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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

has anyone ever lost there partner though the swinging scene, or is it just me its happend to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I suspect there are others too

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not just me then lol feel better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't say how long you've been together. Was yours a long standing relationship/marriage that existed before you decided to swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not just me then lol feel better now"

That didn't sound very nice, you feel better because others have suffered, I think I know what you meant though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am glad it worked for me never been happier...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am glad it worked for me never been happier... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am glad it worked for me never been happier... "

One man and his Sausages...

OP: You will not be the only one...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

regarding a comment earier.

we were together 8 years, due to be married in 5 weeks.

and only started swinging in april.

and met some great people, who may i say are still freinds. but i never saw this coming, neither did the lady of the other couple

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Talking of rules, I'm back and on my best behavior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"regarding a comment earier.

we were together 8 years, due to be married in 5 weeks.

and only started swinging in april.

and met some great people, who may i say are still freinds. but i never saw this coming, neither did the lady of the other couple"

Yes it does happen but there are usually other underlying reasons for it

About five years ago a lady from another couple

(me and my ex partner used to see regularly)

Started to come on very strong with me to the point of asking me to live together)

So obviously we cooled it off at that point

Not long after she left her husband for another swinger

It happens

My ex and I broke up over 12 months ago

Unrelated to swinging

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"regarding a comment earier.

we were together 8 years, due to be married in 5 weeks.

and only started swinging in april.

and met some great people, who may i say are still freinds. but i never saw this coming, neither did the lady of the other couple"

It would be interesting to know why you started swinging.

Unfortunately, many couples start to swing for the wrong reasons and small cracks develop into very large cracks, that then destroy a relationship.

As someone else said, there must have been an underlying reason for the split but to be honest, at least it happened before you got married.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"regarding a comment earier.

we were together 8 years, due to be married in 5 weeks.

and only started swinging in april.

and met some great people, who may i say are still freinds. but i never saw this coming, neither did the lady of the other couple

Yes it does happen but there are usually other underlying reasons for it

About five years ago a lady from another couple

(me and my ex partner used to see regularly)

Started to come on very strong with me to the point of asking me to live together)

So obviously we cooled it off at that point

Not long after she left her husband for another swinger

It happens

My ex and I broke up over 12 months ago

Unrelated to swinging

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i think thats the thing, people might blame swinging, but its a symptom not a cause.Many things are tried to keep a relationship going, from a new kitchen to a new baby, if there are underlying issues though they can be the straw that breaks the camels back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no but lost mine at the seaside one day.

Found him in the publ.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

reason we started to swing was were both bi, but we wouldnt go in to leeds were all the bi pubs are.

we didnt fancy a swingin club.

there was no problems with our realasion ship,not many people can say they never had an aguement in 8 years,we never did.

im gonna keep swingin i love it.

reason i started this post was i was just curious wat people thought, as were all on the same site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes happened to me

but hey it done me a favour, realised swinging as a single is brilliant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

your right there princess,but now i gotta go happy hunting as a single guy, mind you i know quite a few people on here so i got a head start xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"regarding a comment earier.

we were together 8 years, due to be married in 5 weeks.

and only started swinging in april.

and met some great people, who may i say are still freinds. but i never saw this coming, neither did the lady of the other couple"

Thanks for the info, I wasn't having a go at you so I hope you didn't think I was. It's hard to offer a comment on a situation without knowing more of the history. For example, if you'd met on here a few months ago then it paints an entirely different picture than having met 8 years ago and had plans to get wed in just five weeks time.

Do you think that had a bearing on why she left?

Maybe it's better that she did this now than after you were married.

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"Yes happened to me

but hey it done me a favour, realised swinging as a single is brilliant "
totally agree with u im having a much better time as a single!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your right there princess,but now i gotta go happy hunting as a single guy, mind you i know quite a few people on here so i got a head start xx"

well perhaps you will realise that they did do us a favour. life is great for me, no restraints just pleasing myself is a great thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i did my x wife loved it met a lot of nice guys we even shared but then one day she left with a guy with a 10" cock

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"reason we started to swing was were both bi, but we wouldnt go in to leeds were all the bi pubs are.

we didnt fancy a swingin club.

there was no problems with our realasion ship,not many people can say they never had an aguement in 8 years,we never did.

im gonna keep swingin i love it.

reason i started this post was i was just curious wat people thought, as were all on the same site"

I disagree. Not one argument in eight years? Bad sign. History now though so live in the moment. Be happy. X

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

think temp trying to get rid of me but soo far no takers.....lol

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