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" Just it us so cruel sometimes how people can be and make others feel about themselves .having or had Anotexia is no different from being a tub of lard in my opinion if another can't understand why they were ill . then surely it should also be the same for you jelly bellys out there yes . " And it's dam right cruel of you to call those of us who are overweight.... tubs of lard or jelly bellys. Practice what you preach is what I say! | |||
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"WTF happened there?" Tubby finger held the mouse too long :P only kidding xx | |||
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"illness people can't always see . We met a couple other day at a club . It was a nice place ,We got along so decided to go head home . Once we got there we had couple more drinks and few laughs as you would expect if all is going to plan pmsl. They are a lovely couple I might add but wandered what was the matter when kimmy was hesitant about taking her clothes off . So we all sat back down and they explained to us that his girlfriend had anorexia before but was getting better . Well yes fuck me she was gorgeous which brings me to say some people like or look for bigger partners some smaller more pettite. Why is it though that people make remarks upon others when they don't know the situation . We think it's damn right cruel as this had already happened to the couple before but as we seen there was nothing wrong at all with here and there previous meet was a week before us. Just it us so cruel sometimes how people can be and make others feel about themselves .having or had Anotexia is no different from being a tub of lard in my opinion if another can't understand why they were ill . then surely it should also be the same for you jelly bellys out there yes . " Your last sentance undid anything you were saying in the rest of the post. Insulting someone because of their size works both ways. | |||
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"illness people can't always see . We met a couple other day at a club . It was a nice place ,We got along so decided to go head home . Once we got there we had couple more drinks and few laughs as you would expect if all is going to plan pmsl. They are a lovely couple I might add but wandered what was the matter when kimmy was hesitant about taking her clothes off . So we all sat back down and they explained to us that his girlfriend had anorexia before but was getting better . Well yes fuck me she was gorgeous which brings me to say some people like or look for bigger partners some smaller more pettite. Why is it though that people make remarks upon others when they don't know the situation . We think it's damn right cruel as this had already happened to the couple before but as we seen there was nothing wrong at all with here and there previous meet was a week before us. Just it us so cruel sometimes how people can be and make others feel about themselves .having or had Anotexia is no different from being a tub of lard in my opinion if another can't understand why they were ill . then surely it should also be the same for you jelly bellys out there yes . " well i agree how terrible it is to pass judgement.....to label people.....and to stereotype......absolutely no place for it. hence i wouldnt use some of your terms for that very reason..........tub of lard..........jelly bellies.......people are who they are...like it or not!!! illnesses in their various forms can have severe consequences to someones physical appearance and to their mental well being......and thats coming from someone who experienced both!! so good on you for making this girl feel valued as an individual.....the self esteem can be like a punch bag in some folk | |||
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"You shouldn't have to feel like you require to lose weight from what someone says Wiggly . Point is you should be happy with the way that you are not change due to what another says to you . And someone being skinny shouldn't have to feel they have to eat untill there sick all over place because someone bigger says they look ill like a boy because there so skinny . People should be happy with themselves then they won't cast upon others misfortune I'd like you to all have a lovely day . Share compassion not insults " ermmmm it was you who posted the derogatory" terms in the first place . so enuff already. go eat summat | |||
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"We all gain weight at some time in our life don't we .Even myself at one stage .Is it better to be a telly tubby then or someone who is a little thinner or more athletic should I have maybe said . I see as kita done he made a valid post for reasonable discussion and now I'm being attacked . There it can only be the way it's worded then that you had taken the offence to . Alright I see how it is now !,When it comes to another point of view in here there always wrong as they don't put it across as you would care to see it written. In that case people in this site still that are skinny look ill then is that what your saying or they look anorexic when there not there frame is only small as there pettite. How do you think that person fealt when you were having a go at them for being skinny . We don't have an issue with people overweight nor to skinny though I think what lays underneath requires some compassion as just prooved just now you don't like being called jelly bellys . If your overweight you could have health reason such as diabetis or eating disorder people have to understand and be compassionate not to hurt your feelings as you feel threatend by your appearance otherwise you wouldn't moan about it . So same respect should go to those of skinnier kind. Were all people were all human we all have feelings. So I say if people remember this then forums may be more friendly and less petty . Thankyou for all your personal views I've really enjoyed Reading them . " erm...cough...cough...excuse me.....i said well done for making the once anorexic person feel valued.....however you contradicted yourself and thus removed a lot of the good you were trying to get across on how not to be cruel or judge someone.........when making a statement that may be an attempt to educate others then ensure you do not leave yourself wide open to a response on your lack of tact......and by the way im one of the athletic type and the missus is on a diet.....hee hee....and as far as i can see your post is being discussed......your stated your opinion....others are stating theirs.......if you perceive that as being attacked then dont throw stones when playing in the greenhouse!!! | |||
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"We all gain weight at some time in our life don't we .Even myself at one stage .Is it better to be a telly tubby then or someone who is a little thinner or more athletic should I have maybe said . I see as kita done he made a valid post for reasonable discussion and now I'm being attacked . There it can only be the way it's worded then that you had taken the offence to . Alright I see how it is now !,When it comes to another point of view in here there always wrong as they don't put it across as you would care to see it written. In that case people in this site still that are skinny look ill then is that what your saying or they look anorexic when there not there frame is only small as there pettite. How do you think that person fealt when you were having a go at them for being skinny . We don't have an issue with people overweight nor to skinny though I think what lays underneath requires some compassion as just prooved just now you don't like being called jelly bellys . If your overweight you could have health reason such as diabetis or eating disorder people have to understand and be compassionate not to hurt your feelings as you feel threatend by your appearance otherwise you wouldn't moan about it . So same respect should go to those of skinnier kind. Were all people were all human we all have feelings. So I say if people remember this then forums may be more friendly and less petty . Thankyou for all your personal views I've really enjoyed Reading them . " I will repeat insulting someone about their their size works both ways. You were quite rightly saying that your friend being anorexic shouldn't be abused for her size, and then abused any women who are bigger. If you don't want anyone else's point of view on the subject then it would be wise not to post your thoughts on a public forum. Other people questioning your post is not deemed as an attack. | |||
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"I'm overweight. I admit it. But if anyone is actually crass enough to mention it I simply point out that I can always lose weight whereas they will ALWAYS be a complete moron. " Blimey if you are overweight then I want to be too xx | |||
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"Why post something like this in a public forum?" I will break my silence as I had promised myself not to go on the forums again... but this is quite ridiculous and it feels to me as if the thread was posted as the proverbial"cat amongst the pidgeons" causing as much collateral damage as possible, attacking a large number of people who may be conscious of their size (or lack of)... either way , a very pointless, judgmental thread whcih can only do more damage to the present climate. I urge everybody to distance themselves from judgmental, negative comments designed to cause trouble. With warm intentions from me... who hates bullies with a passion!!! | |||
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"Why post in public well if others wouldn't also post to cause ill feeling either would I . " So you admit you posted to deliberately cause ill feeling? | |||
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"Why post in public well if others wouldn't also post to cause ill feeling either would I . " scandalous!!!! | |||
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"Nit as scandalous as other people here getting away with open slander as it's still going get a life people fuck sake stop being in your bloody circle for goodness sake n stop following others make your own mind " as i belong to NO circle....and yes i said scandalous cos if you think its bad that someone was slandered....then what makes it ok for you to then slander others???? the slandering of anyone should not be tolerated whatsoever.....so please please get over it....im really bored to tears with these kind of tit for tat kind of threads!!!! | |||
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"foookinhell ... i go to work, come home and all hells broke loose ! Now who's for detention lol " i have been a naughty boy.......please miss i need a good hard spanking....lol | |||
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"foookinhell ... i go to work, come home and all hells broke loose ! Now who's for detention lol i have been a naughty boy.......please miss i need a good hard spanking....lol" yr gonna bloody get one if ya dont fill me in | |||
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"foookinhell ... i go to work, come home and all hells broke loose ! Now who's for detention lol i have been a naughty boy.......please miss i need a good hard spanking....lol yr gonna bloody get one if ya dont fill me in " You want filling in? Oh, rightie ho, bend over then. | |||
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"foookinhell ... i go to work, come home and all hells broke loose ! Now who's for detention lol i have been a naughty boy.......please miss i need a good hard spanking....lol yr gonna bloody get one if ya dont fill me in " guess i aint going to fill ya in then!!! | |||
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"foookinhell ... i go to work, come home and all hells broke loose ! Now who's for detention lol i have been a naughty boy.......please miss i need a good hard spanking....lol yr gonna bloody get one if ya dont fill me in You want filling in? Oh, rightie ho, bend over then. " hurry up, ive got a dodgy back | |||
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"Why is Kita now posting on a womans profile? or are they just too bloody similar?" Well now you have just confirmed what we have been thinking ... | |||
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"I'm saying absolutely fook all.... I already let the mods and admin know who I think it was ages back... Strange how they preach one thing then spout crap with another eh.. HYPOCRITES..... pmsl he he he .... I'll sut up tonight.... Maybe x " Oh spoilt sport (and my dad invented fourms as well) xx | |||
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"I'm saying absolutely fook all.... I already let the mods and admin know who I think it was ages back... Strange how they preach one thing then spout crap with another eh.. HYPOCRITES..... pmsl he he he .... I'll sut up tonight.... Maybe x " sut up? shut up ? or suit up ? lol mmmm in a suit ( the male half that is ) | |||
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"I'm saying absolutely fook all.... I already let the mods and admin know who I think it was ages back... Strange how they preach one thing then spout crap with another eh.. HYPOCRITES..... pmsl he he he .... I'll sut up tonight.... Maybe x Oh spoilt sport (and my dad invented fourms as well) xx" Well my Dad improved the forums and now he's dead and he's gonna haunt ya ! So put that in ya pipe and smoke it | |||
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"I'm saying absolutely fook all.... I already let the mods and admin know who I think it was ages back... Strange how they preach one thing then spout crap with another eh.. HYPOCRITES..... pmsl he he he .... I'll sut up tonight.... Maybe x Oh spoilt sport (and my dad invented fourms as well) xx Well my Dad improved the forums and now he's dead and he's gonna haunt ya ! So put that in ya pipe and smoke it " Well my dad died 34 years ago when i was 10 but he did all those things first so he will haunt you cause he had more practice | |||
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"I'm saying absolutely fook all.... I already let the mods and admin know who I think it was ages back... Strange how they preach one thing then spout crap with another eh.. HYPOCRITES..... pmsl he he he .... I'll sut up tonight.... Maybe x " Is that to the mods and admin? | |||
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"I'm saying absolutely fook all.... I already let the mods and admin know who I think it was ages back... Strange how they preach one thing then spout crap with another eh.. HYPOCRITES..... pmsl he he he .... I'll sut up tonight.... Maybe x Is that to the mods and admin?" I'm being good.... VERY lol... | |||
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"Ok I'll shut up then... Or then again maybe not lol.... " Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo | |||
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"I'm saying absolutely fook all.... I already let the mods and admin know who I think it was ages back... Strange how they preach one thing then spout crap with another eh.. HYPOCRITES..... pmsl he he he .... I'll sut up tonight.... Maybe x Is that to the mods and admin? I'm being good.... VERY lol... " Actually you are not. I take offence at you calling me a hyprocrite for not taking any notice of hearsay and watching instead. | |||
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"Chillllll guys ffs ..... Maybe a little bit of tongue in cheek going on here perhaps ? " I have better places than a cheek for that tongue.....;-) | |||
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"And people want me to stay after the Beach Party!!! Why???????? This place is chuffing ridiculous at the moment. We all know the thread maker is a forum banned member, even I reported it and nothing has been done. If it only takes one total arse to turn the forums into chaos, then maybe it's time for us all to leave and leave said arse on their own. Please Mods...... either shut the post and ban the idiot or give us the name of a site where all this shite doesn't happen!" The member has a right to privacy as to how it is had been dealt with so I won't comment on here. | |||
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" then maybe it's time for us all to leave and leave said arse on their own. " Isn't that why it all started, because sombody didn't want to touch an arse :P couldn't resist lol | |||
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" then maybe it's time for us all to leave and leave said arse on their own. Isn't that why it all started, because sombody didn't want to touch an arse :P couldn't resist lol" ARSE!!!! Girls,,,,, Drink..... Tittiiiiiiiies......lol | |||
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" then maybe it's time for us all to leave and leave said arse on their own. Isn't that why it all started, because sombody didn't want to touch an arse :P couldn't resist lol ARSE!!!! Girls,,,,, Drink..... Tittiiiiiiiies......lol" my daughters first ever word was Arse, all because of that show | |||
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" then maybe it's time for us all to leave and leave said arse on their own. Isn't that why it all started, because sombody didn't want to touch an arse :P couldn't resist lol ARSE!!!! Girls,,,,, Drink..... Tittiiiiiiiies......lol my daughters first ever word was Arse, all because of that show" Hahaha - shows you watched it FAR too much then, lol | |||
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