FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting without seeing photos

By *avid5924 OP Man
4 days ago

Shirley

I had an invite to meet yesterday with no social first or even seeing a clear photo. Do people do this? Surely it's a big risk? Or is it exciting? I turned the invite down. Did I miss out?

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 days ago

Round the bend

I guess some people might find it exciting, but it would be a hell no from me.

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By *athomMan
4 days ago

South Coast

"I had an invite to meet yesterday with no social first or even seeing a clear photo. Do people do this? Surely it's a big risk? Or is it exciting? I turned the invite down. Did I miss out? "

You did the right thing

Follow your instincts

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By *imply_SensualMan
4 days ago

Cheshire

Personally, Id have done the same and turned it down. I need attraction and some assurance that the person is real.

You could mitigate some of the risk if they are well verified and have been photo verified too, but that wouldnt remove the risk completely. Id still pass.

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By *vaRoseWoman
4 days ago

Ankh-Morpork

Miss out on what exactly? Unless mutual attraction isn’t important to you and you just want to get your dick wet I fail to see how you could possibly have missed out

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By *ornyguy666Man
4 days ago

Nottingham

Meet couple of times without seeing any pics and it was fantastic

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By *ound1Man
4 days ago

Blackpool

I couldnt

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By *hilled SamMan
4 days ago

Reading

I couldn’t do that, I don’t like having my time wasted

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By *oldmilkMan
4 days ago

In trouble, apparently…

Obviously a red flag.

Photo verified might help a little, but it’s still weird to want a social and you have no way of recognising her.

Also could be a bloke messing around.

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By *laytime_13Woman
4 days ago

Lincs

Not for me thanks.

It's a hot idea but I suspect with my luck it wouldn't be a hot reality

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By *onin25Man
4 days ago

Durham

Unless you are willing to have sex with anybody then I wouldn't even think about it. And that's assuming they are genuine just not showing pics, could be a time waster or worse.

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By *earditallWoman
4 days ago

Lancaster

Absolutely not for me

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By *ancman44Man
4 days ago

Manchester

Definitely not could the an axe murderer with his chopper

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 days ago

East Sussex

People have met us without seeing photos. It was always for a social in a public place though.

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By *iker MidlandsMan
4 days ago

Birmingham

For me, txts, pictures, chat then social, even if its at mine and see how it goes

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By *etwife8230Couple
4 days ago

Newport

Absolutely not

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By *kphooey43Man
4 days ago

Barnet

"People have met us without seeing photos. It was always for a social in a public place though.

Yes, it very much depends what the meeting is for. I have met for a walk in the park, a coffee, a beer, and other socials. I may only have seen a photo just before we met - but have needed a photo so that i don't approach the wrong person and cause all sorts of embarrassment.

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By *enukhanMan
4 days ago

Near Rugby

It may depend on how much you like your wallet, phone, watch and car, as they could all have been taken on the meet

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By *tlanshiaWoman
4 days ago

Chatham

The amount of meet now messages have included recently. Not sure if it’s a new influx of people since the site has been in the news.

It boggles me that the seem to be shocked when I say no I don’t meet unless I know someone well

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By *WB85Man
4 days ago

Staffordshire

I'm not even willing to chat without seeing pictures.

And rushing in without a social initially will always be a hard no.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
4 days ago

I’m sure people do but it would be a hell no from me. I need to see the person I’m considering fucking and have at least one social with them first. I mean how else can I prove I’m not a serial killer?

(I’m not)

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By *enukhanMan
4 days ago

Near Rugby

"I’m sure people do but it would be a hell no from me. I need to see the person I’m considering fucking and have at least one social with them first. I mean how else can I prove I’m not a serial killer?

(I’m not) "

Think we need proof of this

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By *entlydoesit!Woman
4 days ago

Blackpool

Absolutely not would i meet someone without pics,mind you pics can be fake too

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By *andl2004Couple
4 days ago

Lincolnshire

That's most single guys when you ask, no I dont share my face pic but but but I have a cock.

Excellent, enjoy staying at home and playing with it.

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By *evenishMan
4 days ago

Coningsby

I always ask for photos, if not a face pic, to obtain a good idea of who I'm meeting. Good body shots are fine. If no photos, then at least verifications to give an idea of who you're dealing with. But, no photos, no verifications AND they have been a member for over a year....no!

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By *atinaChica54Woman
4 days ago

Marlborough

Absolutely not. I have to see a face pic & then a quick video call to confirm they are the real deal & not Fugly Catfish if I'm even to consider shaving my coochie.

Imagine going to all that effort & make up & John Merrick turns up (not my kink)

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By *andl2004Couple
4 days ago

Lincolnshire

"Absolutely not. I have to see a face pic & then a quick video call to confirm they are the real deal & not Fugly Catfish if I'm even to consider shaving my coochie.

Imagine going to all that effort & make up & John Merrick turns up (not my kink)"

Quite possibly the best reply ever

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By *iver78Man
4 days ago

barton upon humber

I always ask for a " now selfie " after iv chatted for a little while , if they wont then I will end the conversation

Been catfished to many times ,often by profiles with a long list of body shots

Trust no one 🤣🤣

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By *igBeardyDanMan
4 days ago

Bilston

It's a no from me

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
4 days ago

Norwich

I did once, couldn't quite believe it , soon as through the door hugs kisses and straight upstairs for sex. Guess that's a lifetimes one off

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 days ago

East Sussex

"People have met us without seeing photos. It was always for a social in a public place though.

When I say without seeing photos I mean if our faces. They always recognised us though which used to bemuse me

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By *orphia2003Woman
4 days ago

Tonypandy.

I wouldn't meet anyone who won't send me a face pic.

I have been approached at socials/ clubs by people that recognise me, which is different, and I'm happy to have a casual chat then.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
4 days ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Nay, nay and thrice nay. I want them to have more than a pulse

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By *imon_hydeMan
4 days ago

Stockport

It's a definite no.

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By *asualConnectionsMan
4 days ago

bristol

Thats asking for trouble do not do it

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By *he MinionMan
4 days ago

Surrey

I have to like the person i'm gonna get naked with.

Limited conversation and no pics wouldnt work for me, there has to be some sort of connection from me to them

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By *ino200Man
4 days ago

Bournemouth and London

"I had an invite to meet yesterday with no social first or even seeing a clear photo. Do people do this? Surely it's a big risk? Or is it exciting? I turned the invite down. Did I miss out? "
Have you ever been in a completely dark room in a club ?

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By *opeye89Man
4 days ago

London

What I find annoying is that people would message me to meet or whatever and demand to see my face pics but, they won’t send me theirs.

Whats the point of that?

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By *lli1234TV/TS
4 days ago

Conway

I definitely wouldn't I had a woman two days ago wanted fun in my car with a CD I asked for a picture and didn't hear from her so I'm guessing she/ he was a dreamer.

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By *ino200Man
4 days ago

Bournemouth and London

"What I find annoying is that people would message me to meet or whatever and demand to see my face pics but, they won’t send me theirs.

Whats the point of that?

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Somebody has to go first and once youve seen the photo and think not for me why send yours?Oh theirs honour among thieves

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 days ago

Central

Imagine the messages volume, if there'd been a woman who had said, that's the only way that they meet men

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
4 days ago

Near Glasgow

I've had a couple of guys, ask to meet with them having no photos to even share in private. Reason apparently they don't put pics on Internet.

I said i won't do blind dates, so declined. I always wonder how or if they manage any meets..

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By *ackandsallyCouple
4 days ago

Ireland

We would never do that, meeting first is a must for us.

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By *issmorganWoman
4 days ago

Yorks

Not something I'd do, even for just a social. A bloke years ago told me I didn't need to see him, I could see him when we met. Block.

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