FabSwingers.com forum: Lust v love ...

By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I think lust top trumps love every time.. that raw, animal feeling is just the best thing.

So how does lust feel to you?

Or are you more of a lovey dovey romantic?

Do tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think lust top trumps love every time.. that raw, animal feeling is just the best thing.

So how does lust feel to you?

Or are you more of a lovey dovey romantic?

Do tell "

Good thread. This confuses me, I've loved someone but not lusted them and I've lusted someone and the sex has been amazing but I never fell in love with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its definitely Lust at first sight not love at first sight for sure

Lust is my preference.... love didnt work out too well once the lust had gotten up and buggered off!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust any time...

Love is bollocks.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You’re all cynics!

Love every time. Nothing beats that feeling of emotional and physical security you feel with someone you love.

But then lust comes easy to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust is short lived.

Real love lasts much longer.

But both together are pretty damn good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust at 1st sight can make my minge contract, love is more a warm & fuzzy feeling..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a place for both, with the right person(s). I'm always hopeful I'll find someone I totally fall in love with, but lust after every day for the rest of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lust is short lived.

Real love lasts much longer.

But both together are pretty damn good."

That's hard to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been told many times now that lust won't last. I'm to stop being in lust with guys.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I like the idea of love but I'm not sure it's for me - lust will do very nicely thanks.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Nothing better than lust filled love!

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

Lust we forget led to love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re not mutually exclusive, I love mr and lust after him as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing better than lust filled love!

So agree here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is love selfish? Isn't sharing caring?

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

You can't beat fucklust

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
over a year ago

warrinton

"They’re not mutually exclusive, I love mr and lust after him as well x "

I agree completely im the luckiest guy on Earth because i have found both true love and lust in Europa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

I want passionate, lustful love.

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By *r and Mrs P SandCouple
over a year ago

South West

You can have both...just need to find 'the one' for you.

I'm lucky I have,I'm head over heels and in lust with my Mr

(Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh good question, naturally I ‘loved’ my first husband because I married him and stayed married to him for quite a while but the love I have for Ads is 100% different to anything I have ever felt, so I look at my first marriage and wonder was it more lust? I went to school with him and then met up with him again about a year or so after we left and then got married about two months after that, I do question which I was in love or lust? I knew him but didn’t know him that well when we married, we got engaged and then married with in two weeks (that’s when you could back then) of that happening and it was on the back of an argument! I think I was scared of being alone and he was my first proper boyfriend, the first boy/man that I ever went out with on a date, I was only 20 when we married. I think I grew to love him or just settle for what I had, then he fell apart and a year later I met Ads and it’s completely different, the feelings I have I’ve never felt before. I don’t know if any of that made sense lol. With Ads I want to look after him, I want to be the best I can be for him, we actually like the same things, we can be silly around each other and I can say some pretty stupid shit to him and he never makes fun of me for being a bit thick, even 2 years later my heart gets all in a flutter when I am waiting for him to come home, I get miserable if I don’t hear from him all day due to that thing called work, he is my everything!!

Geeky x

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By *attooe bitchCouple
over a year ago

blackwood

I got both with the one guy and it feels right and amazing tbh but i dont wanna blow it xx

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We have both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often confuse the two, but enjoy the intensity of lust.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Both...passionate lushy love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cuddle after sex with someone you love feels much better than a cuddle with someone you lust after..... unless it's the same person

then I'm chatting shite lol

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"They’re not mutually exclusive, I love mr and lust after him as well x "

Well said.

Every time Mrs gets out of bed I still have a cheeky look at her naked body and instantly want her, the listing has never disappeared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a place for both, with the right person(s). I'm always hopeful I'll find someone I totally fall in love with, but lust after every day for the rest of time

This is very true and can happen

P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fortunate enough to have both with my Mr. Also! Although I feel it's a different lust to when we first met... I feel it deeper into my stomach like a gripping, pulling feeling when I look at him.

Lust with other 'new' people feels like that heady, butterflies feeling... does that make sense? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust is good but for me it’s a moment, it is an expression of a need.

Love is more all encompassing - it carries you through when things are hard. It lets you fly when things are good. It surrounds you and keeps you safe and warm emotionally.

Love isn’t pressure or expectation other than you give your true self to the other person completely. When you get that back from them it’s so addictive.

Yes I am a softie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust all the time for me such a great but weird feeling

. As for love dont believe I’ve ever been in love tbh I mean I’ve loved someone of corse but never been in love with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have love with one but no lust and love and lust with my fwb.

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