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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

been trying to get one of the singles who we have been speaking to for a while now to come for some fun wednesday nite and its totaly amazing all we get is thats the one nite of the week cant make it pmsl, thought these people being single were free and able to do what they wish when they wish just absolutely stunned and the others who can only do daytimes lol, how hard should it be for a cpl to get a reliable single with all the singles on these sites nearly always complaining how they cant get meets and the amount of timewasters etc its amazing isnt it oh well maybe time to forget the scene ,either cant make it or just dont turn up in the end

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

well things do cum up n ppl do certain things certain nites of the week footy pub or perhaps he's got another meet already arranged give him at least the benefit of the doubt

doesnt matter how u try n arrange a meet its not always gonna suit everyone

luv jacs

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately not all people can jump, when you say, "Jump" !

Single or otherwise people still have lives to lead outside of swinging ...

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington


"been trying to get one of the singles who we have been speaking to for a while now to come for some fun wednesday nite and its totaly amazing all we get is thats the one nite of the week cant make it pmsl, thought these people being single were free and able to do what they wish when they wish just absolutely stunned and the others who can only do daytimes lol, how hard should it be for a cpl to get a reliable single with all the singles on these sites nearly always complaining how they cant get meets and the amount of timewasters etc its amazing isnt it oh well maybe time to forget the scene ,either cant make it or just dont turn up in the end "

Hey, just because folks are single doesn't mean they haven't got a life, family, friends, social committments. I love to play, but there are nights when I can't...that doesn't make me a time waster....and of course I do arrange meets...so that also makes me unavailable at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

dont expect people to jump at all we understand people have other commtiments, but, everysingle we have spoke to has a reason ,its a wednesday not the weekend and nope their excuses realy vary too much,if it was sorry have a meet that is tough on us and totaly undertsandable. and this maybe the reason we havnt had a meet in two years either been messed or around they just didnt turnup so maybe we gettin a little paranoid here is it suumat worng with us , cos after the conversations we have had with the singles all seemd fine till it comes to the actual meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you may be right - it possibly is something to do with you - we never have problems meeting singles, in fact sometimes we have to beat the off with sticks

Possibly you are being too rigid in your requirements - it's give and take in this world, maybe you are only wanting to take ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you need to look a little bit at your profile - It reminds me of a Seargant Major barking out orders on a parade ground

And the 1st line, "Single guys please read ....." Not exactly a friendly welcome huh ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

maybe beause as u will note form other users that single guys tend not to read profiles at all just bang out cutnpasted emails to people and the ones who have bothered to read our profile fully are the ones we do tend to have time for and if u go through many many cpls profiles you will see the same kind of things directed at the single males so nope wont be changing that part thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Is'nt wednesday night usually quiz night at the pub? maybe thats where they all are on a wednesday

Seriously though he may feel under presure to meet or he may not be interested but not brave enough to tell you or he could just be busy like he says he is

Its only tuesday morning plenty of time to find someone to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe beause as u will note form other users that single guys tend not to read profiles at all just bang out cutnpasted emails to people and the ones who have bothered to read our profile fully are the ones we do tend to have time for and if u go through many many cpls profiles you will see the same kind of things directed at the single males so nope wont be changing that part thank you"

Well if that's your global idea of single guys ....... what can I say ?

Oh yes - "When you reach the bottom, stop digging"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

please folks read what we wrote its not one guy its few we had a list of maybes that we had been talking to and had decided we would ask for wednesday nite as this is the only night our daughter isnt here ,all we said was amazing how so many have said cant make that night anyother nite is fine but that is what is said about any dam nite we tried weekends before but have found that is usualy the busiest nites of the week and normaly weekdays are easier for people, also the fact we had mail of other single guys in the past few days and what has been the outcome of that ,oh sorry cant do that nite, anyother nite but that one , so after maybe about 15 emails from singles offering their services but any nite but wednesday and the same for guys on our msn too so isnt it realy amazing that we started off asking the few who we have spoken to for a while and find quite interesting and non pushy who are on our msn to the 15 maybe more who have mailed us that not one can make wednesday , now one or two yes but all of them isnt that wierd so we are giving up as realy we arnt desperate just fancied some fun on wednesday but its not to be it seems , and the main point of this is how hard it is for cpls to actualy find reliable decent genuine guys,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe it is down in your area, here is not so bad, ok we have singles saying or I have anther meeting but if it falls through we will come to you, or is it that there hope to find some one else and then send message saying it fell through can I come to your party in that time we have found some one else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with you mids 'some' males are only here to talk the talk!!

The penny dropped with us a few months ago, which is why we don't inconvenience them any more !

The top five reasons we have heard:

1, My best friends birthday - heard this nugget more times than we can count !!

2, Working suddenly - I've been called in!

3, I'm going on holiday - which had never been mentioned until we tried to arrange a meet !

4, Car problem - the top answer being I can travel but I need to use public transport, have a licence but no car ?

5, Skint this week (and every week thereafter)

And no we don't think your profile is aggressive, but then take a look at ours and you will soon see why lol

Not even we would meet us now on that, but it certainly has served its purpose by keeping the numpties away ! lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now then lol..

You know what they say about workmen blaming the tools pmsl..

It happems... Happens with singles happens with couples.!!

Just part of the fun.. and makes it all the better when it all works out..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"maybe beause as u will note form other users that single guys tend not to read profiles at all just bang out cutnpasted emails to people and the ones who have bothered to read our profile fully are the ones we do tend to have time for and if u go through many many cpls profiles you will see the same kind of things directed at the single males so nope wont be changing that part thank you

Well if that's your global idea of single guys ....... what can I say ?

Oh yes - "When you reach the bottom, stop digging""

Globally there isnt a bottom we just come up in Australia and a whole new beginning - Have g'day as ours or should I say our Wednesday just got a whole lot better.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"maybe beause as u will note form other users that single guys tend not to read profiles at all just bang out cutnpasted emails to people and the ones who have bothered to read our profile fully are the ones we do tend to have time for and if u go through many many cpls profiles you will see the same kind of things directed at the single males so nope wont be changing that part thank you

Well if that's your global idea of single guys ....... what can I say ?

Oh yes - "When you reach the bottom, stop digging"

Globally there isnt a bottom we just come up in Australia and a whole new beginning - Have g'day as ours or should I say our Wednesday just got a whole lot better."

I happen to know that there were 9+ males they contacted regarding Wednesday and it's the usual shite from singles who fob you off or just don't turn up.

Worse still, when they do, they wear a wedding ring, can't get it up, shot and leave, only want Mrs Madchick and don't want Mr anywhere within 60ft or they turn up and admit they are new.

I'm the worlds worst for slating single males and this is a dam good reason why.

If single males only want to meet single females, at their convenience, then they should be on dating sites or down the local on a friday night looking for a local girl to shag and drop home the next morning.

If a single male is on a swinging site then he is 'fair game' (ooohh I'm gonna get slated for that). If he wants couples then he must be prepared to fall inline with the couples. They have two people to sort out, possibly children and it is generally they, who are inviting the single to THEIR home.

I must say that there are some wonderful single blokes out there that love 3sums and that's why they are on swinging sites...... but in the main, my experience of single males has been a total disaster.

Which is why clubs are so popular.

Come on singles.... buck up or ship out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

isn't man utd playing this wedensday???lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"isn't man utd playing this wedensday???lol"

Yep

But then why be on a swinging site if you are not prepared to fit in with the couple and put football first.

After all, they will be the singles who are whinging they can't get a meet.

Take away the hand that feeds you and you will starve!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I thought they had got their wednesday sorted now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BUGGER!!!!!!

im washing my hair wednesday and painting my nails hahahahahahaha

xxpeanutxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought they had got their wednesday sorted now? "

We have yehaaaaaaaaaa lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its obvious lol...

Its ornange Wednesdays... They are all at the flicks with a mate eh..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men put football before their wives and families lol, whats so special about swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If single males only want to meet single females, at their convenience, then they should be on dating sites or down the local on a friday night looking for a local girl to shag and drop home the next morning.

If a single male is on a swinging site then he is 'fair game' (ooohh I'm gonna get slated for that). If he wants couples then he must be prepared to fall inline with the couples."

I have never heard so much crap in all my life!

I love how certain people make sarcastic remarks when it comes to questions from single guys concerning issues affecteing them, but when couples or single women do the same and begin a thread on a topic that's been done to death not a word of critcism is heard. All we get is the usual single guy attacks!

To begin with single guys have every right to be on this site, even if they are only looking to meet women on a 1-2-1 basis. I did notice no comment was made concerning single women who are on here and only want to meet single men. This is a sex site...nothing more nothing less and no one has to conform with another members criteria of what you should or shouldn't be looking for. People should mind their own business me thinks.

And yes i hope you do get slated for saying single men on this site are fair game. How arrogant can someone be saying people have to fall in line with them or other couples. Grow up.

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By *lirty14uMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Take away the hand that feeds you and you will starve!"

I had no idea you were throwing in dinner too!

Why didn't you say so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If single males only want to meet single females, at their convenience, then they should be on dating sites or down the local on a friday night looking for a local girl to shag and drop home the next morning.

If a single male is on a swinging site then he is 'fair game' (ooohh I'm gonna get slated for that). If he wants couples then he must be prepared to fall inline with the couples.

I have never heard so much crap in all my life!

I love how certain people make sarcastic remarks when it comes to questions from single guys concerning issues affecteing them, but when couples or single women do the same and begin a thread on a topic that's been done to death not a word of critcism is heard. All we get is the usual single guy attacks!

To begin with single guys have every right to be on this site, even if they are only looking to meet women on a 1-2-1 basis. I did notice no comment was made concerning single women who are on here and only want to meet single men. This is a sex site...nothing more nothing less and no one has to conform with another members criteria of what you should or shouldn't be looking for. People should mind their own business me thinks.

And yes i hope you do get slated for saying single men on this site are fair game. How arrogant can someone be saying people have to fall in line with them or other couples. Grow up.

"

kick............ fussy made me type that lol

peanut

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I thought they had got their wednesday sorted now?

We have yehaaaaaaaaaa lolol "

wooo hoooo im glad for you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought they had got their wednesday sorted now?

We have yehaaaaaaaaaa lolol

wooo hoooo im glad for you lol "

Thank you, nights off are rare with a nosey teen so its great to have some fun when we can lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gothica i gotta say that single fems have it hard (pardon the pun lol) on here too, we get treated like pieces ov meat at times who are just here for the convienence of ppl who want us to be there as n when and wen we aint they sulk ffs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

We all have a craptime meeting up sometimes..its just the way it goes for singles and couples alike

Anyway the OP has now got wednesday sorted and it did'nt take them very long at all LOL

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"

If single males only want to meet single females, at their convenience, then they should be on dating sites or down the local on a friday night looking for a local girl to shag and drop home the next morning.

If a single male is on a swinging site then he is 'fair game' (ooohh I'm gonna get slated for that). If he wants couples then he must be prepared to fall inline with the couples.

I have never heard so much crap in all my life!

I love how certain people make sarcastic remarks when it comes to questions from single guys concerning issues affecteing them, but when couples or single women do the same and begin a thread on a topic that's been done to death not a word of critcism is heard. All we get is the usual single guy attacks!

To begin with single guys have every right to be on this site, even if they are only looking to meet women on a 1-2-1 basis. I did notice no comment was made concerning single women who are on here and only want to meet single men. This is a sex site...nothing more nothing less and no one has to conform with another members criteria of what you should or shouldn't be looking for. People should mind their own business me thinks.

And yes i hope you do get slated for saying single men on this site are fair game. How arrogant can someone be saying people have to fall in line with them or other couples. Grow up.

kick............ fussy made me type that lol

peanut"

PMSL!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"gothica i gotta say that single fems have it hard (pardon the pun lol) on here too, we get treated like pieces ov meat at times who are just here for the convienence of ppl who want us to be there as n when and wen we aint they sulk ffs!!!"

I know some single females do get it rough too and anyone who treats them as 'pieces of meat' are not worth knowing. Ignorance and rudeness towards any members of this community is totally unacceptable from anyone....period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"gothica i gotta say that single fems have it hard (pardon the pun lol) on here too, we get treated like pieces ov meat at times who are just here for the convienence of ppl who want us to be there as n when and wen we aint they sulk ffs!!!

I know some single females do get it rough too and anyone who treats them as 'pieces of meat' are not worth knowing. Ignorance and rudeness towards any members of this community is totally unacceptable from anyone....period. "

glad u agree, just dont forget it, i for one dont mention the timewaster, the photos that are 10 yrs old the six packs that are now barrels... awhhhhhh such a hard life hunny xx

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"

If single males only want to meet single females, at their convenience, then they should be on dating sites or down the local on a friday night looking for a local girl to shag and drop home the next morning.

If a single male is on a swinging site then he is 'fair game' (ooohh I'm gonna get slated for that). If he wants couples then he must be prepared to fall inline with the couples.

I have never heard so much crap in all my life!

I love how certain people make sarcastic remarks when it comes to questions from single guys concerning issues affecteing them, but when couples or single women do the same and begin a thread on a topic that's been done to death not a word of critcism is heard. All we get is the usual single guy attacks!

To begin with single guys have every right to be on this site, even if they are only looking to meet women on a 1-2-1 basis. I did notice no comment was made concerning single women who are on here and only want to meet single men. This is a sex site...nothing more nothing less and no one has to conform with another members criteria of what you should or shouldn't be looking for. People should mind their own business me thinks.

And yes i hope you do get slated for saying single men on this site are fair game. How arrogant can someone be saying people have to fall in line with them or other couples. Grow up.

"

Have to agree with Goth, ironicaly it's couples who let us down not singles, especialy at clubs, where the singles are well happy and excited if wiggles pys them attention, yet the amount times the male in a couple goes droopy at site of a condom far out does the singles..

Everyone has real life issues, we can't drive, we have kids so if were asked for a meet we plan travel, where to stay and babysitter for whole night and we understand a single may have to do the same..

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"

If single males only want to meet single females, at their convenience, then they should be on dating sites or down the local on a friday night looking for a local girl to shag and drop home the next morning.

If a single male is on a swinging site then he is 'fair game' (ooohh I'm gonna get slated for that). If he wants couples then he must be prepared to fall inline with the couples.

I have never heard so much crap in all my life!

I love how certain people make sarcastic remarks when it comes to questions from single guys concerning issues affecteing them, but when couples or single women do the same and begin a thread on a topic that's been done to death not a word of critcism is heard. All we get is the usual single guy attacks!

To begin with single guys have every right to be on this site, even if they are only looking to meet women on a 1-2-1 basis. I did notice no comment was made concerning single women who are on here and only want to meet single men. This is a sex site...nothing more nothing less and no one has to conform with another members criteria of what you should or shouldn't be looking for. People should mind their own business me thinks.

And yes i hope you do get slated for saying single men on this site are fair game. How arrogant can someone be saying people have to fall in line with them or other couples. Grow up.

"

I was a single female swinging alone once.

Believe me it was pure fooking hell sometimes and yes, single women do get it tough.

However, we have all sat and watched the whinging and whining when blokes can't get a reply to an email so for 9+ blokes to show and interest, talk, cam etc.. then ALL back out of a meet isn't just coincidence... it's complete bollox.

Single women are not in my equation because they can AFFORD to be choosy. Single men, realistically, are not given the same grovelling treatment.

When I was single, I was treated like crap, used as a performing seal and was generally there for the excitement of THEM, and bugger what I wanted because couples CAN be absolute pains in the arse.

Now, as a couple, we have been let down more times than I care to remember by singles, never once by a couple. We don't look for single females so I can't comment on that, but ......

Take a look at the forum threads and see who's doing the whinging about not getting mails or meets.......... cus it ain't the females and it's very rarely the couples.

**And yes...... I stand by my statement that single males are fair game.......after all, there's probably over 1000+ (and no, I can't back that up it's just semantics) single males for every couple that wants to meet single males and probably 2000+ single men for every single female looking for them! Therefore, single males have it tough but they must expect that**

Anyway Gothica..... I'm back to my books from tomorrow so you got another few weeks of peace and none of my inane ramblings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about us single fems who want to meet single guys out their convenience ?? i for one know i aint gonna go down the pub and find one, who wants a pissed up guy at the end of the night who gets brewers droop then falls asleep on ye, when theres genuine single guys on here who wont be d*unk n droopy lol

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By *lirty14uMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"when theres genuine single guys on here who wont be d*unk n droopy lol "

There are 5 other dwarves to get through too....

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"when theres genuine single guys on here who wont be d*unk n droopy lol

There are 5 other dwarves to get through too...."

You beat them with a stick last time they got in your way!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must say i dont like short men ;0

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By *lirty14uMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"when theres genuine single guys on here who wont be d*unk n droopy lol

There are 5 other dwarves to get through too....

You beat them with a stick last time they got in your way!!!!!

"

Every one has their own foreplay...

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"when theres genuine single guys on here who wont be d*unk n droopy lol

There are 5 other dwarves to get through too....

You beat them with a stick last time they got in your way!!!!!

Every one has their own foreplay..."

or 5 even....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats foreplay ?;);)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats foreplay ?;);)"
A song by R Kelly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thought that was bump n grind....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thought that was bump n grind....?"
Lol yes that as well, also 2play, 10play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now im very confused as i thought that was pool ;0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have a craptime meeting up sometimes..its just the way it goes for singles and couples alike

Anyway the OP has now got wednesday sorted and it did'nt take them very long at all LOL"

Yep just a quick moan and groan in the forums, and hey presto .. Magic !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wonder how often the, aren't single guys shits threads are started and perpetuated by the male half of the couple, hoping to put his wife or gf off wasting her time with single males, leaving them more time to meet women which is probably his whole reason for getting into the scene.

Horrible when people generalise isn't it!?

It seems that loads of couples manage to find decent single guys. Maybe there's another reason why some couples get turned down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all have a craptime meeting up sometimes..its just the way it goes for singles and couples alike

Anyway the OP has now got wednesday sorted and it did'nt take them very long at all LOL

Yep just a quick moan and groan in the forums, and hey presto .. Magic !!"

Alas no we used the old fashioned way, a post in the forum an email and a phone call but might resort to magic in the future - thanks for the tip, these forums are full of useful info

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I often wonder how often the, aren't single guys shits threads are started and perpetuated by the male half of the couple, hoping to put his wife or gf off wasting her time with single males, leaving them more time to meet women which is probably his whole reason for getting into the scene.

Horrible when people generalise isn't it!?

It seems that loads of couples manage to find decent single guys. Maybe there's another reason why some couples get turned down."

Is that one lump or two of cynicism with a cup of pseudo psychology?

Generally the single guys on any site are decent friendly people and fun to be around or does that fall under a horrible generalisation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"isn't man utd playing this wedensday???lol

Yep

But then why be on a swinging site if you are not prepared to fit in with the couple and put football first."

Watching liverpool get fucked in Europe is far better than watching someone's wife get fucked in Wigan hehehe..

Football is football, if only the Pussy Posse could understnad that then the world would be a much happier place...

Now, we can meet ppl but not on a Tuesday/Wednesday between the hours of 7.45pm and 10pm or on a Sunday between 2pm and 6pm (usually two matches on the tele on Sundays) and as for Saturday, well, the results come in at 4.45 and depending on whether Man Utd win or not depends on whether we'll actually show up for a meet or not.

Football is football! pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a single female swinging alone once.

Believe me it was pure fooking hell sometimes and yes, single women do get it tough.

However, we have all sat and watched the whinging and whining when blokes can't get a reply to an email so for 9+ blokes to show and interest, talk, cam etc.. then ALL back out of a meet isn't just coincidence... it's complete bollox.

Single women are not in my equation because they can AFFORD to be choosy. Single men, realistically, are not given the same grovelling treatment.

When I was single, I was treated like crap, used as a performing seal and was generally there for the excitement of THEM, and bugger what I wanted because couples CAN be absolute pains in the arse.

Now, as a couple, we have been let down more times than I care to remember by singles, never once by a couple. We don't look for single females so I can't comment on that, but ......

Take a look at the forum threads and see who's doing the whinging about not getting mails or meets.......... cus it ain't the females and it's very rarely the couples.

**And yes...... I stand by my statement that single males are fair game.......after all, there's probably over 1000+ (and no, I can't back that up it's just semantics) single males for every couple that wants to meet single males and probably 2000+ single men for every single female looking for them! Therefore, single males have it tough but they must expect that**

Anyway Gothica..... I'm back to my books from tomorrow so you got another few weeks of peace and none of my inane ramblings.

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To begin with I have never once stipulated that woman don’t get it rough too and I never feel the need to swoop onto a thread and have a go at certain sections of this site unlike certain people who do it again and again and now i understand why alot of people won't bother with the forums.

Yes, there have been single guys post a topic or leave comments concerning not getting a reply to emails and guess what, there have been single women and couples do the exact same thing! Amazing eh….I’ll look for comments on those threads telling them that they whinge and we have heard the same things time and time again…or is that attack kept back for single men only?

Saying women can afford to be choosy is something I have always agreed with and it’s obvious they have a lot more chance to arrange meets than a single guy but being selective is totally different to being rude and ignorant. You stated you were treated like crap, used like a performing seal and generally used for the excitement of others therefore I cannot understand why you feel necessary to treat other people in the exact same way. Even your profile stipulates single men are for sex and sex only…..performing seal and used for excitement of others springs to mind!

Being let down by people is not just the actions of single men but I do know there are a lot of timewasters out there. I have looked at the forum threads and have seen men, women and couples ‘whinging’ as you put it; I prefer to say their posting legitimate questions or comments that should be respected and given a fair hearing and helpful answers. So no, it’s not just single guys posting those kind of threads. There have been comments lately with people stating they have been let down by couples or single women, whereas single men have been great in meeting up so peoples experiences are different; but no matter the experiences single men, single women or couples do not need to be attacked time and time again with sweeping statements within the forums. As for the statement ’single guys are fair game’…well that says a lot about a person really. You say there are probably 1000+ single men for every couple and 2000+ single men for every single female…well in that case look at it this way. If single men are so terrible as you say then why isn’t there a lot more people coming forward to complain about no shows etc. Maybe if you looked at it you would see that the stories of single men letting people down is more prolific because there are a lot more single men as you have stated, but I would guess the actual ratio of people doing no shows etc would be roughly the same and is not the just practice of single guys. Yes, single guys have it tough and to some extent have to accept that the odds of getting a meet (depending on what their looking for) is stacked against them. However, they, or anyone else on this site should not be attacked, ridiculed, have sarcastic remarks left on their threads or be treated like dirt. Perhaps those comments left on single guys forum questions concerning why they hadn’t got a reply from emails can be applied to couples posting those repeated, done to death topics about people not turning up:

'No one has to reply to an email and it is their right to ignore someone if they so wish. Get over it, move on and stop whinging about it. We have heard it all before and it’s boring yawn…'

'No one has to turn up for a meet and it is their right to not turn up or even contact those they have arranged the meet with. Get over it, move on and stop whinging about it. We have heard it all before and it’s boring…yawn'

Yeah, it must be an absolute bitch to expend all that time and effort replying to contacts your interested in, spending time exchanging emails, talking on web cam only for them to back out and not turn up. Funny really, as that’s the exact same feeling of annoyance, disappointment and frustration single guys (and others) get when they have spent all that time and effort writing an email for it to merely get deleted without a reply. I’m very sorry if you have had arrangements ruined by people doing no shows but not every single man, woman or even couple are the same and It’s getting really annoying that everyone is tarred with the same brush. You have been let down by singles whereas a couple very recently posted a comment stating they had only been let down by other couples. And surely if someone doesn’t turn up to meet a couple then at least they can still have a good night together. Singletons don’t have that luxury.

And this thread is not having a go at single men, single women or couples as i can't see the point. I have made some fantastic friends on the forums and think most are a great bunch of people. Have fun!

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over a year ago

swoooooop....kick

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over a year ago

Bad bad bad girl grrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A playful kick of you girls is always welcome lol

and your both bad girls grrr

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