothing wrong with that...its about being honest, open with integrity. Some people have a lot to lose others nothing "

Honest folk on fab? Have a stepped into a parallel universe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are honest then it’s up for the other person to decide, however it’s not really acceptable not to treat people well and show everyone a little respect regardless of what our outlook on a particular scenario is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to try it before you buy it after you buy it there are 28 days to properly try it then you are fucked!

It's a refund policy "

Exactly! People are here to avoid having sex with the same person lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to try it before you buy it after you buy it there are 28 days to properly try it then you are fucked!

It's a refund policy

Exactly! People are here to avoid having sex with the same person lol "

Don't assume everyone is here for the same reason - people are here for all sorts of different things. I am by no means looking for monogamy but a few regular partners would not go amiss!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You have to try it before you buy it after you buy it there are 28 days to properly try it then you are fucked!

It's a refund policy

Exactly! People are here to avoid having sex with the same person lol

Don't assume everyone is here for the same reason - people are here for all sorts of different things. I am by no means looking for monogamy but a few regular partners would not go amiss! "

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

What is sex without a orgasm and pleaseing one another I know because its happened enough to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both.

Regular and one offs.

It's nice to feel wanted with regular meets and it becomes relaxed and less nerves.

But one offs give the surge of nerves and excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? "

I've been going back for over a year now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds?

I've been going back for over a year now "

Smug!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a relative newbie here this is really interesting, it hadn't occurred to me there would even be strongly held different perspectives on this. Maybe I'm more naive than I thought ! I definitely fall into the regular meets camp, getting to know someone and how they're body works is part of the package.....That said I'm here to try and find that without complications and the freedom to indulge in a one off if it drops in my lap from time to time as it were! Interesting.......certainly going to keep watching this one !

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Who has said it’s a big deal?

I’ve got the impression on here that most like repeat meets because they say the sex gets better the more they get to know each other’s bodies."

I was thinking the same.

Seems to me that 'for regular meets' is the norm rather than the exception.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Oh I'm all for variety..... that being said there's something to be said for regular and one offs my argument is how would you know it was only a one off before youve even got your kit off

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Oh I'm all for variety..... that being said there's something to be said for regular and one offs my argument is how would you know it was only a one off before youve even got your kit off "

There are no guarantees with any meet but if they’ve said it’s only one offs they want then there won’t be a repeat. Only meet those who are definitely looking for repeats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I'm all for variety..... that being said there's something to be said for regular and one offs my argument is how would you know it was only a one off before youve even got your kit off

There are no guarantees with any meet but if they’ve said it’s only one offs they want then there won’t be a repeat. Only meet those who are definitely looking for repeats "

No way of telling unfortunately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? "

We'd do it more than once with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone didn't want a repeat I would've worried I had been shocking.

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I dream of once ...

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Oh I'm all for variety..... that being said there's something to be said for regular and one offs my argument is how would you know it was only a one off before youve even got your kit off

There are no guarantees with any meet but if they’ve said it’s only one offs they want then there won’t be a repeat. Only meet those who are definitely looking for repeats

No way of telling unfortunately! "

Hmmm I seemed to manage it, maybe it was luck I don’t know, although I was pretty strict about how I met. I was on a chat site for a year prior to Fab, it was an education and definitely helped

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I dream of once ... "

I think I may leave the north east! It's very sexless and when they do want it they are one hit wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dream of once ...

I think I may leave the north east! It's very sexless and when they do want it they are one hit wonders "

Hop over the border

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I dream of once ...

I think I may leave the north east! It's very sexless and when they do want it they are one hit wonders

Hop over the border "

Haha it was only slightly better up there! Mind you slightly better is better than none!

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

You mean I'm allowed to have sex more than once? I thought it was a one time only thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I'm all for variety..... that being said there's something to be said for regular and one offs my argument is how would you know it was only a one off before youve even got your kit off

There are no guarantees with any meet but if they’ve said it’s only one offs they want then there won’t be a repeat. Only meet those who are definitely looking for repeats

No way of telling unfortunately!

Hmmm I seemed to manage it, maybe it was luck I don’t know, although I was pretty strict about how I met. I was on a chat site for a year prior to Fab, it was an education and definitely helped "

I have been on various NSA sites for 15+ years, so don't consider myself inexperienced. I use instinct as much as possible, but no way of predicting some people's behaviour.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Prefer seconds. And thirds. Fourths....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regular over one offs any day

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Oh I'm all for variety..... that being said there's something to be said for regular and one offs my argument is how would you know it was only a one off before youve even got your kit off

There are no guarantees with any meet but if they’ve said it’s only one offs they want then there won’t be a repeat. Only meet those who are definitely looking for repeats

No way of telling unfortunately!

Hmmm I seemed to manage it, maybe it was luck I don’t know, although I was pretty strict about how I met. I was on a chat site for a year prior to Fab, it was an education and definitely helped

I have been on various NSA sites for 15+ years, so don't consider myself inexperienced. I use instinct as much as possible, but no way of predicting some people's behaviour."

I expect I would have had the same issue in time then. To be fair I hardly got started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

repeats are the bees knees -

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely

Some that I've met when I first joined would say they wanted regular, never to be heard from again. That's part of the reason I insist on social meets first it we eds them out.

I think when we first join, it's all new and we can be a little naive in our choosing. As we are on here for longer, we get a feel for the ones who are telling you what you want to hear, to meet you "

Very true

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely

The problem Ive found is they say the same but alas lie. Then you soon realise actions dont match the words. Then you realise they have many fingers in many pies. The truth doesnt always lie within the profile. Follow your instincts they are normally right.

But why wouldn't folk have their fingers in many pies? Surely it is the nature of the site, for men to be like a kid in a candy shop.

Nothing wrong with that...its about being honest, open with integrity. Some people have a lot to lose others nothing

Honest folk on fab? Have a stepped into a parallel universe?

"

The world of fab coexisting with and having certain similiarities to the real world but different from it in some fundamental way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile.

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham


"I dream of once ...

I think I may leave the north east! It's very sexless and when they do want it they are one hit wonders "

Yes I think the east Midlands would be much better. We appreciate a good posing suit here heh heh

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile. "

Secret meets which must not be told...it all happens here within these forum walls..can you believe that hah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile.

Secret meets which must not be told...it all happens here within these forum walls..can you believe that hah x"

What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No big deal. I've met plenty for sex on more than one occasion. Not fwb or fb type relationship. We have sex. Have a great time. Go our separate ways. No expectation of anything in between... until we next fancy sex.

It can be found but not with just anyone. That's why it takes me months to suss out a new potential meet. I always pick someone with the same expectations as me. It works brilliantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're not too concerned if it's one off or repeats. The kind of thing we enjoy needs a certain knowledge of each other but that's easily discussed socially. If it works out well and they want to repeat that's fine but the people we meet from here owe us nothing beyond discretion and respect and vice versa.

I can see no problem with a guy meeting other people then coming back, it's swinging that's how many people do it.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy both. I am addicted to the feeling of the first time I see and touch a new guy. The build up to meeting someone for the first time and how different being with different guys really is.

I also love meeting someone time and again, the sex gets better and you learn how people like it.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? "

I agree completely. If you click, have good chemistry with that person and the sex is good, why not want a repeat? Seems a no brainer to be honest.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! totally confused..... I'd prefer regular! Get to know what works for them. It's the serial one night stand syndrome "

At least they're being honest up front... some will pretend they want something regular. Gives you the power to decide if you still want to meet them or not

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to try it before you buy it after you buy it there are 28 days to properly try it then you are fucked!

It's a refund policy

Exactly! People are here to avoid having sex with the same person lol "

No they aren't. I've been having sex with someone from here, regularly, for over a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile. "

From the same person?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know."

Oh Clem you tease.... you know I have the veil bought and save the day cards sent out Mummy sends her love by the way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile.

From the same person?"

Same one or different people.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know.

Oh Clem you tease.... you know I have the veil bought and save the day cards sent out Mummy sends her love by the way.... "

I'm not surprised.. she nearly wore my cock off last time!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know.

Oh Clem you tease.... you know I have the veil bought and save the day cards sent out Mummy sends her love by the way....

I'm not surprised.. she nearly wore my cock off last time! "

Well you did bring her flowers....

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know.

Oh Clem you tease.... you know I have the veil bought and save the day cards sent out Mummy sends her love by the way....

I'm not surprised.. she nearly wore my cock off last time!

Well you did bring her flowers.... "

I'm not made of stone!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know."

Not really. Doesn't mean we want you in our life's, doesn't mean we want to wash your socks or iron your shirt, doesn't mean a lot.

Often men think they know what we think without asking the question. Why cant men just except the fact that sometimes it's just about having fun with someone more than once or twice. About being bloody honest and not full of bull shit lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know.

Not really. Doesn't mean we want you in our life's, doesn't mean we want to wash your socks or iron your shirt, doesn't mean a lot.

Often men think they know what we think without asking the question. Why cant men just except the fact that sometimes it's just about having fun with someone more than once or twice. About being bloody honest and not full of bull shit lies. "

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know.

Not really. Doesn't mean we want you in our life's, doesn't mean we want to wash your socks or iron your shirt, doesn't mean a lot.

Often men think they know what we think without asking the question. Why cant men just except the fact that sometimes it's just about having fun with someone more than once or twice. About being bloody honest and not full of bull shit lies. "

Does someone need a hug? Deep breaths gal, deep breaths..... and breathe.. there.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know.

Not really. Doesn't mean we want you in our life's, doesn't mean we want to wash your socks or iron your shirt, doesn't mean a lot.

Often men think they know what we think without asking the question. Why cant men just except the fact that sometimes it's just about having fun with someone more than once or twice. About being bloody honest and not full of bull shit lies.

Does someone need a hug? Deep breaths gal, deep breaths..... and breathe.. there. "

Hah hah this is me calm believe it or not....but go on then thats an offer I can't refuse right now.

Unfortunately I dont tolerant liers its a weakness of mine. My ex lied to me for 8 years at the end of the relationship I didn't even know what was true and what wasn't anymore.

What does round comes round....thats all Im saying. x

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By *erynaughtyMan
over a year ago

Derby

There's no written or unwritten rules on how many times. I had a very kinky morning meet with a naughty lady, the next day I got a message from her to say she had 5 more meets after me because she felt so horny. That's exactly what this site is about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had guys message me after saying I was on their bucket list as their fantasy fuck but they believe a fantasy should only happen once......."

Lunacy. If the reality lives up to the fantasy, why would anybody *not* want a repeat?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know.

Not really. Doesn't mean we want you in our life's, doesn't mean we want to wash your socks or iron your shirt, doesn't mean a lot.

Often men think they know what we think without asking the question. Why cant men just except the fact that sometimes it's just about having fun with someone more than once or twice. About being bloody honest and not full of bull shit lies.

Does someone need a hug? Deep breaths gal, deep breaths..... and breathe.. there.

Hah hah this is me calm believe it or not....but go on then thats an offer I can't refuse right now.

Unfortunately I dont tolerant liers its a weakness of mine. My ex lied to me for 8 years at the end of the relationship I didn't even know what was true and what wasn't anymore.

What does round comes round....thats all Im saying. x "

You'll have to find a marine. You're well outside of my half hour meet sphere. But seriously, last woman i met was immediately when can we meet again? When ? when? WHEN? Had to block. Even the Mrs was perplexed, she's knows I'm a shit in the sack!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying "

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect?

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect? "

Expect nothing, hope for fun x

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! totally confused..... I'd prefer regular! Get to know what works for them. It's the serial one night stand syndrome "

I'd prefer regular. OK, I'd like a meet 1st (been a while!)

More regular = #helpagirlout success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always work towards a fun regular. It's worked for me before so I know it can be done. The sex gets better as you get to know each others desires and fantasies, and it can be kept on just a sexual level. A one off is little better than a wank for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile.

From the same person?

Same one or different people. "

Does that make you think they will fall for you if you met them, or just want a one off?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know.

Not really. Doesn't mean we want you in our life's, doesn't mean we want to wash your socks or iron your shirt, doesn't mean a lot.

Often men think they know what we think without asking the question. Why cant men just except the fact that sometimes it's just about having fun with someone more than once or twice. About being bloody honest and not full of bull shit lies. "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Depends on the person. I've had great one offs, then the repeat hasn't lived up to the first time.

I've had one offs which were good but I wouldn't want to repeat.

And I've had repeats which get better and better.

"

Yes, I try to avoid meeting anyone who isn't 'open' to repeat meeting, and by hook or by crook you can tell. Either I choose well or I'm lucky because I've never had anyone who didn't ask to meet again, but in the end there are very few who I want to continue meeting regularly.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Oh my, what an interesting read

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! totally confused..... I'd prefer regular! Get to know what works for them. It's the serial one night stand syndrome

I'd prefer regular. OK, I'd like a meet 1st (been a while!)

More regular = #helpagirlout success. "

Awww I could kiss you! Yep in a nutshell yes! 2018 is sitting at an abysmal zero!

Zero hugs

Zero oral orgasms

It needs to make a change imminently!

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I've had guys message me after saying I was on their bucket list as their fantasy fuck but they believe a fantasy should only happen once.......

Lunacy. If the reality lives up to the fantasy, why would anybody *not* want a repeat? "

Cos I'm fast finding that men are broken

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Oh my, what an interesting read "

and you have a few more surprises coming your way yet

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! totally confused..... I'd prefer regular! Get to know what works for them. It's the serial one night stand syndrome

I'd prefer regular. OK, I'd like a meet 1st (been a while!)

More regular = #helpagirlout success.

Awww I could kiss you! Yep in a nutshell yes! 2018 is sitting at an abysmal zero!

Zero hugs

Zero oral orgasms

It needs to make a change imminently!

"

You know where I am! I'd love to #helpagirlout

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Oh my, what an interesting read

and you have a few more surprises coming your way yet "

I do? Me personally or the forum in general?

I'm a bit confused....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect? "

Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile.

From the same person?

Same one or different people.

Does that make you think they will fall for you if you met them, or just want a one off?"

Crikey no they wouldn't fall for me. They're just looking for a different type of person, not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the rare occasions that we agree to meet someone, it’s with the view of having a semi regular arrangement. It’s never been questioned.

Mrs

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By *heekytradesman46Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Well in my experience regular fun with some1 leads to much better sex than a one nighter! All about connection an knowing what each other likes an enjoys

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Some peeps have a one meet rule so as not to develop feelings. Or.... they say it so not to offend the other person if they don't want to meet them again.

I'm gonna break Hatters one meet rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the person. I've had great one offs, then the repeat hasn't lived up to the first time.

I've had one offs which were good but I wouldn't want to repeat.

And I've had repeats which get better and better.

Yes, I try to avoid meeting anyone who isn't 'open' to repeat meeting, and by hook or by crook you can tell. Either I choose well or I'm lucky because I've never had anyone who didn't ask to meet again, but in the end there are very few who I want to continue meeting regularly.

"

You have to be realistic. Nothing lasts forever, but while it's fun for both it's worth pursuing..

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect?

Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple?"

Not so much a hatred for singles, just noticed that there's alot of singles on here who seem surprised with how swinging actually works! No strings fun didn't have enough strings attached, a man asked if he could suck my cock, now i feel dirty. Someone touched me in a club without written permission so i glassed them. I went to a club and saw 2 guys kissing now I'm complaining to my local MP. A man fucked me and didn't want to do it again even though i sent 346 texts. I saw a woman with multiple verifications and they WEREN'T from a forum social! Etc etc..... and on and on

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect?

Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple?

Not so much a hatred for singles, just noticed that there's alot of singles on here who seem surprised with how swinging actually works! No strings fun didn't have enough strings attached, a man asked if he could suck my cock, now i feel dirty. Someone touched me in a club without written permission so i glassed them. I went to a club and saw 2 guys kissing now I'm complaining to my local MP. A man fucked me and didn't want to do it again even though i sent 346 texts. I saw a woman with multiple verifications and they WEREN'T from a forum social! Etc etc..... and on and on "

But not everyone are swingers are they! This one meet rule, nsa whatever whatever etc its all great and fine but just say it before just be bloody honest. Treat others how you would like to be treated, so we can make informed decisions based on that truth...

People think they can use people and its just ok, well it's not what the hell is wrong with some people.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect?

Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple?

Not so much a hatred for singles, just noticed that there's alot of singles on here who seem surprised with how swinging actually works! No strings fun didn't have enough strings attached, a man asked if he could suck my cock, now i feel dirty. Someone touched me in a club without written permission so i glassed them. I went to a club and saw 2 guys kissing now I'm complaining to my local MP. A man fucked me and didn't want to do it again even though i sent 346 texts. I saw a woman with multiple verifications and they WEREN'T from a forum social! Etc etc..... and on and on

But not everyone are swingers are they! This one meet rule, nsa whatever whatever etc its all great and fine but just say it before just be bloody honest. Treat others how you would like to be treated, so we can make informed decisions based on that truth...

People think they can use people and its just ok, well it's not what the hell is wrong with some people. "

What is wrong, is that people think they want nsa. When actually they want a relationship.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect?

Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple?

Not so much a hatred for singles, just noticed that there's alot of singles on here who seem surprised with how swinging actually works! No strings fun didn't have enough strings attached, a man asked if he could suck my cock, now i feel dirty. Someone touched me in a club without written permission so i glassed them. I went to a club and saw 2 guys kissing now I'm complaining to my local MP. A man fucked me and didn't want to do it again even though i sent 346 texts. I saw a woman with multiple verifications and they WEREN'T from a forum social! Etc etc..... and on and on

But not everyone are swingers are they! This one meet rule, nsa whatever whatever etc its all great and fine but just say it before just be bloody honest. Treat others how you would like to be treated, so we can make informed decisions based on that truth...

People think they can use people and its just ok, well it's not what the hell is wrong with some people.

What is wrong, is that people think they want nsa. When actually they want a relationship. "

Right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect?

Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple?

Not so much a hatred for singles, just noticed that there's alot of singles on here who seem surprised with how swinging actually works! No strings fun didn't have enough strings attached, a man asked if he could suck my cock, now i feel dirty. Someone touched me in a club without written permission so i glassed them. I went to a club and saw 2 guys kissing now I'm complaining to my local MP. A man fucked me and didn't want to do it again even though i sent 346 texts. I saw a woman with multiple verifications and they WEREN'T from a forum social! Etc etc..... and on and on "

So how does swinging actually work then?

I've seen all your examples stated by people in couples over the last few years. Not just by singles.

I've seen married men complaining that men kept messaging their wife when the husband asked them not to. Is that what Swinging is?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Don't have sex, it's safer.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect?

Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple?

Not so much a hatred for singles, just noticed that there's alot of singles on here who seem surprised with how swinging actually works! No strings fun didn't have enough strings attached, a man asked if he could suck my cock, now i feel dirty. Someone touched me in a club without written permission so i glassed them. I went to a club and saw 2 guys kissing now I'm complaining to my local MP. A man fucked me and didn't want to do it again even though i sent 346 texts. I saw a woman with multiple verifications and they WEREN'T from a forum social! Etc etc..... and on and on

So how does swinging actually work then?

I've seen all your examples stated by people in couples over the last few years. Not just by singles.

I've seen married men complaining that men kept messaging their wife when the husband asked them not to. Is that what Swinging is? "

Yeah, it's a fucking minefield isn't it!? Too many people watching fifty shades and eyes wide shut? There's just one rule that holds true. The single woman is ALWAYS right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to sit on your face, Clem.

#singlelady

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Don't have sex, it's safer."

Just have sex at clubs. Sooooo much simpler.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I want to sit on your face, Clem.

#singlelady"

Of course you do, you're not made of wood are you?!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Don't have sex, it's safer.

Just have sex at clubs. Sooooo much simpler. "

Not at bridge club surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect?

Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple?

Not so much a hatred for singles, just noticed that there's alot of singles on here who seem surprised with how swinging actually works! No strings fun didn't have enough strings attached, a man asked if he could suck my cock, now i feel dirty. Someone touched me in a club without written permission so i glassed them. I went to a club and saw 2 guys kissing now I'm complaining to my local MP. A man fucked me and didn't want to do it again even though i sent 346 texts. I saw a woman with multiple verifications and they WEREN'T from a forum social! Etc etc..... and on and on

So how does swinging actually work then?

I've seen all your examples stated by people in couples over the last few years. Not just by singles.

I've seen married men complaining that men kept messaging their wife when the husband asked them not to. Is that what Swinging is?

Yeah, it's a fucking minefield isn't it!? Too many people watching fifty shades and eyes wide shut? There's just one rule that holds true. The single woman is ALWAYS right... "

You're wrong darling... the wife is always right. Single women know Jack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect?

Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple?

Not so much a hatred for singles, just noticed that there's alot of singles on here who seem surprised with how swinging actually works! No strings fun didn't have enough strings attached, a man asked if he could suck my cock, now i feel dirty. Someone touched me in a club without written permission so i glassed them. I went to a club and saw 2 guys kissing now I'm complaining to my local MP. A man fucked me and didn't want to do it again even though i sent 346 texts. I saw a woman with multiple verifications and they WEREN'T from a forum social! Etc etc..... and on and on

So how does swinging actually work then?

I've seen all your examples stated by people in couples over the last few years. Not just by singles.

I've seen married men complaining that men kept messaging their wife when the husband asked them not to. Is that what Swinging is?

Yeah, it's a fucking minefield isn't it!? Too many people watching fifty shades and eyes wide shut? There's just one rule that holds true. The single woman is ALWAYS right... "

No wonder you're always pissed off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to sit on your face, Clem.

#singlelady

Of course you do, you're not made of wood are you?!"

I’ve been known to have a little wood inside me

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Don't have sex, it's safer.

Just have sex at clubs. Sooooo much simpler.

Not at bridge club surely? "

Don't rule it out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect?

Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple?

Not so much a hatred for singles, just noticed that there's alot of singles on here who seem surprised with how swinging actually works! No strings fun didn't have enough strings attached, a man asked if he could suck my cock, now i feel dirty. Someone touched me in a club without written permission so i glassed them. I went to a club and saw 2 guys kissing now I'm complaining to my local MP. A man fucked me and didn't want to do it again even though i sent 346 texts. I saw a woman with multiple verifications and they WEREN'T from a forum social! Etc etc..... and on and on

So how does swinging actually work then?

I've seen all your examples stated by people in couples over the last few years. Not just by singles.

I've seen married men complaining that men kept messaging their wife when the husband asked them not to. Is that what Swinging is?

Yeah, it's a fucking minefield isn't it!? Too many people watching fifty shades and eyes wide shut? There's just one rule that holds true. The single woman is ALWAYS right...

You're wrong darling... the wife is always right. Single women know Jack"

It’s true. We all have Jack on speed dial.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect?

Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple?

Not so much a hatred for singles, just noticed that there's alot of singles on here who seem surprised with how swinging actually works! No strings fun didn't have enough strings attached, a man asked if he could suck my cock, now i feel dirty. Someone touched me in a club without written permission so i glassed them. I went to a club and saw 2 guys kissing now I'm complaining to my local MP. A man fucked me and didn't want to do it again even though i sent 346 texts. I saw a woman with multiple verifications and they WEREN'T from a forum social! Etc etc..... and on and on

So how does swinging actually work then?

I've seen all your examples stated by people in couples over the last few years. Not just by singles.

I've seen married men complaining that men kept messaging their wife when the husband asked them not to. Is that what Swinging is?

Yeah, it's a fucking minefield isn't it!? Too many people watching fifty shades and eyes wide shut? There's just one rule that holds true. The single woman is ALWAYS right...

No wonder you're always pissed off. "

The strings weren't stringy enough..

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I want to sit on your face, Clem.

#singlelady

Of course you do, you're not made of wood are you?!

I’ve been known to have a little wood inside me "

Ah i was wondering about that bed knob..

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol.

Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying

You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect?

Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple?

Not so much a hatred for singles, just noticed that there's alot of singles on here who seem surprised with how swinging actually works! No strings fun didn't have enough strings attached, a man asked if he could suck my cock, now i feel dirty. Someone touched me in a club without written permission so i glassed them. I went to a club and saw 2 guys kissing now I'm complaining to my local MP. A man fucked me and didn't want to do it again even though i sent 346 texts. I saw a woman with multiple verifications and they WEREN'T from a forum social! Etc etc..... and on and on

So how does swinging actually work then?

I've seen all your examples stated by people in couples over the last few years. Not just by singles.

I've seen married men complaining that men kept messaging their wife when the husband asked them not to. Is that what Swinging is?

Yeah, it's a fucking minefield isn't it!? Too many people watching fifty shades and eyes wide shut? There's just one rule that holds true. The single woman is ALWAYS right...

No wonder you're always pissed off. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to sit on your face, Clem.

#singlelady

Of course you do, you're not made of wood are you?!

I’ve been known to have a little wood inside me

Ah i was wondering about that bed knob.."

He was called Jack. Stop acting out because you’re jealous.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Don't have sex, it's safer.

Just have sex at clubs. Sooooo much simpler.

Not at bridge club surely?

Don't rule it out... "

I may look into joining the local WI. Scissor sisters or mercy.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I want to sit on your face, Clem.

#singlelady

Of course you do, you're not made of wood are you?!

I’ve been known to have a little wood inside me

Ah i was wondering about that bed knob..

He was called Jack. Stop acting out because you’re jealous. "

And pissed off, don't forget that bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to sit on your face, Clem.

#singlelady

Of course you do, you're not made of wood are you?!

I’ve been known to have a little wood inside me

Ah i was wondering about that bed knob..

He was called Jack. Stop acting out because you’re jealous.

And pissed off, don't forget that bit. "

Awww baby, I’m always here to give you a disinterested handjob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? "

It's only ok if the man says so. Otherwise it's not swinging.

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