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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

Just throwing it out there. I feel great!

It's very very close to the 1 year celebration of kicking out my abusive ex and becoming a singleton. In that year I've lost 4 stone in weight and bagged me a ton of confidence. I've made new friends, I've proved I can do it on my own despite the years of hearing "you're nothing without me"

Yes, financially things are tough, very tough, but I survive. I might go without a lot of things, but you know what....I AM LIVING!!!!

I'm not just living though, I'm enjoying life, even with its struggles.

If there's anyone reading who is unhappy, being bullied, let me tell you something. You CAN do it, you CAN be happy, believe in yourself no matter what they say.

You are the you you are, not the you they say you are.

I'm rocking the me I am, and I thank that ex for the shit I went through, it makes me appreciate me more!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Good for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done.good on ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just throwing it out there. I feel great!

It's very very close to the 1 year celebration of kicking out my abusive ex and becoming a singleton. In that year I've lost 4 stone in weight and bagged me a ton of confidence. I've made new friends, I've proved I can do it on my own despite the years of hearing "you're nothing without me"

Yes, financially things are tough, very tough, but I survive. I might go without a lot of things, but you know what....I AM LIVING!!!!

I'm not just living though, I'm enjoying life, even with its struggles.

If there's anyone reading who is unhappy, being bullied, let me tell you something. You CAN do it, you CAN be happy, believe in yourself no matter what they say.

You are the you you are, not the you they say you are.

I'm rocking the me I am, and I thank that ex for the shit I went through, it makes me appreciate me more! "

A good thread. Well done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done! Keep on keeping on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep being positive

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"Just throwing it out there. I feel great!

It's very very close to the 1 year celebration of kicking out my abusive ex and becoming a singleton. In that year I've lost 4 stone in weight and bagged me a ton of confidence. I've made new friends, I've proved I can do it on my own despite the years of hearing "you're nothing without me"

Yes, financially things are tough, very tough, but I survive. I might go without a lot of things, but you know what....I AM LIVING!!!!

I'm not just living though, I'm enjoying life, even with its struggles.

If there's anyone reading who is unhappy, being bullied, let me tell you something. You CAN do it, you CAN be happy, believe in yourself no matter what they say.

You are the you you are, not the you they say you are.

I'm rocking the me I am, and I thank that ex for the shit I went through, it makes me appreciate me more! "

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Well done OP, excellent..

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

Thank you, I just hope if there's one person who needs to hear this, one person who's struggling to believe they're better than they're being told that they read it.

Life is for living, not suffering for someone else's ego.

If you're wondering "am I in an abusive relationship?" Yes...yes you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you, I just hope if there's one person who needs to hear this, one person who's struggling to believe they're better than they're being told that they read it.

Life is for living, not suffering for someone else's ego.

If you're wondering "am I in an abusive relationship?" Yes...yes you are. "

Inspirational

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Good for you. Keep enjoying yourself and living your life.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Thank you, I just hope if there's one person who needs to hear this, one person who's struggling to believe they're better than they're being told that they read it.

Life is for living, not suffering for someone else's ego.

If you're wondering "am I in an abusive relationship?" Yes...yes you are. "

Well done you!!!

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

This thread is a breath of fresh air! Well done OP!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Such a great thing to read, well done..

S&H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw this made me smile. Well done you, you deserve to feel awesome. Keep on rocking it x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Go girl!!! Lovely post

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Beers to you!

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By *heOwlMan
over a year ago

Altrincham


"Just throwing it out there. I feel great!

It's very very close to the 1 year celebration of kicking out my abusive ex and becoming a singleton. In that year I've lost 4 stone in weight and bagged me a ton of confidence. I've made new friends, I've proved I can do it on my own despite the years of hearing "you're nothing without me"

Yes, financially things are tough, very tough, but I survive. I might go without a lot of things, but you know what....I AM LIVING!!!!

I'm not just living though, I'm enjoying life, even with its struggles.

If there's anyone reading who is unhappy, being bullied, let me tell you something. You CAN do it, you CAN be happy, believe in yourself no matter what they say.

You are the you you are, not the you they say you are.

I'm rocking the me I am, and I thank that ex for the shit I went through, it makes me appreciate me more! "

Well done, it's not easy picking yourself up again and even harder to really feel good about yourself again.

Also really good sharing this for those who are currently struggling to see that tiny glimmer of light at the end of their tunnel.

Owl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How fabulous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this post!! Well done you lovely x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Looking great too princess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you princess

And long may your positivity continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you ...i was in a very abusive relationship for 21 years and after he beat my face in front of my 2 youngest children I finally plucked up the courage and got an injunction on him.

My children's and my life is so much better and we never been so happy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you. You stand as a example to many people. And the outlookbyou have is wonderfull. Good luck and may life bring you all you deserve and want.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Just throwing it out there. I feel great!

It's very very close to the 1 year celebration of kicking out my abusive ex and becoming a singleton. In that year I've lost 4 stone in weight and bagged me a ton of confidence. I've made new friends, I've proved I can do it on my own despite the years of hearing "you're nothing without me"

Yes, financially things are tough, very tough, but I survive. I might go without a lot of things, but you know what....I AM LIVING!!!!

I'm not just living though, I'm enjoying life, even with its struggles.

If there's anyone reading who is unhappy, being bullied, let me tell you something. You CAN do it, you CAN be happy, believe in yourself no matter what they say.

You are the you you are, not the you they say you are.

I'm rocking the me I am, and I thank that ex for the shit I went through, it makes me appreciate me more! "

That's great....did it 11 years ago and still surviving.....xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw love this post

Great to hear Peachy!

Ruby xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw love this post

Great to hear Peachy!

Ruby xx"

Yes great post! Well done you. Love it. Pete xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wearing a new skirt I bought.

Feeling pretty sexy in it today.

Glad you are too Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your happiness too.

Discarded a scheming arsehole ex, hit the gym last year, regained my fitness, loving that, and works great too.

Since joining Fabs, I've encountered some lovely people, and I'm smiling

apart from the fact, that I had to make my own pancakes......

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

This may help you fill even better

Look up the song

Everything is awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ace post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post of the year !!! ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy for you, stay strong! X

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Looking great peach, go you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantastic xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done miss awesomeness! I now feel awesome because your feeling awesome!

Boom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations! Hope you continue to go from strength to strength ..... its a great path to be on x

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

Thank you so much all. Be proud of who you are. Unless of course you're an arsehole in which case...SHAME ON YOU!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how hard it can be .Well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done OP I'm pretty sure there's a few people reading this thinking that sounds familiar. If one of those can take courage from your words, how amazing would that be

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
over a year ago

louth

Nice one OP we are really pleased for you xxxx

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Had a bit of a crap day, but this made me smile. Seems you're a strong sensible lady, well done for standing up & speaking out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PS.... your shoe pic 8th Dec

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inspiring post OP. You should be immensely proud of all you've achieved in this last year. Keep up the awesome work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just throwing it out there. I feel great!

It's very very close to the 1 year celebration of kicking out my abusive ex and becoming a singleton. In that year I've lost 4 stone in weight and bagged me a ton of confidence. I've made new friends, I've proved I can do it on my own despite the years of hearing "you're nothing without me"

Yes, financially things are tough, very tough, but I survive. I might go without a lot of things, but you know what....I AM LIVING!!!!

I'm not just living though, I'm enjoying life, even with its struggles.

If there's anyone reading who is unhappy, being bullied, let me tell you something. You CAN do it, you CAN be happy, believe in yourself no matter what they say.

You are the you you are, not the you they say you are.

I'm rocking the me I am, and I thank that ex for the shit I went through, it makes me appreciate me more! "

Well done, I'm coming up to 2 years away from my abusive ex. Like you financially things are tough but I'm in a much better place now. And I have a lovely new man who treats me better than I think I deserve.

Still have my doubts about myself but feeling good about life.

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Well done OP I'm pretty sure there's a few people reading this thinking that sounds familiar. If one of those can take courage from your words, how amazing would that be "

I really hope that's the case.

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