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"there could be tons of reasons why people havent logged - who are you to decide that they should be deleted??? just dont message them if they are not as regular a vitor as you would like " have a think about it people with no pics up log in once then dont return cant see them coming back quick after 3months 6months a year etc etc, and another thing it would make it easy searching for people and not having bullshit profiles that not been active for months on end, if they really want to be a part of the site they should make an effort like everyone else.. rate over | |||
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"there could be tons of reasons why people havent logged - who are you to decide that they should be deleted??? just dont message them if they are not as regular a vitor as you would like have a think about it people with no pics up log in once then dont return cant see them coming back quick after 3months 6months a year etc etc, and another thing it would make it easy searching for people and not having bullshit profiles that not been active for months on end, if they really want to be a part of the site they should make an effort like everyone else.. rate over " The ones that haven't been on for the longest will be at the end of your search. So just look at the ones that are first on the list and don't go any further! Simple really | |||
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"dont think people in here really understand must be the old age, il put it in simple terms, profiles that not been active in year or so plus get rid of them its called getting rid of dead wood, just cleans the site up abit, i run a wee site and deleting old profiles etc etc just keeps the crap down, look at it as house work you keep on top of it the crap wont keep getting bigger and bigger " Old age? I fully understand what you were trying to say, but with all due respect, it really has nothing to do with you why other people haven't been the site in a while. As has been said already there could be a number of reasons why they haven't been on and why should they just be deleted without warning? With age comes the wisdom to realise that everyone should let others be themselves | |||
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"You really should concentrate on your own profile and your own life a bit more and worry about other members a little less, now if this comes across as rude then so be it. I get so fed up with people trying to dictate how we all swing or don't swing on this site." Especially galling when it's from someone younger than my shoes!! | |||
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"You really should concentrate on your own profile and your own life a bit more and worry about other members a little less, now if this comes across as rude then so be it. I get so fed up with people trying to dictate how we all swing or don't swing on this site. Especially galling when it's from someone younger than my shoes!! " LOL no one could be youner than my shoues - i am only a 7...lol But like your way of thinking xxxx | |||
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"You really should concentrate on your own profile and your own life a bit more and worry about other members a little less, now if this comes across as rude then so be it. I get so fed up with people trying to dictate how we all swing or don't swing on this site. Especially galling when it's from someone younger than my shoes!! oh yeah and thats possible, jog on granny " Some people can keep shoes for over 20/22 years, especially woman who only seem to wear some once and then need to go buy new ones | |||
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"thats a good point thats why they dont get the idea of a clean up, they dont want throw anything away that they can 'use' when they want oh i cant wait to see the replay this gets.. so far so good anyway i should take up fishing i always get a bite " You might get replies like - Oh you are just doing this to wind folk up? or Are you doing this to get attention? But not from me I still go back to my view of - It's got nothing to do with you or anyone else what others do with their OWN profiles! | |||
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"i know what people are saying 'yes' but its not just for me its for everyone im thinking of, i just think be a good idea to get rid of dead wood from the site not just members that logged in 2years ago but cleaning up hijacked topics etc etc, i know for a fact someone will say something so unless its half decent dont bother wasting your time or mine your just adding to she shit the needs cleaned up. thanks " So what you are saying is that unless people agree with you then they are talking shit? That's not discussion that's dictatorship...... | |||
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"could start with this thread....... " I agree, and get rid of all the profiles with one line of text in them while you're at it! xAx | |||
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"I just had a Weetabix because I got up late and missed my breakfast " oi you, thought I was getting breakfast in bed this morning????? xxxxxxxxx | |||
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"Not at all, I am far more interested in the subject of Weetabix....." They are very good for you, but not to everyone's taste so I won't push my views on Weetabix on anyone else and let them make their own mind up, you know some people do like to have Cornflakes instead Disclaimer - Other breakfast cereals are available! | |||
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"tine for a clean up of site members that have not logged in within a certain time- 3months i think is good enough " Oh well if YOU think that's good enough - job done then eh ? | |||
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"I just had a Weetabix because I got up late and missed my breakfast oi you, thought I was getting breakfast in bed this morning????? xxxxxxxxx" Aw sorry I got too d*unk while in chat on here last night then went to check out some year old profiles so it got really late before I went bed and I slept in this morning lol I could send you a Weetabix in the post to make up for it though xxx | |||
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"Im disappearing for a while after next week, so can someone keep my seat for me in case someone else decides to have a clean up? And Im a Shredded Wheat person myself..." You have really opened up the debate now by throwing in Shredded Wheat! I had forgotten about that one, maybe on purpose though, as there is a Shredded Wheat story I could tell about the ex but I wouldn't want to be accused of thread hijacking | |||
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"2 Cornish pasties from ASDA " Now you are talking! But are they made locally or shipped in? Are they real Cornish pasties or cheap imitations which make a lot of crumbs and need to be cleaned up after? Lots to debate so I am glad I had my Weetabix now | |||
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"stop forcin your opinions on me and bullyin me because i dont agree with weetabix im being bullied and discriminated because i dont agree with you!!! xx" I did add the Disclaimer though so you can't take me to court for being a Weetabix supporter | |||
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"2 Cornish pasties from ASDA Now you are talking! But are they made locally or shipped in? Are they real Cornish pasties or cheap imitations which make a lot of crumbs and need to be cleaned up after? Lots to debate so I am glad I had my Weetabix now " Naaa, just cheap flaky imitations made instore, but they're ok, and yes the crumbs have to be cleaned up, just like old worn out profiles | |||
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"2 Cornish pasties from ASDA Now you are talking! But are they made locally or shipped in? Are they real Cornish pasties or cheap imitations which make a lot of crumbs and need to be cleaned up after? Lots to debate so I am glad I had my Weetabix now Naaa, just cheap flaky imitations made instore, but they're ok, and yes the crumbs have to be cleaned up, just like old worn out profiles " Best to ask the OP about the cleaning up the crumbs, they do seem to have views on what is best in that respect | |||
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"but what did you have for breakfast though sassy?? " Crunchy nut clusters and orange juice, although I was torn between the clusters and Weetabix - lolol...ooh decisions decisions, difficult when you're old!! | |||
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"2 Cornish pasties from ASDA Now you are talking! But are they made locally or shipped in? Are they real Cornish pasties or cheap imitations which make a lot of crumbs and need to be cleaned up after? Lots to debate so I am glad I had my Weetabix now Naaa, just cheap flaky imitations made instore, but they're ok, and yes the crumbs have to be cleaned up, just like old worn out profiles Best to ask the OP about the cleaning up the crumbs, they do seem to have views on what is best in that respect " I might suggest a dustpan and brush, but somehow I think they may have bigger things in store - like an industrial vacuum cleaner, you know, one of those things that sweep the gutters and suck out the drains, with that long pipe | |||
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"2 Cornish pasties from ASDA Now you are talking! But are they made locally or shipped in? Are they real Cornish pasties or cheap imitations which make a lot of crumbs and need to be cleaned up after? Lots to debate so I am glad I had my Weetabix now Naaa, just cheap flaky imitations made instore, but they're ok, and yes the crumbs have to be cleaned up, just like old worn out profiles Best to ask the OP about the cleaning up the crumbs, they do seem to have views on what is best in that respect I might suggest a dustpan and brush, but somehow I think they may have bigger things in store - like an industrial vacuum cleaner, you know, one of those things that sweep the gutters and suck out the drains, with that long pipe " Are you suggesting that my pledge and hoover are not good enough???? Flouncing off now in a haze of Ambi Pur and Febreeze | |||
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"but what did you have for breakfast though sassy?? Crunchy nut clusters and orange juice, although I was torn between the clusters and Weetabix - lolol...ooh decisions decisions, difficult when you're old!! " Well I had an energy drink instead of the orange juice which got me thinking - yeah I know; not again I hear you say! Do you prefer the less popular branded energy drinks that just come and go or do you prefer the far more popular brand, that has been around for years, sitting on the Supermarket shelf, just teasing you to pick it up so it will "give you wings" to fly away from Fab for any length of time that you might need to do other real life things, before coming back down feeling great that you haven't been cleaned out? | |||
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"2 Cornish pasties from ASDA Now you are talking! But are they made locally or shipped in? Are they real Cornish pasties or cheap imitations which make a lot of crumbs and need to be cleaned up after? Lots to debate so I am glad I had my Weetabix now Naaa, just cheap flaky imitations made instore, but they're ok, and yes the crumbs have to be cleaned up, just like old worn out profiles Best to ask the OP about the cleaning up the crumbs, they do seem to have views on what is best in that respect I might suggest a dustpan and brush, but somehow I think they may have bigger things in store - like an industrial vacuum cleaner, you know, one of those things that sweep the gutters and suck out the drains, with that long pipe " Do Dyson make industrial cleaners too? Because I heard they don't lose suction and seeing as the clean out would be a regular task (in some peoples eyes) you have got to have a tool fit for the job! Hey that's what my last meet told me too and I didn't dissapoint pmsl | |||
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"but what did you have for breakfast though sassy?? Crunchy nut clusters and orange juice, although I was torn between the clusters and Weetabix - lolol...ooh decisions decisions, difficult when you're old!! Well I had an energy drink instead of the orange juice which got me thinking - yeah I know; not again I hear you say! Do you prefer the less popular branded energy drinks that just come and go or do you prefer the far more popular brand, that has been around for years, sitting on the Supermarket shelf, just teasing you to pick it up so it will "give you wings" to fly away from Fab for any length of time that you might need to do other real life things, before coming back down feeling great that you haven't been cleaned out? " Never had an energy drink in my life...unless you count...erm...I'll keep it clean!! | |||
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" you have got to have a tool fit for the job! Hey that's what my last meet told me too and I didn't dissapoint pmsl " I'm there's me keeping it clean! Tsk, you can always rely on someone to lower the tone - lol!! | |||
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"2 Cornish pasties from ASDA Now you are talking! But are they made locally or shipped in? Are they real Cornish pasties or cheap imitations which make a lot of crumbs and need to be cleaned up after? Lots to debate so I am glad I had my Weetabix now Naaa, just cheap flaky imitations made instore, but they're ok, and yes the crumbs have to be cleaned up, just like old worn out profiles Best to ask the OP about the cleaning up the crumbs, they do seem to have views on what is best in that respect I might suggest a dustpan and brush, but somehow I think they may have bigger things in store - like an industrial vacuum cleaner, you know, one of those things that sweep the gutters and suck out the drains, with that long pipe Do Dyson make industrial cleaners too? Because I heard they don't lose suction and seeing as the clean out would be a regular task (in some peoples eyes) you have got to have a tool fit for the job! Hey that's what my last meet told me too and I didn't dissapoint pmsl " You been nicking my drugs BB or just daydreaming again????? MWAH!! xx | |||
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"but what did you have for breakfast though sassy?? Crunchy nut clusters and orange juice, although I was torn between the clusters and Weetabix - lolol...ooh decisions decisions, difficult when you're old!! Well I had an energy drink instead of the orange juice which got me thinking - yeah I know; not again I hear you say! Do you prefer the less popular branded energy drinks that just come and go or do you prefer the far more popular brand, that has been around for years, sitting on the Supermarket shelf, just teasing you to pick it up so it will "give you wings" to fly away from Fab for any length of time that you might need to do other real life things, before coming back down feeling great that you haven't been cleaned out? Never had an energy drink in my life...unless you count...erm...I'll keep it clean!! " Aye you better, we don't want to be going off topic now, although I do prefer a Mars Bar over the inferior Topic anyday! | |||
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"I do prefer a Mars Bar " Hmmmmm...now your talking!! Forget rubbish like bran and power drinks!! | |||
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"but what did you have for breakfast though sassy?? Crunchy nut clusters and orange juice, although I was torn between the clusters and Weetabix - lolol...ooh decisions decisions, difficult when you're old!! Well I had an energy drink instead of the orange juice which got me thinking - yeah I know; not again I hear you say! Do you prefer the less popular branded energy drinks that just come and go or do you prefer the far more popular brand, that has been around for years, sitting on the Supermarket shelf, just teasing you to pick it up so it will "give you wings" to fly away from Fab for any length of time that you might need to do other real life things, before coming back down feeling great that you haven't been cleaned out? Never had an energy drink in my life...unless you count...erm...I'll keep it clean!! Aye you better, we don't want to be going off topic now, although I do prefer a Mars Bar over the inferior Topic anyday! " deep fried???xx | |||
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"but what did you have for breakfast though sassy?? Crunchy nut clusters and orange juice, although I was torn between the clusters and Weetabix - lolol...ooh decisions decisions, difficult when you're old!! Well I had an energy drink instead of the orange juice which got me thinking - yeah I know; not again I hear you say! Do you prefer the less popular branded energy drinks that just come and go or do you prefer the far more popular brand, that has been around for years, sitting on the Supermarket shelf, just teasing you to pick it up so it will "give you wings" to fly away from Fab for any length of time that you might need to do other real life things, before coming back down feeling great that you haven't been cleaned out? Never had an energy drink in my life...unless you count...erm...I'll keep it clean!! Aye you better, we don't want to be going off topic now, although I do prefer a Mars Bar over the inferior Topic anyday! deep fried???xx " Only in Scotland seemingly lol xxx | |||
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"ok you will have to post without the abuse couple." dont take nice to being called a 'kid'.......... | |||
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"you can still replay without my post being there " I did ^^^^^ | |||
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"come on couple im sure you can act like adults if you on an adult site!! x" yeah i can i was taking it well untill a few people starting taking the piss and trying make me out to be a di*khead then il start back no matter who or what its on, il give back what im getting | |||
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"i know what people are saying 'yes' but its not just for me its for everyone im thinking of, i just think be a good idea to get rid of dead wood from the site not just members that logged in 2years ago but cleaning up hijacked topics etc etc, i know for a fact someone will say something so unless its half decent dont bother wasting your time or mine your just adding to she shit the needs cleaned up. thanks " To be honest, you need a good dose of reality or really need to find out how these sites work. It is NOT for YOU to say what should be done.... thats up to Admin and the people that own the site. We are not in a dictatorship YET.... therefore, the majority will always get listened to and whilst I accept that you are probably fed up with trawling through the masses of profiles on here that haven't logged in since FAB began, thats part of life! YOU have no control over hijacked threads...... it happens, its fun..... get over it and chill. Once you start learning that swinging is not just about sex but it also has a social side and a fun/laughter side, then you will stop worrying about what is said on here. And to be brutally honest, you ARE kids in the eyes of the majority on here. YOU have not yet lived your life the way the MAJORITY have. You are not as advanced in years or, taking stock of what you have written on here, you haven't yet got the 'glaze' of maturity. Shit happens, mud gets slung, people will disagree with you, some people will want to meet you, the majority won't because of your ages, and people will hijack your threads! Like I said, get over it. If you can't, you are not mature enough to swing and therefore, become a danger to those you play with. Honest truth..... take it how you will | |||
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"come on couple im sure you can act like adults if you on an adult site!! x yeah i can i was taking it well untill a few people starting taking the piss and trying make me out to be a di*khead then il start back no matter who or what its on, il give back what im getting" If you would care to go back through your posts, you were the first one to talk about age. People answered you, you decide to abuse them. | |||
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"Blimey! Nothing like making someone feel welcome in the forums." Come and share my Steak Pie anytime | |||
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"Pizza......I don't normally eat pizza but I really fancy one tonight " Save a slice for me please | |||
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"Blimey! Nothing like making someone feel welcome in the forums." Nothing like posting then getting abusive when peeps dont agree with you... | |||
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"Pizza......I don't normally eat pizza but I really fancy one tonight Save a slice for me please " Oh, I ate it | |||
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"Pizza......I don't normally eat pizza but I really fancy one tonight Save a slice for me please Oh, I ate it " Just as well my steak pie flled me up for just now then | |||
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"I agree, there could be a time limit, dump old inactive profiles. There is a thread going on about people with multiple profiles with the reason some may have multi profiles. There is another thread about profile names and how hard it is to find suitable names if your joining or even wanting to change the name... All helps with tidying up. For those who thing that profiles should not be deleted in a year of not being logged on, how about 20 years or 10 or 5 or 2? Or are you adamant that they should be here for eternity?" thank you at least you know what i mean, with out some of the people in this trying be funny etc and they go on about 'kids' on this lol ******* | |||
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"I agree, there could be a time limit, dump old inactive profiles. There is a thread going on about people with multiple profiles with the reason some may have multi profiles. There is another thread about profile names and how hard it is to find suitable names if your joining or even wanting to change the name... All helps with tidying up. For those who thing that profiles should not be deleted in a year of not being logged on, how about 20 years or 10 or 5 or 2? Or are you adamant that they should be here for eternity? thank you at least you know what i mean, with out some of the people in this trying be funny etc and they go on about 'kids' on this lol *******" I was funny | |||
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"I agree, there could be a time limit, dump old inactive profiles. There is a thread going on about people with multiple profiles with the reason some may have multi profiles. There is another thread about profile names and how hard it is to find suitable names if your joining or even wanting to change the name... All helps with tidying up. For those who thing that profiles should not be deleted in a year of not being logged on, how about 20 years or 10 or 5 or 2? Or are you adamant that they should be here for eternity? thank you at least you know what i mean, with out some of the people in this trying be funny etc and they go on about 'kids' on this lol ******* I was funny " awk well done have a gold star | |||
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"I agree, there could be a time limit, dump old inactive profiles. There is a thread going on about people with multiple profiles with the reason some may have multi profiles. There is another thread about profile names and how hard it is to find suitable names if your joining or even wanting to change the name... All helps with tidying up. For those who thing that profiles should not be deleted in a year of not being logged on, how about 20 years or 10 or 5 or 2? Or are you adamant that they should be here for eternity? thank you at least you know what i mean, with out some of the people in this trying be funny etc and they go on about 'kids' on this lol ******* I was funny awk well done have a gold star" Cheers, will I pop over to collect it or will you bring it here? | |||
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"will bring it over, im around that way in few wks time " Thanks again - I will be waiting patiently now | |||
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"Why would it matter to you how long it is since someone logged on the site. People dont log on for various reasons. I simply cant see why your getting your knickers in such a twist cause someone hasnt logged on the site. Theres hundreds that do log on so why bother about the few that dont" I have a very good friend in Kabul, he has reasons for not having logged in for almost a year. | |||
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"Fab is not unique in having dormant profiles. I've yet to visit a website like this where accounts are closed. We can all make suggestions to admin on how the site can be improved, there's a section for that. I find it annoying that people who wish to dictate their views are unable to acknowledge others may have a differing view and can air them without ridicule! " Isn't it funny how the sensible posts are ignored ....... | |||
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"When one registers an account here it doesn't say "Your account will be removed after xxx amount of inactivity." It doesn't say that does it? " Not yet it doesn't, rule changes all the time | |||
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