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Physical attraction What do you look for?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Physically what do you look for in a man or woman? I know personality counts for quite a lot and you have to be able to have a bit of a rapport and have that bit of spark. Looks aren't necesarrily important for me but I do tend to have a certain physical type overall although there are exceptions when it comes to physical attaraction if they have an exceptional personality.

So any way. What does every one look for?

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By *ausage and sizzleCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple


"Physically what do you look for in a man or woman? I know personality counts for quite a lot and you have to be able to have a bit of a rapport and have that bit of spark. Looks aren't necesarrily important for me but I do tend to have a certain physical type overall although there are exceptions when it comes to physical attaraction if they have an exceptional personality.

So any way. What does every one look for? "

A pulse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a man , tall . athletic and smile

In a woman , eyes , legs and sexy appeal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a pulse or at least I di the last time I checked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, one out of three aint that bad I'll agree that I quite like a woman with nice legs although it's not a necessity. Eyes and smile are most definately a winner

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

I look for someone who looks and behaves like me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I look for someone who looks and behaves like me "

Obviously not getting many dates then

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I look for someone who looks and behaves like me

Obviously not getting many dates then "

Oooooooooooooooooooooooo Actually, we have one booked at the end of May

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I look for someone who looks and behaves like me

Obviously not getting many dates then

Oooooooooooooooooooooooo Actually, we have one booked at the end of May "

oh yes he/she/bi/gay must be a very lucky person

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I prefer how someone treats me than how they look

I find less handsome men treat me better, maybe they learn to try harder I dunno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot dissociate personality from looks - so I would not chase a particular look and I cannot imagine ever choosing to have sex with somebody purely based on their looks - it is that sense of humour, the warmth, the intelligence and the wit everytime. But I accept other people choose differently

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Physically what do you look for in a man or woman? I know personality counts for quite a lot and you have to be able to have a bit of a rapport and have that bit of spark. Looks aren't necesarrily important for me but I do tend to have a certain physical type overall although there are exceptions when it comes to physical attaraction if they have an exceptional personality.

So any way. What does every one look for? "

Someone who is pretty both on the inside as well as the outside!

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By *uintillianMan
over a year ago

washington services

Personality,confidence and attitude for me.Looks tend to be secondary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Personality,confidence and attitude for me.Looks tend to be secondary."

Presumably confidence is based on somebody being at ease, comfortable in their own skin whatever their looks, background etc?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I look for someone who looks and behaves like me

Obviously not getting many dates then

Oooooooooooooooooooooooo Actually, we have one booked at the end of May

oh yes he/she/bi/gay must be a very lucky person"

2 smilies the same because we're BOGOF

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"I look for someone who looks and behaves like me

Obviously not getting many dates then

Oooooooooooooooooooooooo Actually, we have one booked at the end of May

oh yes he/she/bi/gay must be a very lucky person

2 smilies the same because we're BOGOF "

Agreed smiles say so much about someone. mind you them politicians have a painted on one at times

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I look for someone who looks and behaves like me

Obviously not getting many dates then

Oooooooooooooooooooooooo Actually, we have one booked at the end of May

oh yes he/she/bi/gay must be a very lucky person

2 smilies the same because we're BOGOF

Agreed smiles say so much about someone. mind you them politicians have a painted on one at times "

We like your smile!

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"I look for someone who looks and behaves like me

Obviously not getting many dates then

Oooooooooooooooooooooooo Actually, we have one booked at the end of May

oh yes he/she/bi/gay must be a very lucky person

2 smilies the same because we're BOGOF

Agreed smiles say so much about someone. mind you them politicians have a painted on one at times

We like your smile! "

I tend to grin a lot i have to admit. Have to say the same about you 2 though. Some people you get a good vibe from when you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think I would go for "my type" when at clubs etc.. the reality is that how a person is carrying herself at the club is what works for me!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

they have to have a phwoooooooooooooooar factor else im not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to think I would go for "my type" when at clubs etc.. the reality is that how a person is carrying herself at the club is what works for me!"

You mean being sober helps lol?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

And they have to be masculine!!!! the men i mean!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And they have to be masculine!!!! the men i mean!!! lol"

Well how masculine are we talking here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a woman if shes got it all but then begins to speak and sounds a bit dizzy then this is a turn off for me. a woman has to have class in the way she dresses. looks are important to me otherwise i wont even bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You mean being sober helps lol?

"

Haha, thats actually quite true!!! Or at least not so d*unk you need to hold them up!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"And they have to be masculine!!!! the men i mean!!! lol

Well how masculine are we talking here? "
MASCULINE!!! all in the eyes of the beholder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so define phwooooooooooooar factor. pls

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"And they have to be masculine!!!!"

Go easy Femme not to masculine

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"so define phwooooooooooooar factor. pls"
i have to look at em and go phwwwwwwwwwooooooooooooooar

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

I look for real wobblies

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I look for real wobblies "
your search and find technique is second to none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physically what do you look for in a man or woman? I know personality counts for quite a lot and you have to be able to have a bit of a rapport and have that bit of spark. Looks aren't necesarrily important for me but I do tend to have a certain physical type overall although there are exceptions when it comes to physical attaraction if they have an exceptional personality.

So any way. What does every one look for? "

Just for "swinging purpose" or the fulfilment of one of my many fantasies... a strong powerful man anytime. Somebody who knows what he wants, and gets it

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"I look for real wobblies your search and find technique is second to none "

Well its a matter of avoiding the dross and undesirable.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I'm shallow.

They have to be good looking, with a nice arse and good manners.

I couldn't give a shite if they have a nice personality. They can be as boring as Max or Paddy providing they are cute and a fucking good shag.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Someone who is nice to look at, has a good cock and is a fantastic shag.

that was i may even see him again

As for the ladies - pretty with lovely tits

Shallow???

Who cares - its all about the fun and sex afterall

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Someone who is nice to look at, has a good cock and is a fantastic shag.

that was i may even see him again

As for the ladies - pretty with lovely tits

Shallow???

Who cares - its all about the fun and sex afterall "

Well your not here to shag a personality. He he he it helps though but with tits like yours! Mmmmmmm

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

i do think its differs slightly depending on if we are talking meets or LT partners

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By *attoed medicMan
over a year ago

worcs/black country

I reckon there has to be something physical which grabs your attention in the first place because personality or not if they have been well and truly battered with the ugly stick the chances are conversation isn't going to happen. Personally nice hair and sparkly eyes do it for me.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

has to be a cheeky grin and a twinkle in their eyes and a cute grabable butt.

tho they have to be able to make me smile and laff too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An instant attraction normally without any set criteria, but I have a thing for Eyes especially Green

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Assuming we are talking about who we select to meet for sex on here....

If they don't get a thumbs up on the looks front (physically attracted to) .... then I am unlikely to want to find out if they have the right personality (mentally drawn to).

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Assuming we are talking about who we select to meet for sex on here....

If they don't get a thumbs up on the looks front (physically attracted to) .... then I am unlikely to want to find out if they have the right personality (mentally drawn to).

"

Snap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you have been "swinging" for a while.

You tend Not to be so rigid in your outlook.

Its all about what happens when first meeting and if there is a connection.

If there is that "spark" and you think...oh yes !

Looks etc take a back seat as bieng the first thing your gonna think about.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I think if you have been "swinging" for a while.

You tend Not to be so rigid in your outlook.

Its all about what happens when first meeting and if there is a connection.

If there is that "spark" and you think...oh yes !

Looks etc take a back seat as bieng the first thing your gonna think about. "

So do you just meet anyone without knowing what they look like?

I want a spark of "phwar yeah" before I get anywhere near meeting in person.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

warm smiling face and a killer smile just melts me everytime lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Assuming we are talking about who we select to meet for sex on here....

If they don't get a thumbs up on the looks front (physically attracted to) .... then I am unlikely to want to find out if they have the right personality (mentally drawn to).

"
Well said that sexy shoe clad woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't get a gallop on for someone I don't fancy so for me physical attraction is a must.

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