FabSwingers.com forum: Dating corner

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey fabbers

Some have said they miss, cheeky chops dating thread, so here you are, a place for you too find an actual date.

We are swingers yes but there are some here that would like to have a date, go bowling, go to dinner, picnic (even in the dead of winter!) the list is endless

So ladies and gentlemen, please if you want to take part, don't just write 'I'm in' this isn't a fab thread!! Sell your self!! Say why you would be a perfect date etc.

Also ladies, message the men, don't just wait for him to find you, it does work!!

Speaking from my own experience this does work and I hope it works for a few more of you, good luck and be nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like a date to enjoy some festive fun activities. I'm cute, funny and excellent company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump!

No time before Xmas and January but after that definitely .. alrhough I'm guessing it may be far too early to even contemplate anything that far out?

On the plus side I'm a cheap date and toilet trained, er is that enough to entice anyone!?

PM button is down there ladies ...

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Looking for a date with a couple or a fem over the Christmas period.

Remember that kid that got picked last for any team sport............that's us that is

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've already got two pending for the new year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like fun. I got loads of free time on my hands and I go to the gym few times a week and I like haribos

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I'd like a cinema date. Maybe regular. Hate going alone.

Sex after optional

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I would love a vanilla date...hate going to the cinema alone...chatty lady good companion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your up for a laugh and a bit of fun then feel free to message me

Will make you go home with a smile on your face

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Sounds like fun. I got loads of free time on my hands and I go to the gym few times a week and I like haribos

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do you want to meet for coffee at ikea?

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Got one date in the new year. Happy to arrange some more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like fun. I got loads of free time on my hands and I go to the gym few times a week and I like haribos

do you want to meet for coffee at ikea?

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Yes and have one or 2 hot dogs lol.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Everyone I like is too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your giving dates away, could i have the 3rd of July 1636 please

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

A date with extras might make a nice change.

I have my own teeth..thats it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in, but judging by previous threads I'm undatable

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

A cinema buddy would be nice,

I have meercat movies so its half price

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy with a companionable evening out. Cinema, dinner... (preferably something indoorsy - not exactly 'walk in the park' weather).

Me?:- Slightly nutty but a long way from certifiable. Comfortable to be with (like your favourite slippers). Gentleman enough to make the bill disappear, without a fuss.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

[Removed by poster at 07/12/15 19:07:19]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for a meal and some drinks at favourite rock bar and then home to tie up the wife and play in front of her and on her

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Single, solvent, (but not sane) female looking for cosy nights of chat in a real ale pub or over a nice meal. I am also up for the cinema, the theatre, opera, or even a ghost walk on a chilly winters night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single, solvent, (but not sane) female looking for cosy nights of chat in a real ale pub or over a nice meal. I am also up for the cinema, the theatre, opera, or even a ghost walk on a chilly winters night."

What about a walk in the wood

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Single sarcastic bitch, looking for a few dates over the festive period so Santa isn't the only once dishing out the presents.......

Though I can come gift wrapped if enticed enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single sarcastic bitch, looking for a few dates over the festive period so Santa isn't the only once dishing out the presents.......

Though I can come gift wrapped if enticed enough

You would have to be unwrapped before Christmas I wouldn't be able to wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Sounds like fun. I got loads of free time on my hands and I go to the gym few times a week and I like haribos

do you want to meet for coffee at ikea?

Yes and have one or 2 hot dogs lol."

See folks? It's easy

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By *man91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I would be interested in meeting someone over a coffee, dinner or a movie date (any other suggestions more than welcome).

Apparently I am a good listener, relatively intellectual and not bad looking either so do get in touch if you are feeling that little bit interested.

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By *omPeepingMan
over a year ago

ossett

Working in Malton tomorrow, dinnertime? Anywhere nice? X

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I'm single and would love a nice date, not had one for a long time. It doesn't have to be local because I can drive, you don't have to be nuts to date me but it might help and you'll have a giggle, probably at something I do or say! X

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Working in Malton tomorrow, dinnertime? Anywhere nice? X"

I'm in London tomorrow, but thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I date the OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I date the OP?"

Erm.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I date the OP?

Erm....."

U seriously have to think about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like fun. I got loads of free time on my hands and I go to the gym few times a week and I like haribos

do you want to meet for coffee at ikea?

Yes and have one or 2 hot dogs lol.

See folks? It's easy

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lol yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im definitely in. Single parent to a fabulous small person, would love someone to want me as much as I love her. Told im mad as a boxof frog's, passionate and an amazing kisser.... everywhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I date the OP?

Erm.....

U seriously have to think about it?

Go on then

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm in, but judging by previous threads I'm undatable

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm in, but judging by previous threads I'm undatable

Me too

Sell yourself!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I date the OP?

Erm.....

U seriously have to think about it?

Go on then

How's Sunday night for you? X

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm in, but judging by previous threads I'm undatable

Me too

Sell yourself!!!"

That's not allowed on here

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No that I would

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I date the OP?

Erm.....

U seriously have to think about it?

Go on then

How's Sunday night for you? X"

I'm free, pub?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No that I would

Pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I date the OP?

Erm.....

U seriously have to think about it?

Go on then

How's Sunday night for you? X

I'm free, pub?"

GET A ROOM YOU TWO

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I date the OP?

Erm.....

U seriously have to think about it?

Go on then

How's Sunday night for you? X

I'm free, pub?

GET A ROOM YOU TWO

Sod off!! We are merely demonstrating how it is done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to go have a coffee or something with a lucky lady in Grimsby?

There is a plus side to this... I'll pay

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Single solvent guy ... 51 ish not bad nick for his age, gsoh.(giant sack of haribos).. happy to have a chat and a drink see what happens.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We quite like the idea of a date.

Ideally with a couple but happy to consider singles.

Would be nice to go for a drink, maybe watch a band and have a chat. Just make new friends who you can be open with about swinging too.

I might even be brave and take off the filters overnight

We've nothing planned this weekend so far, other than that think we're busy until after Xmas.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like a date as I'm a nice man . Feel bit off a numpty biggin my self up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to date an athletic lady or Cpl.

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

"A cinema buddy would be nice,

I have meercat movies so its half price

There isn't a cinema in Dunstable is there?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Single solvent guy ... 51 ish not bad nick for his age, gsoh.(giant sack of haribos).. happy to have a chat and a drink see what happens.

I should have said.. Leeds or near please..

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I recently went for afternoon tea with another lady forumite - we had a brilliant time & are now firm friends. I don't click with people very easily so am pretty happy with myself. I highly recommend dating/socials/whatever you want to call it!!!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I am in. N London borders but I don't mind a drive. December is pretty busy so can't guarantee the date will be soon, but I am looking forward to the chance of having diary issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds just up my street, my first meet was at the cinema, just love social meets, also happy to have a social coffee/chat with a local female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dates.. Like mine ripe and in date.

Oh you meant travel 300 miles for coffee.

Not likely. 300 yds yes lol

Social by day and night.. Santa says I am.

And in good elf lol

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Yes please I'm available. I'm a fun loving, easy going, laid back woman who likes to laugh. I have a satnav and am prepared to meet half way.

So don't be shy, don't make me come to you - by which I mean I will wink at you. I'm far to shy to message with, " wanna date?" Lol xx

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Fancy a game of pool and a pint?? There's nothing like the feel of wood in my hand as I play with some balls...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I would love a date or two im a very sociable lady and love getting dressed up and going out don't mind where love pubs or cinema or bowling and just having fun and talking and if we click some horny fun to round the night off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fancy a game of pool and a pint?? There's nothing like the feel of wood in my hand as I play with some balls..."

My kinda date!

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By *dventureslayerMan
over a year ago

London

I would love to meet an intelligent, attractive, fun woman for a game of billards or associated bar related activities. We can have a drink, a chat, and engage in some sort of competitive activity while we get to know each other. I'm an intelligent, good looking, spontaneous man from the states who really enjoys meeting new and exciting people.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Good luck y'all.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in for a girlie date.

Coffee, shopping and gossip is what I offer. I can even stretch to cocktails and a perve of the talent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in again to try. Happy to meet for social, have a laugh and share my sarcasm . Who can resist.......?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in, but be good to just meet someome for a social as mates too. So if thats appealing to anyone then say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont know why I bother.. Too many stuck up yer arses.

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

I am in. Would love a date with any female who is easy going, happy to go for a meal, cinema or just a drink.

I am a nice friendly chilled out guy. Kent/Sussex or possibly London

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Well if your local(ish) to Tunbridge Wells i would happily take you on a date

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"I would love to meet an intelligent, attractive, fun woman for a game of billards or associated bar related activities. We can have a drink, a chat, and engage in some sort of competitive activity while we get to know each other. I'm an intelligent, good looking, spontaneous man from the states who really enjoys meeting new and exciting people. "

I'm interested, but are you? X

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"I'm in again to try. Happy to meet for social, have a laugh and share my sarcasm . Who can resist.......?

I do sarcasm xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in again to try. Happy to meet for social, have a laugh and share my sarcasm . Who can resist.......?

I do sarcasm xx"

Do you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in again *waves hand*. Any lovely lady fancy a big cuddly geeky guy to go out on a date with? I'm very laid back as to what we do, could be anything from cow tipping to pretending we are Jedi's. I'm based in north Hampshire and await your responses..........don't all rush at once

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

May as well throw my hat in for this.

Ladies if you appreciate short ginger men, dodgy London boozers, shady characters and unsuitable locations I'm your man.

Oh and if we end up in a caff or restaurant make sure you bring your trainers cos we are going to leg it before the bill!!!Hope you can keep up!!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I'm in. I enjoy a casual dinner date,or some drinks with the chance of getting to know each other better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone confirmed a date from this?

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Anyone confirmed a date from this? "

In the process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone confirmed a date from this? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one in Newcastle upon Tyne wanna go for a coffee or something else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone confirmed a date from this? "

Statement of intent in 2016. Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone confirmed a date from this?

In the process

Yay!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone confirmed a date from this?

Nope "

Boooooo!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone confirmed a date from this?

Statement of intent in 2016. Does that count?

Oh you tart

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Anyone confirmed a date from this?

Nope "

Well you did say that everyone seems to be up their own arses further help which doesn't help your cause some what...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont know why I bother.. Too many stuck up yer arses. "

You're always so angry

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

With apologies to Jimmy Buffett

"If you like Pina Coladas, getting caught in the rain ...

If you like making love at midnight in the dunes of the cape ...

write to me and escape"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With apologies to Jimmy Buffett

"If you like Pina Coladas, getting caught in the rain ...

If you like making love at midnight in the dunes of the cape ...

write to me and escape""

If I wasn't taken

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

thats why i joined fabs as i dont want to date an i dont want a partner, isnt what pof an other date sites are for. Each to their own. But for me i dont want to go to the cinema, meals out etc etc isnt that a relationship it sort of crosses the boundaries to me. I very happy being on this site as it gives me the freedom to express myself sexually an experiment an i find this confuses the issue of a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Go on a date is away to get to know someone or as people like calling it a social meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a swinging club date

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Yes it is a swingers site but occasionally some of us like a date night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Well dont post in the thread then

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Thread is just a bit of fun and for people to meet up and have a laugh without pressure or expectations. I think theres more to swinging and this site than casual sex. Once this site stops becoming fun what's the point?

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

"With apologies to Jimmy Buffett

"If you like Pina Coladas, getting caught in the rain ...

If you like making love at midnight in the dunes of the cape ...

write to me and escape""

Jimmy Buffet

You mean,Rupert Holmes, surely?

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Well dont post in the thread then

i can post if i like you might like a date but i dont

i dont want to give a guy the wrong impression im looking to date etc gives wrong signal tbh

im just looking for fun a laugh you can have a laugh without it turning into a date etc. Ive had lots of fun with meets of this site. An quite happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

It's one thread on the forums. It doesn't turn the whole site into a dating site.

Why waste your time posting on something you have no interest in?

Seems utterly pointless unless you just wanted to moan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a swinging club date

That would be my ideal date too

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

South Coast based couple happy to just be friends, go out or do stuff. Yes, that vague!

Seriously, not been out on a Fab date for yonks and would love to sit down, drink wine and have a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Well dont post in the thread then

i can post if i like you might like a date but i dont

i dont want to give a guy the wrong impression im looking to date etc gives wrong signal tbh

im just looking for fun a laugh you can have a laugh without it turning into a date etc. Ive had lots of fun with meets of this site. An quite happy "

But surely the best way to not give the wrong impression would be just not to post on threads that don't apply to what your looking for

I'm not after dates either but I have the ability to not take everything on here to serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a swinging club date

That would be my ideal date too

Fancy a date

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

It's one thread on the forums. It doesn't turn the whole site into a dating site.

Why waste your time posting on something you have no interest in?

Seems utterly pointless unless you just wanted to moan?

Im moaning quite the opposite, i did say i was very happy with the site no complaints with the site at all

Why say im moaning. You have took it all out of context. Tbh. Ive had great fun on the site an met some nice guys an had great sexy fun, why have i got to complain about. Im still having fun with the site an i have no intention of leaving

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Well dont post in the thread then

i can post if i like you might like a date but i dont

i dont want to give a guy the wrong impression im looking to date etc gives wrong signal tbh

im just looking for fun a laugh you can have a laugh without it turning into a date etc. Ive had lots of fun with meets of this site. An quite happy "

Anyway a date doesn't have to be any particular reason or lead into a relationship could just be a means for two people off here to meet up and have a laugh who wouldn't have the opportunity to otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone confirmed a date from this?

In the process

Love to date you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Well dont post in the thread then

i can post if i like you might like a date but i dont

i dont want to give a guy the wrong impression im looking to date etc gives wrong signal tbh

im just looking for fun a laugh you can have a laugh without it turning into a date etc. Ive had lots of fun with meets of this site. An quite happy "

I don't think it's a date as in 'I'm looking for a boyfriend / girlfriend' - you're right this isn't the site for that (plenty of alternatives). I've used these threads to meet people with a view to naughty fun at a future point but to break the ice, get to know each other, maybe (if lucky!) a little kiss and cuddle and then know if you want to move on to something more intimate or not.

Just a light hearted alternative to just full on sex with nothing more deep and serious intended or implied.

It's not for everyone for sure, but what's the harm for those that do want to have a social edge as well as a sexual one on here? Each to their own and all that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

It's one thread on the forums. It doesn't turn the whole site into a dating site.

Why waste your time posting on something you have no interest in?

Seems utterly pointless unless you just wanted to moan?

Im moaning quite the opposite, i did say i was very happy with the site no complaints with the site at all

Because your post was pointless. It would be like me posting on a thread about someone looking for small boobs for example.

You don't have to date. It's easy, you just don't post on a thread for people looking for a date night.

It's not rocket science

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

It's one thread on the forums. It doesn't turn the whole site into a dating site.

Why waste your time posting on something you have no interest in?

Seems utterly pointless unless you just wanted to moan?

Im moaning quite the opposite, i did say i was very happy with the site no complaints with the site at all

Because your post was pointless. It would be like me posting on a thread about someone looking for small boobs for example.

You don't have to date. It's easy, you just don't post on a thread for people looking for a date night.

It's not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on a few dates from these threads and hopefully will be getting a couple of second dates after the new year (fingers crossed) but I'm always up for meeting new people and having some fun.

Anything goes, dinner, a movie, coffee or just a nice walk somewhere scenic. I've been told I'm good company and I'm usually house trained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a swinging club date

That would be my ideal date too

Fancy a date

Id love one of those

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Well dont post in the thread then

i can post if i like you might like a date but i dont

i dont want to give a guy the wrong impression im looking to date etc gives wrong signal tbh

im just looking for fun a laugh you can have a laugh without it turning into a date etc. Ive had lots of fun with meets of this site. An quite happy

i dont fancy explaining to a guy sorry even though we have been to the cinema or a meal date etc that i just want nsa. Believe it or not guys do get those feelings of wanting more like dating, i dont want to confuse the matter an lead a guy on an giving him the wrong impression i want more than nsa. As i dont , if you want to vanilla date that is up to you each to their own . But dont berate someone who dont share the same opinion as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a swinging club date

That would be my ideal date too

Fancy a date

If you lived closer, I'd go to a club with you, definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would also like a date for the movies someone to buy me popcorn...x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Well dont post in the thread then

i can post if i like you might like a date but i dont

i dont want to give a guy the wrong impression im looking to date etc gives wrong signal tbh

im just looking for fun a laugh you can have a laugh without it turning into a date etc. Ive had lots of fun with meets of this site. An quite happy

If you don't want a social meet/date then this isn't the thread for you, there are other means on this site for finding a meet. Please don't spoil this thread for those that would just like something 'different' thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Well dont post in the thread then

i can post if i like you might like a date but i dont

i dont want to give a guy the wrong impression im looking to date etc gives wrong signal tbh

im just looking for fun a laugh you can have a laugh without it turning into a date etc. Ive had lots of fun with meets of this site. An quite happy

Who said anything about the dates being vanilla?!

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"With apologies to Jimmy Buffett

"If you like Pina Coladas, getting caught in the rain ...

If you like making love at midnight in the dunes of the cape ...

write to me and escape"

Jimmy Buffet

You mean,Rupert Holmes, surely?

Yes I do

Escape from Partners in Crime 1979.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Well dont post in the thread then

i can post if i like you might like a date but i dont

i dont want to give a guy the wrong impression im looking to date etc gives wrong signal tbh

im just looking for fun a laugh you can have a laugh without it turning into a date etc. Ive had lots of fun with meets of this site. An quite happy

i though the thread was just supposed to be a bit of fun

im happy to meet people and go out for meals, drinks etc with them that dont mean im looking to open up a new couples profile

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Well dont post in the thread then

i can post if i like you might like a date but i dont

i dont want to give a guy the wrong impression im looking to date etc gives wrong signal tbh

im just looking for fun a laugh you can have a laugh without it turning into a date etc. Ive had lots of fun with meets of this site. An quite happy

Who said anything about the dates being vanilla?!

I wish people would get a sense of humour im having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Well dont post in the thread then

i can post if i like you might like a date but i dont

i dont want to give a guy the wrong impression im looking to date etc gives wrong signal tbh

im just looking for fun a laugh you can have a laugh without it turning into a date etc. Ive had lots of fun with meets of this site. An quite happy

i though the thread was just supposed to be a bit of fun

im happy to meet people and go out for meals, drinks etc with them that dont mean im looking to open up a new couples profile

Well sod ya then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a swinging club date

That would be my ideal date too

Fancy a date

Yes! Tuesday night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was a swingers site , not a dating site

Well dont post in the thread then

i can post if i like you might like a date but i dont

i dont want to give a guy the wrong impression im looking to date etc gives wrong signal tbh

im just looking for fun a laugh you can have a laugh without it turning into a date etc. Ive had lots of fun with meets of this site. An quite happy

Who said anything about the dates being vanilla?!

I wish people would get a sense of humour im having fun. "

That was a joke! That's the whole point!

the great ones are always misunderstood in their own time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Annnnnyyyyyway : who fancies a date!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Annnnnyyyyyway : who fancies a date!?

Dinner again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a date so please count me in, I am a very relaxed and very genuine person who loves nights in and out, WLTM someone who would like to go out for a meal and then either catch a film or go for a drink and boogie in town.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because your post was pointless. It would be like me posting on a thread about someone looking for small boobs for example.

You don't have to date. It's easy, you just don't post on a thread for people looking for a date night.

It's not rocket science

But haven't you been pulled up for this exact reason previously? Shoving your cleavage onto a thread about small boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I date the OP?

Erm.....

U seriously have to think about it?

Go on then

How's Sunday night for you? X

I'm free, pub?

GET A ROOM YOU TWO

I have 1 we didn't come out of it much last weekend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because your post was pointless. It would be like me posting on a thread about someone looking for small boobs for example.

You don't have to date. It's easy, you just don't post on a thread for people looking for a date night.

It's not rocket science

But haven't you been pulled up for this exact reason previously? Shoving your cleavage onto a thread about small boobs.

Wasn't me. I wouldn't post in a thread about small boobs. There have been some recently, I ignored them. Pretty pointless me posting in them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I date the OP?

Erm.....

U seriously have to think about it?

Go on then

How's Sunday night for you? X

I'm free, pub?

GET A ROOM YOU TWO

I have 1 we didn't come out of it much last weekend!"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I set this thread up for people that actually wanted to date, I have tried vanilla dating and the men wasn't for me it's very hard to say to a guy I want to have a few different cocks now and again. I want a relationship so use dating sites as well as fab, I am completely honest with my intentions and make that clear from the get go in what I want.

People use fab for various reasons, some use it to cheat, some use it to have NSA meets, couples use it to add an extra spice into their relationship I use it to meet like minded people who if we get along may want to start dating....now it's clear to me why I became so pissed off with my own thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw everyone so far away... think i need to move North as i'd luv someone to go cinema with, have munchies etc afterwards

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By *ummersun99Woman
over a year ago

North Yorkshire by the Sea

"I set this thread up for people that actually wanted to date, I have tried vanilla dating and the men wasn't for me it's very hard to say to a guy I want to have a few different cocks now and again. I want a relationship so use dating sites as well as fab, I am completely honest with my intentions and make that clear from the get go in what I want.

I hear ya

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I hear ya

Vanilla dating is hard work....I'm too old for one night stands and too long in the tooth for mindless games that people play...it's the same on here but at least I know where I stand 99.9% of the time on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least some good came of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I join?

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By *ummersun99Woman
over a year ago

North Yorkshire by the Sea

I hear ya

I was similar to you, always found looking only led to finding the wrong thing... For me it's better to get the love from friends & family when in need, and enjoy a man for his offered talents when in the mood for mischief.

Surprisingly enough, through not trying or looking I've found myself dating someone who's my kinda weird, now I'm not sure where it will lead as I'm truly crap at dating and will probably freak out and mess it up (been single too long) but am currently enjoying it for what it is not isn't. Waffling but the point I meant to share was Maybe taking a siesta from looking, getting love and hugs from your friends/family might put you in a different place and who knows what might pop up, unexpectedly and literally

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been single for quite some time and the prospect of normal dating is quite scary, plus I'm getting more and more used to my own space , but I would love to find somebody to be honest and open with and have a vanilla relationship, with that added spice !

I miss snogs and cuddles loads , which is harder to find than you might think, there are times when dare I say it in a site like this, that I don't really miss the sex, it's more the physical contact I miss,

Don't worry I'm not a total weirdo I do enjoy having fun when the right person comes along , it's just the gaps between get longer as I get older haha

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By *ummersun99Woman
over a year ago

North Yorkshire by the Sea

Take chances and enjoy experiences to all on the thread who are single abd looking for dates too! I'll stop derailing it now x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I hear ya

xxx "

I think that's what I have done I'm no longer looking I haven't got time work has taken over and I truely understand where you are coming from. I think the biggest thing is my biological clock is frigging sending alarms to my brain but I'm just trying to ignore it for a while and enjoy life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems everyone is too far away

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By *llebWoman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

"Aw everyone so far away... think i need to move North as i'd luv someone to go cinema with, have munchies etc afterwards

It's always grass is greener, I keep saying I live in the wrong half of the country .....wanna swap? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone in York fancy a social in a couple of hours? Just be nice to have some female company?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's up for meeting for a drink then

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Just read through some of this thread. I thought the purpose of the dating thread was for us to have fun dates. To go out and have some social fun. So chill out and don't be so serious.

IT'S FUN

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Single solvent guy ... 51 ish not bad nick for his age, gsoh.(giant sack of haribos).. happy to have a chat and a drink see what happens.

I should have said.. Leeds or near please..

I'm happy to share the haribos..

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

"Would also like a date for the movies someone to buy me popcorn...x"
sitting in the backrow of the movies on a saturday night with you we could be together you and I we could be together oh yeah.. smotching and eating butterkist..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at most of the regulars on here.. Most just want a screw lol

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"I'm in again to try. Happy to meet for social, have a laugh and share my sarcasm . Who can resist.......?

I do sarcasm xx

Do you ?

I most certainly do - try me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're happy to meet couples and single men socially. We're friendly, relaxed and scrub up fairly well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking at most of the regulars on here.. Most just want a screw lol"
I wouldn't say no to a coffe at nandos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss date nights ...anyone close to me? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmfaooooo... Yeah yeah yeah. You will not budge off your ponge chair.. Or out the gym.

Nandos.. No shizt lol. Coffe?

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over a year ago

"Lmfaooooo... Yeah yeah yeah. You will not budge off your ponge chair.. Or out the gym.

Nandos.. No shizt lol. Coffe?

"
lol that's right no chair, yeah and grab a bite as well, them paninis mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact many of you do not budge from your fab fingering on which post to up lol.

You dont chat.. You think after five mins I want you. Get real.

I discovered most here just posing players or plonkers hehe

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

"We're happy to meet couples and single men socially. We're friendly, relaxed and scrub up fairly well

I would happily meet you guys for a drink or two

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over a year ago

"Lmfaooooo... Yeah yeah yeah. You will not budge off your ponge chair.. Or out the gym.

Nandos.. No shizt lol. Coffe?

lol that's right no chair, yeah and grab a bite as well, them paninis mmmmm

Oooh ponge you do spoil me.. Please take note.. Ponge has no chairs and fancies the nandos off me lol

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over a year ago

"In fact many of you do not budge from your fab fingering on which post to up lol.

You dont chat.. You think after five mins I want you. Get real.

I discovered most here just posing players or plonkers hehe

door is that way ----------

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"In fact many of you do not budge from your fab fingering on which post to up lol.

You dont chat.. You think after five mins I want you. Get real.

I discovered most here just posing players or plonkers hehe

door is that way ----------

Don't know what to say really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Miss date nights ...anyone close to me? Xx

Staffordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Miss date nights ...anyone close to me? Xx

Staffordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Miss date nights ...anyone close to me? Xx

Staffordshire

It's a date

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

"In fact many of you do not budge from your fab fingering on which post to up lol.

You dont chat.. You think after five mins I want you. Get real.

I discovered most here just posing players or plonkers hehe

door is that way ----------

Don't know what to say really..."

All I can say is that there lots of good guys like me on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit boring for some, but I love walking around Edale and Peak District. I'd love to find a walking partner and not just a f-buddy.

A long walk followed by a meal in a cosy pub along side a roaring hot open fire. Sex an optional extra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Miss date nights ...anyone close to me? Xx

Back in The Shire at Xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to have play dates

Whole days dedicated to fun

Golf range

Secret escape

Train trip

Eating in the dark

Musicals

Country drives

Xmas carols in London

Play marbles for real

Make cocktails

Weekends away in weird places

Fly anywhere for a lunch

Go to the game

Movies - see three in a row

Casino

Breakfast out (very Aussie thing)

Happy to go halves with cost as play date

Just have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi ladies. I'm in essex and would love to be treating someone nice.

xxx

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I'm giving up, everybody is so far away. I think I'll move x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm giving up, everybody is so far away. I think I'll move x"

me to huni x

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

See my earlier posts... Anyone near Leeds ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi ladies. I'm in essex and would love to be treating someone nice.

xxx "

Um, I can't reply to you

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone free today? I fancy a ride out somewhere different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone near Durham or the north east in general?

Im funny. Have my own teeth. Don't smell awful and can have a conversation.

I like the beach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essex Suffolk

Genuine guy

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