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"They're being totally honest about what they want, I see no harm in that. Its when people aren't honest that the problems start!" I agree x | |||
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"oooh errrr why 4 threads? " YUP, you are much more likely to alienate folks by re-posting every few minutes a new thread than anyone being honest on their profile about what they are looking for ever is! | |||
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"oooh errrr why 4 threads? " Thought i was seeing things ? | |||
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"The 4 treads was a mistake as it said it didn't post on the 1st 3 so what about the CSA if they split up " That would be their business wouldnt it? | |||
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"I don't have a problem with them posting a profile asking that I just wanted to see what everyone else thinks " Its honest of them to put it up. They could have just said bareback and not taken any precautions at all. | |||
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"I don't have a problem with them posting a profile asking that I just wanted to see what everyone else thinks " Yes but its their profile,they shouldnt have their business plastered over the forums,what if they see not 1 post from you about it but 4? | |||
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"Thats more than be said for half of the young gals who have kids these days... "mommy whose me dad" ? "Dont know i was pissed or stoned at the time" " well thats a bit different than advertising it on a swingers site | |||
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"Having a baby is not fantasy and lots of people on one night stands thats just a stupid mistake or they are under the influence of a substance ,Having kids is no fantasy in my world ." Spot on | |||
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"Having a baby is not fantasy and lots of people on one night stands thats just a stupid mistake or they are under the influence of a substance ,Having kids is no fantasy in my world ." No but the way they concieve to them is.. who are we to say thats wrong. Planning to have a baby is a big thing, one they have obviously thought about. They are ready to have one and are chosing to do it the way they are. Most impregnantion fantasies are done when the couple themselves have been trying all month... Its not up to any of us to decide what is right or wrong, the fact is they could have not said a word as plenty of guys that will go bare. Katie. | |||
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"In a normal relationship you could but not to find some random stranger to go and shag you just to get pregnant thats totally fucked in the head stuff to me and whats the next thing to happen ona swingers site do we have a fetish section called come fook me boys i want a baby." There are plenty of places actually for that... You know how many women just pick a random guy because they want a baby, yet a happy loving couple that just CHOOSE to be honest get this sort of response. Katie. | |||
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"In a normal relationship you could but not to find some random stranger to go and shag you just to get pregnant thats totally fucked in the head stuff to me and whats the next thing to happen ona swingers site do we have a fetish section called come fook me boys i want a baby. There are plenty of places actually for that... You know how many women just pick a random guy because they want a baby, yet a happy loving couple that just CHOOSE to be honest get this sort of response. Katie." And if they pick a random guy up to get the lady pregnant, they are 'fucked in the head' too. | |||
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"If they were hapy and honest they would do the right thing and go to proper organisation that do this in the right way like i said earlier with checks and proper vetting and legal documentation." Why should they.. they are not asking you, they are asking people that are interested.. Fair play to them.. and the fact is as I have already stated MOST People into this dont want the other person to actually be the father.. the Partner is the father. And often Biologically too.. its just the process they wish to take. Katie.x | |||
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" And if they pick a random guy up to get the lady pregnant, they are 'fucked in the head' too." I meant women that decide they want a baby... meet a guy for a bit, sometimes just a one night thing.. but normally to date for a few months ( till they are pregnant) then finish it and never see them again. It happens a lot. Katie. | |||
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"IT is exactly the same, Its a sexual fantasy,and one that they do not have to be honest about but are choosing to. So that those with the fantasy of helping can contact them. The details are up to them.. nothing to do with us. And I do not see anything wrong with it as long as they are careful. and lets face it, many people every year fall pregnant on one night stands, or short term relationships. They can at least ask the guy to be checked. Katie." I see your point about it not being for us to judge Katie but the you say as long as they're careful. Which is exactly what they're not being. Bringing a child into the world isn't a fantasy...its not something that should be taken lightly and what these profiles are advertising is morally irresponsible to most rationally thinking humans. | |||
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"I see your point about it not being for us to judge Katie but the you say as long as they're careful. Which is exactly what they're not being. Bringing a child into the world isn't a fantasy...its not something that should be taken lightly and what these profiles are advertising is morally irresponsible to most rationally thinking humans. " I will have to agree to disagree with many on here, but I in someways thinks it shows the depth of their relationship, that they can share that moment with someone else. I would HATE to get pregnant by someone other than Master but thats just because I would want to have his child. Not because I see anything wrong with what this couple are asking for. Maybe my acceptance is because its far more common a suggestion in BDSM world. However, I think that they are right to state that is what they are after then people can block them if it offends them so much. And to the OP, I hope they do not see this thread as it may cause them distress. Katie. | |||
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" And to the OP, I hope they do not see this thread as it may cause them distress. Katie." What did they expect if they saw it. Its not exactly the norm is it. I hope they get distressed. Perhaps they might analise it all | |||
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"I had one message me last week,we are into "get you pregnant sex" I was like WTF,cause I am a nosy bugger I quizzed them more and they both said to me that they want "her" to get fucked by so many men and then guess who the father is. The words Jeremy Kyle sprung to my mind" Your Spot on there thats the type of people that would want that to happen | |||
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"I had one message me last week,we are into "get you pregnant sex" I was like WTF,cause I am a nosy bugger I quizzed them more and they both said to me that they want "her" to get fucked by so many men and then guess who the father is. The words Jeremy Kyle sprung to my mind Your Spot on there thats the type of people that would want that to happen" Too right and I know there are people mad enough on here that do,but at least they put it on their profile,means I know whom to avoid at all costs! | |||
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"Just found a couple on here and there profile is asking for man to get the wife up the duff is it right for a swingers site this way and also what about the problems it can cause later in life" you have introduced the word Surrogate that has a different meaning to "putting the wife up the duff" the latter is a sexuall fetish , extreeme yes , but different to Surrogate father | |||
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"The thing that amuses me with this is that how do you think the "non swinging" see most of what we get up too.. They are digusted at the thought of having someone else involved sexually. There are lots of people that are into impregnation, I think that asking on a swinging site is brave as most people will not understand, but I still stand by my _iews that there is nothing wrong with what they are asking for. They have also had the guts to put it for all to see. And I do think its not alright to cause them distress.. as its the same if someone starts on interacial comments, or anti bi or gay ones. Its THERE choice and they do not need to get grief over it. Katie." You keep comparing swinging to people wanting a baby of this site is nothing the same at all and like i said people have the choice to murder but that doesnt make it right . | |||
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"I wouldn't want to be involved in something like that but if its on their profile then that is being fair. Surely though as no one does bareback it wouldn't happen " lol,that made me chuckle | |||
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"I wouldn't want to be involved in something like that but if its on their profile then that is being fair. Surely though as no one does bareback it wouldn't happen lol,that made me chuckle" Well no one does here do they? | |||
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"I wouldn't want to be involved in something like that but if its on their profile then that is being fair. Surely though as no one does bareback it wouldn't happen lol,that made me chuckle Well no one does here do they? " Try again on that one lots do on here and they are not forth right about it either | |||
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"If they were hapy and honest they would do the right thing and go to proper organisation that do this in the right way like i said earlier with checks and proper vetting and legal documentation." that IS verging on fantasy, do you know what the chances of success are? | |||
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"If they were hapy and honest they would do the right thing and go to proper organisation that do this in the right way like i said earlier with checks and proper vetting and legal documentation. that IS verging on fantasy, do you know what the chances of success are?" no more chance that shaggin a guy off ere but you would be checked for hiv and all the other stuff and it would al be registered and legally documented and 9 out of 10 times artifically incinimated | |||
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" You keep comparing swinging to people wanting a baby of this site is nothing the same at all and like i said people have the choice to murder but that doesnt make it right ." I compare it to swinging because its a sexual Fantasy... They want a Baby and impregnation google it as I can not put the link on but there is plenty out there, although those wanting to follow through to carrying the baby are more Breeders. Yes there are some moral and ethical issues but that should be for those involved not us lot to decide. As said earlier I would hate to get pregnant by anyone else other than Master but I do understand this particular fetish and when it was first mentioned to me I had to go research it. Katie. | |||
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