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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are going to try something a little different tomorrow night at Chameleons. We are going as a couple, as usual, but once in there will split up and go our separate ways and be singles for the night.

I will be scared to death, what if noone talks to me, ill have noone to hide behind as I get into the jacuzzi (normally attach myself to Chris's behind so noone can see my tummy as I get in), Ill have to actually approach people myself if I want to play, oh god im terrified just typing it.

Chris will be entering the realms of the single guy, he intends to stand around flaccid wanking all night and sitting in the jacuzzi with his legs outstretched in the hope a female will trip up and land on his cock.

So how do the ladies who go to clubs alone cope. Are you ever bored or on your own, or do guys approach a lot, do you go up to guys and ask to play or do you just hope that by being in a public room, a guys hands will stray over and you can continue to play if you wish.

And are single women allowed in the couples room. I know it says couples and I know that women are treated differently to single guys so would I be thrown out of there if I sat in the chair on my own (hoping for an invite in)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not separate on arrival and then at some point in the evening chat each other up and pretend you've never met before. I bet you have some horny sex and if others are watching you can invite them in (say to your other half something like, "look, we don't really know each other so I hope you don't mind if I have his cock too.")

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Why not separate on arrival and then at some point in the evening chat each other up and pretend you've never met before. I bet you have some horny sex and if others are watching you can invite them in (say to your other half something like, "look, we don't really know each other so I hope you don't mind if I have his cock too.")"

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh errrr now that is horny... See I knew I needed a man for something...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not separate on arrival and then at some point in the evening chat each other up and pretend you've never met before. I bet you have some horny sex and if others are watching you can invite them in (say to your other half something like, "look, we don't really know each other so I hope you don't mind if I have his cock too.")

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh errrr now that is horny... See I knew I needed a man for something... "

I'm a man of many talents. Many VARIED talents.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have never been on my own nor would I to be honest... that is my choice I guess..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes we are going to meet up throughout the night as the thought of being on my own for hours scares me. We have said we will try it for an hour and then check in with each other. I like your thinking though

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'll be there tomorrow doing the exact same thing. If no-one talks to you, I will.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Why not separate on arrival and then at some point in the evening chat each other up and pretend you've never met before. I bet you have some horny sex and if others are watching you can invite them in (say to your other half something like, "look, we don't really know each other so I hope you don't mind if I have his cock too.")

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh errrr now that is horny... See I knew I needed a man for something...

I'm a man of many talents. Many VARIED talents. "

You are indeed....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'll be there tomorrow doing the exact same thing. If no-one talks to you, I will. "

Ohhh I want to go now.. not been in ages..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've pretty much always gone alone and love it. I spend most of the night gassing to people I've known for years and met that night. If there's a guy you like, strike up a conversation they'll be chuffed someone has made the effort. I often use tattoos as an ice breaker lol if it's a bit quiet I love to chill out a bit in the sauna and jacuzzi but honest, you'll not feel like a spare one. Have a lovely time x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll be there tomorrow doing the exact same thing. If no-one talks to you, I will. "

Oh thats brilliant, be nice to see you and say hi. Do you ever get nervous on your own or do you feel really confident once inside the club

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'll be there tomorrow doing the exact same thing. If no-one talks to you, I will.

Oh thats brilliant, be nice to see you and say hi. Do you ever get nervous on your own or do you feel really confident once inside the club "

I can assure you, you won't lack male attention anyway.

I am always a little nervous but, once you start playing, you'll be fine.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'll be there tomorrow doing the exact same thing. If no-one talks to you, I will.

Oh thats brilliant, be nice to see you and say hi. Do you ever get nervous on your own or do you feel really confident once inside the club "

You will be fine and if things get to much find the other half..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We separated once at a party, and after a while I went to try and find her to see if she was ok. Anyway, I shouted her name and she replied "I'm in here"

I went into this room and she was with 5 guys

I tried to join in the fun and a guy said to me "hang on mate, wait your turn", I said "fuck you, it's my wife" and told him to go away, in no uncertain terms, lol.

We regularly have a chuckle about that experience

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I've pretty much always gone alone and love it. I spend most of the night gassing to people I've known for years and met that night. If there's a guy you like, strike up a conversation they'll be chuffed someone has made the effort. I often use tattoos as an ice breaker lol if it's a bit quiet I love to chill out a bit in the sauna and jacuzzi but honest, you'll not feel like a spare one. Have a lovely time x"

Same here. Other than the tattoo's...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally go to clubs and house parties on my own.

I just chat to folks. I get more nervous doing new 1 on 1 meets!

At least at a club/party there is lots of different people to chat/play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have noticed that ladies will consider being alone in a Swing club.However I doubt many would consider being alone in a night club.

Then people call swingers!!!!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"I've pretty much always gone alone and love it. I spend most of the night gassing to people I've known for years and met that night. If there's a guy you like, strike up a conversation they'll be chuffed someone has made the effort. I often use tattoos as an ice breaker lol if it's a bit quiet I love to chill out a bit in the sauna and jacuzzi but honest, you'll not feel like a spare one. Have a lovely time x

Same here. Other than the tattoo's..."

We're going tomorrow night and a few weeks ago we started to seperate on going in.

It's working far better for us than as a couple as I was always ended up with the blokes that couldn't get it up, wouldn't get it up or were 2".

You certainly won't be stuck for conversation in the jacuzzi so have no fear and if you find yourself at the bar or on the smoking deck, you can always come and talk to me........ if BrightBabe hasn't chewed my ear off by then

Have no fear.....you won't be stuck for conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...if you find yourself at the bar or on the smoking deck, you can always come and talk to me........ if BrightBabe hasn't chewed my ear off by then

Have no fear.....you won't be stuck for conversation."

I won't be there this weekend. Cheeky. Well, maybe Sunday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont be there either but you will have a great night. I prefer going on my own noone to answer to and can do my own thing. Always great people to chat play with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you I will certainly do my damnest to have a great time. I tend to hide behind Chris a lot of the time, whilst I am chatty and lively, I wouldnt dream of asking a guy to play and so Chris usually does that for me, or if I am in the same room as him ill sit closer and hope for the best. This experience will teach me that Ill have to become more confident like all the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no fear, Iconic, you will be fine!

Like you, I was very nervous before I went alone to a club on a 'mixed' night, but I soon found that I had nothing to worry about. You won't find that you're standing alone like Billy-No-Mates - the guys will make the effort to talk to YOU. If you should find yourself at a loose end for a minute or two, just check around for a lost-looking guy sitting on his own - he'll be new/scared and he will be delighted if you go up to him and say "hi, I'm Iconic, are you new, are you nervous? etc". If he turns out to be a twonk, you can move on after 10 mins "well, I'd better mingle"!

In three years, I've never had to ask a man to play. Just smile at your 'victim', and he will soon get the message that HE should ask YOU!

Have a lovely time - I'm sure you will!

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

So Iconic, how did it go?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I had a fantastic night at Chams. It was scary at first but you have to make the effort and chat. Firstly I thought couples might be safe and ended up sitting with two different lots of couples who were great. I then went and looked around, I smiled at guys and they started ther conversation so all was good. I only had two guys grab me as I walked past and were a bit pushy but I gently extracted myself and there was no bother.

The most liberating was going into the orgy room. I saw a nice group of guys and just stood next to them. Someone touched my boobs and I was ok from then on. I lay on the bed and asked a guy to lick me and he obliged, was brilliant. Felt so proud that I'd plucked up the courage to ask myself, usually Chris does the approaching.

I did laugh at one point when I heard a guy knocking peoples drinks off the radiator and looked up to see it was Chris. He also decided to try that room, later saw him in the corner having a blowjob. He was really pleased that as a single guy he managed to play a little.

It was so liberating and people are happy to let you join in their conversations. I found couples in their 40s the most eager for me to join them. The young couples didn't bother talking but all ages of single guys did.

Didn't manage to go in the jacuzzi by myself, had to hide behind Chris for that but ill do that next time

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"We are going to try something a little different tomorrow night at Chameleons. We are going as a couple, as usual, but once in there will split up and go our separate ways and be singles for the night.

I will be scared to death, what if noone talks to me, ill have noone to hide behind as I get into the jacuzzi (normally attach myself to Chris's behind so noone can see my tummy as I get in), Ill have to actually approach people myself if I want to play, oh god im terrified just typing it.

Chris will be entering the realms of the single guy, he intends to stand around flaccid wanking all night and sitting in the jacuzzi with his legs outstretched in the hope a female will trip up and land on his cock.

So how do the ladies who go to clubs alone cope. Are you ever bored or on your own, or do guys approach a lot, do you go up to guys and ask to play or do you just hope that by being in a public room, a guys hands will stray over and you can continue to play if you wish.

And are single women allowed in the couples room. I know it says couples and I know that women are treated differently to single guys so would I be thrown out of there if I sat in the chair on my own (hoping for an invite in) "

You've now got K think, what a thing to do, and your description of how chris would act as a single guy is accurate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice one well done you I am so used to chams now and so relaxed its a bit like going home for me now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd also like to meet up with another woman in a club and hunt in pairs, or threes etc, the girls to pick a victim in the club, go up to him and say oi you, put that drink down and get upstairs to the mirrored ceiling room where you can deal with our needs !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in I will be your wingman

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yep I had a fab time also. Shame I won't get to go often but next time I am in the area I'll be along!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd also like to meet up with another woman in a club and hunt in pairs, or threes etc, the girls to pick a victim in the club, go up to him and say oi you, put that drink down and get upstairs to the mirrored ceiling room where you can deal with our needs ! "

that sounds awesome i wouldnt mind doing something like that might have to steal your idea sounds horny

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'd also like to meet up with another woman in a club and hunt in pairs, or threes etc, the girls to pick a victim in the club, go up to him and say oi you, put that drink down and get upstairs to the mirrored ceiling room where you can deal with our needs ! "

As I am 6ft can I be the look out...

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

nice one Feebs, glad you and Chris had a great night!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Count me in I will be your wingman "

.... and I'll be tail end Charlie

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