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By *ornywhores4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

louth

hi,has anybody been messed around when they meet a couple,fem,male,tv?

we met a couple a few times,but they cant get over their issues...........shy,afraid to start things,not sure if they wanted it,talking complete bollox,playing with tunes on a phone and even put on shite on the tv,now we know everyone can change there mind.and are fully intilted to. but when there messaging for months sayin they are dyin to shag you...oh and her partner wont leave her alone,trying to force her and she havin none of it,we were ABSOLUTLY MORTIFIED.not to mention it costs a small fortune each time.........can we have you views please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each time... Was this more than once??

can't say we'd be wanting to go back if they were seriously uncomfortable. We'd probably think we'd scared them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi sorry to hear that , hmm i perosnally would say to them both is this what they really after ?? sounds like one wants it and the other well isnt too sure , like you say everyone has the right to get some cold feet but if its more than once even the twice id be ok with but if its happening on a regular basis you would have to ask questions about it all , i get nervous as hell and have a tendency to talk a lot of shite at times but doesnt mean im not interested , and once things start im ok , dont know what the script is with that couple though but sounds very odd .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once we went on a meet and during the course of the night i got my "time of the month " a week early but felt 2 embarressed to tell the other cpl so had to make excuse and leave ..silly i know ..probs should of just told them them the truth lol

lucky enough they gave us another chance which we made sure was our treat so sorry to disagree notts but every1 deserves a second chance

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds to us like they are still in that stage of wondering how things will change if they atually do it. Will feelings towards one another change once you have watched them with another partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"once we went on a meet and during the course of the night i got my "time of the month " a week early but felt 2 embarressed to tell the other cpl so had to make excuse and leave ..silly i know ..probs should of just told them them the truth lol

lucky enough they gave us another chance which we made sure was our treat so sorry to disagree notts but every1 deserves a second chance

xx"

cause notts you will need a 2nd chance with us lol this will be a game of 2 halfs lol xxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"once we went on a meet and during the course of the night i got my "time of the month " a week early but felt 2 embarressed to tell the other cpl so had to make excuse and leave ..silly i know ..probs should of just told them them the truth lol

lucky enough they gave us another chance which we made sure was our treat so sorry to disagree notts but every1 deserves a second chance

xx"

Read the first line lol...

I did say did this happen 'More' than once??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met people 3.. 4 or even more before anything has happened.. but if we sensed they were uneasy or one being pushed.. No chance!

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By *ornywhores4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

louth

well the prob is there both personal friends of ours,he says one thing,she says a diff thing,but we don know,they still want to meet,but as there friends of ours its awkward ya know.......they both say yeah they want it,but its just gettin us all horny for a massive let down......

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By *ornywhores4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

louth

angels of the north,as for the time of the month,ye should of told the couple,ye could of still had a brill night with out doin anything,if it was me who started i would of still fucked,and if the couple were not up fir that i would of just went home and fucked,your horny....your horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"angels of the north,as for the time of the month,ye should of told the couple,ye could of still had a brill night with out doin anything,if it was me who started i would of still fucked,and if the couple were not up fir that i would of just went home and fucked,your horny....your horny"

ok not being funny just asking so we understand ..... you come on an you still would play???????????

ok if a married cpl wants to induldge thats ok with us but as for playing with other people then thats not us

x

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By *ornywhores4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

louth

coarse i would stil play,it happens every day all over the world,we are a couple and we do every month,even cam

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"well the prob is there both personal friends of ours,he says one thing,she says a diff thing,but we don know,they still want to meet,but as there friends of ours its awkward ya know.......they both say yeah they want it,but its just gettin us all horny for a massive let down......

"

Not very nice friends if they keep putting you in that situation. Sounds like they are only using you 'just in case'

I'd walk away and tell them to sort themselves out before they involve other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Milk of Human Kindness has spoken lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats swinging, theres no god given right for any meet to go as planned, and no right that anyone has to meet you, it will always happen in swinging and life

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"The Milk of Human Kindness has spoken lol....."

You do make me laugh Notts........

I luvs you too!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I would'nt go near them again with a barge pole...sorry but they have issues that need addressing and are clearly not ready to swing as much as they may think they are, it sounds as though the idea of it is a turn on but actually doing it is going to cause them problems

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By *ornywhores4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

louth

smooch,did you not read? we said its ok if people say know,but could at least tell in advance,instead of us spendin a fortune every time that we dont have,eh hem a free night out for them,as they wont go out anywhere for a coffe or a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agreed once to meet with a couple who openly admitted that it was their first time and they were very nervous. We had lots of messaging and phone chats first mainly because we wanted to be sure that THEY were sure that it was what they wanted. They seemed quite relaxed so eventually we agreed to meet at there place ! When we got there you could see straight away that she was not happy !

The two men went outside for a smoke and I got chatting to her only to find out that she was going through with it because she didn't want to lose him. I told her she needed to be honest and call the meet off. When she did this on his return to the room he went berserk ! To try and calm the situation I also said that I was not happy about playing on that occasion either and he turned on us ! I don't know whether we did right or wrong but we just left!

This just proves that you can chat with someone for weeks and still not know what is going to happen when you actually meet !! You can NEVER be 100% sure of the outcome !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We agreed once to meet with a couple who openly admitted that it was their first time and they were very nervous. We had lots of messaging and phone chats first mainly because we wanted to be sure that THEY were sure that it was what they wanted. They seemed quite relaxed so eventually we agreed to meet at there place ! When we got there you could see straight away that she was not happy !

The two men went outside for a smoke and I got chatting to her only to find out that she was going through with it because she didn't want to lose him. I told her she needed to be honest and call the meet off. When she did this on his return to the room he went berserk ! To try and calm the situation I also said that I was not happy about playing on that occasion either and he turned on us ! I don't know whether we did right or wrong but we just left!

This just proves that you can chat with someone for weeks and still not know what is going to happen when you actually meet !! You can NEVER be 100% sure of the outcome !

"

you were 100% right believe me

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By *udicCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"well the prob is there both personal friends of ours,he says one thing,she says a diff thing,but we don know,they still want to meet,but as there friends of ours its awkward ya know.......they both say yeah they want it,but its just gettin us all horny for a massive let down......

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At one of the first swing parties I ever went to I met a couple in their sixties who had been playing most of their married lives. At one point they said "We've found that you can turn swingers into friends but you can't turn friends into swingers"

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"We agreed once to meet with a couple who openly admitted that it was their first time and they were very nervous. We had lots of messaging and phone chats first mainly because we wanted to be sure that THEY were sure that it was what they wanted. They seemed quite relaxed so eventually we agreed to meet at there place ! When we got there you could see straight away that she was not happy !

The two men went outside for a smoke and I got chatting to her only to find out that she was going through with it because she didn't want to lose him. I told her she needed to be honest and call the meet off. When she did this on his return to the room he went berserk ! To try and calm the situation I also said that I was not happy about playing on that occasion either and he turned on us ! I don't know whether we did right or wrong but we just left!

This just proves that you can chat with someone for weeks and still not know what is going to happen when you actually meet !! You can NEVER be 100% sure of the outcome !

"

have had this many times the poor wife going through with it for the sake odf the marriage ...similar with the reluctant bifem as well ..

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"We agreed once to meet with a couple who openly admitted that it was their first time and they were very nervous. We had lots of messaging and phone chats first mainly because we wanted to be sure that THEY were sure that it was what they wanted. They seemed quite relaxed so eventually we agreed to meet at there place ! When we got there you could see straight away that she was not happy !

The two men went outside for a smoke and I got chatting to her only to find out that she was going through with it because she didn't want to lose him. I told her she needed to be honest and call the meet off. When she did this on his return to the room he went berserk ! To try and calm the situation I also said that I was not happy about playing on that occasion either and he turned on us ! I don't know whether we did right or wrong but we just left!

This just proves that you can chat with someone for weeks and still not know what is going to happen when you actually meet !! You can NEVER be 100% sure of the outcome !

"

You did the right thing.

Sadly there are lots of women about who only swing for their partners because they think they will lose them if they don't.

Personally if someone was to leave because you wouldn't swing (or do anything that you don't want to do for that matter) then I would say cya, close the door on your way out.

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