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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

this is to all ladies, single, or in a couple, if a hot guy came up to you in a pub and chatted you up ... would you be highly offended or would you be flattered? Or would you only be flattered if he was in a couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What?"

seriously? it's that difficult a question?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

lol, you have lost me. Are you asking if a fit guy chatted me up if i would be offended? If so no i wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be very flattered. You saying i cant pull hot guys doh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would be flattered

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"lol, you have lost me. Are you asking if a fit guy chatted me up if i would be offended? If so no i wouldnt"

Okay, I'll re-word it. If a guy chatted you up in a pub would you take offence?

So yeah Diamond, that was what I was asking lol and ty for reply xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would be very flattered. You saying i cant pull hot guys doh

I'm not saying that. I personally hate the word pulling, but hey ho each to their own. I'll say what I'm saying at some point. If I can be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes!!"

You a lady now bertie? lol

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm curious... why would you ever be offended?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I had a gorgeous young guy making a play for me on the tube one day whilst i was with jay i wasnt offended but i was very embarressed. But the look on jay's face made up for it as it was a picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm curious... why would you ever be offended?

Good question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!!

You a lady now bertie? lol"

I was answering the question you asked me...was that difficult to understand?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'm curious... why would you ever be offended?

Good question.

Give us the rest of the story then?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes!!

You a lady now bertie? lol

I was answering the question you asked me...was that difficult to understand?"

I posted the questions to ladies or ladies in a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!!

You a lady now bertie? lol

I was answering the question you asked me...was that difficult to understand?

I posted the questions to ladies or ladies in a couple."

Oh dear!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes!!

You a lady now bertie? lol

I was answering the question you asked me...was that difficult to understand?

I posted the questions to ladies or ladies in a couple.

Oh dear!"

Why oh dear? Sometimes you can butt out, its cool ya know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure YOU get to decide who posts on threads...perhaps I'm wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not sure YOU get to decide who posts on threads...perhaps I'm wrong."

Are you taking the piss mate? I asked a question, ffs get a grip, it was a genuine question, you tried to be smart, you didn't succeed. Get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calm down love!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Now now children...

Princess... did someone get offended after being chatted up? What's the context... was he a dwarf with a humpback?!*

*disclaimer... no offence to any dwarves or people with humps!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Calm down love!

I'm calm lol and I am not your love.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now now children...

Princess... did someone get offended after being chatted up? What's the context... was he a dwarf with a humpback?!*

*disclaimer... no offence to any dwarves or people with humps!

No _irtygirl, it's a genuine question. Everyone is over analysing. Just go with the question

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No _irtygirl, it's a genuine question. Everyone is over analysing. Just go with the question

In that case, I don't really understand it. Why would someone ever be offended by being chatted up? Even if you weren't interested, surely it's flattering?

*scratches head*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No _irtygirl, it's a genuine question. Everyone is over analysing. Just go with the question

In that case, I don't really understand it. Why would someone ever be offended by being chatted up? Even if you weren't interested, surely it's flattering?

*scratches head*"

Thank you

For the record, I agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the risk of trying to be 'smart' again...could you explain the question again...it seems nonesensical to me. That was my original point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At the risk of trying to be 'smart' again...could you explain the question again...it seems nonesensical to me. That was my original point."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok love

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok love

Why are you doing that? I asked a question to ladies, you've barged in for no reason. What's your problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can all post on anything. I asked a question that's all. A question that most people were thinking.Your question makes no sense...I asked you to explain...you don't want to that is fine...not a problem.

There is a guaranteed way to exclude people from posting on your threads...don't start one. If you do people will respond as they wish...I think that's how it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok love

I will.

Originally the male doing the pulling was in a couple while pulling pishes at a bar, now the male in the couple has had a quicky, but that would be expected as he pulled pishes in the bar.

It is well known that pishes will nibble on most meaty offerings, therefore simple to catch.

What I want to know is - did the quicky divorce happen before or after pishes got pulled ?

Could be wrong tho, bloody early mornings eh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok love

I will.

Originally the male doing the pulling was in a couple while pulling pishes at a bar, now the male in the couple has had a quicky, but that would be expected as he pulled pishes in the bar.

It is well known that pishes will nibble on most meaty offerings, therefore simple to catch.

What I want to know is - did the quicky divorce happen before or after pishes got pulled ?

Could be wrong tho, bloody early mornings eh."

I re-posed the question after that. I couldn't give two hoots if people post on my threads. My point was and has been verified, that women would not be offended if a guy chatted them up in a pub. Quite simply put, why are they so fukin annoyed if a guy chats them up on here.

I'm not looking for a long winded debate. The point was made.

Cheers x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Ok love

I will.

Originally the male doing the pulling was in a couple while pulling pishes at a bar, now the male in the couple has had a quicky, but that would be expected as he pulled pishes in the bar.

It is well known that pishes will nibble on most meaty offerings, therefore simple to catch.

What I want to know is - did the quicky divorce happen before or after pishes got pulled ?

Could be wrong tho, bloody early mornings eh.

I'm not looking for a long winded debate. The point was made.

Cheers x"
I wouldn't be offended in the slightest, if my partner was with me or not. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok love

I will.

Originally the male doing the pulling was in a couple while pulling pishes at a bar, now the male in the couple has had a quicky, but that would be expected as he pulled pishes in the bar.

It is well known that pishes will nibble on most meaty offerings, therefore simple to catch.

What I want to know is - did the quicky divorce happen before or after pishes got pulled ?

Could be wrong tho, bloody early mornings eh."

No clue what your intentions with that post were but I'll not lose any sleep over it

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

would depend on the guy and if I found him attractive or not!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"would depend on the guy and if I found him attractive or not!!"

but would you be flattered if he found you attractive enough to chat up? Question isn't would you shag him ... would you be offended that he found you attractive enough to chat you up?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"would depend on the guy and if I found him attractive or not!!

but would you be flattered if he found you attractive enough to chat up? Question isn't would you shag him ... would you be offended that he found you attractive enough to chat you up?"

no, I wouldn't be offended at that. Hell if any of us were offended at getting chatting us up then we would all be born again virgins.

It's how the chatting up takes shape and what is said that mattters surely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"would depend on the guy and if I found him attractive or not!!

but would you be flattered if he found you attractive enough to chat up? Question isn't would you shag him ... would you be offended that he found you attractive enough to chat you up?

no, I wouldn't be offended at that. Hell if any of us were offended at getting chatting us up then we would all be born again virgins.

It's how the chatting up takes shape and what is said that mattters surely

ty x

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"would depend on the guy and if I found him attractive or not!!

but would you be flattered if he found you attractive enough to chat up? Question isn't would you shag him ... would you be offended that he found you attractive enough to chat you up?

no, I wouldn't be offended at that. Hell if any of us were offended at getting chatting us up then we would all be born again virgins.

It's how the chatting up takes shape and what is said that mattters surely

ty x"

yw, now this virin is off to bed herself again - speak to you all tomorrow. Have a good night xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

If a hot guy that was in a couple tried to chat me up in a pub I would wonder just how d*unk/brave he was doing that with his partner around

If a hot single guy tried to chat me up in a pub then I would be flattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would look around for the candid camera or his mates trying to vid his attempt etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now now children...

Princess... did someone get offended after being chatted up? What's the context... was he a dwarf with a humpback?!*

*disclaimer... no offence to any dwarves or people with humps!

No _irtygirl, it's a genuine question. Everyone is over analysing. Just go with the question

It's not a question of over analysis: your question is poorly worded and those of us with a nodding understanding of the English languge are somewhat confused!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe any woman would not be flattered to be chatted up by a hot guy, in whatever scenario.

Hey, we all got an ego that needs feeding

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now now children...

Princess... did someone get offended after being chatted up? What's the context... was he a dwarf with a humpback?!*

*disclaimer... no offence to any dwarves or people with humps!

No _irtygirl, it's a genuine question. Everyone is over analysing. Just go with the question

It's not a question of over analysis: your question is poorly worded and those of us with a nodding understanding of the English languge are somewhat confused!

Well others understood it, it would seem. Still unsure why you latch onto the whether the question was or was not badly worded. I wasn't aware this was an English class. In the future I'll remember I'm being graded on my "grasp of the English language". And yes, language, not languge. If you're going to pull someone up on their English, perhaps you should make sure you spell correctly when doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh I say its all a bit stroppy in here.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the question was a tad silly why would anyone be offended if some hottie chatted you up in a pub. It would make my day. Put a smile on my face that would. Would I shag him probably not, maybe stranger things have happened lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I would look around for the candid camera or his mates trying to vid his attempt etc...

i'd do this also or ask for half of the bet winnings he will be geting from his mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat me up chat me up

If I don't fancy ya I'll hit ya over the head with my man bag x

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!

I can see what the OP is trying to get at and I think it is a very valid question! If you were in a pub (or anywhere?) and were chatted up by someone, would you be flattered or offended...

The next question was likely to be (given that most would probably say they wouldn't be offended) If it is OK to be chatted up in a pub, then why do women on here get so upset by guys chatting them up on here?

Perhaps some people on here need to get out a little more instead of being keyboard warriors...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get upset being chatted up I find it a compliment. Even if I don't like the person.

If a woman was to say she got offended by it then she's got her ass so far up her own ass and thinks she too special to be chatted up

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!

cos its fighting Thurday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!

I can see what the OP is trying to get at and I think it is a very valid question! If you were in a pub (or anywhere?) and were chatted up by someone, would you be flattered or offended...

Perhaps some people on here need to get out a little more instead of being keyboard warriors...

Don't put youself down...it's not beyond you. You have done exactly what you say is beyond you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never get upset being chatted up I find it a compliment. Even if I don't like the person.

If a woman was to say she got offended by it then she's got her ass so far up her own ass and thinks she too special to be chatted up "

Would have to disagree there. I was chatted up in my kitchen by the "Yardie" bloke that delivered my Tesco shopping. I didn't feel flattered that he was leaning against my cupboards, looking around my kitchen, asking me if I was single - even though my order states "Mrs" and offering me his mobile number - all within 30 seconds of walking through my front door!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!

I can see what the OP is trying to get at and I think it is a very valid question! If you were in a pub (or anywhere?) and were chatted up by someone, would you be flattered or offended...

Perhaps some people on here need to get out a little more instead of being keyboard warriors...

Don't put youself down...it's not beyond you. You have done exactly what you say is beyond you!"

And that reply only goes to reinforce my thoughts on the person you are!

I still do not understand why you and people like you have to pull things apart! And if you read it again, that is what I said was beyond me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!

I can see what the OP is trying to get at and I think it is a very valid question! If you were in a pub (or anywhere?) and were chatted up by someone, would you be flattered or offended...

Perhaps some people on here need to get out a little more instead of being keyboard warriors...

Don't put youself down...it's not beyond you. You have done exactly what you say is beyond you!

And that reply only goes to reinforce my thoughts on the person you are!

I still do not understand why you and people like you have to pull things apart! And if you read it again, that is what I said was beyond me!"

Well of course it does!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!

I can see what the OP is trying to get at and I think it is a very valid question! If you were in a pub (or anywhere?) and were chatted up by someone, would you be flattered or offended...

Perhaps some people on here need to get out a little more instead of being keyboard warriors...

Don't put youself down...it's not beyond you. You have done exactly what you say is beyond you!

And that reply only goes to reinforce my thoughts on the person you are!

I still do not understand why you and people like you have to pull things apart! And if you read it again, that is what I said was beyond me!"

just ignore him (see my narky thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, an I did read it, are you not pulling apart what I and others say?

And another 'Oh' read all of the OP maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt matter which subject you wish to talk about on here it always ends tits up or one big joke, give the poor girl a break lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooo Id be flatered then drag him behind a bush hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!

I can see what the OP is trying to get at and I think it is a very valid question! If you were in a pub (or anywhere?) and were chatted up by someone, would you be flattered or offended...

Perhaps some people on here need to get out a little more instead of being keyboard warriors...

Thank you. And yes, that was the point I was trying to make.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

wouldn't be offended in the slightest

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Not at all, would be flattered, specially if he bought me a drink as well

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i would be flattered but also abit suspisious why he's chatting me up, wen there's better looking women then me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is to all ladies, single, or in a couple, if a hot guy came up to you in a pub and chatted you up ... would you be highly offended or would you be flattered? Or would you only be flattered if he was in a couple?"

single or not i would be flattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am flattered and if with my girls , lol makes me smile

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Sometimes I'm glad I'm a bloke... *closes door on thread and scratches his balls*

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By *anchestercouple2011Couple
over a year ago

stockport

i had a guy wait till i moved away from my husband the other day shopin in tescos come up to me ask me for my number lol

was flattered if only he knew we were swingers he wouldnt have had to wait till hubby moved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always flattered, if done in the right way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I guess we shouldn't be going up to you to chat you up if we see you in a pub...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I guess we shouldn't be going up to you to chat you up if we see you in a pub...............

not if you are going to make her cry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I guess we shouldn't be going up to you to chat you up if we see you in a pub...............

not if you are going to make her cry!"

Ah, I only ever make the girls cry when I leave

I nick all the booze.........

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

flattered

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I guess we shouldn't be going up to you to chat you up if we see you in a pub...............

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I guess we shouldn't be going up to you to chat you up if we see you in a pub...............

not if you are going to make her cry!

Ah, I only ever make the girls cry when I leave

I nick all the booze........."

You'd be heck of a brave to nick my booze

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be flattered if a hot guy came up to me in a pub and chatted me up.

The second part of your question - would I only be flattered if he was in a couple - no I wouldnt be flattered if he was in a couple I would think cheeky bastard.

I wouldnt be flattered if a common chavvy type bloke, pissed up, staggered over to me and said, you're gorgeous love, fancy going outside - I would say go fuck yourself you idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd be flattered if any guy chatted me up...it's a compliment regardless of who makes it.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I'd be flattered.

Jason would be amused.

The blokes wife would probably be seriously pissed off!

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By *uicyhunnibunniWoman
over a year ago

paignton

i would be very flattered and enjoy every minute of him flirting with me and enjoy flirting back

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i would be scared.

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