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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, I'm not one who generally gives a shit about what anyone says about me.

However, this week two of my close friends on two separate occasions have called me Ice Queen. Now once I pinned them down, beat them to pulp and made them retract thier words. I started thinking about it (thinking being one of the things I believe is bad for your health, a bit like sprouts).

Now, yes I know I am not one to display emotions but Ice Queen FFS.

So the point of this thread is...

Has a close friend/relative ever made an observation about you that you though..hang on Im not like that..or am I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah...

Someone called me sweet... Sweet ff's..

I'm 17 and a half stone of pure mean lean eating machine and to be called sweet ... well ... Bless em Mwah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you not think they had a point, and as it came from 2 separate sources maybe a period of introspection is in order

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

LOL I don't want to!!!

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By *WfellaMan
over a year ago

liverpool

thinking, just like eating sprouts, makes you spurt over exuberated shirt, but theres nothing wrong in opening up and putting your guard down for the right people.

with that in mind, am off to listen to the Beatles Hey Jude, over and over again

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Ok, I'm not one who generally gives a shit about what anyone says about me.

However, this week two of my close friends on two separate occasions have called me Ice Queen. Now once I pinned them down, beat them to pulp and made them retract thier words. I started thinking about it (thinking being one of the things I believe is bad for your health, a bit like sprouts).

Now, yes I know I am not one to display emotions but Ice Queen FFS.

So the point of this thread is...

Has a close friend/relative ever made an observation about you that you though..hang on Im not like that..or am I?"

I've been called a 'right royal softy' at work today......

WTF....... I mean......

Why can't my reputation proceed me at work? eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i been called, cold , heartless, weird and strange, but i dont care my true friends know the real me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Fortunatly or unfortunatly im an open book and most who know me know what im like, not usually many surprises in what they call me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The value of a persons comment about you is directly proportionate to the part they hold in your life which are then compounded by your own insecurities. Its a bit like a risk assessment.

For example, if a complete stranger says that your unfeeling, then you can dismiss this comment because they have no real insight into your life, however if the same comment is said by someone who knows you well, even if it is still unfounded it carries more weight.

Have you ever considered how many compliments you have received in a day??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimy... Now thats a clever answer....

More coffee... maybe a slice of toast now and try and digest it again.. Mwah x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blimy... Now thats a clever answer....

"

It hurt my head...im going back to bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimy... Now thats a clever answer....

It hurt my head...im going back to bed "

Oooooo Hello sexy x Wish I could.. but at work Brrrrrrr Cold too

Coffee and toast didn't work... its still damn clever..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blimy... Now thats a clever answer....

It hurt my head...im going back to bed

Oooooo Hello sexy x Wish I could.. but at work Brrrrrrr Cold too

Morning!! do star jumps that will warm you up lol

Coffee and toast didn't work... its still damn clever.."

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"The value of a persons comment about you is directly proportionate to the part they hold in your life which are then compounded by your own insecurities. Its a bit like a risk assessment.

For example, if a complete stranger says that your unfeeling, then you can dismiss this comment because they have no real insight into your life, however if the same comment is said by someone who knows you well, even if it is still unfounded it carries more weight.

Have you ever considered how many compliments you have received in a day??????

I told you your new psychology degree would come in useful one day!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The value of a persons comment about you is directly proportionate to the part they hold in your life which are then compounded by your own insecurities. Its a bit like a risk assessment.

For example, if a complete stranger says that your unfeeling, then you can dismiss this comment because they have no real insight into your life, however if the same comment is said by someone who knows you well, even if it is still unfounded it carries more weight.

Have you ever considered how many compliments you have received in a day??????"


" I told you your new psychology degree would come in useful one day!"

I was going to quote Eric Bernes, but I was worried either you would correct me, Maddie lol, see what i mean about values, cause if PleasureDrone had corrected me I would just tell him to bogoff!!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"The value of a persons comment about you is directly proportionate to the part they hold in your life which are then compounded by your own insecurities. Its a bit like a risk assessment.

For example, if a complete stranger says that your unfeeling, then you can dismiss this comment because they have no real insight into your life, however if the same comment is said by someone who knows you well, even if it is still unfounded it carries more weight.

Have you ever considered how many compliments you have received in a day??????

I told you your new psychology degree would come in useful one day!

I was going to quote Eric Bernes, but I was worried either you would correct me, Maddie lol, see what i mean about values, cause if PleasureDrone had corrected me I would just tell him to bogoff!!

"

Someone has been reading..... Games People Play.......!

Blimey.... I remembered that for 20 odd years ago.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I do a lot of cognitive behaviour therapy, it really does turn your thoughts around. I only take in the positive now and seem to forget the negative. Its taken over two years so far but it really does work wonders. karenx

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"The value of a persons comment about you is directly proportionate to the part they hold in your life which are then compounded by your own insecurities. Its a bit like a risk assessment.

For example, if a complete stranger says that your unfeeling, then you can dismiss this comment because they have no real insight into your life, however if the same comment is said by someone who knows you well, even if it is still unfounded it carries more weight.

Have you ever considered how many compliments you have received in a day??????

I told you your new psychology degree would come in useful one day!

I was going to quote Eric Bernes, but I was worried either you would correct me, Maddie lol, see what i mean about values, cause if PleasureDrone had corrected me I would just tell him to bogoff!!

"

Huh like i care ...give someone a degree and they think they are it ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The value of a persons comment about you is directly proportionate to the part they hold in your life which are then compounded by your own insecurities. Its a bit like a risk assessment.

For example, if a complete stranger says that your unfeeling, then you can dismiss this comment because they have no real insight into your life, however if the same comment is said by someone who knows you well, even if it is still unfounded it carries more weight.

Have you ever considered how many compliments you have received in a day??????

I told you your new psychology degree would come in useful one day!

I was going to quote Eric Bernes, but I was worried either you would correct me, Maddie lol, see what i mean about values, cause if PleasureDrone had corrected me I would just tell him to bogoff!!

Huh like i care ...give someone a degree and they think they are it ...."

Bugger, I miss these threads when i go away for a few days,

PleasureDrone, dont be such a pussy!!!!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"The value of a persons comment about you is directly proportionate to the part they hold in your life which are then compounded by your own insecurities. Its a bit like a risk assessment.

For example, if a complete stranger says that your unfeeling, then you can dismiss this comment because they have no real insight into your life, however if the same comment is said by someone who knows you well, even if it is still unfounded it carries more weight.

Have you ever considered how many compliments you have received in a day??????

I told you your new psychology degree would come in useful one day!

I was going to quote Eric Bernes, but I was worried either you would correct me, Maddie lol, see what i mean about values, cause if PleasureDrone had corrected me I would just tell him to bogoff!!

Huh like i care ...give someone a degree and they think they are it ....

Bugger, I miss these threads when i go away for a few days,

PleasureDrone, dont be such a pussy!!!!"

yeah shame you missed it ...all gone now lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my friends said i was "self-involved". I was so upset by that comment. She wasn't even being nasty, it was said in a general chat about personalities.

Once i say and thought about it, i considered if she was right. I do like to talk and this can give the impression of being self-involved. Plus, i totally obsess!

This comment was made about a year ago. Since that point, i've really worked hard on not appearing to be self-involved. I don't even know if it was just her own impression, or if others thought it. But sometimes, a comment hits hard and makes you think a lot more about the kind of personality you offer to those around you.

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