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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

been on this site a few months now and looking for my first meet.i was on another site a year or so back and had a few meets.am i doing something wrong on here??really very genuine and discreet.cples ora fem is what iam looking for.so if anyone free next week....maybe send a message and i will send pic and mobile no.

thanks for reading.

chris x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of your 'WARNING' on your profile - it is worth bugger all and makes you look like a prize idiot.

Get some photos on your profile to prove you're genuine

Lastly - have patience, get yourself known and refrain from the 'what am I doing wrong' type of forum posts.

Sorry if this sounds blunt, it's not meant to offend, but you ask a question and you get my (and I'm sure others') take on the matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL...Im saying nothing....just going to wait till Maddie gets here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked for it fella

It will be constructive, maybe harsh, but the girls tell it how it is!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo,the first thing we thought was get some photo's.You wouldn't go into a shop with nothing on show,your in a market place,set your stall out.

Trace & Ric

XXXX

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes add some photos you can always put them in your private gallery to show to people on friends list. The warning is silly as you dont have any pictures on.

Make your profile stand out, so many single men girls//couples need something to make them stop and look, so a sense of humour, your likes and dislikes. Try having a look at other single guys profiles who have had success and see if you can get any pointers from them.

You need to stand out from the crowd without bigging yourself up too much. Show confidence with out being full of yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Yep I agree then you gotta go like this..." Roll up! Roll up! you don't get many of these to the pound! Cheap at half the price!" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Havent I seen that warning on a few profiles,...wasnt there a thread on it,..or mentioned on another thread somewhere

S&A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotandwet put up a thread about it called `warning` two weeks ago

S&A

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Did someone call?

Ok.... had a peek....... yawn

No pictures......check

Can't accommodate...... check

name sounds like you are a couple........check

warning (with no piccies)........ check

"dont dream it...give it a go" ...... check

"very discreet at all times" .......... check

"willing to send pics and mobile number to the genuine ones on here " ........ check

Safe sex icon .......... check

Whinging on the forums alread.........check

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**In truth**

No pictures .......... I'm an ugly munter......... check

Can't accommodate ............. I'm married and being a cheat .......... check

name sounds like you are a couple........Single man trying to bypass the couples check lists........check

warning (with no piccies)....... I think I'm important enough for some idiot to want to copy my profile............. check

"dont dream it...give it a go" ...... the couples ain't the ones dreaming mate... you are..........check

"very discreet at all times" ..........married and cheating........ check

"willing to send pics and mobile number to the genuine ones on here " ........ Condisending twat............check

Safe sex icon ..........it's NOT ticked and therefore, anyone with a modicum of common sense will pass you by as BAREBACKER.....AVOID........ check

Whinging on the forums alread.........Like you are the first single male to wimper and whinge....... boring as fook ........check

**This is actually meant as constructive critisism - now can you see why you have been unsuccessful? If not...... I'll spell it out even further**

Look at it from couples and single women's points of view. We get enough idiot, halfwitted, single male feckwits bugging us to last a lifetime.

Your profile is screaming "same old, same old"

Change it...... you may start to enjoy the site.

**All attitudes and critisisms inhere remain the property of the poster and her narcissistic tendancies**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fussierpussy raises a large glass of Red to Maddie...never disappoints...but I did have to wait a while...where ya been woman lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Stuffing my face with a pizza and watching crap on the box.......

I do have a life you know!!!

hehehehhehehehhe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i need one of those...where can i buy them?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Argos.......

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

is there a safe sex icon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...she's called Maddie lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

doh, i went of looking for one lol.

Maybe that could go on the ideas list

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

It's in the interests box thingy.....

Everything is ticked when you join and you have to physically take the tick out.

So...... if safe sex not ticked....... Maddie will find ya........... hah!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok iam hurt...lol.taken on board your comments,wow you are hard _adchick. edited my profile, i do have pics in pvt gallery.so fingers crossed for maybe some fun.

thanks to you all for your comments x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree 100% with _adchick

pics in private gallery - check (dont mind them in there the wife will still never get to see them)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need pix in your public gallery as well.Ourselves and many others on site ignore profiles with no pix.Dare we say that you probably do too?Keep your face pix for your private gallery if you wish,just a couple of shots to give ppl an idea what you look like in your public one.Most ppl can't be arsed with getting drawn into the private gallery,msn gig.And many won't add as friends if you haven't chatted or met.Think about it.

Trace & Ric

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not take the discrete/safe sex thing a little further.... and advertise for glory hole sex... that way even if your wife turns up for your meet she still wont know its you!!

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By *ddspiceMan
over a year ago

Chichester

yes but she might recognise his member! in the glory whole!

"my gosh i think ive seen that penis before"

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"ok iam hurt...lol.taken on board your comments,wow you are hard _adchick. edited my profile, i do have pics in pvt gallery.so fingers crossed for maybe some fun.

thanks to you all for your comments x"

I'm glad you took it as constructive critisism.....

However, pvt piccies won't do you much good....

No picture....... either lazy or cheating. I'm afraid thats what alot of peeps presume.

I and about 90%of the people I know will just wander by if there are no pictures.

Even a body shot just to show if you match what others are looking for.

Other than that....... can't help!

Shyness is not a virtue in this world. It's a major set back.

Maddie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like shy....

I doooooo Honest lol....

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"I like shy....

I doooooo Honest lol...."

But that's cus you like 'em to do as they are told!

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