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Losing your mojo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure if it's the time of year but I've really lost my sexual mojo. Right now it's the last thing on my mind before I couldn't wait to rip renos clothes off when he got in from work now all I want to do cuddle up.

Cecilia x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stages like that are common dunna worry yaself and enjoy a different closeness it will return xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hope so starting to think it was me x

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

oh no! does this just mean cuddles all night lol x only kidding lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah ive lost mine too.. maybe its the time of year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not just me then phew x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got cheated on, had a baby, lost my social life, and its winter... ROLL ON SUMMER LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that cutensassy Reno thinks I've got the SAD sessional affective disorder, me I'm just drained with work I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

us females cant be expected to be sexual godesses and turned on 24-7 can we???

Im hoping mine is a bit of SAD to be honest,, ive not had sex for about 8 months now...

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

even men get it hun. you cant always be in the mood. and work and relationship stuff effects. i had an ex have sex with someone else in the same room as me years ago. she thought i was asleep. put me off sex for a while x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I havent ever lost mine but have been bored with swinging so took a break on the odd occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost mine too but normally do this time of year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost mine following christmas and the sudden death of my ex partner, then a couple of meets that werent all that, just beginning to come back to me as had 2 great meets this week, that will be second meets just wish i could sleep as barely all week and this morning, i would rather do nothing as in pain too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do at this time of the year too, catch up after Christmas, being skint, too many other things to think about I think. And whoever mentioned SAD syndrome, I'm sure I get that! I'm definitely a summer girl.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I've lost mine. Hoping to find it on Monday night at Chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've lost mine. Hoping to find it on Monday night at Chams "

Its under the seat at the back a the lounge

It nearly bit me last Sunday xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always do at this time of the year too, catch up after Christmas, being skint, too many other things to think about I think. And whoever mentioned SAD syndrome, I'm sure I get that! I'm definitely a summer girl."

You knocked the nail on the head there. I'm a summer girl and I miss my flip flops and tan x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Turn the heating up... no seriously, turn the heating up.

At this time of year if I don't feel comfortably warm (and I mean warm not just not cold) I can't be arsed to get ready.

If I put snuggly slippers on and my feet feel warm and the rest of me is just OK, it's even worse coz I don't want to have to take them off.

Turn the heating up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn the heating up... no seriously, turn the heating up.

At this time of year if I don't feel comfortably warm (and I mean warm not just not cold) I can't be arsed to get ready.

If I put snuggly slippers on and my feet feel warm and the rest of me is just OK, it's even worse coz I don't want to have to take them off.

Turn the heating up."

That's me as well lol even with heating full blast, I like my jammies and slippers at this time of the year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i feel like pants at the moment and even my horniness has took a walk it seems

and i so miss it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know what you mean I've felt nothing but cold.

Central heatings always on and I am still cold.

I know once the warm weather comes I will be back to my usual self.

I just hate the cold and the early dark nights.

Cecilia x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a naked sleeper usually but lately thick pjs thick socks, Reno doesn't understand he said it's like sleeping next to a yeti everynight.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I know what you mean I've felt nothing but cold.

Central heatings always on and I am still cold.

I know once the warm weather comes I will be back to my usual self.

I just hate the cold and the early dark nights.

Cecilia x"

Light a shit load of candles... it's not just about the mood lighting... they give off lots of heat if you light enough of them lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've started doing that too it makes the place look warmer x

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By *orestersCouple
over a year ago

The Forest

The SADS thing is very real at this time of year, especially now that we've mostly got the new light bulbs. the old style put out a lower spectrum of light, measured in lumens, that was closer to the sun's output for light intensity. The new bulbs are 6400k which is a cold light, the old incandescent were 2700k which is nearer the lumens of sunlight in summer.

You can now get the CFL bulbs in 2700k - change your lightbulbs, people, and feel happier or your money back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know if this helps but...

I find that having sex makes u keep wanting it, especially if its with new people.

And I've read forum posts from couples who say swinging brings them closer to their partner , so u never know it might help?

Failing that I'm a big believer in sad.

Roll on the spring!

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think Ive lost mine, I just cant be arsed most the time lol class myself as a lazy swinger hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont think Ive lost mine, I just cant be arsed most the time lol class myself as a lazy swinger hahaha "

ditto lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I preferred Fruit Salads to Mojos.

I've never lost either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I preferred Fruit Salads to Mojos.

I've never lost either."

but you dont get as many to the penny these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i havent lost my mojo at all, ever. just seem to make people around me lose theirs

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i always loose mine,more so now that i aint felt well for a wk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunnae worrie lassies...i'll hold the fort whilt you all take a break

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