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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

..... or does it make you even keener ?

if you get a meet request from someone who's verification list reads like the dead sea scrolls ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It tells me that they're a reliable swinger, and if we're attracted then yes, I'd be more keen to meet them.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

depends on timelines... if everyday for the last 6 months.. probably not... for no other reason than it would make me think I was the next available cock.

if over a much longer period and a mix of social meets/sexual meets... I would like to be considered for a meet. Wouldn't increase or decrease my desire to meet up.

what others do.. up to them, doesn't mean I need to join tho..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont really go by verifications too much.... if we all click and they can hold a conversation and of course theres a sexual connection/attraction then who knows !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"depends on timelines... if everyday for the last 6 months.. probably not... for no other reason than it would make me think I was the next available cock.

if over a much longer period and a mix of social meets/sexual meets... I would like to be considered for a meet. Wouldn't increase or decrease my desire to meet up.

what others do.. up to them, doesn't mean I need to join tho.."

22 seperate veri's in 2months (and some repeats) ?

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

I agree with View. Only not the cock bit as i dont have one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaz prefers new people to the scene as she likes the idea of taking there innocence

Tony

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"depends on timelines... if everyday for the last 6 months.. probably not... for no other reason than it would make me think I was the next available cock.

if over a much longer period and a mix of social meets/sexual meets... I would like to be considered for a meet. Wouldn't increase or decrease my desire to meet up.

what others do.. up to them, doesn't mean I need to join tho..

22 seperate veri's in 2months (and some repeats) ?"

are you asking me a question? I would need to look at the profile, see what they are looking for, do they match what I am looking for... do they turn me on or are just a mouth to unload in...

lots of other factors than just reading their report card oops verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..... or does it make you even keener ?

if you get a meet request from someone who's verification list reads like the dead sea scrolls ?"

lol at dead sea scrolls... for us being new to the scene, we dont mind seeing a long list of great sexual encounters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"depends on timelines... if everyday for the last 6 months.. probably not... for no other reason than it would make me think I was the next available cock.

if over a much longer period and a mix of social meets/sexual meets... I would like to be considered for a meet. Wouldn't increase or decrease my desire to meet up.

what others do.. up to them, doesn't mean I need to join tho..

22 seperate veri's in 2months (and some repeats) ?

are you asking me a question? I would need to look at the profile, see what they are looking for, do they match what I am looking for... do they turn me on or are just a mouth to unload in...

lots of other factors than just reading their report card oops verifications"

nah - i answered the question for myself before i posted the forum

just interested in other people _iewpoints on the matter

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"depends on timelines... if everyday for the last 6 months.. probably not... for no other reason than it would make me think I was the next available cock.

if over a much longer period and a mix of social meets/sexual meets... I would like to be considered for a meet. Wouldn't increase or decrease my desire to meet up.

what others do.. up to them, doesn't mean I need to join tho..

22 seperate veri's in 2months (and some repeats) ?

are you asking me a question? I would need to look at the profile, see what they are looking for, do they match what I am looking for... do they turn me on or are just a mouth to unload in...

lots of other factors than just reading their report card oops verifications

nah - i answered the question for myself before i posted the forum

just interested in other people _iewpoints on the matter"

cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont really bother me either way, i will meet people if they have loads of verifications or if they have none, im not here to judge people im here for sex and so long as i like them i will meet them no matter who else they have or havnt met

Theres no point being on a swingers site if your going to get pruidish about who others have met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..... or does it make you even keener ?

if you get a meet request from someone who's verification list reads like the dead sea scrolls ?"

I don't take a lot of notice over verifications and would never make assumptions over numbers but i may over who they have met though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yer buggered if they hide their veri's, but to answer your question nah doesn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont really bother me either way, i will meet people if they have loads of verifications or if they have none, im not here to judge people im here for sex and so long as i like them i will meet them no matter who else they have or havnt met

Theres no point being on a swingers site if your going to get pruidish about who others have met "

Same here.

If we like the sound/look of someone we will meet the regardless how many or few they have.

Although....

If someone been on the site for like 2 years or something and not got 1 single verification it makes us wonder why

Tony

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

what nymhos said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

there is a big difference between exercising personal choice and judging someone.

and as for prudish, that's not a word normally used to describe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Although....

If someone been on the site for like 2 years or something and not got 1 single verification it makes us wonder why

Tony"

i think its very easy to be a single guy and have been a member on here for over a year and never had a meet

But i think all because someone hasnt met does not mean they wont given the chance

however its much easier for couple and women, as we all know, so i think any couple/woman that has been on here for a year plus and not met is because they dont want to

And i know some people are 'fussy' but surely to god on a site as big as this even the most fussy person can find someone

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

It depends if it contradicts what they write in their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmm...I'm going to contradict myself answering this. Some people will only meet the verified - it doesn't bother me if they're verified or not: I'm able to make my own mind up.

However - here's the contradiction: if I'm scrolling down the list of verifications, I stop, have a cappucinno and not got to the end, take another break to go to the loo and the marker at the side is only half way down, then in all likelihood I wouldn't meet them, especially if they had "straight" and one verification stated how good he sucked cock.

(((Hangs head in shame for being a hypocrite)))

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I only meet verified people but it doesnt mean i sit and scrutinize their verification list. Usually i will browse down and just read the top 2/3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to read the veris coz you can read between the lines!! Those that a couple of lines long, with not much to say can mean they found it hard to write the veri, others are obviously enthusiastic & show the person was a good meet.

That said, I (f) dont like meeting unveris since we had a bad meet with one. Everyone has to have a first time, but in that case, I would arrange a social meet first since our bad experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..... or does it make you even keener ?

if you get a meet request from someone who's verification list reads like the dead sea scrolls ?"

A meet is a meet as long as they don't look like a dead scroll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually use feedback to see who people have been meeting to see what type of people they have played with....ie everyday fun people or the body beautiful people.

no point wasting our time mailling them if they arnt intereseted in our type of people.

Mike x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..... or does it make you even keener ?

if you get a meet request from someone who's verification list reads like the dead sea scrolls ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

f you get a meet request from someone who's verification list reads like the dead sea scrolls ?

wouldnt stop us

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Depends on the veri's.

If there are loads of repeats from singles saying......"he's mine", "love ya best friend"...... "love the wifey"...... etc........ I'd be blocking them like a shot......nothing like a mad bunnyboiler to dent ya fun.

And providing there are no openly barebacking veri's.... wouldn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offputting.

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