FabSwingers.com forum: why do users lie

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i received a mail from a user that wont have pictures on profile

but demands we should send them one

says she dose not have pictures

because of her job

I ask what the job reply

MI5

what's the point in mailing users if they just going to lie al the time really sick of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, sorry to laugh, but that is funny.

Yes, there are timewasters, and fantasists, but you'll get there in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMSL!!

Make sure her drink is shaken, not stirred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds to me like she had a sense of humour ...... It's something i'd say when I find myself with a mindless twonk who doesn't listen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People in general tell lies - why would you expect the users of this or any other site to be any different ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeh i no what you mean but just make me think why i realy bother with it any more

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"sounds to me like she had a sense of humour ...... It's something i'd say when I find myself with a mindless twonk who doesn't listen. "

I was just thinking.... yeah I'd say something like that to take the piss if someone was starting to bug me.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

So she mailed you first? or was it the other way round and she was trying to say thanks but no thanks in her own way

Would seem strange that she mailed you but then was'nt prepared to let you see her if not on here then on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i received a mail from a user that wont have pictures on profile

but demands we should send them one

says she dose not have pictures

because of her job

I ask what the job reply

MI5

what's the point in mailing users if they just going to lie al the time really sick of this "

At least she replied to you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeh i no what you mean but just make me think why i realy bother with it any more"

Well there's always the 'Profile delete' function if your so disillusioned

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

got a reply back

she replies i ask to many question and has block me for no reason

how we suppose 2 no users if you don't ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"got a reply back

she replies i ask to many question and has block me for no reason

how we suppose 2 no users if you don't ask

Well, she had a reason, she stated you ask too many questions.

Some questions we need to know, some we don't, so depends on what you asked her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i received a mail from a user that wont have pictures on profile

but demands we should send them one

says she dose not have pictures

because of her job

I ask what the job reply

MI5

what's the point in mailing users if they just going to lie al the time really sick of this "

She's lying. The M15 was an upgrade of the A406 North Circular Road that was planned in the 1960s-70s but never built. Tell her to fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Oh dear....back to the drawing board then

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Maybe she never wanted a meet but was trying to recruit you for an undercover operation in deepest darkest Scotland?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

for a start I only ask the one question an comes out with lies straight away glad she block me now saves me doing it

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I've just got a new job, as a Concord Pilot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi wanna meet

sure but need to see a picture first

ok but me too can you send a picture and i will send you one

sorry dont send pics

sorry dont do blind dates bye have fun

THE END

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just got a new job, as a Concord Pilot

Well steer clear of Jane's fookin hotel in Torquay then ffs!! The plaster ain't dry yet hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just got a new job, as a Concord Pilot

Are you still doing the astronaut thing part time too???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey it might be true! I actually know somebody who did work for MI5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is that i work for a housing association and would be so embarrassed to meet a tenant but also would put me at serious risk of blackmail so ive a face picture as private, once i know someone and trust them, i will attach it to a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PMSL!!

Make sure her drink is shaken, not stirred

LOL @ The Queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is that i work for a housing association and would be so embarrassed to meet a tenant but also would put me at serious risk of blackmail so ive a face picture as private, once i know someone and trust them, i will attach it to a message

[rushes off to enquire about a house!

]

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I'd like to know, which of my collegues in MI5 has contacted you? Please provide detailed evidence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo had a kitchen fitted by them...Was rubbish...No wonder they want to remain annon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand your reluctance to show your face in the public gallery on here and I agree since we dont have our faces on public display here either.

BUT as a tenant I have seen people here who work for the local council and local housing associations. It would NEVER cross my mind to say anything to them unless I was supposed to be meeting them for a coffee before a play meet, and even then what people do to make a living is nothing to do with me, so I wouldnt out of the blue say "ohh can you get me a better house??". If I meet someone who happens to work for the council I wouldnt moan about the bins not being emptied when they should have been or street lighting, or any other thing that the local council deals with cos for one its not what they are talking for is it - well unless we are in the office and I have made an appointment to moan about the bins

but then if that was the case I wouldnt mention fab either cos its not the time or place.

I think its a very sad state of affairs when people have to second guess themselves and other peoples motives

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"got a reply back

she replies i ask to many question and has block me for no reason

how we suppose 2 no users if you don't ask

The one question we bet you didn't ask was "Are you a guy taking the piss????".

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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago

penzance

"Hey it might be true! I actually know somebody who did work for MI5."

If they did work for MI5 doubt that they would broadcast it !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey it might be true! I actually know somebody who did work for MI5.

If they did work for MI5 doubt that they would broadcast it !!!!!!"
actually she quoted she works in the fire service

now that i don't belive

rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i received a mail from a user that wont have pictures on profile

but demands we should send them one

says she dose not have pictures

because of her job

I ask what the job reply

MI5

what's the point in mailing users if they just going to lie al the time really sick of this "

omg how funny.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i received a mail from a user that wont have pictures on profile

but demands we should send them one

says she dose not have pictures

because of her job

I ask what the job reply

MI5

what's the point in mailing users if they just going to lie al the time really sick of this

omg how funny.......

"
is it

xdont think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont understand why people say that they gunna turn up n dont

then wen i ask why i get blocked i mean i still had to pay for a sitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone you don't know and haven't met will find it far easier to block you than to explain why they didn't show up.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

think its up to the individual who they choose to meet and when............. not easy when you have plan and arranged for a sitter... mabye just maybe after chatting didnt feel comfortable with the person .... and if a person says no then that should be the end of it

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By *erekduvallCouple
over a year ago

swansea

We dont put our pics up, as we live in the land of the moving curtain, lol, but are always willing to exchange face pics by e-mail,a recent interested party sent us 2 full frontal pics and asked me to provide a nude pic of Nerys, they are not verified and I have some oubts about their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a meet arranged yesterday with a "couple" from fab.

We were a bit wary as there were no pictures on the profile but were sent on request, the initial mail sent to us was entitled.

"Will you play with us just as a couple or as individuals as well"

After we agreed to meet them the "couple" asked if we would meet the male only first so he could see if we were the kind of people his wife would like, we declined this.

Nevertheless we all agreed to meet as a 4some, the meet was to be at our home so nothing to lose and we made the necessary arrangements.

2 hours after meet time (1pm-2pm arrival) they had not arrived and made no attempt to contact us on the landline or mobile numbers we had given them.

Some friends on Fab popped round to say hello, as it turns out they had been let down on a meet so thought they would pop in - lucky for us.

The meet they had arranged was for the same time as ours with the same "couple", they too had been dubious because pics were sent on MSN but requests to verify on cam were declined because they "children were in the garden" (they only requested normal clothed cam confirmation)

I have no doubt that had we said we play with single guys, he would have turned up on his own with the usual excuse that the wife couldn't make it but not wanting to let us down he came on his own.

We had a great meet with the other couple that got the same let down - everything always turns out well in the end doesn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met up for a drink with a couple we had spoken to for a while, e had swapped pics and talked about likes and disslikes already.

we spent about 2 hours talking to them and seemed to get on well.

we talked to them the next day for a while and they told us what a nice time they had, before they mentioned that they dont actually play with couples but would like to meet me alone.

let us just say that niether hubby or i were impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey it might be true! I actually know somebody who did work for MI5."
Well i actually turned a job down with them last year ,, ( was long shifts and a long commute) at there new regional center near stockport ( i guess my line will be bugged now )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and that is not a wind up ,,, they employ thousands ,,, so its only a matter of time before ya get a few on here ,,, lol m

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I've just got a new job, as a Concord Pilot

Well steer clear of Jane's fookin hotel in Torquay then ffs!! The plaster ain't dry yet hehehe

????? Hotel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she was in MI5 there is no way in this world that she would be on here as they are vetted to within an inch of their life!!!

She must think people are stupid!!! hehe

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"If she was in MI5 there is no way in this world that she would be on here as they are vetted to within an inch of their life!!!

She must think people are stupid!!! hehe "

bugger bet not let it slip to my boss then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she was in MI5 there is no way in this world that she would be on here as they are vetted to within an inch of their life!!!

She must think people are stupid!!! hehe

bugger bet not let it slip to my boss then

there's nothing in the OSA that says you cant shag anyone except your spouse is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she was in MI5 there is no way in this world that she would be on here as they are vetted to within an inch of their life!!!

She must think people are stupid!!! hehe "

Yeah but if anyone threatened to expose her she'd just assassinate their sorry ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she was in MI5 there is no way in this world that she would be on here as they are vetted to within an inch of their life!!!

She must think people are stupid!!! hehe "

You seem to know enough about this, are you really a MI5 member?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she was in MI5 there is no way in this world that she would be on here as they are vetted to within an inch of their life!!!

She must think people are stupid!!! hehe

You seem to know enough about this, are you really a MI5 member?.

If she told you, she'd have to kill you

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"If she was in MI5 there is no way in this world that she would be on here as they are vetted to within an inch of their life!!!

She must think people are stupid!!! hehe "

Providing anyone who works within the intelligence service is honest and tells the vetting agency what they do, and also lets their line management know.... they are not exempt from swinging, or porn or homosexuality or BDSM etc......

She would not be allowed to say who she works for to anyone except a permanent partner and immediate family.

There are those who work for certain governmental agencies who can't say who they work for but will say they work for the government or the military and they just have to be extra careful when meeting and chatting online.

They are only a risk to themselves or the government if they do something so 'out of order' that the government can be called into question, be made a laughing stock or the employee in question is deemed a 'risk' to the service of the country to a 'risk' to their own safety.

She lied by saying she works for MI5, either that or she's a major Security risk.

But at the end of the day, some people lie just to get out of a situation where they are not comfortable.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"If she was in MI5 there is no way in this world that she would be on here as they are vetted to within an inch of their life!!!

She must think people are stupid!!! hehe

bugger bet not let it slip to my boss then

there's nothing in the OSA that says you cant shag anyone except your spouse is there? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or maybe she thought it was a funny reply! I sure did lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"or maybe she thought it was a funny reply! I sure did lol "

I agree with you: think people are looking too deeply into this. I think she thought it was funny: and yes, it made me laugh too!

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