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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have a question can you really find love on a swinging site.. Not that I want to but have always wondered if you could.. Some friends say no never and some say it could happen you just never no..

And before anyone say it no way am I using this site as a dating site I use thisl site to fill me boots with horny men.. and women.. haha

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By *hiz2112Man
over a year ago

south wales and gloucestershire

well if you meet someone and click yes i believe you can find love anywere

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You can meet the love of your life anywhere so why not on a swingers site. I think if someone comes on this site to use as a dating site they will be disappointed. But you can find love anywhere.

I met my love of my life in an adult cinema

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i meet my bf from here we both was not looking but just happend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a lovely couple at partners the other night that met through this site. They really were so suitable for each other and had been together for years. I suppose they had the same things in common, so you never know how close you may get to someone... even when you are dead set against it.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Quite a few have gone on to have successful relationships

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Very true I know why I am on here met some great men... met some not so great men but that is what happens everyday.. haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it can happen, I was never really looking for it and it happened for a good while, tho we stopped swinging in the physical sense soon after we got together...a real shame cause we coulda had alot more fun!!!

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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

Well i remember 1s that me and a mate met these ladies in a pub ,Danielle and Kate were they names and they were realy hot anyways we took them back to mine and we shagged fuck out ov the two ov them and them out ov each other it all in and was a great night and a wicked forsome ,anyways i know that it dosent have much to do with this thread but its still sort ov swinging ,so this is 6 years after and Danielle and i got married last august and we have a 2 and a 4 yr old so id agree anything is possible espesially if your me so does this count lol?

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Well i remember 1s that me and a mate met these ladies in a pub ,Danielle and Kate were they names and they were realy hot anyways we took them back to mine and we shagged fuck out ov the two ov them and them out ov each other it all in and was a great night and a wicked forsome ,anyways i know that it dosent have much to do with this thread but its still sort ov swinging ,so this is 6 years after and Danielle and i got married last august and we have a 2 and a 4 yr old so id agree anything is possible espesially if your me so does this count lol? "

I have to say I enjoy swinging and would like to meet someone on the same wavelength I remember going on a date and he asked what I like doing and without thinking what I said I said I enjoy swinging the date ended 5 mins after that.. what I am trying to say in some aspects its part of me and my world and if a person cannot accept that then they are not for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably happens more than you think, a couple I know really well met on here a few years ago and their still happily together

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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!


"Well i remember 1s that me and a mate met these ladies in a pub ,Danielle and Kate were they names and they were realy hot anyways we took them back to mine and we shagged fuck out ov the two ov them and them out ov each other it all in and was a great night and a wicked forsome ,anyways i know that it dosent have much to do with this thread but its still sort ov swinging ,so this is 6 years after and Danielle and i got married last august and we have a 2 and a 4 yr old so id agree anything is possible espesially if your me so does this count lol?

I have to say I enjoy swinging and would like to meet someone on the same wavelength I remember going on a date and he asked what I like doing and without thinking what I said I said I enjoy swinging the date ended 5 mins after that.. what I am trying to say in some aspects its part of me and my world and if a person cannot accept that then they are not for me.... "

Thats right hun as Dan and i knew from the outset that we both were sexually naughty so we just carried on with what we knew lol and by god its been awsome and weve made some wicked freiands fp like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not you are both on here have open _iews towards sex plus have same interests. I know after being a swingle could not go back to a straight relationship. As love it too much to give it up not just the sexual aspects of swinging but the social side have made some great friends.

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By *im and whoreCouple
over a year ago

near bangor

on the other foot,is there much swinging on dating sites ?

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

Larry and I met on another adult site, have been together for 4 years, married for almost 3 and have a little boy together.

If you click with someone on here then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no longer meeting as I'm only seeing one person - we met four yeas ago on SH. We just got on. Will it last another four - who knows, but for the time being we're having a blast.

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

Haha I've been approached by blokes on dating sites that use the same pics on here .... so I think the answer is yes

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By *iercedTattooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

bangor

I remember a post like this before!

But yeah you can, i know someone close to me who has fallen in love with someone while they were both on here.

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By *im and whoreCouple
over a year ago

near bangor


"Haha I've been approached by blokes on dating sites that use the same pics on here .... so I think the answer is yes "
lol brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see why it shouldnt work on here. Im a single fem and have met some really nice guys. I have tried the dating thing with vanilas. And it wasnt long before i was climbing the walls. I was even told i was to demanding. So its the swinging world for me. I was involved with a guy on here. And all was going well. I fell for him but kept it hidden for sometime. As thought like most have said its a swinging site. I couldnt help how i felt about this guy. And because of it became distante to him. We had a chat about how we felt about each other. And done the swinging and dating thing. It worked very well. Meeting singles, couples for alsorts of fun. It was nice having someone to share all that naughtiness with. It did come to an end like most things. Sometimes you just cant stop things from happening.......

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have to say its true what everyone is saying I'll wait and see if me knight with a big cock will come riding up on a 10 inch dildo.. until then I am happy with what I am doing.. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell in love with my FB on here - saw him for about 5 months and we got very close, as well as becoming good friends. Sadly it didn't last. Not very long after we went official, he got cold feet and dumped me by text. Two months on, I still feel bruised by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have though people are looking for it here but there are some strange people here

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By *acktilMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Not looking for love, but I never know when it's going to run up and smack me round the back of the head.

Good thing about finding it on a swinging site is the sex should be great an never ever get boring.

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By *INKKKYMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL/ WIRRAL


"I have a question can you really find love on a swinging site.. Not that I want to but have always wondered if you could.. Some friends say no never and some say it could happen you just never no..

And before anyone say it no way am I using this site as a dating site I use thisl site to fill me boots with horny men.. and women.. haha "
i like to date and swing, i use this site for dates and use it to swing too... had sum gr8 dates without sex off here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have though people are looking for it here but there are some strange people here "

yeah, good innit

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think it is lovely when people fall in love on here and wish them every happiness.

many work out..

others don't and my only comment is, if it doesn't... maintain a dignified silence, don't ask your friends on here to take sides and keep any tit for tat shite off the forums, socials and chat..

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I met Jason at Chameleons and we got married 5 months later. Had our wedding reception there.

3 1/2 years on, he may drive me potty, but it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant see why not i met the love of my life on a site like this and wouldnt be without him now never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my g/f on here. Neither of us were looking for a relationship, took us 5 or 6 months from when we met to when we accpeted that we should give it a go.

I can say with total certainty that had we been looking for it it would never have happened. And as soingles on here we both encountered many that were blatently looking for a relationship.

I can also say that this is by far and away the best relationship I have ever been in, and in a large part that because of the way we met.

So to other people that have met on here or similar, out of interest, how do you tell people that you met?

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

If the question is can you find love/relationships on here I guess the answer is maybe. If you asked do you think it will likely last a life time... unlikely. Although that is true of any relationship I think from what I have heard from people around me its less likely to work long term. As a couple I dont think I would swing in a new relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe love can hit you anywhere, it dont care where u are, or if ur a swinger. I met my fella (on fab)for...a right dirty fuck, it was a great weekend, but from the first time i met him something clicked, that was 8mths ago and he's moving here in 3 weeks, i dont believe for 1 min there is anything wrong with starting a relationship with another swinger if....theres more to the relationship than just the sexual attraction or appetite. We are all human, it dont matter where or when or colour or sexuality. When love strikes it strikes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we both had singles profiles on fab, and met socially, neither of us was looking for a relationship, and were both happy with swinging as singles.Unfortunately, when Cupid smacks you both around the head, theres not much you can do about it!! lol we definitely find it an advantage that sexually we are both open, and i'd find it hard to have a 'normal' vanilla relationship now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes! 8 years on we are still very much inlove even though he does drive me up the wall at times lol

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"yes! 8 years on we are still very much inlove even though he does drive me up the wall at times lol"

Awww this is making me go all romantic..

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"yes! 8 years on we are still very much inlove even though he does drive me up the wall at times lol"

"at times"????? sorry Kat, that has me pmsl xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you asked do you think it will likely last a life time... unlikely. Although that is true of any relationship I think from what I have heard from people around me its less likely to work long term. "

Can I ask what makes you say it is less likely to work? Genuinely curious rather than being argumentative.

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By *andJ2227Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote

Me and Jordan met on this site quite a few years ago as singles. After meeting up a fair few times we fell in love, here we are years later living together and engaged to be married hopefully next year.

So in answer to your question yes you can find love, even if your not looking for it as we both werent!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"If the question is can you find love/relationships on here I guess the answer is maybe. If you asked do you think it will likely last a life time... unlikely. Although that is true of any relationship I think from what I have heard from people around me its less likely to work long term. As a couple I dont think I would swing in a new relationship. "

I would disagree, majority of relationships we enter come to an end otherwise we would all only ever have been with one person. It is no less likely to work meeting here than anywhere. Ive always been a swinger its not something i switch on and off whether im in a relationship or not. I am in a relationship with another swinger and its the most honest and truthful relationship ive ever been in

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"If you asked do you think it will likely last a life time... unlikely. Although that is true of any relationship I think from what I have heard from people around me its less likely to work long term.

Can I ask what makes you say it is less likely to work? Genuinely curious rather than being argumentative."

Sure, well we swing as a couple who have been together... forever. lol. Swinging has had a good effect on our relationship but still the odd hiccups like most I guess. We have so many years of relationship and knowledge of each other to fall back on that things are easily resolved. I dont think a new relationship would have the same to fall back on. I know of a few couples who have got together from swinging and some that have met in the normal way but have given it a go quite soon after meeting. These people are mostly not together anymore and think swinging or the byproducts of swinging were the catalist for the split or problems they are having. Lets face it every relationship has its pressures but swinging can put extra pressure on. Personally, when we were first together the last thing on our mind was having sex with other people.. we were too busy ripping eachothers clothes off. Im sure jealousy would have been involved too.... This is a generalisation of course. There are many out there who will disagree as is their experience or right. Plus, there are always exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most honest & truthful - we totally agree x

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Yes I found love on here with a regular meet but sadly she was married (yes I know shoot me lol). It had to end. I didn't realise just how much I loved her until it ended.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I wouldn't have though people are looking for it here but there are some strange people here "

I don't think people are looking for it on here. Sometimes it just happens. I know I wasn't but it just happened.

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

yes it can happen

I know of two cpls who have found love.

neither cpl was looking for it but it found them and they are very happy together,

My self I have found some one i love very much too

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Ok I have to say I got 6 messages on that plenty of cod roe site... I never log on there anymore..

However you know what all 6 said I have seen you on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I have to say I got 6 messages on that plenty of cod roe site... I never log on there anymore..

However you know what all 6 said I have seen you on here "
each of there own also on that site, there is more saddoes on there than there is on here

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Ok I have to say I got 6 messages on that plenty of cod roe site... I never log on there anymore..

However you know what all 6 said I have seen you on here each of there own also on that site, there is more saddoes on there than there is on here

"

I have to say that is very true... you read their profiles saying they are looking for love blah blah blah then on here they say looking for NSA fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i have been chatting to a women on here and we just clicked we were goin to meet up for a shag and now were not we are goin on a date. I think it is good because there wont be that horrible time when you ask your partner if they would like to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I have to say I got 6 messages on that plenty of cod roe site... I never log on there anymore..

However you know what all 6 said I have seen you on here each of there own also on that site, there is more saddoes on there than there is on here

I have to say that is very true... you read their profiles saying they are looking for love blah blah blah then on here they say looking for NSA fun.. "
seen a few profiles only women showing there under ware only, sad really.. it use 2 be great site now that got swamp over

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Ok I have to say I got 6 messages on that plenty of cod roe site... I never log on there anymore..

However you know what all 6 said I have seen you on here each of there own also on that site, there is more saddoes on there than there is on here

I have to say that is very true... you read their profiles saying they are looking for love blah blah blah then on here they say looking for NSA fun.. "

yes and there the players and always will be on there and on here but there a lot harder to spot on here

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Ok I have to say I got 6 messages on that plenty of cod roe site... I never log on there anymore..

However you know what all 6 said I have seen you on here each of there own also on that site, there is more saddoes on there than there is on here

I have to say that is very true... you read their profiles saying they are looking for love blah blah blah then on here they say looking for NSA fun..

yes and there the players and always will be on there and on here but there a lot harder to spot on here "

Very true I aint looking to be honest I am happy with what I am doing its just funny that is all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I have to say I got 6 messages on that plenty of cod roe site... I never log on there anymore..

However you know what all 6 said I have seen you on here each of there own also on that site, there is more saddoes on there than there is on here

I have to say that is very true... you read their profiles saying they are looking for love blah blah blah then on here they say looking for NSA fun.. "

To be fair, many can separate sex and love, and are able to look for someone to settle down with on the one site and fun on this one. Just cos they're on dating sites doesn't mean that's what they're looking for on here. Yes there are some who get mixed up, but not all by any means.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I have to say I got 6 messages on that plenty of cod roe site... I never log on there anymore..

However you know what all 6 said I have seen you on here each of there own also on that site, there is more saddoes on there than there is on here

I have to say that is very true... you read their profiles saying they are looking for love blah blah blah then on here they say looking for NSA fun..

yes and there the players and always will be on there and on here but there a lot harder to spot on here

Very true I aint looking to be honest I am happy with what I am doing its just funny that is all.."

I rejoin that site its not the fish is on it, mare like a pile of p lol

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Ok I have to say I got 6 messages on that plenty of cod roe site... I never log on there anymore..

However you know what all 6 said I have seen you on here each of there own also on that site, there is more saddoes on there than there is on here

I have to say that is very true... you read their profiles saying they are looking for love blah blah blah then on here they say looking for NSA fun..

To be fair, many can separate sex and love, and are able to look for someone to settle down with on the one site and fun on this one. Just cos they're on dating sites doesn't mean that's what they're looking for on here. Yes there are some who get mixed up, but not all by any means. "

That is very true and could not agree with you more.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Have never been on a dating site and I never will.. I am not looking for love.

and if I went on looking for sex.. I would possibly be playing with someones head at the same time as their vagina.

and that ain't me.

That's why SWINGING is perfect, providing who I meet think the same.

Sadly that has not always been the case and spoilt it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My perfect scenario on here is to shag and be friends whether you shag them again or not. One of my best friends on here ive only shagged once and that was 5 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My perfect scenario on here is to shag and be friends whether you shag them again or not. One of my best friends on here ive only shagged once and that was 5 years ago"

definitely agree on that!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes people confuse swinging and love.

happens when you meet someone and you really like them.

it can cause a whole ton of problems and it happens to both sexes.

but if 2 people find what they want good luck to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can meet the love of your life anywhere, but I agree that if women come on here hoping it will happen then they will be disappointed.

The only thing that would bother me was that if the couple continued swinging that they would never have known a time when sharing sexual partners wasn't the norm. I think its healthy to have known an exclusive sexual relationship with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't wish to be sexist, should read women and men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can meet the love of your life anywhere, but I agree that if women come on here hoping it will happen then they will be disappointed.

The only thing that would bother me was that if the couple continued swinging that they would never have known a time when sharing sexual partners wasn't the norm. I think its healthy to have known an exclusive sexual relationship with someone "

I think that's why when couples do link up on sites like this they take time out for themselves: personally, I think that's an excellent idea, as I agree, I think you need to have time as a couple before introducing others.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Some find love on here 4,5,6 times.. And here's to numbers 7,8 & 9...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some find love on here 4,5,6 times.. And here's to numbers 7,8 & 9..."

*Giggles*

Ooooooh View!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think people look for it, it just happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it happens but to many mistake other emotions for love...

But anywhere that you get like minded individuals you will find some meet and fall in love.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it happens but to many mistake other emotions for love...

But anywhere that you get like minded individuals you will find some meet and fall in love.

Cali "

i agree

some people also confused lust with love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love is something that takes time to develop and is between two people concerned.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I think there is a chance you can find somebody here, just as there is a chance you could find somebody when pursuing any other past time acitivity. In fact there tends to be more of an honesty and open attitude to sexual matters so in one way that makes it more realistic perhaps. I have seen people on dating site who really should be on a swing site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there is a chance you can find somebody here, just as there is a chance you could find somebody when pursuing any other past time acitivity. In fact there tends to be more of an honesty and open attitude to sexual matters so in one way that makes it more realistic perhaps. I have seen people on dating site who really should be on a swing site. "

yet being on here and meeting people ok i see that and could see where it goes, but jealousy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think jealousy is a whole different thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love comes with jealousy or my case NOT

u cant have love without it and sooner or later it will rear its head swinging lifestyle or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love comes with jealousy or my case NOT

u cant have love without it and sooner or later it will rear its head swinging lifestyle or not."

youve lost me there.. youve just said you cant have love without jealousy, but in the first line you say you dont have jealousy

so your not in love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i mean everyone will go through jealousy of some sort in their life.

im in love with my partner yes but im never jealous in anything he does.

but im not a jealous person period

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jealousy is just a human emotion, surely it just means someone cares?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"jealousy is just a human emotion, surely it just means someone cares? "

nah not at all x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I genuinely believe that (most) forms of jealousy are possibly more about one's own insecurities. If I am confident about my partner, about myself, our relationship then I dont need to be jealous?

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over a year ago


"I genuinely believe that (most) forms of jealousy are possibly more about one's own insecurities. If I am confident about my partner, about myself, our relationship then I dont need to be jealous? "

took the words straight out of my mouth

but i do have shoe envey

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I genuinely believe that (most) forms of jealousy are possibly more about one's own insecurities. If I am confident about my partner, about myself, our relationship then I dont need to be jealous?

took the words straight out of my mouth

but i do have shoe envey "

Blokes think us girls have penis envy - so not true, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely believe that (most) forms of jealousy are possibly more about one's own insecurities. If I am confident about my partner, about myself, our relationship then I dont need to be jealous? "

true and im insecure.. i don't hide that fact

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over a year ago


"I genuinely believe that (most) forms of jealousy are possibly more about one's own insecurities. If I am confident about my partner, about myself, our relationship then I dont need to be jealous?

took the words straight out of my mouth

but i do have shoe envey

Blokes think us girls have penis envy - so not true, eh?"

not when you have a strap on thats readily avialable

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I genuinely believe that (most) forms of jealousy are possibly more about one's own insecurities. If I am confident about my partner, about myself, our relationship then I dont need to be jealous?

true and im insecure.. i don't hide that fact "

Sassy, I was not referring to you - apologies if you took it this way. I meant in general, the more happy one is with oneself, the less likely one is to be jealous. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely believe that (most) forms of jealousy are possibly more about one's own insecurities. If I am confident about my partner, about myself, our relationship then I dont need to be jealous?

true and im insecure.. i don't hide that fact "

insecurities are one thing i got past at the age of 21 now i dont care what people think of me etc. im me im happy the way i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely believe that (most) forms of jealousy are possibly more about one's own insecurities. If I am confident about my partner, about myself, our relationship then I dont need to be jealous?

true and im insecure.. i don't hide that fact

Sassy, I was not referring to you - apologies if you took it this way. I meant in general, the more happy one is with oneself, the less likely one is to be jealous. xx"

nor me i wasnt referring to anyone when i mentioned jealousy

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I genuinely believe that (most) forms of jealousy are possibly more about one's own insecurities. If I am confident about my partner, about myself, our relationship then I dont need to be jealous?

took the words straight out of my mouth

but i do have shoe envey

Blokes think us girls have penis envy - so not true, eh?

not when you have a strap on thats readily avialable "

Im not sure whether to quiver with fear or excitement

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I genuinely believe that (most) forms of jealousy are possibly more about one's own insecurities. If I am confident about my partner, about myself, our relationship then I dont need to be jealous?

true and im insecure.. i don't hide that fact

insecurities are one thing i got past at the age of 21 now i dont care what people think of me etc. im me im happy the way i am "

Thats what I meant also, sadly it is something that comes with age. I often see young women being unhappy with this or that part of their body and yet they look totally gorgeous. And there it is the insecurity that leads to jealousy - failure of relationships is never down to somebody being slimmer, taller, or whatever...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is being honest.

when you are young people are tend to be led from their friends and feel they need to fit in with clothes or money or drinks. yet when you get to the stage of thinking you know what " what the fuck" it starts to get better

im me if you dont like me dont talk to me

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Jess

Only advice I'd give is to find love anywhere you can be it on here or elsewhere lifes to short to not take a chance when you can.

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over a year ago


"love is something that takes time to develop and is between two people concerned. "

Sorry but i don't agree with this, I loved kev from the moment i met him.

Love at first sight is a wonderful thing.

Kat x x

P.s We met through a swinging site.

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over a year ago


"love is something that takes time to develop and is between two people concerned.

Sorry but i don't agree with this, I loved kev from the moment i met him.

Love at first sight is a wonderful thing.

Kat x x

P.s We met through a swinging site."

someone has to love him hey kat xxxx

seriously though course love can be instant and if i said u was wrong as im lying as where i met nick x

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon

Mr Shields and I have been together for just over a year now - I move in permanently early July, it wasn't quite love at first sight on my part but an hour and a half car journey (he'd picked me up as I didn't have transport) and we were a couple - neither of us were looking. He still has bruises on his arm from where he keeps pinching himself to make sure he's not dreaming

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over a year ago


"Mr Shields and I have been together for just over a year now - I move in permanently early July, it wasn't quite love at first sight on my part but an hour and a half car journey (he'd picked me up as I didn't have transport) and we were a couple - neither of us were looking. He still has bruises on his arm from where he keeps pinching himself to make sure he's not dreaming "

but you 2 are fate x remember ive saw you both together and im sure we will again x

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon


"Mr Shields and I have been together for just over a year now - I move in permanently early July, it wasn't quite love at first sight on my part but an hour and a half car journey (he'd picked me up as I didn't have transport) and we were a couple - neither of us were looking. He still has bruises on his arm from where he keeps pinching himself to make sure he's not dreaming

but you 2 are fate x remember ive saw you both together and im sure we will again x"

Aww, I remember that Jacqs, we'd been together about a month then - it was our 3rd weekend together and yes, I'm sure we will bump in to each other again. xxxx

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