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"im new to this stuff so haven't had a meet yet but was wondering at partys, group sex or even 1on1 sex who has safe sex and who goes bareback?" bareback with strangers...anyone with a deathwish! hiv is on the increase again which isnt a pretty scenario in this ere game old bean | |||
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"Oh, I think you'll find that everyone goes bareback as we don't really care about STD's, unwanted pregnancies etc, what the heck do you think?" why be so sarcy??? 
he asked a genuine question, yes, granted one that is done over and over and the use of the search would have given him his answers, but he still as the right to ask, after all this is a forum ye know
You will find people for and against bareback, and usually the people who play safe give the people who go bareback some right stick on these threads.
We are all adults and know the risks and play as we see fit, personally we always play safe, but don't flame people who choose bareback.
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"does that include safe oral aswell?" No, you're ok if you're just talking about it. | |||
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"im new to this stuff so haven't had a meet yet but was wondering at partys, group sex or even 1on1 sex who has safe sex and who goes bareback?" Which do you do? | |||
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"Do you know, I actually think the op is looking for a list of who does and who doesn't play bareback - am I right? Do you want to know who does and who doesn't rather than finding out what the difference is? I might be wrongbut have just reread the op and it reads like that to me. You'd need to ask the poeple you are messaging to find out that info." In that case the list would read: Safe sex - sensible people Bareback - eejits | |||
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"im asking out of interest not asking for lists, i have seen lots of pics from ppl on here, very few using condoms, so just asking what ppl like doing" I read your OP and all i could see is someone new to the site and possibly swinging ask a genuine question,there was no need for people to slate you for asking,hope this does not put you off posting again x | |||
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"im asking out of interest not asking for lists, i have seen lots of pics from ppl on here, very few using condoms, so just asking what ppl like doing I read your OP and all i could see is someone new to the site and possibly swinging ask a genuine question,there was no need for people to slate you for asking,hope this does not put you off posting again x" thank you, atleast some1 understands that i am new to this and this was a serious question i wanted to know more about, thank u 4 your kind words x | |||
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"im new to this stuff so haven't had a meet yet but was wondering at partys, group sex or even 1on1 sex who has safe sex and who goes bareback?" Don't be daft don't be silly put a condom on your willy. | |||
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"Safe sex only...I also count all my sperm out and count them all back in just to be sure. "...still counting them from a meet 6 months ago! | |||
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"Safe sex only...I also count all my sperm out and count them all back in just to be sure. "He's not kidding either | |||
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"Safe sex only...I also count all my sperm out and count them all back in just to be sure.
...still counting them from a meet 6 months ago! "That was some meet! hope they're all ok To the OP the only safe sex is masterbation and even then you end up with RSI  | |||
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"Safe sex only...I also count all my sperm out and count them all back in just to be sure.
...still counting them from a meet 6 months ago!
That was some meet! hope they're all ok
To the OP the only safe sex is masterbation and even then you end up with RSI "...oh bollocks! I've lost count now!!!  | |||
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"Safe sex only...I also count all my sperm out and count them all back in just to be sure.
...still counting them from a meet 6 months ago!
That was some meet! hope they're all ok
To the OP the only safe sex is masterbation and even then you end up with RSI
...oh bollocks! I've lost count now!!! "33, 287 | |||
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"im new to this stuff so haven't had a meet yet but was wondering at partys, group sex or even 1on1 sex who has safe sex and who goes bareback?" I think it is more omportant for you to decide what you want to do... rather than what everyone else does. Yeah I know finding out opinions might help you decide... but in all honesty do you really think just because people post on a forum they will be the best informed and tell you all of the options? It's your life, your health and only you should decide the level of risk which is acceptable to you. I suggest you google a few of the respectable sexual health sites and do some reading. | |||
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"If you dig in amongst all the varying sarcastic and witty comments there are some valid opinions. Safe sex isn't for all but then you need to consider what you are looking for and make your own informed decision. Its always worth asking for advice and opinions so hopefully you haven't been put off. Enjoy your swinging and time on Fab! "thanks | |||
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"Safe sex only...I also count all my sperm out and count them all back in just to be sure.
...still counting them from a meet 6 months ago! "Aaah bless do you not get out much? | |||
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"I don't see the point in asking strangers whether they play safe or bareback to be honest: what purpose does it serve? How does it help the OP. If the whole forum said they played bareback would the OP? Bareback threads are posted every week and the usual responses are posted along the lines "we always bag it before we shag it". Yeah...right...of course they do, just like they're "single", "straight" etc. People lie, do what's right for you and what you feel comfortable with! " Well said that poorly woman..... | |||
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"does that include safe oral aswell?" condom or dental dam? | |||
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"There are a number of women and couples on here that INSIST on bareback.Curiously though lots of men that have verified meets with them have 'safe sex' on their profiles! "We had the opposite, met a guy who's profile read safe sex, tried going bareback which I promptly put a stop to, then had the audacity to ask if I'd swallow giving a blowjob!! What planet was he from. Nothing about this on HIS profile either checked again to make sure we'd not misread it, he even asked for a verification from us, which he's not going to get as we feel he misled us all the way. Would never agreed to meet if we'd known his preference in the first place. | |||
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"There are a number of women and couples on here that INSIST on bareback.Curiously though lots of men that have verified meets with them have 'safe sex' on their profiles!
We had the opposite, met a guy who's profile read safe sex, tried going bareback which I promptly put a stop to, then had the audacity to ask if I'd swallow giving a blowjob!! What planet was he from. Nothing about this on HIS profile either checked again to make sure we'd not misread it, he even asked for a verification from us, which he's not going to get as we feel he misled us all the way. Would never agreed to meet if we'd known his preference in the first place. "at least he asked if he could cum in your mouth. This idea of cum in the mouth seems to be an ever increasing problem with guys not bothering to ask so gonna have to state clearly "don't cum in my mouth" before a blow job now. | |||
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"Safe sex only...I also count all my sperm out and count them all back in just to be sure.
...still counting them from a meet 6 months ago!
Aaah bless do you not get out much? "No, I'm just a slow counter.... ....11,809,457...11,809,458... | |||
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"You can do better than that,want me to help or is your mom there???? lol " You can help if you like, shall I post some to you? | |||
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"Go on then I do like getting presents xxx I want it gift wrapped "Please tell me you don't want each one wrapped individually?  | |||
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"Go on then I do like getting presents xxx I want it gift wrapped
Please tell me you don't want each one wrapped individually? "u could send em in a french letter. | |||
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"well it's thematic "Apparently asking the Post Office helpline how much it is to send a packet of cum by post is considered 'inappropriate'. 
Not much of a helpline if you ask me. | |||
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"well it's thematic
Apparently asking the Post Office helpline how much it is to send a packet of cum by post is considered 'inappropriate'.
Not much of a helpline if you ask me. "try samaritans? | |||
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"Why would'nt I,I want plenty to unwrap,on the other forum discussing fisting lol" best cut my nails then! | |||
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"It seems that there are quite a few folks going Bareback, after a lot of emails we were just about to swap details with a couple for a meet when they sent a mail asking if I would go bareback and said I don’t that and the last mail from them read “Bye xx” I have blocked and reported them I guess that they thought to string me along because us guys will fuck anything as were that desperate NOT!!!!!!! "Just for me being nosey, why did you report them? | |||
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"i think if we are going to be honest in a ideal world none of us would use condoms, because lts be honest it feels better without but its not an idea world "How so very true . Nn And if we all chose our ideal worlds how different would all our worlds be , would we all exist in each others world ? So lets just stick to the one we been given . Safe sex always . | |||
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"It seems that there are quite a few folks going Bareback, after a lot of emails we were just about to swap details with a couple for a meet when they sent a mail asking if I would go bareback and said I don’t that and the last mail from them read “Bye xx” I have blocked and reported them I guess that they thought to string me along because us guys will fuck anything as were that desperate NOT!!!!!!!
Just for me being nosey, why did you report them?"reported them because they were prepared to string me along we sent more than a dozen emails between us we had set the evening aside for a meet then just as we were about to swap details they spring it on me (bareback) I said no the next mail said “Bye ”
If they want Bareback sex then be upfront about and don’t try to con folks
I’ve been there before, things are going ok and I reach for the condoms and I’m basically told no condom or you go home
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"It seems that there are quite a few folks going Bareback, after a lot of emails we were just about to swap details with a couple for a meet when they sent a mail asking if I would go bareback and said I don’t that and the last mail from them read “Bye xx” I have blocked and reported them I guess that they thought to string me along because us guys will fuck anything as were that desperate NOT!!!!!!!
Just for me being nosey, why did you report them?
reported them because they were prepared to string me along
we sent more than a dozen emails between us we had set the evening aside for a meet
then just as we were about to swap details they spring it on me (bareback)
I said no the next mail said “Bye ”
If they want Bareback sex then be upfront about and don’t try to con folks
I’ve been there before, things are going ok and I reach for the condoms and I’m basically told no condom or you go home
I went home "Best attitude to have. nothings ever guaranteed swinging wise and you can say no at any point. Its never worth playing dangerously if it's not your thing. | |||
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"Bareback all the way for me, I would just look stupid with a condom hanging off my tongue or dangling between my labia! "You can get fanny bucket liner thingies now you know and there are Velcro bits for the curtains | |||
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"Bareback all the way for me, I would just look stupid with a condom hanging off my tongue or dangling between my labia!
You can get fanny bucket liner thingies now you know and there are Velcro bits for the curtains "Think I will pass on that and be a rebel and go bareback thanks lol | |||
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"Bareback all the way for me, I would just look stupid with a condom hanging off my tongue or dangling between my labia!
You can get fanny bucket liner thingies now you know and there are Velcro bits for the curtains
Think I will pass on that and be a rebel and go bareback thanks lol "You have to engage in cock-plunging to do bareback! You rug munchers can't do bareback! | |||
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"Bareback all the way for me, I would just look stupid with a condom hanging off my tongue or dangling between my labia!
You can get fanny bucket liner thingies now you know and there are Velcro bits for the curtains
Think I will pass on that and be a rebel and go bareback thanks lol
You have to engage in cock-plunging to do bareback! You rug munchers can't do bareback! "Urrgghhhh fick that! | |||
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"Bareback all the way for me, I would just look stupid with a condom hanging off my tongue or dangling between my labia!
You can get fanny bucket liner thingies now you know and there are Velcro bits for the curtains
Think I will pass on that and be a rebel and go bareback thanks lol
You have to engage in cock-plunging to do bareback! You rug munchers can't do bareback!
Urrgghhhh fick that! "Yep you fuck them cock things or munch on em. Its got to be better than sticking your tongue in some hole not knowing what might be in there mind | |||
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"... You rug munchers can't do bareback! "I LOVE rug munching with me shirt off... | |||
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"... You rug munchers can't do bareback!
I LOVE rug munching with me shirt off... "You wouldn't munch her beaver! Well not unless you very very brave!
I dare ya! | |||
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"... You rug munchers can't do bareback!
I LOVE rug munching with me shirt off...
You wouldn't munch her beaver! Well not unless you very very brave!
I dare ya! "I am watching you! | |||
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"... You rug munchers can't do bareback!
I LOVE rug munching with me shirt off...
You wouldn't munch her beaver! Well not unless you very very brave!
I dare ya!
I am watching you! "i told him , but he wouldnt listen | |||
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"... You rug munchers can't do bareback!
I LOVE rug munching with me shirt off...
You wouldn't munch her beaver! Well not unless you very very brave!
I dare ya! "You sayin' there might be teeth in there... | |||
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"... You rug munchers can't do bareback!
I LOVE rug munching with me shirt off...
You wouldn't munch her beaver! Well not unless you very very brave!
I dare ya!
You sayin' there might be teeth in there... "I can put my hand on my heart and say with total truth and no word of a lie......I was bitten by her pussy! | |||
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"... You rug munchers can't do bareback!
I LOVE rug munching with me shirt off...
You wouldn't munch her beaver! Well not unless you very very brave!
I dare ya!
You sayin' there might be teeth in there...
I can put my hand on my heart and say with total truth and no word of a lie......I was bitten by her pussy! "lmao....and the penny drops | |||
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"... You rug munchers can't do bareback!
I LOVE rug munching with me shirt off...
You wouldn't munch her beaver! Well not unless you very very brave!
I dare ya!
You sayin' there might be teeth in there...
I can put my hand on my heart and say with total truth and no word of a lie......I was bitten by her pussy!
lmao....and the penny drops"I dropped no coin in your pussy! I never drop coin i am a Yorkshire man!!!! | |||
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"... You rug munchers can't do bareback!
I LOVE rug munching with me shirt off...
You wouldn't munch her beaver! Well not unless you very very brave!
I dare ya!
You sayin' there might be teeth in there...
I can put my hand on my heart and say with total truth and no word of a lie......I was bitten by her pussy!
lmao....and the penny drops
I dropped no coin in your pussy! I never drop coin i am a Yorkshire man!!!! "i can vouch for that! | |||
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"Why didn't you ask?" because on their profile it said "safe sex" and if you wanted bareback you say so UP FRONT !!!!! | |||
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"Why didn't you ask? because on their profile it said "safe sex" and if you wanted bareback you say so UP FRONT !!!!!" they didnt tho | |||
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"It seems that there are quite a few folks going Bareback, after a lot of emails we were just about to swap details with a couple for a meet when they sent a mail asking if I would go bareback and said I don’t that and the last mail from them read “Bye xx” I have blocked and reported them I guess that they thought to string me along because us guys will fuck anything as were that desperate NOT!!!!!!!
Just for me being nosey, why did you report them?
reported them because they were prepared to string me along
we sent more than a dozen emails between us we had set the evening aside for a meet
then just as we were about to swap details they spring it on me (bareback)
I said no the next mail said “Bye ”
If they want Bareback sex then be upfront about and don’t try to con folks
I’ve been there before, things are going ok and I reach for the condoms and I’m basically told no condom or you go home
I went home "I suppose you could have asked the question on one of the mails you swopped, they might think you are stringing them along now as you didn't mention it
To be honest though, the fact you think they were stringing you along is worrying.
When we speak to men with a _iew to meeting we ask questions and they do, if at the very last minute something put us off about an answer they have given, we would say no thanks....and I am sure it works the other way round too.
Surely that isn't stringing someone along? That is finding out what the other people want and deciding on wether you want to meet or not? | |||
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"Bareback? The male on my profile even keeps his SOCKS on! Talk about protection!" No wonder its bloody freezing | |||
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"Bareback? The male on my profile even keeps his SOCKS on! Talk about protection! No wonder its bloody freezing " I cant decide whether to put my condom over my willy warmer... Or visa versa... | |||
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"I always insist on safe sex and its on my profile and I only meet peeps who do safe sex too but I have met people who have stated on their profile that they practice safe sex only to be told,even after the social meet that they want bareback and they are clean blah blah blah,never in a my lifetime will I do bareback" So i’m not the only person that it’s happened to it’s a bit sad that some folks have to try and con people into unprotected sex they should be up front and if the person they fancy says no then that’s it no means no if you like bareback then you don’t do it play safely 
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"Bareback? The male on my profile even keeps his SOCKS on! Talk about protection! No wonder its bloody freezing I cant decide whether to put my condom over my willy warmer... Or visa versa... "put it back in ya trooserz then | |||
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"...put it back in ya trooserz then "If I do... Can I tuck im back in me sock... | |||
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"...put it back in ya trooserz then
If I do... Can I tuck im back in me sock..."if you feel the need to put socks in ya trooserz ...... | |||
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"I think more people would put bareback if they thought people wouldnt give them grief for it. Katie. " If that is what people do... then all I ask of people is that they be honest (damn... that word again!) rather than people saying what others want to hear..... | |||
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"If that is what people do... then all I ask of people is that they be honest (damn... that word again!) rather than people saying what others want to hear....." Yes it would be nice but people dont.. and after the way many threads I have watched on here those that enjoy it and brave telling the world get jumped on. Even those like me that say its each to their own, get slated for saying its okay. Katie. | |||
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"If that is what people do... then all I ask of people is that they be honest (damn... that word again!) rather than people saying what others want to hear..... Yes it would be nice but people dont.. and after the way many threads I have watched on here those that enjoy it and brave telling the world get jumped on. Even those like me that say its each to their own, get slated for saying its okay. Katie." * nods * We get a lot of " it is peoples choice what they do" on a lot of threads with lots of subjects, and I agree totally with that, but when it is on a bareback thread then the same people who normally shout " it is their choice" then go hell for leather to contradict themselves. | |||
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"im new to this stuff so haven't had a meet yet but was wondering at partys, group sex or even 1on1 sex who has safe sex and who goes bareback?" I think everyone is jumping to the wrong conclusion and reading the OP wrong. He's asking WHO has safe sex and WHO goes bareback. I find as its inefficiant to expect everyone on Fabs to come round this thread and post, I reckon we dig that "classified" list out where everyone had to complete the "sexual safety disclosure" section. Now.. where's that damn list gone... | |||
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"... You rug munchers can't do bareback!
I LOVE rug munching with me shirt off...
You wouldn't munch her beaver! Well not unless you very very brave!
I dare ya!
You sayin' there might be teeth in there...
I can put my hand on my heart and say with total truth and no word of a lie......I was bitten by her pussy!
lmao....and the penny drops
I dropped no coin in your pussy! I never drop coin i am a Yorkshire man!!!! "ya did drop a coin once but it did hit you on the back of the head | |||
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