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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab?

It seems many use fab for one thing and look elsewhere for romance.

Could the two not be combined? Surely dating someone sexually liberated is a good thing?

Do you assume everyone here is only looking to swing and just not see them as a viable option? Is it an intentional no go zone and if so why?

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

If one day I actually get a meet and me and that person get on who knows what could happen and if most certainly not rule out a relationship

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Yes. Totally.

Many of my socials have felt like better dates than *real* dates !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, absolutley I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way I'd have a relationship with someone on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmmm...

No.

I'm not sure if I'm open to a relationship anymore.

But if someone I really liked came along then I don't think I'd want to share them.

And the double standard here is that I don't think I could be monogamous either

Also being on Fab and another hook up site back in the day has made me distrustful of people.

So I'm not sure if I'm looking for something more than sex elsewhere either - because most of them are on here cheating on their partners!

Yes it's cynical - but It's also realistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab?

It seems many use fab for one thing and look elsewhere for romance.

Could the two not be combined? Surely dating someone sexually liberated is a good thing?

Do you assume everyone here is only looking to swing and just not see them as a viable option? Is it an intentional no go zone and if so why? "
I know two couples who married from meeting on these sites and many partnerships,many find it a more honest environment to find a life partner and those people really do take into consideration the veris

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I think it's entirely possible to meet someone on here, and go on to have a relationship, there's more than enough couples already as proof of that.

If you're compatible, enjoy the same things, respect each others choices, obviously don't have hang ups about this lifestyle, then it seems the ideal place (for those looking) to find a partner, probably more so than in the 'vanilla' world.

Imagine meeting your dream date, falling head over heels, telling him/her you're a swinger or give it up, but eventually tell them & getting dumped.

Finding someone on here seems quite logical to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to have a swinging relationship, I had one for 5 years when I was married and it would be my idea of heaven to make other couples for friends and to play alone as we did before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are regulars at Townhouse & know a few couples who have met at the club & got together ... I suppose, because it’s kind of like having a local pub where you can swing too, it’s a bit different than online meets, but it could definitely work!

There’s even a speed dating night in January at Townhouse - it’s the second one & it was loads of fun last time, even just for getting to know people!!

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Both of us met with no intention of anything other than regular fun but then 4 weeks after meeting.....BOOM!!!! And we haven’t looked backed since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met here

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I can’t see why it wouldn’t work, lovely people are lovely no matter where you find them

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I have in the past. While I’d not completely rule it out at a future point, things would have to be very open and honest for me to even consider it and the timing right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way I'd have a relationship with someone on Fab. "

Why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab?

It seems many use fab for one thing and look elsewhere for romance.

Could the two not be combined? Surely dating someone sexually liberated is a good thing?

Do you assume everyone here is only looking to swing and just not see them as a viable option? Is it an intentional no go zone and if so why? "

I love the happy stories.

I wouldn't have a relationship with anyone off here because I'm not the partner they're looking for. It's an intentional no way.

Also people will say anything for a fuck. Yes some are honest but I wouldn't believe them.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab? "

Yes i wood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely have a relationship with someone from Fab as opposed to someone from a dating site and I don’t mean for swinging relationship reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not. When i'm in a relationship i'm a one man woman and i expect to be the only woman in his life. I'd happily leave Fab and never come back. But I doubt many men who join this site, and who are truly single, would be happy to give up the adoration of the many females (because they usually have more than one gal on the go, to keep their options open), the tit pics, fanny pics, sexts, filthy emails, cam chats, skype, the thought of threesomes, moresomes, for just one woman on the off chance that their dating would lead somewhere.

Men see a single lady on here as an opportunity to get into clubs, to get access to couples, to fulfill their fantasies of FFM. They don't think she looks like a lass i could settle down with and live happily ever after with.

Although i'm happy to be proved wrong.

And yes folk do meet and marry on here, but they usually go on to have couple profiles.

I wouldn't want that. I'm not here to "swing" i'm here to fill the gap in my sex life until i meet a man i can see myself dating and who's willing to keep his dick just for me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If I really got on with them and fancied them and we decided to be 'exclusive' or have a vanilla relationship then I probably would.

On the other hand, if I'd read them in the forums or in chat or read their 'history' in veris........ it could make me think twice...... or cement the deal.

No vanilla relationship has such an insight to each other.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"I would definitely have a relationship with someone from Fab as opposed to someone from a dating site and I don’t mean for swinging relationship reasons "
non fab date ?

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Yes I definitely would albeit cautiously. I had a swinging relationship with my ex but he still lied and cheated

I’m not sure someone vanilla would really ‘get’ me enough to have a sustainable relationship. If I told them the kind of things I do and like they’d say I’m a freak. I am but hey I’m a nice freak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would definitely have a relationship with someone from Fab as opposed to someone from a dating site and I don’t mean for swinging relationship reasons non fab date ?

Love to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I really got on with them and fancied them and we decided to be 'exclusive' or have a vanilla relationship then I probably would.

On the other hand, if I'd read them in the forums or in chat or read their 'history' in veris........ it could make me think twice...... or cement the deal.

No vanilla relationship has such an insight to each other. "
awwww I love vanilla ice cream

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Most definitely would x

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yeah its a possbility. At least you both have something in common. You just got to know where to possibly draw a line and not go over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done and would again, if the time was right. Right now, I just don't have the time to invest in a relationship, so my regular fwb suits me fine

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yeah I would. I'm. Not bothered what forums or websites they post on it's more to do with the person they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab?

It seems many use fab for one thing and look elsewhere for romance.

Could the two not be combined? Surely dating someone sexually liberated is a good thing?

Do you assume everyone here is only looking to swing and just not see them as a viable option? Is it an intentional no go zone and if so why? "

I wouldn’t ringfence in advance where I would or would not look for someone.

If I met someone I would like to have a relationship with, who clicked and sparked with me and we wanted to organically explore it on a deeper level, both with the same intent — then I’d want to do that whether via this site or not. The site doesn’t dictate the person and there are many different people on this site, the dynamic between me and the person is what is important.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Sure. But I'm being the only vagina he is going near. I don't share but you already know this

You love who you love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure. But I'm being the only vagina he is going near. I don't share but you already know this

You love who you love

Ode to divorce - Regina Spektor

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We met here and works for us

We still enjoy the lifestyle and are also meeting seperately too

I think more people are open to it than you'd think.

Miss

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Sure. But I'm being the only vagina he is going near. I don't share but you already know this

You love who you love

Ode to divorce - Regina Spektor "

Something about planes? Another invitation happened

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes. I think.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

at the moment it looks like it would be easier to have a date on here than on dating sites... they are more after sex and less willing to have socials /dates lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont see why not...

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

yes I would as a vanilla relationship does not work with me

having spent my previous relationships as a cuckold means I'm destined for the same again

and fab is ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure. But I'm being the only vagina he is going near. I don't share but you already know this

You love who you love

Ode to divorce - Regina Spektor

Something about planes? Another invitation happened

I’m leaving on a jet plane!!

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

Yes I would ...if we got on and it wouldn’t bother me if we met on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I definitely would, by us both being on this site is a common interest straight away, if they then asked me to leave the site then I'd do it

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By *rated-BaconMan
over a year ago

medway

100% would.

Sex is a big part of our lives so why on earth I wouldn't consider it with someone who shares this side of it with me is beyond me

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

IF I was open to a relationship, it most likely would be with a fellow Fabber. I'd want to be completely honest with someone and build the relationship on a foundation of mutual respect and trust. If I were to start dating someone vanilla seriously, I'd already be lying by keeping my Fab history from them and that's no way to begin something.

But I'm not open to one anyway...

So its a moot point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined Fab for sex initially but since the summer my views have changed a little in the way that I have found myself enjoying the social side more especialy when you get into full conversation with someone that you share a mutual atraction with and the chemistry is there too.

So with that I would say that I would be very much open to the idea of getting into a relationship with someone I've met through Fab

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Sure. But I'm being the only vagina he is going near. I don't share but you already know this

You love who you love

Ode to divorce - Regina Spektor

Something about planes? Another invitation happened

I’m leaving on a jet plane!!

It almost happened

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Been there. Didn't work out for various reasons. Never say never again but it would take a lot of trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would consider someone from anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would consider someone from anywhere. "

This for me too.

I don’t think it matters where you meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"IF I was open to a relationship, it most likely would be with a fellow Fabber. I'd want to be completely honest with someone and build the relationship on a foundation of mutual respect and trust. If I were to start dating someone vanilla seriously, I'd already be lying by keeping my Fab history from them and that's no way to begin something.

But I'm not open to one anyway...

So its a moot point

"
sensing their may be room for manouvre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not looking for a relationship at the moment but that doesn’t mean something won’t happen and I’d rather they were sexual and open minded than not

I certainly wouldn’t rule out someone from Fab

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

"If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab?

I'm open minded to it but (from what couples have said)swinging relationships just seem like too much hard work

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Don't think it really matters where you meet somebody if you click you click and sooner or later it all turns to shit. It's the circle of life....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm open to dating via fab, it's just that I'm very happy as single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and nicky met on here and are now in a relationship and we've been together nearly a year now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would just take honesty .. as long as both parties were happy then why not !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, absolutley I would"

This

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"If you are open to a relationship would you consider someone from fab?

It seems many use fab for one thing and look elsewhere for romance.

Could the two not be combined? Surely dating someone sexually liberated is a good thing?

Do you assume everyone here is only looking to swing and just not see them as a viable option? Is it an intentional no go zone and if so why? "

Definitely open to it.

First and foremost I want to meet someone who is sexual. A girl being on Fab, would imply to me that she is.

Good start.

That's the trouble with the conventional dating sites, you can't ask this stuff from the outset.

It's important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m open to anything, you never know who you’re going to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't think it really matters where you meet somebody if you click you click and sooner or later it all turns to shit. It's the circle of life...."

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"Don't think it really matters where you meet somebody if you click you click and sooner or later it all turns to shit. It's the circle of life....

Yeah... it seems hard to argue with that.

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