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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Every time?

Anyway, very few people are ugly to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everytime so far yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll have to send us one so we can check you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give it some time - 7 days isnt long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to us a few times. Welcome to the ugly club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol i knew that would come up but i feel as though you all would say no youre not ugly just be polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "

Well that's how you know your ugly then o guess lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply look in the mirror if it cracks then hey presto

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the ugly club i suppose 7 days isnt long but ive suspected it for a while now haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol i knew that would come up but i feel as though you all would say no youre not ugly just be polite "

Sure I've been blocked couple of times after sending one.fuck em. I don't think anyone should call folk ugly.none of us are perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The midwife slapped my dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened to us a few times. Welcome to the ugly club "

It happens to us all. ...I often get salt rubbed in the wound though as they bother to reply and call me cute .....then nothing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op beauty is in the eye of the beholder but yes fab people here do tend to think they're standards are higher here than in real world you just got to accept it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I make myself gag, it's not a good day! Lol!

Someone will think you are the hottest thing going (trying to apply the the same positive attitude to myself! Hahahaha!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened to us a few times. Welcome to the ugly club

It happens to us all. ...I often get salt rubbed in the wound though as they bother to reply and call me cute .....then nothing!! "

Cute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened to us a few times. Welcome to the ugly club

It happens to us all. ...I often get salt rubbed in the wound though as they bother to reply and call me cute .....then nothing!! "

cute arse x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your dad ties a pork chip round your neck so the dog will play with you

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Like the vanilla world not everyone will find everyone attractive - has happened to all of us at one time or another.

And can't believe it's happened that many times in the week you've been here OP - give it time (and the right profile/approach) and someone will be along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not finding someone attractive doesn't mean you think they're ugly.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "

When I send a face 'piccy' and they delete my message or block me, then I know that I am ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I make myself gag, it's not a good day! Lol!

Someone will think you are the hottest thing going (trying to apply the the same positive attitude to myself! Hahahaha!)"

Been trying that positive thing for years yet still the mirror cracks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol i knew that would come up but i feel as though you all would say no youre not ugly just be polite

Sure I've been blocked couple of times after sending one.fuck em. I don't think anyone should call folk ugly.none of us are perfect "

I bet u have caused a few nr car accidents with that figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not finding someone attractive doesn't mean you think they're ugly."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel better already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why not have a face pic for profile ..if someone's attracted or not life easier than what your doing now does it not ?......tbh I wouldn't worry you've a good body so wouldn't worry so much mate

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By *lwaysdiscreetMan
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

Very much in the same boat mate.

The thing i hate is you send your pictures and then one they never reply or two straight block you.

So would love to know if they would do that to a person face to face as well.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Not finding someone attractive doesn't mean you think they're ugly."

This. There are lots of people I don't find attractive but they aren't ugly, just not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked the first two times, I've sent someone a face pic.

Don't worry OP, it only took me 5 cosmetic surgeries and £27,000 pounds to get that fixed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very much in the same boat mate.

The thing i hate is you send your pictures and then one they never reply or two straight block you.

So would love to know if they would do that to a person face to face as well.

"

I would. If someone I didn't know and didn't want to talk to came up to me and introduced themselves? Yeah I'd walk off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out "

This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know

As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol i knew that would come up but i feel as though you all would say no youre not ugly just be polite "

There no such thing as ugly . I could find you the hottest mab on earth and the next person not be interested .

Mrs

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out

This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know

As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change. "

MzQT I have witnessed you in real life and can confirm you are very far from ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out

This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know

As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change.

MzQT I have witnessed you in real life and can confirm you are very far from ugly "

Doesn't change that I feel ugly. It's my prerogative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your parents covered your face in chocolate

so the dog would kiss you ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have to watch Jeremy Kyle to know there's someone out there for everyone.

Honestly though, OP, like the others have said, it may be that you're just not for them. That doesn't necessarily mean you're ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out

This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know

As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change.

MzQT I have witnessed you in real life and can confirm you are very far from ugly

Doesn't change that I feel ugly. It's my prerogative. "

I feel like a God on my bike, that doesn't make me want to ride off a cliff to test my immortality .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who wants a face pic then? Ha only jokin i dont have a facepic as my profile pic cause i dont fancy my friends or family seeing me on here although I've told most of my friends i made this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dog wouldnt even play with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Doesn't change that I feel ugly. It's my prerogative.

I feel like a God on my bike, that doesn't make me want to ride off a cliff to test my immortality ."

I don't get the point u are making lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the only reply you get back from women on here/dating sites is "ew no you're ugly", that lets you know lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Doesn't change that I feel ugly. It's my prerogative.

I feel like a God on my bike, that doesn't make me want to ride off a cliff to test my immortality .

I don't get the point u are making lol "

Because it's crap, don't listen to me

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By *oss and BootsCouple
over a year ago

grantham, lincolnshire


"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out

This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know

As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wants a face pic then? Ha only jokin i dont have a facepic as my profile pic cause i dont fancy my friends or family seeing me on here although I've told most of my friends i made this"

I want a face pic now because I'm a nosey bitch

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By *oss and BootsCouple
over a year ago

grantham, lincolnshire


"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out

This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know

As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change. "

Send us one, we will be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they know you and are being polite in their way about it.. personality and then face for me.. although I've never fucked an ugly person haha.. I'm intrigued x - jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your parents covered your face in chocolate

so the dog would kiss you ??????"

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

You go to kiss your mum goodbye after visiting for Sunday lunch and she screws up her eyes and visibly shakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to us all OP, don't take it personally. As others have said not everyone will react the same. Be patient another thought though, if the people you've sent face pics to are local, it could be that they recognise you and don't want to make things awkward? Could be wrong but you never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin rejects your face pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh imagine if that was the case hahaha

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By *oss and BootsCouple
over a year ago

grantham, lincolnshire


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "

From what I see so far, it all looks good

You're photo verified

Have a profile picture

Have a few pictures in your profile

You're very to the point

From the female of a couple, this is what we initially look at and would want to know more.

I don't think an ugly face can go with that body?

Maybe you get no response because you're just not to that persons taste.

Remember also that if it's a couple you're messaging, they both have to like you, straight or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look in the mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "

I bet you if you sent me a face pic I would reply back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out

This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know

As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change. "

I'm surprised any lad looks up from your fantastic tits to realise your a troll lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look in the mirror

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked

From what I see so far, it all looks good

You're photo verified

Have a profile picture

Have a few pictures in your profile

You're very to the point

From the female of a couple, this is what we initially look at and would want to know more.

I don't think an ugly face can go with that body?

Maybe you get no response because you're just not to that persons taste.

Remember also that if it's a couple you're messaging, they both have to like you, straight or not. "

sounds interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm surprised any lad looks up from your fantastic tits to realise your a troll lol x"

That's probably why they all think I'm beautiful I know how to use my assets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm surprised any lad looks up from your fantastic tits to realise your a troll lol x

That's probably why they all think I'm beautiful I know how to use my assets lol "

pity your so far down south I'd love to watch your assets as u mesmerise me x

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"The midwife slapped my dad. "

When I was born they said to my dad "Good & Bad news, Its a beautiful little boy, bad news, its obviously not yours!"..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The midwife slapped my dad.

When I was born they said to my dad "Good & Bad news, Its a beautiful little boy, bad news, its obviously not yours!"..

S"

Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mother used to breast feed me using a straw i was that ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The person you're with puts a bag over their own head in case your's slips off.

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By *eepster1Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I have been on here 2years and still have had no fun God l must be God damage ugly/but l put it down to 1milleon men to 1000 female s or om ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mother used to breast feed me using a straw i was that ugly"

My mother used to feed me with a catapult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm surprised any lad looks up from your fantastic tits to realise your a troll lol x

That's probably why they all think I'm beautiful I know how to use my assets lol "

Assets, you mean 'ass etc'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where on earth is Shag when you need him?

Don't want to steal his thunder but it has something to do with patience and keys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you're not op but send me a pic if you like

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By *eepster1Man
over a year ago

birmingham

And you carnt spell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wants a face pic then? Ha only jokin i dont have a facepic as my profile pic cause i dont fancy my friends or family seeing me on here although I've told most of my friends i made this

I want a face pic now because I'm a nosey bitch "

Hahaha me too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you get mobbed in the high street by a bunch of Harry Potter fans because they think you're Dobby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look in the mirror!Lol XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you carnt spell"

* can't

Pot - Kettle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

send me a pic, I will be honest.

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

"How do you know if you're ugly"

Last time I was on the radio they made me put a paper-bag over my head.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I think everyone has something about them that even they find ugly but often another person doesn't even notice it.

Nobody's perfect and even a hottie girl can have an ugly attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send me a face pic and il tell you?

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By *oss and BootsCouple
over a year ago

grantham, lincolnshire


"I think everyone has something about them that even they find ugly but often another person doesn't even notice it.

Nobody's perfect and even a hottie girl can have an ugly attitude"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm fugly and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "

Could be worse. I have face pics public on my profile. Imagine the lack of response I get! Lol

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

My mum put a picture of me on the fire place to scare my brother and sister away to stop them hurting themselves

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

You've been on here 7 days, but of patience mate.

Make sure your face pic is clear, either clean shaven or well kept beard/stubble. Don't pull a face and a natural smile. Selfies of single men are a tad off putting, try finding a sociable pic with you in and crop/boot everyone else out.

Good luck and have fun xxx

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I'm not saying I'm ugly but when I went to the haunted house I came out with a job application

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Surely that's what paper bags(2 if necessary) and the doggy position was invented for

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You know your ugly when it comes to a group picture and they hand you the camera

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"You know your ugly when it comes to a group picture and they hand you the camera "

That one was hilarious mate!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "

Reality bites mate; you weren't for them. Don't take it personally, just move on. It is possible they actually know you, and don't want their ordinary life and Fab life overlapping too. You're in a good location for future prospects, so like others have said, give it time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not finding someone attractive doesn't mean you think they're ugly."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just look in the mirror!Lol XXX"

I find that hard to believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know if you're ugly? Hmmmm, if you're the last one left in a night club!! I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give Daphne and Celeste a call.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

It's it frowned upon to ask someone to wear a paper bag over their head?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"It's it frowned upon to ask someone to wear a paper bag over their head?

"

If it got me laid I'd wear three bags

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

No one's called me ugly to my face .. they always run away crying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's it frowned upon to ask someone to wear a paper bag over their head?

"

And a bag for yourself in case theirs falls off, it us called a 'Double bagger'

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"No one's called me ugly to my face .. they always run away crying "

No one probably would because most won't fight ugly people they have nothing to lose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happend to me as well so sad haha

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Not a bad way to get women clamouring for a face pic. Nicely played OP

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

If I could only ever give out one bit of advice regarding Fab it would be this, don't let this place ever make you feel ugly. It is fatal.

I've skirted close on occasions. Thankfully I'm long passed that now. You have to remember that people will reject you but that's just the nature of the site and never because you're ugly. Nobody's ugly.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

We're all a little big ugly sometimes. Deleted and blocked after a face picture is not proof of ugly though... otherwise, I've been battered and not just hit with that ugly stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the face that launched a thousand blocks

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"It's it frowned upon to ask someone to wear a paper bag over their head?

"

Worse; I get told not to cut a hole for breathing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "

That dont make you ugly, just not to their taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the ugly club i suppose 7 days isnt long but ive suspected it for a while now haha"

How do you do out their in the real world? I've never rated my looks highly and do crap in the real world, i've only ever had one relationship in all my life, how do you think that feels that only one guy ever has seen you as good enough to spend time with

I bet you can beat that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "
your not on your own I've even been told I look like a chimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked

your not on your own I've even been told I look like a chimp "

Lee Evans made a career out of that, dont knock it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you're not to everyone's taste it doesn't mean that there isn't someone out there who thinks you're absolutely the bees knees and would love to get to know you if you would just notice them.

Believe in yourself!

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

My OH has, apparently, never been told that's he's ugly. Probably because he isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "

maybe you have the BOBFOC syndrome...

that's body off Baywatch, face off crimewatch

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked

maybe you have the BOBFOC syndrome...

that's body off Baywatch, face off crimewatch "

My OH has said he's the other way round...

Face off Baywatch, body off Crimewatch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened to us a few times. Welcome to the ugly club

It happens to us all. ...I often get salt rubbed in the wound though as they bother to reply and call me cute .....then nothing!! "

Cute is a friend zone word. I hear it a lot

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Not finding someone attractive doesn't mean you think they're ugly."

this!

Op - this is a hard site for men to succeed in from the off!

You have a great body - you're clearly doing the best you can with what you've got!

Can I ask how you get on in the real world? Are you successful with ladies there?

A lot of guys who are very popular in the real world still struggle on here - especially when they're new! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face only a mother could love here

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


" the ugly club i suppose 7 days isnt long but ive suspected it for a while now haha

How do you do out their in the real world? I've never rated my looks highly and do crap in the real world, i've only ever had one relationship in all my life, how do you think that feels that only one guy ever has seen you as good enough to spend time with

I bet you can beat that "

I can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so good question op,

I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?

My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so good question op,

I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?

My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery. "

The answer to that is really a mystery?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol i knew that would come up but i feel as though you all would say no youre not ugly just be polite "

How do we know if you're ugly or not? Ask the question but give us something to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so good question op,

I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?

My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.

The answer to that is really a mystery?

"

Guess we better get old scooby and the gang involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened to us a few times. Welcome to the ugly club

It happens to us all. ...I often get salt rubbed in the wound though as they bother to reply and call me cute .....then nothing!!

Cute is a friend zone word. I hear it a lot "

It's not even that in my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so good question op,

I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?

My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.

The answer to that is really a mystery?

Guess we better get old scooby and the gang involved"

I am only surmising here, but I bet it has something to do with him being a billionaire

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

You get a red eye

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "

I don't know what you look like but don't say it's because you are ugly. It's just you're not their type. Nothing wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so good question op,

I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?

My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.

The answer to that is really a mystery?

Guess we better get old scooby and the gang involved

I am only surmising here, but I bet it has something to do with him being a billionaire "

How very dare you be so cynical

I for one have no doubt she would have still married him if he was a nobody working the checkouts at walmart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so good question op,

I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?

My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.

The answer to that is really a mystery?

Guess we better get old scooby and the gang involved

I am only surmising here, but I bet it has something to do with him being a billionaire "

Okay there we have it mystery solved you need to be a billionaire to have a chance on fab good luck pmsl

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It's happened to us a few times. Welcome to the ugly club

It happens to us all. ...I often get salt rubbed in the wound though as they bother to reply and call me cute .....then nothing!!

Cute is a friend zone word. I hear it a lot

It's not even that in my case "

I'm straight so it's only friendship but you're going to have to harder to get called ugly and cute doesn't work with your striking features.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so good question op,

I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?

My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.

The answer to that is really a mystery?

Guess we better get old scooby and the gang involved

I am only surmising here, but I bet it has something to do with him being a billionaire

Okay there we have it mystery solved you need to be a billionaire to have a chance on fab good luck pmsl"

or tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened to us a few times. Welcome to the ugly club

It happens to us all. ...I often get salt rubbed in the wound though as they bother to reply and call me cute .....then nothing!!

Cute is a friend zone word. I hear it a lot

It's not even that in my case

I'm straight so it's only friendship but you're going to have to harder to get called ugly and cute doesn't work with your striking features.

"

oh ssshhhh now Lickety. ...people generally respect your opinion on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "

It happens to me most of the time, no reason to be bothered about it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so good question op,

I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?

My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.

The answer to that is really a mystery?

Guess we better get old scooby and the gang involved

I am only surmising here, but I bet it has something to do with him being a billionaire

Okay there we have it mystery solved you need to be a billionaire to have a chance on fab good luck pmsl

or tits "

or a generous endowment.....policy lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a bad way to get women clamouring for a face pic. Nicely played OP

"

that was not my intention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not finding someone attractive doesn't mean you think they're ugly.

this!

Op - this is a hard site for men to succeed in from the off!

You have a great body - you're clearly doing the best you can with what you've got!

Can I ask how you get on in the real world? Are you successful with ladies there?

A lot of guys who are very popular in the real world still struggle on here - especially when they're new! Xx"

honestly i never ever get hit on. I know why tho i generally look moody even though im a happy person. But most likely not the best looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a bad way to get women clamouring for a face pic. Nicely played OP

that was not my intention "

I want to see you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is fluid

It is subjective

Those we seek are probably the polar opposite of what most seek

And whilst we won't be in the majority, won't be on our own in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When your dad ties a pork chip round your neck so the dog will play with you "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

And rejection on here isn't always about one's face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah mr op. You are far from ugly

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked

It happens to me most of the time, no reason to be bothered about it though "

Not all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked

It happens to me most of the time, no reason to be bothered about it though

Not all the time "

That's true

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Not finding someone attractive doesn't mean you think they're ugly.

this!

Op - this is a hard site for men to succeed in from the off!

You have a great body - you're clearly doing the best you can with what you've got!

Can I ask how you get on in the real world? Are you successful with ladies there?

A lot of guys who are very popular in the real world still struggle on here - especially when they're new! Xx honestly i never ever get hit on. I know why tho i generally look moody even though im a happy person. But most likely not the best looking "

I'm not the best looking either! I'm just lucky because I'm a woman - so I can make the most of myself with hair, make-up etc!

All you can do is make the most of the features you've got, ensure you're well groomed - and smile! I'm a sucker for a nice smile and nice eyes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your reflection flinch?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm just waiting for a flock of swans to find me and cheer me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly?

Ive had the same face for 20 years. I've never felt attractive. (What's attractive about big eyebrows, big nose and a mouth and face that burns when you grin?)

But... I now embrace and appreciate my quirks.

I'm open, friendly, relaxed...

Ugly or handsome isn't the only measure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why not have a face pic for profile ..if someone's attracted or not life easier than what your doing now does it not ?......tbh I wouldn't worry you've a good body so wouldn't worry so much mate "

A lot of people don't want to be recognised on here. It's all about discretion. Keeping this side of their lives private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you turn up at a meet... the lady opens the car door says..

Oh God No...

Then drives away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why not have a face pic for profile ..if someone's attracted or not life easier than what your doing now does it not ?......tbh I wouldn't worry you've a good body so wouldn't worry so much mate

A lot of people don't want to be recognised on here. It's all about discretion. Keeping this side of their lives private. "

I totally get and respect that so maybe the other option would be to have one in friends only pics once you've messaged a few times instead ,I don't really know the answer to the problem it was just an idea to save this kind of "am I ugly" situation

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

You make fresh milk curdle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me the male know I am not as attractive as my other half so I send a pic on the understanding that you look at them after having 2 bottles of wine . I look good then

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

When you are born and your parents look at each other and say "shit happens"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I uploaded a face piccy then found out I was blocked from my own profile.

Butters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you look at yourself in the mirror and think she's ugly and then realise it's you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you fall off a tree and branches move away from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents used to tie a bone around my neck so the dog would play with me

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