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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well today my son has or should I say is, moving out to live in a flat with his girlfriend not sure what I am supposed to do now, I was okay when he went on holiday but this is for so much longer and I have no idea what one does now when both kids have flown the nest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have fun ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go round to theirs on a Sunday for a roast dinner and leave them with all the washing up! LOL

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

change the locks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go round to theirs on a Sunday for a roast dinner and leave them with all the washing up! LOL "

Thats a good plan as they often left the washing up for me when I cooked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"change the locks "

oooo thats not nice......but i like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well today my son has or should I say is, moving out to live in a flat with his girlfriend not sure what I am supposed to do now, I was okay when he went on holiday but this is for so much longer and I have no idea what one does now when both kids have flown the nest "
run about naked have a wee party invited a friend round

get laid

make as much noise you like but could not do before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite me down for a dirty weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have fun ? "

Yes oh yes just a bit conscious of being able to accommodate and what it will incur

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Invite me down for a dirty weekend "

Oh yes most definitely

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By *acktilMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury


"change the locks

oooo thats not nice......but i like it! "

I can get a good discount from a mate whos a locksmith.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have fun ?

Yes oh yes just a bit conscious of being able to accommodate and what it will incur"

you dont have to accomadate thou. just maybe a bit more freedom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"change the locks

oooo thats not nice......but i like it!

I can get a good discount from a mate whos a locksmith. "

I shall be home alone Monday night, is that too soon

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I bought two kittens when my son left home lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have fun ?

Yes oh yes just a bit conscious of being able to accommodate and what it will incur

you dont have to accomadate thou. just maybe a bit more freedom "

Oh yes I know that just think that if I take out the line that says son lives with me, I will get every guy on this planet wanting to come round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have fun ?

Yes oh yes just a bit conscious of being able to accommodate and what it will incur"

you can't use the kids as an excuse not to accommodate anymore lol ... must be a real shock to your system to have free space and time to yourself after so many years.

Take a deep breath, decide how you want YOUR house, and then who you want in it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I bought two kittens when my son left home lol"

I have 6 kittens of varying ages and to "mother" cats so no more please

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By *acktilMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury


"change the locks

oooo thats not nice......but i like it!

I can get a good discount from a mate whos a locksmith.

I shall be home alone Monday night, is that too soon "

Plan, got sunday filled already?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have fun ?

Yes oh yes just a bit conscious of being able to accommodate and what it will incur

you can't use the kids as an excuse not to accommodate anymore lol ... must be a real shock to your system to have free space and time to yourself after so many years.

Take a deep breath, decide how you want YOUR house, and then who you want in it. "

Not sure about shock yet, just more about getting lonely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"change the locks

oooo thats not nice......but i like it!

I can get a good discount from a mate whos a locksmith.

I shall be home alone Monday night, is that too soon

Plan, got sunday filled already? "

Yes meeting at pub, take more stuff to sons then a meet

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By *acktilMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury


"change the locks

oooo thats not nice......but i like it!

I can get a good discount from a mate whos a locksmith.

I shall be home alone Monday night, is that too soon

Plan, got sunday filled already?

Yes meeting at pub, take more stuff to sons then a meet"

Dam

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"change the locks

oooo thats not nice......but i like it!

I can get a good discount from a mate whos a locksmith.

I shall be home alone Monday night, is that too soon

Plan, got sunday filled already?

Yes meeting at pub, take more stuff to sons then a meet

Dam "

But then you are not alone sunday are you

Dont worry though, ive plenty of days, hours and minutes for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have fun ?

Yes oh yes just a bit conscious of being able to accommodate and what it will incur

you dont have to accomadate thou. just maybe a bit more freedom

Oh yes I know that just think that if I take out the line that says son lives with me, I will get every guy on this planet wanting to come round "

Then don't take it out - if he still has a key then he may call round - so therefore you can only accom select people at select times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have fun ?

Yes oh yes just a bit conscious of being able to accommodate and what it will incur

you dont have to accomadate thou. just maybe a bit more freedom

Oh yes I know that just think that if I take out the line that says son lives with me, I will get every guy on this planet wanting to come round

Then don't take it out - if he still has a key then he may call round - so therefore you can only accom select people at select times "

And dont say anything about having changed the locks...

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

wish our youngest (and he's flammin well 28) would move out would give us much more freedom to invite people home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just rememember what a very good mum you were to your children.

always be there if they need a shoulder to cry on.

be proud because you raised fine children into adults through very difficult times.

i know lately we havnt always seen eye to eye grey but you'll still a fantastic woman who has been through the mill at times when we have spoken.

but your done a good job with your children and shows what a fine person you are.

well done you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my youngest went off to uni I thought her sister would move in with her boyfriend: unfortunately she moved him in instead of moving out! I had it all planned: the debauchery...

Looking forward to having my house to myself before I need a carer to get me ready for bed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well today my son has or should I say is, moving out to live in a flat with his girlfriend not sure what I am supposed to do now, I was okay when he went on holiday but this is for so much longer and I have no idea what one does now when both kids have flown the nest "

It takes some getting used to i can tell you.

I felt quite down for quite a while and worried all the time but the feelings eventually lessen.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

it will be strange for a few weeks, but you will get used to the peace and quiet, but be warned they will pop in and still raid the fridge and cupboards to see if the can find anything off interest to take home with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont start panicking, they tend to be frequent visitors and fridge raiders when still young

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

Go round to there home,leave every door open,turn every light on,run across the settee,turn the Tv on & the CD player,run up & down stairs,slam the doors then when they ask why are you doing that just say i am doing what you use to do when you were kids.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Seriously, when you see them it will be quality time. I dont see my son that often but on the phone most days. Going to see him and his g/f tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just rememember what a very good mum you were to your children.

always be there if they need a shoulder to cry on.

be proud because you raised fine children into adults through very difficult times.

i know lately we havnt always seen eye to eye grey but you'll still a fantastic woman who has been through the mill at times when we have spoken.

but your done a good job with your children and shows what a fine person you are.

well done you xx"

Thank you xx

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

its a strange feeling at first when they go off, albeit only to uni etc.

first thing one does when he pops in is to open the fridge and have a root about, nothing ever changes.

good luck with the adjusting, anyway just look forward to the day they knock on the door with a little bundle of their own....

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By *acktilMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury


"change the locks

oooo thats not nice......but i like it!

I can get a good discount from a mate whos a locksmith.

I shall be home alone Monday night, is that too soon

Plan, got sunday filled already?

Yes meeting at pub, take more stuff to sons then a meet

Dam

But then you are not alone sunday are you

Dont worry though, ive plenty of days, hours and minutes for you "

That just makes me feel so privliged, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And remember only to cook for one lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And remember only to cook for one lol"

Yes make a stew for 4 which means 4 days great

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go round to there home,leave every door open,turn every light on,run across the settee,turn the Tv on & the CD player,run up & down stairs,slam the doors then when they ask why are you doing that just say i am doing what you use to do when you were kids. "

Don't forget leave clothes all over the floor, food in the bedroom rotting, bring mates round and tread muddy footprints everywhere, play music so loud the house shakes gonna miss his stereo

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Well today my son has or should I say is, moving out to live in a flat with his girlfriend not sure what I am supposed to do now, I was okay when he went on holiday but this is for so much longer and I have no idea what one does now when both kids have flown the nest "

Enjoy hun.

I've got 3 kids...... all in different parts of the country.

Apart from the constant phone calls on a Saturday night when I'm watching Britains Go No Talent (obviously just before they go out on the razz)..... it's lovely to have a life and just have them back for visits.

Christmas pressies get better as well once they realise just how much mum used to do for them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well today my son has or should I say is, moving out to live in a flat with his girlfriend not sure what I am supposed to do now, I was okay when he went on holiday but this is for so much longer and I have no idea what one does now when both kids have flown the nest

Enjoy hun.

I've got 3 kids...... all in different parts of the country.

Apart from the constant phone calls on a Saturday night when I'm watching Britains Go No Talent (obviously just before they go out on the razz)..... it's lovely to have a life and just have them back for visits.

Christmas pressies get better as well once they realise just how much mum used to do for them! "

Morning Miss, another one up bright and early

Yes a life, just dont know what life is without kids though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry, grandkids will be on the horizon before long if you are lucky xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have fun ?

Yes oh yes just a bit conscious of being able to accommodate and what it will incur"

you dont have to tell anyone you can accommodate ...i dont but i can !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry, grandkids will be on the horizon before long if you are lucky xx"

I had just got used to my own space after my girls left home then the grandkids started to arrive (10 to date). Now again have covers on the sofa, teddies in the spare room, a toy box in the corner of the lounge and, have to remember to hide MY toys when they come to stay. Enjoy you new found freedom while you can ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have fun ?

Yes oh yes just a bit conscious of being able to accommodate and what it will incur

you dont have to tell anyone you can accommodate ...i dont but i can !!"

ooops the secret is out now

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

shag till your arse falls off lass x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well today my son has or should I say is, moving out to live in a flat with his girlfriend not sure what I am supposed to do now, I was okay when he went on holiday but this is for so much longer and I have no idea what one does now when both kids have flown the nest "

Ill come keep ya company xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well today my son has or should I say is, moving out to live in a flat with his girlfriend not sure what I am supposed to do now, I was okay when he went on holiday but this is for so much longer and I have no idea what one does now when both kids have flown the nest

Ill come keep ya company xx "

dont forget to tell the wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have fun ?

Yes oh yes just a bit conscious of being able to accommodate and what it will incur

you dont have to tell anyone you can accommodate ...i dont but i can !!

ooops the secret is out now "

its ok no one takes any notice of forum posts !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Invite me down for a dirty weekend

Oh yes most definitely "

and invite me to join you both

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