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"Would the type of job your fab partner have alter your perception and attitude towards them? I'm a number cruncher, woops I mean I massage figures for a living "Not when meeting someone from FAB as its recreational sex for us, not long term friends. I've never understood how people say they develop long term friendships with people from FAB when I would consider a long term friend someone you could introduce to your wider vanilla friends circle. As for status outside FAB, not really that bothered as long as you are a decent person but to be honest we all tend to mix within a social group be that from work, where we live etc etc. I've often asked on FAB how others mix their 2 friendship groups together. Sadly, never had a response. The thought of introducing a FAB swinging friend to our vanilla friends group instills fear. I'd be on pins all night. 🤣🤣 | |||
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"Would the type of job your fab partner have alter your perception and attitude towards them? I'm a number cruncher, woops I mean I massage figures for a living
Not when meeting someone from FAB as its recreational sex for us, not long term friends.
I've never understood how people say they develop long term friendships with people from FAB when I would consider a long term friend someone you
could introduce to your wider vanilla friends circle.
As for status outside FAB, not really that bothered as long as you are a decent person but to be honest we all tend to mix within a social group be that from work, where we live etc etc.
I've often asked on FAB how others mix their 2 friendship groups together. Sadly, never had a response.
The thought of introducing a FAB swinging friend to our vanilla friends group instills fear.
I'd be on pins all night. 🤣🤣"Wow. I met my best friend (we’re both women and are platonic) on here. Earlier this year we went together to the place she is from. I met dozens of her friends. Obviously we are discreet as to how we met (which was in a bar at a social, so nothing to be embarrassed about) and I was welcomed with open arms, with a red carpet rolled out really. The fact that I am on Fab does not demerit anything about me as a person. I am intelligent, passionate, very educated and cultured. I am fully bilingual and somewhat fluent in another two languages. I bring a lot to the table. And I am so glad that I have made connections on this site that have crossed over to my full and interesting life to make it even fuller and more interesting. And I to theirs. Believe or not, there are incredibly extraordinary people on this site. Shame you haven’t met any. 🩷🎀 | |||
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""Sorry love, I've got a call out to a hotel. Two blokes, good money, don't wait up" "No worries, see you when you get back" Of course this scenario wouldn't bother all the "wouldn't bother me" folk, would it?" The OP said it was a Fab partner, not a life partner. So my working assumption meeting a lass off a fuck site is that if she’s happy to get naked with me (a mediocre bloke in his 50s) then she’s probably been seeing other fellas too. It’s kinda on the tin really, right? 🤷🏻♂️ | |||
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""Sorry love, I've got a call out to a hotel. Two blokes, good money, don't wait up" "No worries, see you when you get back" Of course this scenario wouldn't bother all the "wouldn't bother me" folk, would it? The OP said it was a Fab partner, not a life partner. So my working assumption meeting a lass off a fuck site is that if she’s happy to get naked with me (a mediocre bloke in his 50s) then she’s probably been seeing other fellas too. It’s kinda on the tin really, right? 🤷🏻♂️" So you think everyone that said they wouldn't be bothered would be happy with their fab partner earning a living in the way I'm intimating at then Will? | |||
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" The thought of introducing a FAB swinging friend to our vanilla friends group instills fear. I'd be on pins all night. 🤣🤣" I've met almost all of my FWB's family...gone to family parties etc...just because we met on a swingers site makes no difference x | |||
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""Sorry love, I've got a call out to a hotel. Two blokes, good money, don't wait up" "No worries, see you when you get back" Of course this scenario wouldn't bother all the "wouldn't bother me" folk, would it? The OP said it was a Fab partner, not a life partner. So my working assumption meeting a lass off a fuck site is that if she’s happy to get naked with me (a mediocre bloke in his 50s) then she’s probably been seeing other fellas too. It’s kinda on the tin really, right? 🤷🏻♂️ So you think everyone that said they wouldn't be bothered would be happy with their fab partner earning a living in the way I'm intimating at then Will?" Well I don’t know about anyone else, you’d have to ask them, but as long as she didn’t walk out on me mid-meet (like, that would just be the height of rudeness wouldn’t it? 🤷🏻♂️) then her being a sex worker wouldn’t necessarily bother me any more than meeting a swinging club veteran who’s been around for a bit for a bit of naughty action, But then I’m much more transactional in my Fab / scene meets these days - I’m not looking for anything meaningful or long term | |||
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"Would the type of job your fab partner have alter your perception and attitude towards them? I'm a number cruncher, woops I mean I massage figures for a living
Not when meeting someone from FAB as its recreational sex for us, not long term friends.
I've never understood how people say they develop long term friendships with people from FAB when I would consider a long term friend someone you
could introduce to your wider vanilla friends circle.
As for status outside FAB, not really that bothered as long as you are a decent person but to be honest we all tend to mix within a social group be that from work, where we live etc etc.
I've often asked on FAB how others mix their 2 friendship groups together. Sadly, never had a response.
The thought of introducing a FAB swinging friend to our vanilla friends group instills fear.
I'd be on pins all night. 🤣🤣
Wow.
I met my best friend (we’re both women and are platonic) on here.
Earlier this year we went together to the place she is from. I met dozens of her friends. Obviously we are discreet as to how we met (which was in a bar at a social, so nothing to be embarrassed about) and I was welcomed with open arms, with a red carpet rolled out really.
The fact that I am on Fab does not demerit anything about me as a person. I am intelligent, passionate, very educated and cultured. I am fully bilingual and somewhat fluent in another two languages. I bring a lot to the table. And I am so glad that I have made connections on this site that have crossed over to my full and interesting life to make it even fuller and more interesting. And I to theirs.
Believe or not, there are incredibly extraordinary people on this site. Shame you haven’t met any. 🩷🎀"I'm very pleased for you. But the thought of introducing a swinger friend to our vanilla friends group fills me with fear. What happens if they slip up and our secret life is exposed, what a nightmare that would be. Our pillars of society image would be shattered by tales of our debauchery and filth, all true too. Weve only ever invited 3 people back to our home. Maybe, we are not as educated. Sorry very educated, passionate, cultured and somewhat fluent in 2 languages means we don't operate in your rarified air but we will try to aspire to loftier heights. Until then we'll stick to swinging being our secret life and between swinging and vanilla, never the twain will meet. As far as meeting people, we've met lots as our verifications tend to show. Mostly, as you say are lovely but still wouldn't invite them to a vanilla friends party. Have fun. 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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""Sorry love, I've got a call out to a hotel. Two blokes, good money, don't wait up" "No worries, see you when you get back" Of course this scenario wouldn't bother all the "wouldn't bother me" folk, would it? The OP said it was a Fab partner, not a life partner. So my working assumption meeting a lass off a fuck site is that if she’s happy to get naked with me (a mediocre bloke in his 50s) then she’s probably been seeing other fellas too. It’s kinda on the tin really, right? 🤷🏻♂️ So you think everyone that said they wouldn't be bothered would be happy with their fab partner earning a living in the way I'm intimating at then Will?" But there’s not that many of us earn a living like that. And why would we change to do that when we have perfectly good jobs doing other things. | |||
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" The thought of introducing a FAB swinging friend to our vanilla friends group instills fear. I'd be on pins all night. 🤣🤣 I've met almost all of my FWB's family...gone to family parties etc...just because we met on a swingers site makes no difference x" You're a better woman than me then. Good luck to you. | |||
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"It does to me. Ive a fairly low rung roll, (machine operative) its great when i get an opportunity to chat with someone who has chosen a more complicated/important roll in life. Ive noticed there are a lot of teachers on the 'scene' specifically support style stuff. Admirable job 👍🏻" Teachers and TAs are the kinkiest dynamics I've ever had. I seem to be on a roll recently, the last 12 months have seen an ongoing dynamic with a 35 year old ta, followed by a 61 year old teacher. I'm hooked  | |||
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""Sorry love, I've got a call out to a hotel. Two blokes, good money, don't wait up" "No worries, see you when you get back" Of course this scenario wouldn't bother all the "wouldn't bother me" folk, would it? The OP said it was a Fab partner, not a life partner. So my working assumption meeting a lass off a fuck site is that if she’s happy to get naked with me (a mediocre bloke in his 50s) then she’s probably been seeing other fellas too. It’s kinda on the tin really, right? 🤷🏻♂️ So you think everyone that said they wouldn't be bothered would be happy with their fab partner earning a living in the way I'm intimating at then Will? Well I don’t know about anyone else, you’d have to ask them, but as long as she didn’t walk out on me mid-meet (like, that would just be the height of rudeness wouldn’t it? 🤷🏻♂️) then her being a sex worker wouldn’t necessarily bother me any more than meeting a swinging club veteran who’s been around for a bit for a bit of naughty action, But then I’m much more transactional in my Fab / scene meets these days - I’m not looking for anything meaningful or long term " Right, so she's round yours, you've finished doing whatever you're both doing and you'd be happy to wave her off to visit her two clients. I believe you, Will. I really do. | |||
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""Sorry love, I've got a call out to a hotel. Two blokes, good money, don't wait up" "No worries, see you when you get back" Of course this scenario wouldn't bother all the "wouldn't bother me" folk, would it? The OP said it was a Fab partner, not a life partner. So my working assumption meeting a lass off a fuck site is that if she’s happy to get naked with me (a mediocre bloke in his 50s) then she’s probably been seeing other fellas too. It’s kinda on the tin really, right? 🤷🏻♂️ So you think everyone that said they wouldn't be bothered would be happy with their fab partner earning a living in the way I'm intimating at then Will? Well I don’t know about anyone else, you’d have to ask them, but as long as she didn’t walk out on me mid-meet (like, that would just be the height of rudeness wouldn’t it? 🤷🏻♂️) then her being a sex worker wouldn’t necessarily bother me any more than meeting a swinging club veteran who’s been around for a bit for a bit of naughty action, But then I’m much more transactional in my Fab / scene meets these days - I’m not looking for anything meaningful or long term Right, so she's round yours, you've finished doing whatever you're both doing and you'd be happy to wave her off to visit her two clients. I believe you, Will. I really do." Why not? As someone else pointed out. Most people on here are on here because they like to/want to/have no issue with. Having sex with multiple people… so how would a sex worker be any different? The literal difference is that they get paid to do it nothing more | |||
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""Sorry love, I've got a call out to a hotel. Two blokes, good money, don't wait up" "No worries, see you when you get back" Of course this scenario wouldn't bother all the "wouldn't bother me" folk, would it? The OP said it was a Fab partner, not a life partner. So my working assumption meeting a lass off a fuck site is that if she’s happy to get naked with me (a mediocre bloke in his 50s) then she’s probably been seeing other fellas too. It’s kinda on the tin really, right? 🤷🏻♂️ So you think everyone that said they wouldn't be bothered would be happy with their fab partner earning a living in the way I'm intimating at then Will? Well I don’t know about anyone else, you’d have to ask them, but as long as she didn’t walk out on me mid-meet (like, that would just be the height of rudeness wouldn’t it? 🤷🏻♂️) then her being a sex worker wouldn’t necessarily bother me any more than meeting a swinging club veteran who’s been around for a bit for a bit of naughty action, But then I’m much more transactional in my Fab / scene meets these days - I’m not looking for anything meaningful or long term Right, so she's round yours, you've finished doing whatever you're both doing and you'd be happy to wave her off to visit her two clients. I believe you, Will. I really do." Nah, I only meet at clubs these days. What she does after the club is up to her! 🤷🏻♂️ | |||
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"Nah. The terminally unemployed rarely interest me, but I'm not bothered if someone is temporarily unemployed or doing a job that's less than ideal to make ends meet 💜" I'm retired so that's sort of terminally unemployed. I do volunteer though and run a memory café. | |||
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"Nah. The terminally unemployed rarely interest me, but I'm not bothered if someone is temporarily unemployed or doing a job that's less than ideal to make ends meet 💜 I'm retired so that's sort of terminally unemployed. I do volunteer though and run a memory café." What's a memory cafe? | |||
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"But then I’m much more transactional in my Fab / scene meets these days - I’m not looking for anything meaningful or long term Right, so she's round yours, you've finished doing whatever you're both doing and you'd be happy to wave her off to visit her two clients. I believe you, Will. I really do. Why not? As someone else pointed out. Most people on here are on here because they like to/want to/have no issue with. Having sex with multiple people… so how would a sex worker be any different? The literal difference is that they get paid to do it nothing more" I think very few men would be happy with the scenario. The occupation would be of no concern, the scenario would. | |||
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""Sorry love, I've got a call out to a hotel. Two blokes, good money, don't wait up" "No worries, see you when you get back" Of course this scenario wouldn't bother all the "wouldn't bother me" folk, would it? The OP said it was a Fab partner, not a life partner. So my working assumption meeting a lass off a fuck site is that if she’s happy to get naked with me (a mediocre bloke in his 50s) then she’s probably been seeing other fellas too. It’s kinda on the tin really, right? 🤷🏻♂️ So you think everyone that said they wouldn't be bothered would be happy with their fab partner earning a living in the way I'm intimating at then Will? Well I don’t know about anyone else, you’d have to ask them, but as long as she didn’t walk out on me mid-meet (like, that would just be the height of rudeness wouldn’t it? 🤷🏻♂️) then her being a sex worker wouldn’t necessarily bother me any more than meeting a swinging club veteran who’s been around for a bit for a bit of naughty action, But then I’m much more transactional in my Fab / scene meets these days - I’m not looking for anything meaningful or long term Right, so she's round yours, you've finished doing whatever you're both doing and you'd be happy to wave her off to visit her two clients. I believe you, Will. I really do. Nah, I only meet at clubs these days. What she does after the club is up to her! 🤷🏻♂️ " Fairs | |||
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"Are they MP for Clacton? if so I'd be reticent, any other job or no job at all doesn't really matter toe " So if they were the MP for Ashfield (Lee Anderson), Newark (Robert Jenrick), East Wiltshire (Danny Kruger) Romford (Andrew Rosindell) and/or Boston and Skegness (Richard Tice) that would be fine!   | |||
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"If I connect with someone, I connect with them. Their job is their job, I wouldn't care if their were a high paid brain surgeon, adult entertainer or worked packing Lego. Treating someone you respect, connect with and share energy with as a human is too important, a person who also has emotional and physical needs, has fears in life, moments of insecurity and feeling overwhelmed. Their Job doesn't mean shit to me well, unless they were a hit-woman and I might be careful not to piss them off. " I tend to agree but with a caveat. As a woman, I find successful men and indeed women, have a tale to tell and that's what makes them interesting. We've been to a couple of socials both locally and in London and the angst, grief, drama and sense of grandure some people drag in a sack behind them is jaw dropping. Luckily most are brilliant, lovely, funny, smiley people. What's not to like. | |||
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"Simple answer is yes no matter how stunning if she works for the police I ain't interested " And I suspect most hard working Police women and other professional working women wouldn't touch you with a bargepole. Most ladies like a man who is mature in body and mind too. Sadly, the mind bit in your case is a tad suspect. | |||
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"Part time comedy villain here "Comedy villain? A bad boy who makes you laugh? You’d definitely get it! | |||
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