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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right had to do it - sent my first ever sarcastic message!

Reply to an advert and I was bang to rights ticked all the boxes..........!

Now the last one is personal preference. Thats fine can do nothng about that, but then they blocked me as well!

But lord a wee "no thanks" never hurt

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

We can all tick someones boxes, but its whether we have that little "something" that makes someone want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair point, but if you don't even reply to the initial message in any shape or form how the heck is anyone going to determine if that little something is there or not!

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"Fair point, but if you don't even reply to the initial message in any shape or form how the heck is anyone going to determine if that little something is there or not!"

If you don't get a reply you can take it the little something isn't there.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

The thing is couples get lots of posts and its harder to meet the requirements of both people.By replying it invites further dialogue then further explanation then normally the badgering as to "why you have not responded to my previous post post" ...

now imagine you get 60 + posts a day as single woman do which would mean potentially 300 posts per day building up .. ....

They simply do not have the time ,inclination ,energy since a lot of the posts are cut and pastes ...not saying yours was .

good luck to you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know its hard as a single guy to understand it, as we rarely get messages out of the blue, but single women on here can get hundreds of mails in a week. it's slightly unfair to expect them to reply to them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find its my "little something" that discourages meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yawnnnnnnnnnnn

get over it and move on ffs, this thread has been done to death a million times

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Pulls out a cheese buffet to go with the free flowing whine...

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"yawnnnnnnnnnnn

get over it and move on ffs, this thread has been done to death a million times "

what's the betting that very shortly we get an equally cliched new thread from a couple that goes along the lines of:

"Got a message from a guy the other day, and he seemed ok, but just not quite our cup of tea, having been bombarded over previous weeks the will to reply had been sucked out of us, but we figured he'd be mature enough to take the hint without taking it badly - imagine our surprise when we got a nasty sarcastic message back from him for not replying - bloody single males - you're all alike and all crap, no wonder everyone gets pissed off with you all!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yawnnnnnnnnnnn

get over it and move on ffs, this thread has been done to death a million times

what's the betting that very shortly we get an equally cliched new thread from a couple that goes along the lines of:

"Got a message from a guy the other day, and he seemed ok, but just not quite our cup of tea, having been bombarded over previous weeks the will to reply had been sucked out of us, but we figured he'd be mature enough to take the hint without taking it badly - imagine our surprise when we got a nasty sarcastic message back from him for not replying - bloody single males - you're all alike and all crap, no wonder everyone gets pissed off with you all!!""

He He He

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon


"Pulls out a cheese buffet to go with the free flowing whine..."

love it got any danish blue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pulls out a cheese buffet to go with the free flowing whine...

love it got any danish blue "

I brought crackers!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Pulls out a cheese buffet to go with the free flowing whine...

love it got any danish blue

I brought crackers! "

thought we were all crackers anyway or perhaps we are just nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pulls out a cheese buffet to go with the free flowing whine...

love it got any danish blue

I brought crackers!

thought we were all crackers anyway or perhaps we are just nuts "

I love salty nuts, yummmmm

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

It’s not arrogance – it’s time management!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Pulls out a cheese buffet to go with the free flowing whine...

love it got any danish blue

I brought crackers!

thought we were all crackers anyway or perhaps we are just nuts

I love salty nuts, yummmmm "

I prefer dry roasted but sure we can get the taste just right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yawnnnnnnnnnnn

get over it and move on ffs, this thread has been done to death a million times "

Maybe it shouldn't be. Its utter arrogance thast my point. Time yourself how long does it take to type NO THANKS and then cut and paste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yawnnnnnnnnnnn

get over it and move on ffs, this thread has been done to death a million times

Maybe it shouldn't be. Its utter arrogance thast my point. Time yourself how long does it take to type NO THANKS and then cut and paste."

Then multiply that figure by 100, factor in any time if they actually want to do what they want on here e.g. chatting on the forums, speaking to people they actually like and want to meet... then you will get a real figure as to how long they'd have to spend on here if they tried to be 'polite' to everyone.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"yawnnnnnnnnnnn

get over it and move on ffs, this thread has been done to death a million times

Maybe it shouldn't be. Its utter arrogance thast my point. Time yourself how long does it take to type NO THANKS and then cut and paste."

we didn't cut and paste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yawnnnnnnnnnnn

get over it and move on ffs, this thread has been done to death a million times

Maybe it shouldn't be. Its utter arrogance thast my point. Time yourself how long does it take to type NO THANKS and then cut and paste."

Can i just say that we always try and reply

However like a few of our friends on here when we have said NO to single males (and i am not saying the majority by the way) we have recived back nasty emails from some who cannot take rejection

Get a few of those yourself and you may understand why it is that some couples etc do not reply if they do not like the look of the profile

We realise that the majority of singles are alright and do take rejection well the ones that dont however spoil it for the others in some cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yawnnnnnnnnnnn

get over it and move on ffs, this thread has been done to death a million times

Maybe it shouldn't be. Its utter arrogance thast my point. Time yourself how long does it take to type NO THANKS and then cut and paste."

wen i get 60/70/80 msgs a day do u seriously think im gonna say no thanx to them all, no reply is bloomin obvious someones not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yawnnnnnnnnnnn

get over it and move on ffs, this thread has been done to death a million times

Maybe it shouldn't be. Its utter arrogance thast my point. Time yourself how long does it take to type NO THANKS and then cut and paste.

Then multiply that figure by 100, factor in any time if they actually want to do what they want on here e.g. chatting on the forums, speaking to people they actually like and want to meet... then you will get a real figure as to how long they'd have to spend on here if they tried to be 'polite' to everyone."

well said,

yr not just a pretty face are ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

well said,

yr not just a pretty face are ya "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

well said,

yr not just a pretty face are ya

"

i think u need me to help u find wot yr looking for in them undies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

well said,

yr not just a pretty face are ya

i think u need me to help u find wot yr looking for in them undies "
Might need a extra pair of hands too?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant remember what the fook u where on about, but i do recall something about a prize.....ME ME ME!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cant remember what the fook u where on about, but i do recall something about a prize.....ME ME ME!!!

"
Wrong thread Pussy!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"yawnnnnnnnnnnn

get over it and move on ffs, this thread has been done to death a million times

Maybe it shouldn't be. Its utter arrogance thast my point. Time yourself how long does it take to type NO THANKS and then cut and paste."

How many chuffing times......

It's NOT arrogance. It's NOT rude. It's NOT bad manners.....

It's.................. CHOICE

And until I see something in any website that says I HAVE to reply.... I have the CHOICE not to.

Get off your soapbox. You and other single males are not the only one's who get no reply. Plenty of single females and couples write nice messages and get diddly squat back.

Who cares?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yawnnnnnnnnnnn

get over it and move on ffs, this thread has been done to death a million times

Maybe it shouldn't be. Its utter arrogance thast my point. Time yourself how long does it take to type NO THANKS and then cut and paste.

How many chuffing times......

It's NOT arrogance. It's NOT rude. It's NOT bad manners.....

It's.................. CHOICE

And until I see something in any website that says I HAVE to reply.... I have the CHOICE not to.

Get off your soapbox. You and other single males are not the only one's who get no reply. Plenty of single females and couples write nice messages and get diddly squat back.

Who cares?

"
Here here well said chick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yawnnnnnnnnnnn

get over it and move on ffs, this thread has been done to death a million times

Maybe it shouldn't be. Its utter arrogance thast my point. Time yourself how long does it take to type NO THANKS and then cut and paste.

How many chuffing times......

It's NOT arrogance. It's NOT rude. It's NOT bad manners.....

It's.................. CHOICE

And until I see something in any website that says I HAVE to reply.... I have the CHOICE not to.

Get off your soapbox. You and other single males are not the only one's who get no reply. Plenty of single females and couples write nice messages and get diddly squat back.

Who cares?

"

Yeah, come on its my turn on the soap box.

Where's my 'Sex now' button. Whats all this crap about decent profiles, photo's and writing a legible, half understandable email. I just to press a button on here, and get laid........ well that was supposed to be a piss take, but actually I wouldn't mind one

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"

Where's my 'Sex now' button. but actually I wouldn't mind one "

Can I press it? can I? can I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right had to do it - sent my first ever sarcastic message!

Reply to an advert and I was bang to rights ticked all the boxes..........!

Now the last one is personal preference. Thats fine can do nothng about that, but then they blocked me as well!

But lord a wee "no thanks" never hurt"

Arrogance, this is arrogance

"Reply to an advert and I was bang to rights ticked all the boxes..........!"

Just because YOU think you tick all the right boxes does not mean the recipient thinks the same. How do you know the recipient has not looked at your profile and thought "oh my god not a feckin chance"

You have ASSUMED you are what they are looking for and have now got all needy and pissy when no reply is forthcoming, not a good trait in this way of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwn"
Lol you've made me yawn now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

touch ya minggggggggggggggge now

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

lets face it

most men on here are glad if they get one mail a week

they just cant comprehend what its like to get 60-80 messages per day and i would bet they all are the same.

is it any wonder ladies get sick of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"touch ya minggggggggggggggge now "
Ooooooo

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Right had to do it - sent my first ever sarcastic message!

Reply to an advert and I was bang to rights ticked all the boxes..........!

Now the last one is personal preference. Thats fine can do nothng about that, but then they blocked me as well!

But lord a wee "no thanks" never hurt"

I lack the common courtesy to reply to every message I get and guess what…. I still get meets!

In fact I have one coming over now - bless he’s just finished work so I think a shared soak in the bath is the first order of the evening…. before getting all sweaty again by shagging each other senseless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have fun xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

wonder if the couple saw that he couldnt accomodate and got suspicious

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