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"I tend to be more worried about what someone thinks of me then what I think of them. This is because I am fat and society has taught me that this is shameful. Not a pity me comment, just stating the narrative that is in my head. " Well your my ideal body type of woman to play with and envy | |||
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"I tend to be more worried about what someone thinks of me then what I think of them. This is because I am fat and society has taught me that this is shameful. Not a pity me comment, just stating the narrative that is in my head. " Surely though you still have your own preferences? | |||
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"I tend to be more worried about what someone thinks of me then what I think of them. This is because I am fat and society has taught me that this is shameful. Not a pity me comment, just stating the narrative that is in my head. Well your my ideal body type of woman to play with and envy " Thank you. I must get a bit more honest with my pics though. I have put on weight, and am up to a size 24 now. Much larger than the pics give context to. But it is within my ability to change this. | |||
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"I tend to be more worried about what someone thinks of me then what I think of them. This is because I am fat and society has taught me that this is shameful. Not a pity me comment, just stating the narrative that is in my head. Well your my ideal body type of woman to play with and envy Thank you. I must get a bit more honest with my pics though. I have put on weight, and am up to a size 24 now. Much larger than the pics give context to. But it is within my ability to change this. " I've dropped from a 22 to an 18. I just had to wait until i was ready. Still a way to go yet but it's doeable. And btw i'd like you no matter what your body size is. Do this for you...no one else xx | |||
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"I tend to be more worried about what someone thinks of me then what I think of them. This is because I am fat and society has taught me that this is shameful. Not a pity me comment, just stating the narrative that is in my head. Surely though you still have your own preferences? " But I reflect on the guys I have been with and there isn't a pattern beyond them acquiescing to me. So I don't know that I have fully formed a preference for myself yet, or felt at liberty to. Not really. It is the soul of the person, their brain and manner that shines to me. Their mind. I've fallen for many friends over time who I would not have considered aesthetically, so even fancying - who knows? Yeah, I might look at a guy and go phwoaaaar but that can be fleeting often. Sorry, not meaning to be obtuse. I just don't know. | |||
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"I tend to be more worried about what someone thinks of me then what I think of them. This is because I am fat and society has taught me that this is shameful. Not a pity me comment, just stating the narrative that is in my head. Surely though you still have your own preferences? But I reflect on the guys I have been with and there isn't a pattern beyond them acquiescing to me. So I don't know that I have fully formed a preference for myself yet, or felt at liberty to. Not really. It is the soul of the person, their brain and manner that shines to me. Their mind. I've fallen for many friends over time who I would not have considered aesthetically, so even fancying - who knows? Yeah, I might look at a guy and go phwoaaaar but that can be fleeting often. Sorry, not meaning to be obtuse. I just don't know. " Interesting. I get that real life is different than purely theoretical. As in this case personality qould be moot as it can be assumed that any hypothetical partner would have an atractive personality. | |||
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"I like taller men because they make me feel more short and feminine. I don't like really skinny or really fat but I like someone I can cuddle. I seem to find aspects in women that are opposite to myself, so a few inches shorter, and more well endowned in the boob department. Not sure why!" Well you don't need to look any further | |||
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"I tend to be more worried about what someone thinks of me then what I think of them. This is because I am fat and society has taught me that this is shameful. Not a pity me comment, just stating the narrative that is in my head. your not fat your beautiful but I know exactly how you feel x " | |||
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"I tend to be more worried about what someone thinks of me then what I think of them. This is because I am fat and society has taught me that this is shameful. Not a pity me comment, just stating the narrative that is in my head. Well your my ideal body type of woman to play with and envy Thank you. I must get a bit more honest with my pics though. I have put on weight, and am up to a size 24 now. Much larger than the pics give context to. But it is within my ability to change this. " It is, but only do it if YOU want to! | |||
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"I tend to be more worried about what someone thinks of me then what I think of them. This is because I am fat and society has taught me that this is shameful. Not a pity me comment, just stating the narrative that is in my head. " I feel the same way. I am actually very insecure in my body. As a size 18 I go for bigger men in general so as I feel less fat. I do however also like bigger men because I love that feeling of being protected. I also don't want the fear of breaking them! | |||
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"Big fan of plus size women and not ashamed to admit it. Always have been! " Oooh well hello | |||
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"I tend to be more worried about what someone thinks of me then what I think of them. This is because I am fat and society has taught me that this is shameful. Not a pity me comment, just stating the narrative that is in my head. " This exactly. I guess I don't find one particular body type attractive. I do tend to go for taller people probably because I'm only 5'2 and I've not met many shorter than me. I like ladies to be a fuller figure like my own so my insecurities don't scream out. | |||
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"Interesting reading the replies here. When I met Vik 11 years ago she was 5'3" and a size 22/24 with 38GG tits. I never particularly liked bigger women, but something about her confidence in her body and attitude just made her rock it so well. That and amazing sex we fell in love, got married etc. A couple of years ago, due to a degenerative knee problem, she needed to lose weight. Whilst we had been together she had dropped to a size 14 for us to qualify for IVF (ironically it was me firing blanks). But due to her knee and not being able to exercise the weight went back on and she went up to a size 18. Vicious circle for her knee problem. So she had weight loss surgery. She is not a size 6-8 and weighs less than half the weight of when I first met her. So in essence body-type-wise I have a totally different wife now. And so it is interesting noting how my preferences have changed. I'm now probably slightly more attracted to bigger women than I used to be. Nostalgia? Maybe. Or maybe just variety, which is after all why we are here. But most of the women I meet that are the size Vik used to be don't turn me on now. I certainly miss her enourmous tits lol but her boobs fit her body size now, she'd look daft if they hadn't shrunk. It took her a long time to get comfortable in her new body. She didn't know what type of clothes to wear etc. But now she has a style that works so well for her. And she rocks it and looks amazing. It is funny some of the practical things though. We do a lot of shibari, and a rope goes around her more times than it used to. When we spoon I can get my arms right around her, which I couldn't before. I feel more protective cuddling this little thing. I can pick her up and carry her. Which I love doing. So umm yeah, sorry, waffling lovey dovey post. -Matt" What an amazing story. There is so much assumption and prejudice surrounding body types and obesity especially, for your wife to have experienced these "extremes" is a vantage point that must have given her and you so much wisdom. | |||
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"I definitely have a male type as, looking back at the guys I have met, and their pics, nearly all are tall, dark hair, dark eyes with a good body but not built like the hulk. I think I prefer some body hair to smooth and what always makes me want more is the kissing. They can be the hottest looking guy ever, but if they can't kiss, I won't meet them again. Also good banter and intelligence are important to me, I need to smile and laugh and be interested in what they have to say. I like my women petite and pretty, classy and well dressed. " Pretty much this for me too. I like dark haired fellas | |||
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"I tend to be more worried about what someone thinks of me then what I think of them. This is because I am fat and society has taught me that this is shameful. Not a pity me comment, just stating the narrative that is in my head. Well your my ideal body type of woman to play with and envy Thank you. I must get a bit more honest with my pics though. I have put on weight, and am up to a size 24 now. Much larger than the pics give context to. But it is within my ability to change this. " Size 24 Mmm perfect be yourself and enjoy life. | |||
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"With ladies I prefer someone similar to my own size and build. I get a little self conscious about being the taller and fatter one " I feel the same as you, but actually prefer ladies with meat on their bones. | |||
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"Interesting reading the replies here. When I met Vik 11 years ago she was 5'3" and a size 22/24 with 38GG tits. I never particularly liked bigger women, but something about her confidence in her body and attitude just made her rock it so well. That and amazing sex we fell in love, got married etc. A couple of years ago, due to a degenerative knee problem, she needed to lose weight. Whilst we had been together she had dropped to a size 14 for us to qualify for IVF (ironically it was me firing blanks). But due to her knee and not being able to exercise the weight went back on and she went up to a size 18. Vicious circle for her knee problem. So she had weight loss surgery. She is not a size 6-8 and weighs less than half the weight of when I first met her. So in essence body-type-wise I have a totally different wife now. And so it is interesting noting how my preferences have changed. I'm now probably slightly more attracted to bigger women than I used to be. Nostalgia? Maybe. Or maybe just variety, which is after all why we are here. But most of the women I meet that are the size Vik used to be don't turn me on now. I certainly miss her enourmous tits lol but her boobs fit her body size now, she'd look daft if they hadn't shrunk. It took her a long time to get comfortable in her new body. She didn't know what type of clothes to wear etc. But now she has a style that works so well for her. And she rocks it and looks amazing. It is funny some of the practical things though. We do a lot of shibari, and a rope goes around her more times than it used to. When we spoon I can get my arms right around her, which I couldn't before. I feel more protective cuddling this little thing. I can pick her up and carry her. Which I love doing. So umm yeah, sorry, waffling lovey dovey post. -Matt" Very sweet read, hope the wife sees this. | |||
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"Reading all the posts here it has put a smile on my face seeing that there is a tall and built theme running through them standing 6"4 and gym fit ill have a little pep in my step the next time im out What i like is a girl girl who is into the hair makeup and nails plus shoes i just love feet,i dont get sizes these days i see girls that are classed as plus size and im like realy ? I like a girl with curves nice lines the boobs the ass the legs but most of all its her confidance i like " Disclaimer **jokey dig** But not many like arrogance! | |||
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"Reading all the posts here it has put a smile on my face seeing that there is a tall and built theme running through them standing 6"4 and gym fit ill have a little pep in my step the next time im out What i like is a girl girl who is into the hair makeup and nails plus shoes i just love feet,i dont get sizes these days i see girls that are classed as plus size and im like realy ? I like a girl with curves nice lines the boobs the ass the legs but most of all its her confidance i like Disclaimer **jokey dig** But not many like arrogance! " Ill take that on borad as its a fair point but im telling you the nice quite shy guy sitting at the bar isnt getting me snywhere either | |||
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"Reading all the posts here it has put a smile on my face seeing that there is a tall and built theme running through them standing 6"4 and gym fit ill have a little pep in my step the next time im out What i like is a girl girl who is into the hair makeup and nails plus shoes i just love feet,i dont get sizes these days i see girls that are classed as plus size and im like realy ? I like a girl with curves nice lines the boobs the ass the legs but most of all its her confidance i like Disclaimer **jokey dig** But not many like arrogance! Ill take that on borad as its a fair point but im telling you the nice quite shy guy sitting at the bar isnt getting me snywhere either " | |||
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