FabSwingers.com forum: Most of you are attached

By *ill Wood OP Man
over a year ago

hertford

Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single male here honest

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We are and we do like it

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

I'm definitely attached

And I love it when he does it to me

Red x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are poly, or you know, they could just be swingers who have individual profiles as they don't always play together

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Rather a sweeping statement.

Single woman here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you not meet anyone who's married?

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

Most people on here who are in a relationship or attached (isn't that the same thing?) do 'it' (whatever exactly you mean by 'it') with the full knowledge of their other halves ... and often *with* their partners believe it or not .....

Ms G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attached to the Lord.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

They are.

He is on here too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

Does it really matter? If it's not for you then pass them by???

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

We are here together, in a relationship. I Mrs am allowed to play alone in a scenario called hotwifing, where the Mr encourages me to meet men. We mainly play together, knowing what each other wants and needs. So we are both aware. So in essence he is "doing it to me"

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By *ill Wood OP Man
over a year ago

hertford

"I'm not

Haha come my way then

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I know what she gets up to and I actively encourage it.

I haven't looked at the op profile but I'm guessing he's not getting any luck and is a bit annoyed???

Awwwww diddums bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be in the minority, I'm cheating on my wife and I'm honest (on here) about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if you need to ask perhaps a swinger site is not for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single too. Looks like your figure of "most people" is flawed OP. I'd just worry about what you want and leave others to worry about themselves. Nobody is forcing you to engage with those who are cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pulls up a chair...

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By *ill Wood OP Man
over a year ago

hertford

"Would you not meet anyone who's married?"

Tbh im not sort of person to beat round the bush so if i knew there partner was swinging aswell i maybe would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably hate him doing it behind my back but knowing how highly sexed he is I wouldn't blame him if he looked elsewhere if I wasn't giving him any at all...luckily we are both the same and do it together as a couple always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Singleton here and I'd never cheat if I was in a relationship. Some people are on here with their partners knowledge or have poly relationships.

It's not for us to judge but it's the dishonest ones that get me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

I love it that we are both swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attached to my OH but we are here together. So he knows.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you not meet anyone who's married?

Tbh im not sort of person to beat round the bush so if i knew there partner was swinging aswell i maybe would "
what if the partner didn't know but you really wanted her anyway?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sweeping generalisation alert!

Single here.

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By *ill Wood OP Man
over a year ago

hertford

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

They are.

He is on here too!"

Then i think thats fair if you both know and its for you! Im saying most people come on here to get away from there partner to have something different without them knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

I love it that we are both swinging"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs is doing it to me, she has her own profile

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

It's everyone's personal choice what they do.

If you don't like it then it's your choice to stay here.....

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Someones' marital status is none of your business.

Stop moaning. This topic is old news here...

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By *ill Wood OP Man
over a year ago

hertford

"Would you not meet anyone who's married?

Tbh im not sort of person to beat round the bush so if i knew there partner was swinging aswell i maybe would what if the partner didn't know but you really wanted her anyway?"

Well id have to leave it imagine there partner coming home to see they have had someone round i wouldnt like it if it was done to me

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

I on here as single and he know both got profile together he know wat goes on my single don't hide anything we both share our couple profile

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By *ill Wood OP Man
over a year ago

hertford

"Someones' marital status is none of your business.

Stop moaning. This topic is old news here..."

This topic is not old news love! If you had a fella and fount out he was cheating on you everyday on her im sure you wouldnt like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't wanna meet someone attached, that's up to you mate. Seen a lot of people stating it in their profiles, so its not uncommon. Just leave people get on with their own buissness and focus on getting your own meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you not meet anyone who's married?

Tbh im not sort of person to beat round the bush so if i knew there partner was swinging aswell i maybe would what if the partner didn't know but you really wanted her anyway?

Well id have to leave it imagine there partner coming home to see they have had someone round i wouldnt like it if it was done to me "
pmsl that's where the "cannot accommodate "is normally one of the signs...I say one off but not always the reason.

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By *ill Wood OP Man
over a year ago

hertford

"I on here as single and he know both got profile together he know wat goes on my single don't hide anything we both share our couple profile"

Yeah i see that as fair as your both truthfull to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do what youre happy with and let others do the sam e

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someones' marital status is none of your business.

Stop moaning. This topic is old news here...

This topic is not old news love! If you had a fella and fount out he was cheating on you everyday on her im sure you wouldnt like it! "
maybe you're not ready for this life style. No one should judge anyone on a sex site. That's what we are all here for. Some will some won't. It's THEIR choice.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I am attached to ma penis!

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

Be careful of sweeping generalisations...............cognitive bias is a bad trap to fall into, doesn't help ones head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't wanna meet someone attached, that's up to you mate. Seen a lot of people stating it in their profiles, so its not uncommon. Just leave people get on with their own buissness and focus on getting your own meets"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

They are.

He is on here too!

Then i think thats fair if you both know and its for you! Im saying most people come on here to get away from there partner to have something different without them knowing "

They do that on other sites too so what is your point?

If they are gonna do it Fab is merely the vehicle, not the facilitator.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

I'm a single man, split with my wife 4 and a half years ago, few relationships, but nothing lasted.

Sweet popcorn for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you not meet anyone who's married?

Tbh im not sort of person to beat round the bush so if i knew there partner was swinging aswell i maybe would "

nothing wrong with your confidence today then -

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Be careful of sweeping generalisations...............cognitive bias is a bad trap to fall into, doesn't help ones head

Everyone says that

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By *litheroevoyeurMan
over a year ago

Clitheroe

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

Hello another one who knows about most people on here based on some extensive survey no doubt. Or could it be just a silly sweeping statement?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

*yawns*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal choice pure and simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are just all greedy

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Be careful of sweeping generalisations...............cognitive bias is a bad trap to fall into, doesn't help ones head

Everyone says that

Forgive my forum newbiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been told because we're a young couple we must be bored of each other already because we swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very divorced, moi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single and I really don't care whether others on here are in a relationship or not because it's none of my business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What? I'm attached?

When? How the hell ....

If anyone sees my other half, tell her can she make an appearance, I've forgotten who or what she looks like

Oh and if she could stick the kettle on that would be awesome!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP you say in your profile you've not had a meet on here, so it's a very sweeping generalisation based on no experience, and IMO wrong.

Mr B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im not attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

Where do people on here get their 'facts' from??

I'm very, very single!

Sometimes I thing that's a great thing, sometimes I think that's a shit thing - but either way I'm still single!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What? I'm attached?

When? How the hell ....

If anyone sees my other half, tell her can she make an appearance, I've forgotten who or what she looks like

Oh and if she could stick the kettle on that would be awesome!

Sexist pig!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to know what these young ones mean by offering us a whole new experience lol. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What? I'm attached?

When? How the hell ....

If anyone sees my other half, tell her can she make an appearance, I've forgotten who or what she looks like

Oh and if she could stick the kettle on that would be awesome!

Sexist pig!!

"
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Lol beat me to it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single fluid sexualy and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes attached, yes love it when he does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What? I'm attached?

When? How the hell ....

If anyone sees my other half, tell her can she make an appearance, I've forgotten who or what she looks like

Oh and if she could stick the kettle on that would be awesome!

Sexy pig!!

Well, I wouldn't have used the word pig after sexy! But whatever gets you off my lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationship status - Variable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to know what these young ones mean by offering us a whole new experience lol. ..."
pmsl so so bloody true I've forgotten more about this lifestyle than there years

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"*yawns*

Indeed the OP has only been here three months and is most likely too young for a fair few people and to be honest I must be old because there's parts of his profile text I don't understand

Lol....he's 21, he won't understand relationships are complex and one size does not fit all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn, another day another you're attached post. Jim

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

How do you know this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So single!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now now play nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

How do you know this?"
cornflakes packet breakfast reading or daily star ???

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang

Insular much?

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

I would say its normal for most sexually active people to be in a relationship, those who are single are only so pending a relationship or are in non serious relationships. Having said that there are lots of single parents and divorced prope around. Most of those however probably want to be in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to know what these young ones mean by offering us a whole new experience lol. ... pmsl so so bloody true I've forgotten more about this lifestyle than there years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure people think I'm real !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say its normal for most sexually active people to be in a relationship, those who are single are only so pending a relationship or are in non serious relationships. Having said that there are lots of single parents and divorced prope around. Most of those however probably want to be in a relationship."

I am single as fuck. Single as a pringle. Ice cream and TV on a Saturday night single, there is no doubt about.

Do think a lot of folk have been a tad harsh on OP. Must be wonderful to be born in your 30s and knowing everything

I wouldn't meet anyone on here without their other half's knowledge, which is my choice.

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By *inglenfreeMan
over a year ago

london

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

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I'm not but wish I were attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Popcorn quick

Budge up, I've got beer.....

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

" Single as a pringle. Ice cream and TV on a Saturday night single, there is no doubt about.

Single as a pringle - aren't they entwined in a pile 30 high lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Single as a pringle. Ice cream and TV on a Saturday night single, there is no doubt about.

Single as a pringle - aren't they entwined in a pile 30 high lol

Good point! I'm one that got dropped on the floor and is sitting uneaten and unloved on the coffee table *tiny violin plays*

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"*yawns*

Indeed the OP has only been here three months and is most likely too young for a fair few people and to be honest I must be old because there's parts of his profile text I don't understand

Lol....he's 21, he won't understand relationships are complex and one size does not fit all."

Why not? Wisdom isn't always associated with age

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

It's true, but that is probably because it is a swinging site and there are a lot of couples swinging on it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Doing what to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

It's true, but that is probably because it is a swinging site and there are a lot of couples swinging on it

IT'S A WHAT SITE??????????

Oh my days, shocked......

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To answer your post OP , I assume you mean single people....although I am not sure that most single people are really attached, taking a wild guess that there are quite a few who are.

The subject does come up a fair bit on the forum but then so does a lot of other subjects so don't be put off by people yawning, it is a valid subject.

For me though, I just let people get on with their own lives and how they choose to live it and I get on with mine.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Not all of us I'm single, though I have been accused of being attached as I struggle to meet due to limited childcare options and then will only accommodate for a regular playmate when the kids aren't in my care.

Difficulty/limited meet time and inability to accommodate automatically means attached to many

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By *orkshire biMan
over a year ago

elland

Like always say. I do things for a reason

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"*yawns*"

*sticks cock in recipient's mouth and he will enjoy the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP it's none of your business, it's not for you to judge how others play - if you don't like it just pass the cheaters by

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

They are.

He is on here too!

Then i think thats fair if you both know and its for you! Im saying most people come on here to get away from there partner to have something different without them knowing "

change most to some maybe and you may have a point but its no one's business but 'theirs', whomever they are..

a bit like your own choice in being on here, unlike some of your friends and family who may choose not to..

are you generally concerned or is it about look at me I may be 'different'..?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

We do it together and apart. Is that a problem for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

I would be relived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet oddly, I have many couples contact me who turn out to be "flying solo"; not that they aren't actually attached in the real world of course.

Lots of things and people on here are not as they portray themselves, just learn how to spot it and work out how you choose to handle it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And yet oddly, I have many couples contact me who turn out to be "flying solo"; not that they aren't actually attached in the real world of course.

Lots of things and people on here are not as they portray themselves, just learn how to spot it and work out how you choose to handle it. "

Could not of put it any better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

I,m not attatched, think you should mind your own business and not make assumptions or poke your snout into other people s affairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someones' marital status is none of your business.

Stop moaning. This topic is old news here...

This topic is not old news love! If you had a fella and fount out he was cheating on you everyday on her im sure you wouldnt like it! "

This subject is getting boring now.....Zzzzzzzzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

I,m not attatched, think you should mind your own business and not make assumptions or poke your snout into other people s affairs. "

Very true we are all in here to have fun and thats it so why do people insist on taking the moral high ground ?if its not for you then move on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure people think I'm real !!!

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same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someones' marital status is none of your business.

Stop moaning. This topic is old news here...

This topic is not old news love! If you had a fella and fount out he was cheating on you everyday on her im sure you wouldnt like it!

This subject is getting boring now.....Zzzzzzzzzzzz"

Yes im leaving the building now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest if this kind of thing bothers you then you won't like it here all you need to know about a meet is looks location and time!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

I,m not attatched, think you should mind your own business and not make assumptions or poke your snout into other people s affairs.

Very true we are all in here to have fun and thats it so why do people insist on taking the moral high ground ?if its not for you then move on ."

your 'moral high ground' will equally be other people's perfectly valid choice not to want to play with those who are playing away without their OH's knowledge..

just a thought..

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over a year ago

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

I,m not attatched, think you should mind your own business and not make assumptions or poke your snout into other people s affairs. "
bad day?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

He is doin' it too; we met here last year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married, and so is my wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im definitely SINGLE and ready to mingle x

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

And how exactly do you prove that you're not married or in a relationship? Marriage isn't the thing it used to be, there's thousands who prefer living with rather than marrying their partners so there's no legal documentation on that relationship. And how do you prove that you're not in a relationship? It's paranoia, you cannot provide evidence of something that you haven't done. And can't you disprove it either.

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

So Im a single man and have started dating a girl. How many dates do I have to have with her before im seen as attached or in a relationship and out of bounds as far as some on here are concerned.

Should I state 'single but casual dater' on my profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single but i just love fucking other mens wives...with or without hubbys permission i consider it to be an essential service for the bored and frustrated wifes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single here and try not to meet others that are playing without their partner's permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married he doesn't know, its written in black and white on my profile, so I will repeat......

I'm married, judge away, then fuck off and then fuck off a little more!

No one is asking you to play with married people, although it would seem no ones asking you to play at all!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

To answer what the OP asked

I don't know how I would feel if someone did it to me, I guess horribly hurt and betrayed.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"To answer what the OP asked

I don't know how I would feel if someone did it to me, I guess horribly hurt and betrayed.

Oh yes I would answer the second part of the OP as follows

The fact he's been with someone else wouldn't bother me, in fact I've always wanted to swing as part of a couple, but I'd be hurt by the dishonesty of cheating, instead of talking to me about his extra needs and desires towards others

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

Single unicorn here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not and puts me off if someone is so alls good so long as we are honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

N your sexy goatee.

I'm single now.......

xxx

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

So what would that make me if I have a fb on here and I have a single profile and a couple profile????

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"So what would that make me if I have a fb on here and I have a single profile and a couple profile????"

You have a couples profile with a FB

How very dare you?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

100% single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree. I'm planning on staying single now n just using fab for my sexual needs. Xxx

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

So what would that make me if I have a fb on here and I have a single profile and a couple profile????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what would that make me if I have a fb on here and I have a single profile and a couple profile????"

Lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know what she gets up to and I actively encourage it.

I haven't looked at the op profile but I'm guessing he's not getting any luck and is a bit annoyed???

Awwwww diddums bless"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been attached for years . He knows and is not worried ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be careful what you say because according to some on here

single people only wanting to meet singles shouldnt be allowed on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people see that you can't accommodate and take it as your in a relationship/married

Ok I get that some people will be playing away but it's just not the case for me

My job prevents me from accommodating but still I'm often asked if the reason I can't accommodate is because I'm playing without permission

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By *avewestcumbriaMan
over a year ago

Whitehaven

I'm married, and a cheating little shit. I have my reasons, and my profile states that.

I understand being with someone who's already taken isn't everyone's cup of tea, and I don't get offended if I get turned down for that reason.

If you have a problem with it, just avoid us, theres no need to get all preachy and on your high horse about it.

This is meant to be a fun friendly site, with discretion and open-mindedness being some of they key character traits of genuine fabbers.

Rant over. Lol

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

We're not keen on people lying to their partners. If you have to do that you're with the wrong person. I personally love seeing my partner enjoying herself with someone else, it's a massive turn on. However that's because we're both very secure in our selves and our relationship.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The majority don't preach, they leave people to do their thing. That's the way it should be.

However, so many ask 'why won't you meet me'

'Because you are cheating on your partner'

'Don't fucking judge me'

'Don't fucking ask then....'

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The majority don't preach, they leave people to do their thing. That's the way it should be.

However, so many ask 'why won't you meet me'

'Because you are cheating on your partner'

'Don't fucking judge me'

'Don't fucking ask then....'"

lol funny but probably very true.

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By *avewestcumbriaMan
over a year ago

Whitehaven

"The majority don't preach, they leave people to do their thing. That's the way it should be.

However, so many ask 'why won't you meet me'

'Because you are cheating on your partner'

'Don't fucking judge me'

'Don't fucking ask then....'"

The ones that ask that question are asking for a snotty response mind. Lol

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over a year ago

"The majority don't preach, they leave people to do their thing. That's the way it should be.

However, so many ask 'why won't you meet me'

'Because you are cheating on your partner'

'Don't fucking judge me'

'Don't fucking ask then....'"

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By *layboi69Man
over a year ago

alfreton

Single here but dont accom purely safety reasons i have my son at homehe dont need to be seeing women come and go i accom the times he is with his mum but thats very seldom. Tbh if i had a mrs i found swinging as long as she was safe with it i wouldnt have a problem with it as every one has needs and aometimes the partner in question just dont cut the mustard

varity being the spice of life and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a false statement really no? ??

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

Hold on a minute...thats very ageist. My partner in crime is only 20 and is the most pragmatic, sensible, forward thinking partner i've ever had. She's often more grown up and more sensible than me (hmm maybe that's not saying much)

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over a year ago

"Some people see that you can't accommodate and take it as your in a relationship/married

Ok I get that some people will be playing away but it's just not the case for me

My job prevents me from accommodating but still I'm often asked if the reason I can't accommodate is because I'm playing without permission

I get that have been told I don't accommodate cause I must have something to hide.

I don't accommodate because it's my family home and have more respect for my kids...my son is old enough to come and go as he pleases and I doubt he would like to come home to his mother entertaining a random guy or girl or both

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

We've yet to meet a single lady. All the ladies we've met have had a fella who was unaware. Husbands, fiancees, boyfriends, husbands that believed their wife was only meeting angel(single womens profile, hubby "aware" she meets women, unaware of the true extent of her profile usage) not knowing i'd be there, hanging out the back of both of em

It's possible that the only true single we've met, angel turned down, stating "i just can't see myself licking her cunt", her frankness does amuse me sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attached and if my Mrs was playing away I'd only be cheesed off because she's denied me for 3 years,other than that I'm truly turned on by the idea of other guys and girls having sexual pleasure with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm single but i just love fucking other mens wives...with or without hubbys permission i consider it to be an essential service for the bored and frustrated wifes!"
I would nt invest your lifes savings in it lmao

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I'm attached and if my Mrs was playing away I'd only be cheesed off because she's denied me for 3 years,other than that I'm truly turned on by the idea of other guys and girls having sexual pleasure with her "

3 Years, holy shit dude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 Years, holy shit dude!

I could beat that easy

Maybe I shouldn't be so happy about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people see that you can't accommodate and take it as your in a relationship/married

Ok I get that some people will be playing away but it's just not the case for me

My job prevents me from accommodating but still I'm often asked if the reason I can't accommodate is because I'm playing without permission

I get that have been told I don't accommodate cause I must have something to hide.

Some people can be so judgemental but hey never mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this still going lol.

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

I would only date a swinger as i love the lifestyle and freedom. You may be surprised to hear that swingers (not all but a significant amount) have very strong relationships. There would be no longevity without the trust and security needed to do this as a couple. My missus is a right little harlet and i love her for it(and many other reasons)

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"*yawns*

Indeed the OP has only been here three months and is most likely too young for a fair few people and to be honest I must be old because there's parts of his profile text I don't understand

Lol....he's 21, he won't understand relationships are complex and one size does not fit all.

Why not? Wisdom isn't always associated with age"

Which reminds me of a saying.

It's said "Wisdom comes with age".

Sometimes, however, Age just shows up by itself!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

Wouldn't worry me as long as she was enjoying herself and stayed safe

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By *litheroevoyeurMan
over a year ago

Clitheroe

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

You are probably attached yourself then.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Most people on here are in a relationship or there attached to someone but the thing is how would you like it if they were doing it to you?????

Yep.... I'm certainly married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did I mention that I was single

As Tumble blows passed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I encourage my lady. She's just not interested. I have tried many times

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

To the op I am single so umm your wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear op its none of yours and he has my full permission soooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not single all the way

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Would you not meet anyone who's married?

Tbh im not sort of person to beat round the bush so if i knew there partner was swinging aswell i maybe would what if the partner didn't know but you really wanted her anyway?

Well id have to leave it imagine there partner coming home to see they have had someone round i wouldnt like it if it was done to me "
thing is, unless you want a gf, you are in the wrong place, this is a non exclusive site, i have multiple lovers who have multiple lovers, you cant expect here to be anything different to that. do all those 'ither lovers know about me, it doesnt matter, and do i know about them..probably not, so in a 'couple' or interrelationship or encounter of any kind, known or unknown, you can guarantee they arent going to be faithful..simplez...so it doesnt matter on the marital status one little bit...its the same thing...

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Would you not meet anyone who's married?

Tbh im not sort of person to beat round the bush so if i knew there partner was swinging aswell i maybe would what if the partner didn't know but you really wanted her anyway?

Well id have to leave it imagine there partner coming home to see they have had someone round i wouldnt like it if it was done to me thing is, unless you want a gf, you are in the wrong place, this is a non exclusive site, i have multiple lovers who have multiple lovers, you cant expect here to be anything different to that. do all those 'ither lovers know about me, it doesnt matter, and do i know about them..probably not, so in a 'couple' or interrelationship or encounter of any kind, known or unknown, you can guarantee they arent going to be faithful..simplez...so it doesnt matter on the marital status one little bit...its the same thing..."

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By *aren1956TV/TS
over a year ago

Fakenham

..and the point of your observation is? Look up the 453,000 previous posts on this....

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