FabSwingers.com forum: Nasty Rude Females

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Single Guys on here get a bad rap for all sorts - For the record ... I've had three bad run in with Females who on their profile sound reLLY together however when you get talking - after a few mins they become rather rude nasty and insulting

From a male perspective - any bad experiences ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sure you're not simply getting a reaction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! Not one!

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

"You sure you're not simply getting a reaction?"

Tempted to suggest the common factor may be you?

Tin hat and flack jacket stand by

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Fab are introducing a special help desk for guys that have had their feelings hurt and their ego dented.

Based on the famous 'Childline' format it's going to be called 'Blokeline'.

Guys can talk to a fully qualified ego massager who will make everything hunky dory again for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill admit, sometimes I'm not the most exuberant and energetic of chatters but I've not discovered anyone, male or female, to be rude.

Everyone, whether they wish to chat or not, has always been very polite with me.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Oh shock horror. Rudeness isn't specific to single men on fab. I would never have guessed.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I'm sure it does happen from both sexes. It's not something I have come across though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab are introducing a special help desk for guys that have had their feelings hurt and their ego dented.

Based on the famous 'Childline' format it's going to be called 'Blokeline'.

Guys can talk to a fully qualified ego massager who will make everything hunky dory again for them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You rang ?

Lots of anti women threads on all of a sudden. I thinks it's tough on here for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nastier the better...

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Do you think the men are trying to piss us all off so the m:f ratio increases?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must admit never across many who are rude which does indicate one thing....

If I could summarise the thought process of most blokes on here:

1. Great. Legitimate, free site with loads of woman and couples. I'll get loads of action

2. No luck just yet but for keep trying

3. Somethings not right, must be all blind or lesbians

4. Everyone is rude especially the females

5. Leaves

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"Single Guys on here get a bad rap for all sorts - For the record ... I've had three bad run in with Females who on their profile sound reLLY together however when you get talking - after a few mins they become rather rude nasty and insulting

From a male perspective - any bad experiences ?"

3....ALL of whom have got nasty after a few minutes.

Surely, the common denominator there, is YOU.

Why would 3 women all get nasty after a few minutes?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"must admit never across many who are rude which does indicate one thing....

If I could summarise the thought process of most blokes on here:

1. Great. Legitimate, free site with loads of woman and couples. I'll get loads of action

2. No luck just yet but for keep trying

3. Somethings not right, must be all blind or lesbians

4. Everyone is rude especially the females

5. Leaves"

You missed out one between 4 and 5 - post on the forums about women being stuck up b*tches who are far too choosy and who wouldn't be looked at twice in real life.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Fab are introducing a special help desk for guys that have had their feelings hurt and their ego dented.

Based on the famous 'Childline' format it's going to be called 'Blokeline'.

Guys can talk to a fully qualified ego massager who will make everything hunky dory again for them.

is that for the extremely "butthurt"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"must admit never across many who are rude which does indicate one thing....

If I could summarise the thought process of most blokes on here:

1. Great. Legitimate, free site with loads of woman and couples. I'll get loads of action

2. No luck just yet but for keep trying

3. Somethings not right, must be all blind or lesbians

4. Everyone is rude especially the females

5. Leaves

You missed out one between 4 and 5 - post on the forums about women being stuck up b*tches who are far too choosy and who wouldn't be looked at twice in real life."

Im assuming the vast majority dont go to the forums and just leave, perhaps Im wrong?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"must admit never across many who are rude which does indicate one thing....

If I could summarise the thought process of most blokes on here:

1. Great. Legitimate, free site with loads of woman and couples. I'll get loads of action

2. No luck just yet but for keep trying

3. Somethings not right, must be all blind or lesbians

4. Everyone is rude especially the females

5. Leaves

You missed out one between 4 and 5 - post on the forums about women being stuck up b*tches who are far too choosy and who wouldn't be looked at twice in real life.

Im assuming the vast majority dont go to the forums and just leave, perhaps Im wrong?"

Very true, but there are a few who post before they leave.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Im assuming the vast majority dont go to the forums and just leave, perhaps Im wrong?"

I suppose sadly you are correct.... although I have seen some spectacular flouncing on the way out in my time....

out in a blaze of glory/anger......

next time it happens... I am just going to put up a line of scores.. just like they do in ice skating.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a male perspective - any bad experiences ?

3....ALL of whom have got nasty after a few minutes.

Surely, the common denominator there, is YOU.

Why would 3 women all get nasty after a few minutes?"

It would suggest that maybe you've done something in those messages for these ladies to suddenly turn on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive posted in forums and been gently rebuked for it once or twice. Im no Mother Theresa here, if im going to decline a guy I do it politely, unless they havent read my profile and dont send a pic, then im sorry but yes I just delete without replying but my profile does say that

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

Don't forget toddler syndrome. The main characteristic of this syndrome is the repeated 'but why' phrase used in response to the word no lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it as a narrow escape- If they're prone to mood swings, do you really want to try and dangle your carrot in their face?

Chill out, move on, find the friendly ones- they do exist

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not had any rude messages but had some rude photos which were very welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You sure you're not simply getting a reaction?

Tempted to suggest the common factor may be you?

Tin hat and flack jacket stand by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im assuming the vast majority dont go to the forums and just leave, perhaps Im wrong?

I suppose sadly you are correct.... although I have seen some spectacular flouncing on the way out in my time....

out in a blaze of glory/anger......

next time it happens... I am just going to put up a line of scores.. just like they do in ice skating.....

So far this rates a 5.2 from the west mids judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just checked messages

nope it wasn't us

Yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, ive just been "rude" deleted a msg with no reply. ducking now

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Im assuming the vast majority dont go to the forums and just leave, perhaps Im wrong?

I suppose sadly you are correct.... although I have seen some spectacular flouncing on the way out in my time....

out in a blaze of glory/anger......

next time it happens... I am just going to put up a line of scores.. just like they do in ice skating.....

I hope I'm around to catch that!

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

Naughty naughty scorpiogirl lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 in 10 months so I can't complain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope! Not one!

You sure about that old man?!

Seems my teeth haven't been doing a good enough job . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None since I've been here tbh.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Nasty rude females? I get asked to fit that description all the time. I don't oblige because I'm just not that sort of woman.

Seriously, have you seen the weekend long thread? Don't go asking on that now as you my find lots want to block you.

Not all communications lead to a meet. The exchanging of messages helps to people out. Maybe review the pace and tone of the messages to see why they head in a downward trajectory that leads you to feel women are nasty rude people.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts - the OP hasnt asked for comments on his profile so please dont offer them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh I've missed these threads!!!

Normal fab has resumed or at least resuming!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my own personal opinion, as a single female who only meets single males .... and I stress PERSONAL opinion......

I have given up talking to guys via the inbox system, because so many of them can't interpret a 'polite-but-bland' answer. "Thanks for your compliment and I hope you find what you're looking for on here" ...really means that I'm not interested!. So they keep inboxing me, (presumably thinking that any answer is better than no answer?) So by message 3, I was having to be blunt, and say "look, I am REALLY not interested in you!" Which doubtless hurts their feelings.

So I stopped answering my inbox messages.

At least the more IMMEDIATE interaction of Chat/Cams means that both parties can assess the likelihood of attraction, without having to waste too much time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love Widnes ,had a meet off here in Runcorn so looking forward to a Widnes fuck then move it along to St Helens lol.

All the Widnesian girls i ever meet seem really friendly too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rule of thumb for on here.

There are some nice women (and couples, men) on here.

There are some not so nice women (and couples, men) on here.

That rule also works in real life. It's just the way it is.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

From a male perspective - any bad experiences ?"

Both men, women and couples can be rude. It'sd not just one gender. Just move onto the polite nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most single men especially those new to swinging confuse sexually liberated women/couples with sex addicts with no standards and they approach them as such. Take a step back and evaluate the situation. Did you message 100 women and 3 were rude? If so move on they are more than likely just rude people. Did you message just 5 and the 3 that responded were rude? It's probably something you said that offended them. Just because this is a sex site doesn't mean people here have lower standards. If what you want to say is something you would never say to a women you just met in a bar, don't think it is somehow completely different online. You still have to get to know people.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm not quite as polite at the moment as I usually am - my profile makes it clear that I'm no meeting right now and why. So numpties who start asking to meet or for more pics will get short shrift, usually along the lines of "you don't bother with the words do you".

If they persist then I feel entitled to let out the bitch (the warning is there in my user name)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naughty naughty scorpiogirl lol. "
I didnt need to duck for this telling off lol

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Judging by the Forum posts there is far more venom and judgement coming from the ladies. I think its just like that in life too. I have always had more male friends than female ones. Can't be arsed with drama and hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did thay get nasty about ?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I'm never fucking nasty, not even to the lowlife scumbags who haven't earned the right to even fucking message me in the first fucking place. All men may well be the scourge of this place and should fucking well grovel at every woman's feet, but there's no fucking need to be a nasty shitter if the twat don't know his place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao great idea Blokeline made me piss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"must admit never across many who are rude which does indicate one thing....

If I could summarise the thought process of most blokes on here:

1. Great. Legitimate, free site with loads of woman and couples. I'll get loads of action

2. No luck just yet but for keep trying

3. Somethings not right, must be all blind or lesbians

4. Everyone is rude especially the females

5. Leaves"

Pmpl. Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a male perspective - any bad experiences ?"

Some are rude, some get frustrated and others are pleasant but that goes for couples and males too.

you have to ask yourself what you see as "get talking" and "within minutes" and take on-board a no thanks reply isn't chatting and also if you have exchanged multiple messages when the replays you get are not "still no thanks" then maybe just maybe its what messages you are sending out that are getting you rude responses as most of us are not experiencing this phenomenon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ignore a message I get told I'm a stuck up bitch , if I politely reply I am not interested I get told I'm a stuck up bitch .... Some days ya just carnt win lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"If I ignore a message I get told I'm a stuck up bitch , if I politely reply I am not interested I get told I'm a stuck up bitch .... Some days ya just carnt win lol "

Pork pie humpers

haha brilliant

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Judging by the Forum posts there is far more venom and judgement coming from the ladies. I think its just like that in life too. I have always had more male friends than female ones. Can't be arsed with drama and hassle. "

The venom I've had from a polite no thanks has been shocking. I used to be far more polite than I am now. Why have I changed? Because of the rude, nasty and aggressive male messages.

So now if someone is clearly not what I am looking for (my profile makes it quite obvious what I like and says it very early) then they may well get a slap down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab are introducing a special help desk for guys that have had their feelings hurt and their ego dented.

Based on the famous 'Childline' format it's going to be called 'Blokeline'.

Guys can talk to a fully qualified ego massager who will make everything hunky dory again for them.

Well, they can ring it, but nobody will answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope! Not one!

Most of us want to fuck u obi lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well theres a lot of people on here so I would not give them the time of the day and go down to there level and get nasty back .. just smile and think thankgod your not like it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm never fucking nasty, not even to the lowlife scumbags who haven't earned the right to even fucking message me in the first fucking place. All men may well be the scourge of this place and should fucking well grovel at every woman's feet, but there's no fucking need to be a nasty shitter if the twat don't know his place. "

Oh come on Polo, its not like you to be so conservative with your opinions....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never come across nasty women, seen a few women's bios that have made me wonder how they get messages at all

My favorite so far is "If you can't accommodate, sort your life out and get back to me" Real charmer

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Fab are introducing a special help desk for guys that have had their feelings hurt and their ego dented.

Based on the famous 'Childline' format it's going to be called 'Blokeline'.

Guys can talk to a fully qualified ego massager who will make everything hunky dory again for them.

*Giggles* oh Jane, you are a one!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Only problem I get is men sending me cock pics even though says my profile particularly dont !!..that and cock avatars .. so ugly.

(this is just my opinion..)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Some men like a good tongue lashing or they'd read profiles. Personally I don't usually waste my precious time answering idiots but I'm home with time to spare, and you get your kicks where you can.

The married man that contacted me this morning to say he would be taking his wife to work and passing through West Dulwich would I be free for a couple of hours and the young blade with YOU MUST BE ABLE TO ACCOMMODATE on his profile were handed their bollocks back in pouches made from skin flayed from their backs!

Time to reset the filters to limit the idiots!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only problem I get is men sending me cock pics even though says my profile particularly dont !!..that and cock avatars .. so ugly.

(this is just my opinion..)

Haha think most men think ya gonna take 1 look at dey chipolata n b gagging 4 it !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

id like to think im very balanced and can hold a sensible conversation with anyone, regardless of age, race or background.

I think my initial point was more in-keeping with the logic .. Men get a bad wrap for being rude and nasty, i can start some conversation with a reply polite .. Hi Im Steve 46 etc etc and received response with who gives a fuck who you are or what you want.

You can normally tell the stupid people on here who type hey girl fancy a fuck - then yes id expect a equally frank reply ..

im summary - i guess we all have bad days hey x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"must admit never across many who are rude which does indicate one thing....

If I could summarise the thought process of most blokes on here:

1. Great. Legitimate, free site with loads of woman and couples. I'll get loads of action

2. No luck just yet but for keep trying

3. Somethings not right, must be all blind or lesbians

4. Everyone is rude especially the females

5. Leaves

You missed out one between 4 and 5 - post on the forums about women being stuck up b*tches who are far too choosy and who wouldn't be looked at twice in real life."
LMFAO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well, ive just been "rude" deleted a msg with no reply. ducking now"

How dear you deleted my message and block me. you think you do not want to meet me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't sunday school its a sex chat site and it attracts cheats, liars, adulterors, and some very low types of people, also some very nice people,

but by the very nature of the site you can't expect much, don't be surprised by people, just don't argue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such is life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It isn't sunday school its a sex chat site and it attracts cheats, liars, adulterors, and some very low types of people, also some very nice people,

but by the very nature of the site you can't expect much, don't be surprised by people, just don't argue."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women just as bad as men here only difference is there arw more men on fab.

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By *ICEFITMan
over a year ago

dundee

Brilliant hahaha, need a bloody massive call centre for all the "poor me" guys hahaha.
"Fab are introducing a special help desk for guys that have had their feelings hurt and their ego dented.

Based on the famous 'Childline' format it's going to be called 'Blokeline'.

Guys can talk to a fully qualified ego massager who will make everything hunky dory again for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

o dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have just because I turned down a gangbang the weekend due to family commitments so thay got really abusive so I reported and blocked them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get nasty or rude when my polite, thanks but no, some how translated to please pester me!!

Other than that I'm polite x

Must say that 90% of single guys are polite

the worst culprits for pestering are younger (20's) couples - awaits lynch mob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gawd - how I wish I'd found this thread weeks ago.....

If the OP is still coming back to his 'creation', I have only one thing to say on his question..... You reap as you sow.......

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three? Ha ha, if I ever get to three I'll let you know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nasty rude females" sounds like the title of a porno

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I only get nasty or rude when my polite, thanks but no, some how translated to please pester me!!

Other than that I'm polite x

Must say that 90% of single guys are polite

the worst culprits for pestering are younger (20's) couples - awaits lynch mob

I find the same - generally most guys are perfectly polite and pleasant. Occasionally you get the odd immature one who cannot handle rejection which just vindicates your initial decision.

Unlucky to have had 3 people do that - anything to do with the way you approach them?

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By *Xcite72Man
over a year ago

Chester

Do you have the number !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nasty rude females. sounds great where are they all ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a male perspective - any bad experiences ?"

Happens all the time because women often view men on here as the bottom of the food chain. Get used to it. There are some nice people of course, but there are some women (and couples) on this site that are just plain rude and horribly insensitive but you just have to take it on the chin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men get treated how they deserve to be treated.

messages such as

fancy a fuck

im free now

the wifes busy

want a baby

and so on, get peoples hackles up, then the next poor bloke that comes along with a 'hi' message gets both barrels.

is it fair? not particularly

but if people treated each other with respect from the start, then communication between all parties, whether new or continuing, would be much more civil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only get nasty or rude when my polite, thanks but no, some how translated to please pester me!!

Other than that I'm polite x

Must say that 90% of single guys are polite

the worst culprits for pestering are younger (20's) couples - awaits lynch mob

I find the same - generally most guys are perfectly polite and pleasant. Occasionally you get the odd immature one who cannot handle rejection which just vindicates your initial decision.

Unlucky to have had 3 people do that - anything to do with the way you approach them?"

Some messages start out nice then they get cruder. I'm not a prude obviously but there are limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe there are both males and females who are rude. It's not exclusively one or the other. If you treat a person with respect then hopefully they will do the same back. That's the basic rule of thumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not noticed any rude females as I think they're all very nice. I only had just one rude female who said some shit which I didn't take to heart and just blocked her straight away.

So basically, if you encounter a rude male, or female on here, don't take it personally and just report and block. That's what I did.

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