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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What or who is it?

In times of stress, worry or confusion I get in the car drive out to St Andrews, take a stroll on the beach then call in somewhere for a coffee.

After which things seem to be clearer and a little less comlicated.

How do you deal with such moments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the dog for a long walk

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well my crutch is my cigarettes, i have it in my head that if i give up something drastic will happen.

In times of stress, i want to be on my own. If i want to think i go somewhere peaceful and quiet and just sit

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I want to be left alone too if im stressed I sort it out in my head before I even mention it to anyone else

And then I can't shut up about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the problem.

Cuddling with the Mrs. and talking things through.

Going for a 2-3 hour run along trails and through woodland.

Hell even hitting a 4-pack of beer, firing up Doom on the PC, bunging in god mode and letting rip can be great stress relief.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

when stressed i rant and rave or go the complete opposite and dont want nayone near me ... depends on what it is

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I turn into a nightmare when stressed... I am a huge worrier and just think of the negitives rather than the positives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddle and stroke the cat, walk with the dog etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why become a nightmare when something does not go right?

Why smash things or shout when you can go into another room & take 5 mins to relax with a book?

No need for temper tantrums or violence when you can learn how to relax before a row starts.

Learn to read 1 line of a page over & over when temper is boiling & see how quick it disappears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depending on the situation, red wine, loud music or walking by myself in places i have an emotional attachment to - ideally with the weather being cold, wet n windy.... there's something theraputic about being bashed about a bit by the elements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cycle across the trails.....my body burns up all the negative energy whilst my mind sorts the problem out...

Drive.....roof down...fresh bright morning.....B roads....

A night out with my best friend....good pub,good beer....and a couple of hours of sharing and putting right not just my problems but the problems of the country and the world....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take my car out for a good spin with Queen's Don't Stop Me Now being played very loudly on the stereo, and sing on top of my voice.

My cat's purr is very soothing.

My dog making funny faces makes me laugh.

Eating comfort food would make me happy.

etc. etc...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I go shopping, go out with friends, have friends round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a people person but when stressed worried or down, I close down and only want my own company.

I figure my friends won't want me bringing them down so spare them my miseries.

I tend to go to the beach with my dogs or places that mean something to me and try and reabsorb the energies or good feelings I associate with them.

If really bad I don't go over the door till I can look the world in the eye again. xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Why become a nightmare when something does not go right?

Why smash things or shout when you can go into another room & take 5 mins to relax with a book?

No need for temper tantrums or violence when you can learn how to relax before a row starts.

Learn to read 1 line of a page over & over when temper is boiling & see how quick it disappears."

Like Yoda you are.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

If it's something really heavy then I

have to be on my own. Phones switched off, blinds closed and deal with things on my own.

Not so serious then will turn to Craig or my dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

en im stressed(rare) or sad(rare), i cuddle my wee cat, shes my wee trustable huggable purring pal....AYE RIGHT!-she just took ma fuckin face aff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just have a wafty crank

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"What or who is it?

In times of stress, worry or confusion I get in the car drive out to St Andrews, take a stroll on the beach then call in somewhere for a coffee.

After which things seem to be clearer and a little less comlicated.

How do you deal with such moments? "
My other half usually if not i lock myself away and give myself severe talking to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I duvet day.

With a good book, some munchies.

And just relax.

Then get up the next day fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I need to talk about it then it's Wendy

If I'm just down then sleep and fags xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go one a mad cleaner spree then a long hot shower and a cry

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

walk the beach and look for people who smile.

It is infectious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit up on my hill, its not mine but I can pretend, and look down upon the sea of shit below!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Buy myself some new shoes

Seriously? Well, I think about the worst scenario, then apply logic as to what I can do to improve the situation... I consider that other people usually have worse problems to deal with... and I actually do feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why become a nightmare when something does not go right?

Why smash things or shout when you can go into another room & take 5 mins to relax with a book?

No need for temper tantrums or violence when you can learn how to relax before a row starts.

Learn to read 1 line of a page over & over when temper is boiling & see how quick it disappears."

I dont now the odd smashing and completely wrecking something that is totally useless can work, it takes your mind off the problem when you look at it and think "fuck what have I done"!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I shop...........

Is anyone suprised?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I am drinking wine after having my nails done....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

when i lived in london.... my place was the hagen daas restaurant in the middle of leicester square.. use to sit in (the whole posh experience) and have a tripple scoop of vanilla and strawberry while reading a copy of USA Today.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"walk the beach and look for people who smile.

It is infectious"

Im there with ya !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always go a drive and seem to end up either at ayr beach or at north queensferry. the sea air seams to relax me.

plus nothing btter than tanking it down the road late at night to let ff steam.

i know these last few weeks ive been really stressed/down and ive been either at beach, in car or stayed in my bed as dont want to face anyone. the people that should be there havent been there and the ones that are trying to be there for me are too ffar away to be of any use!

its shit.

tonight ive drank bottle of vodka in my bed so i dont care now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What or who is it?

In times of stress, worry or confusion I get in the car drive out to St Andrews, take a stroll on the beach then call in somewhere for a coffee.

After which things seem to be clearer and a little less comlicated.

How do you deal with such moments? "

A place for fun.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"What or who is it?

In times of stress, worry or confusion I get in the car drive out to St Andrews, take a stroll on the beach then call in somewhere for a coffee.

After which things seem to be clearer and a little less comlicated.

How do you deal with such moments?

A place for fun. "

sometimes i just check out,be nice's avatar,it doesnt make me any less stressed,but it does make me happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What or who is it?

In times of stress, worry or confusion I get in the car drive out to St Andrews, take a stroll on the beach then call in somewhere for a coffee.

After which things seem to be clearer and a little less comlicated.

How do you deal with such moments?

A place for fun.

sometimes i just check out,be nice's avatar,it doesnt make me any less stressed,but it does make me happy. "

oi! u tryin ta pull me string?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"What or who is it?

In times of stress, worry or confusion I get in the car drive out to St Andrews, take a stroll on the beach then call in somewhere for a coffee.

After which things seem to be clearer and a little less comlicated.

How do you deal with such moments?

A place for fun.

sometimes i just check out,be nice's avatar,it doesnt make me any less stressed,but it does make me happy.

oi! u tryin ta pull me string?"

there's pulling involved,but it's not string.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a beautiful video short in my head of a wonderful day I spent in Doone Valley, Exmoor, chilling by the brook. I just replay it when required.

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