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"Hello summer beauties A question for you (Men welcomed to comment too) Have you tried a Bi MMF? My unfulfilled fantasy is a bisexual MMF threesome, with my partner or friend and myself in matching lingerie. The other man—a strong yet gentle, passionate, and hopefully hairy guy—should be curious and excited about being pegged by me and keen to fuck my friend. In my mind, it's so hot, but I am not sure if it will be the same in real life. What I like about that fantasy is the absolute liberation, balance, equality, and openness between genders. Nobody and everybody is the centre of attention neither. But, Is it maybe too cerebral? Tell me about your experience How you tried or fantasised about it. How was it ?" Definitely not too cerebral. As fantasies go, a bit of imagination and being able to lose your inhibitions and be a version of your kinkiest self is always something that gets me hot and flustered 🥵 | |||
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"One of the ways I became bi, had a threesome and ended up sucking his dick as I fucked her, it was incredible " What hi said ☝🏻✅🫶🏻 | |||
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"I’ve done this a few times (not matching lingerie though, that would not be for either of my partners). It’s amazing, hedonistic and (usually) flows wonderfully. Your specific version needs a top who dresses and a specific type of bottom (or for both to be vers) which makes it harder to achieve. You have to be prepared to lose set ideals of how it should go. Sexy, sexy logistics of body lengths mean that DP and DVP can need you to try a few different positions and both guys to be hard enough which can change quickly when the flow is interrupted - basically you need to be able to all laugh when it’s not working. But when it does work it’s so good my eyes roll into the back of my head and I lose the ability to speak. DP is probably my favourite treat ever 🤭😈 And being fucked by my partner while another guy fucked him was incredibly hot 🥵 " My Julie “basically you need to be able to all laugh when it’s not working” best tip of the century 💋 | |||
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"I’ve done this a few times (not matching lingerie though, that would not be for either of my partners). It’s amazing, hedonistic and (usually) flows wonderfully. Your specific version needs a top who dresses and a specific type of bottom (or for both to be vers) which makes it harder to achieve. You have to be prepared to lose set ideals of how it should go. Sexy, sexy logistics of body lengths mean that DP and DVP can need you to try a few different positions and both guys to be hard enough which can change quickly when the flow is interrupted - basically you need to be able to all laugh when it’s not working. But when it does work it’s so good my eyes roll into the back of my head and I lose the ability to speak. DP is probably my favourite treat ever 🤭😈 And being fucked by my partner while another guy fucked him was incredibly hot 🥵 My Julie “basically you need to be able to all laugh when it’s not working” best tip of the century 💋" I think this is a universal sex tip for life  | |||
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"My Julie “basically you need to be able to all laugh when it’s not working” best tip of the century 💋" Veronica, someone else could ask the original question (in their own way) and just get a “yeah, s’alright” from me. Your way of writing and openness coaxes me into sharing details that the forum doesn’t normally get 😘 | |||
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"My Julie “basically you need to be able to all laugh when it’s not working” best tip of the century 💋 Veronica, someone else could ask the original question (in their own way) and just get a “yeah, s’alright” from me. Your way of writing and openness coaxes me into sharing details that the forum doesn’t normally get 😘" Agreed | |||
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"Hello summer beauties A question for you (Men welcomed to comment too) Have you tried a Bi MMF? My unfulfilled fantasy is a bisexual MMF threesome, with my partner or friend and myself in matching lingerie. The other man—a strong yet gentle, passionate, and hopefully hairy guy—should be curious and excited about being pegged by me and keen to fuck my friend. In my mind, it's so hot, but I am not sure if it will be the same in real life. What I like about that fantasy is the absolute liberation, balance, equality, and openness between genders. Nobody and everybody is the centre of attention neither. But, Is it maybe too cerebral? Tell me about your experience How you tried or fantasised about it. How was it ?" Thanks for opening up this discussion. It’s a subject that’s quite close to my own swinging interests (read my profile), so I’ll definitely be following the comments with interest. I’ve experienced an MMF before, and it left me curious to explore my bisexual side a little further. At the moment I’m particularly interested in exploring bi-oral experiences and seeing where that curiosity takes me. One thing I’d really like to hear from the ladies here is how you find the experience of being approached about MMF situations. Do you receive many genuine offers, and is Fab actually a good place for women to meet compatible single men or other people for this sort of experience? As a single guy, I find arranging threesomes can be hard work, to be honest, especially finding people who are genuinely on the same page. It makes me wonder whether having an MM profile might actually be more suitable for guys who are specifically interested in MMF experiences with women, but I honestly don't know. From a female perspective, does the type of profile make much difference to you? Would you be more comfortable responding to a genuine single male profile, an MM profile, or does it really come down to the individual, how they present themselves and how they approach people? I’m genuinely interested in learning from the female perspective rather than making assumptions. I’d also love to hear from anyone who has explored similar MMF dynamics, whether it lived up to the fantasy or surprised you in some way. Thanks again for starting the conversation. It’s a subject that’s definitely relevant to my own desires, and I’m hoping the comments over the coming days and weeks might help me understand how other people experience and approach this side of swinging. | |||
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"I've done a number of MMF in the past. Very much enjoyed helping a friend spit-roast his new boyfriend." That's so lovely of you | |||
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"Hello summer beauties A question for you (Men welcomed to comment too) Have you tried a Bi MMF? My unfulfilled fantasy is a bisexual MMF threesome, with my partner or friend and myself in matching lingerie. The other man—a strong yet gentle, passionate, and hopefully hairy guy—should be curious and excited about being pegged by me and keen to fuck my friend. In my mind, it's so hot, but I am not sure if it will be the same in real life. What I like about that fantasy is the absolute liberation, balance, equality, and openness between genders. Nobody and everybody are the centre of attention neither. But, is it maybe too cerebral? Tell me about your experience How you tried or fantasised about it. How was it? Thanks for opening up this discussion. It’s a subject that’s quite close to my own swinging interests (read my profile), so I’ll definitely be following the comments with interest. I’ve experienced an MMF before, and it left me curious to explore my bisexual side a little further. At the moment I’m particularly interested in exploring bi-oral experiences and seeing where that curiosity takes me. One thing I’d really like to hear from the ladies here is how you find the experience of being approached about MMF situations. Do you receive many genuine offers, and is Fab actually a good place for women to meet compatible single men or other people for this sort of experience? As a single guy, I find arranging threesomes can be hard work, to be honest, especially finding people who are genuinely on the same page. It makes me wonder whether having an MM profile might actually be more suitable for guys who are specifically interested in MMF experiences with women, but I honestly don't know. From a female perspective, does the type of profile make much difference to you? Would you be more comfortable responding to a genuine single male profile, an MM profile, or does it really come down to the individual, how they present themselves and how they approach people? I’m genuinely interested in learning from the female perspective rather than making assumptions. I’d also love to hear from anyone who has explored similar MMF dynamics, whether it lived up to the fantasy or surprised you in some way. Thanks again for starting the conversation. It’s a subject that’s definitely relevant to my own desires, and I’m hoping the comments over the coming days and weeks might help me understand how other people experience and approach this side of swinging. " I think it would be nice to plan that experience with a partner/friend you trust who wants the same, and then look together for a third participant. Finding that kind of regular is the tricky thing. I guess, its easier if you have a couple profile. | |||
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"Hello summer beauties A question for you (Men welcomed to comment too) Have you tried a Bi MMF? My unfulfilled fantasy is a bisexual MMF threesome, with my partner or friend and myself in matching lingerie. The other man—a strong yet gentle, passionate, and hopefully hairy guy—should be curious and excited about being pegged by me and keen to fuck my friend. In my mind, it's so hot, but I am not sure if it will be the same in real life. What I like about that fantasy is the absolute liberation, balance, equality, and openness between genders. Nobody and everybody are the centre of attention neither. But, is it maybe too cerebral? Tell me about your experience How you tried or fantasised about it. How was it? Thanks for opening up this discussion. It’s a subject that’s quite close to my own swinging interests (read my profile), so I’ll definitely be following the comments with interest. I’ve experienced an MMF before, and it left me curious to explore my bisexual side a little further. At the moment I’m particularly interested in exploring bi-oral experiences and seeing where that curiosity takes me. One thing I’d really like to hear from the ladies here is how you find the experience of being approached about MMF situations. Do you receive many genuine offers, and is Fab actually a good place for women to meet compatible single men or other people for this sort of experience? As a single guy, I find arranging threesomes can be hard work, to be honest, especially finding people who are genuinely on the same page. It makes me wonder whether having an MM profile might actually be more suitable for guys who are specifically interested in MMF experiences with women, but I honestly don't know. From a female perspective, does the type of profile make much difference to you? Would you be more comfortable responding to a genuine single male profile, an MM profile, or does it really come down to the individual, how they present themselves and how they approach people? I’m genuinely interested in learning from the female perspective rather than making assumptions. I’d also love to hear from anyone who has explored similar MMF dynamics, whether it lived up to the fantasy or surprised you in some way. Thanks again for starting the conversation. It’s a subject that’s definitely relevant to my own desires, and I’m hoping the comments over the coming days and weeks might help me understand how other people experience and approach this side of swinging. I think it would be nice to plan that experience with a partner/friend you trust who wants the same, and then look together for a third participant. Finding that kind of regular is the tricky thing. I guess, its easier if you have a couple profile. " Yes i've actually got a fab wing man in place now, its taking many years of searching but we are ready to meet and practice bi oral on request, works really well for us both. Would a MM profile be better for us I dont know  | |||
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"Hello summer beauties A question for you (Men welcomed to comment too) Have you tried a Bi MMF? My unfulfilled fantasy is a bisexual MMF threesome, with my partner or friend and myself in matching lingerie. The other man—a strong yet gentle, passionate, and hopefully hairy guy—should be curious and excited about being pegged by me and keen to fuck my friend. In my mind, it's so hot, but I am not sure if it will be the same in real life. What I like about that fantasy is the absolute liberation, balance, equality, and openness between genders. Nobody and everybody are the centre of attention neither. But, is it maybe too cerebral? Tell me about your experience How you tried or fantasised about it. How was it? Thanks for opening up this discussion. It’s a subject that’s quite close to my own swinging interests (read my profile), so I’ll definitely be following the comments with interest. I’ve experienced an MMF before, and it left me curious to explore my bisexual side a little further. At the moment I’m particularly interested in exploring bi-oral experiences and seeing where that curiosity takes me. One thing I’d really like to hear from the ladies here is how you find the experience of being approached about MMF situations. Do you receive many genuine offers, and is Fab actually a good place for women to meet compatible single men or other people for this sort of experience? As a single guy, I find arranging threesomes can be hard work, to be honest, especially finding people who are genuinely on the same page. It makes me wonder whether having an MM profile might actually be more suitable for guys who are specifically interested in MMF experiences with women, but I honestly don't know. From a female perspective, does the type of profile make much difference to you? Would you be more comfortable responding to a genuine single male profile, an MM profile, or does it really come down to the individual, how they present themselves and how they approach people? I’m genuinely interested in learning from the female perspective rather than making assumptions. I’d also love to hear from anyone who has explored similar MMF dynamics, whether it lived up to the fantasy or surprised you in some way. Thanks again for starting the conversation. It’s a subject that’s definitely relevant to my own desires, and I’m hoping the comments over the coming days and weeks might help me understand how other people experience and approach this side of swinging. I think it would be nice to plan that experience with a partner/friend you trust who wants the same, and then look together for a third participant. Finding that kind of regular is the tricky thing. I guess, it's easier if you have a couple profile. Yes i've actually got a fab wing man in place now, it's taking many years of searching but we are ready to meet and practice bi oral on request, it works really well for us both. Would a MM profile be better for us I don't know "I don't know... My first concern here is always to be safe, it's a different approach from the men's experience, I guess. So meeting two strangers for the first time in a hotel is a no-no. | |||
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"Arranging it through fab is tough, not managed it yet. Better to use fab to look for bi club events. Libertine at Libs is amazing. The bi day at Sauna Sauna is very busy with bi men - as a woman you draw a lalarge audience 🫣 so you have to be able to firmly state your boundaries (which are respected)" Sounds interesting, I would. love to be invisible there. | |||
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"Hello summer beauties A question for you (Men welcomed to comment too) Have you tried a Bi MMF? My unfulfilled fantasy is a bisexual MMF threesome, with my partner or friend and myself in matching lingerie. The other man—a strong yet gentle, passionate, and hopefully hairy guy—should be curious and excited about being pegged by me and keen to fuck my friend. In my mind, it's so hot, but I am not sure if it will be the same in real life. What I like about that fantasy is the absolute liberation, balance, equality, and openness between genders. Nobody and everybody is the centre of attention neither. But, Is it maybe too cerebral? Tell me about your experience How you tried or fantasised about it. How was it ?" I am a beauty for short sighted women 🙂 but yer not pegging me  | |||
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"Hello summer beauties A question for you (Men welcomed to comment too) Have you tried a Bi MMF? My unfulfilled fantasy is a bisexual MMF threesome, with my partner or friend and myself in matching lingerie. The other man—a strong yet gentle, passionate, and hopefully hairy guy—should be curious and excited about being pegged by me and keen to fuck my friend. In my mind, it's so hot, but I am not sure if it will be the same in real life. What I like about that fantasy is the absolute liberation, balance, equality, and openness between genders. Nobody and everybody are the centre of attention neither. But, is it maybe too cerebral? Tell me about your experience How you tried or fantasised about it. How was it? Thanks for opening up this discussion. It’s a subject that’s quite close to my own swinging interests (read my profile), so I’ll definitely be following the comments with interest. I’ve experienced an MMF before, and it left me curious to explore my bisexual side a little further. At the moment I’m particularly interested in exploring bi-oral experiences and seeing where that curiosity takes me. One thing I’d really like to hear from the ladies here is how you find the experience of being approached about MMF situations. Do you receive many genuine offers, and is Fab actually a good place for women to meet compatible single men or other people for this sort of experience? As a single guy, I find arranging threesomes can be hard work, to be honest, especially finding people who are genuinely on the same page. It makes me wonder whether having an MM profile might actually be more suitable for guys who are specifically interested in MMF experiences with women, but I honestly don't know. From a female perspective, does the type of profile make much difference to you? Would you be more comfortable responding to a genuine single male profile, an MM profile, or does it really come down to the individual, how they present themselves and how they approach people? I’m genuinely interested in learning from the female perspective rather than making assumptions. I’d also love to hear from anyone who has explored similar MMF dynamics, whether it lived up to the fantasy or surprised you in some way. Thanks again for starting the conversation. It’s a subject that’s definitely relevant to my own desires, and I’m hoping the comments over the coming days and weeks might help me understand how other people experience and approach this side of swinging. I think it would be nice to plan that experience with a partner/friend you trust who wants the same, and then look together for a third participant. Finding that kind of regular is the tricky thing. I guess, it's easier if you have a couple profile. Yes i've actually got a fab wing man in place now, it's taking many years of searching but we are ready to meet and practice bi oral on request, it works really well for us both. Would a MM profile be better for us I don't know
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My first concern here is always to be safe, it's a different approach from the men's experience, I guess. So meeting two strangers for the first time in a hotel is a no-no. "Yes, I have fully agree with you. I think it’s risky for anyone involved in that that’s why it’s always such a tricky one to approach. Ultimately I think it’s always driven by the woman’s comfort and safety factor. We do get a lot of cold feet as I call it a lot of the women who express an interest in having sex with two men if they haven’t experienced that before in the lead up to the meet up seem to understandably get anxious and not follow through. That’s my thoughts with this whilst it’s frustrating, I fully understand why it happens. Be very interested to hear from any women reading this ☝🏻 | |||
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"I'd absolutely love to be the friend in this bi MMF scenario wearing sexy matching lingerie. Would be so hot to be instructed by you as to how you want the night to go, fulfilling all our fantasies, amazing x" I’m finding myself becoming more and more open-minded about lingerie — not just women wearing it, but increasingly curious about guys wearing it too. A couple of years ago I did a Rocky Horror night in suspenders and heels. It didn’t do much for me personally, but I was fascinated by how much it seemed to excite some of the women we were with! Definitely feeling more curious and adventurous these days, so I’d love to hear from anyone else who’s discovered a similar side to themselves. | |||
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"Hello summer beauties A question for you (Men welcomed to comment too) Have you tried a Bi MMF? My unfulfilled fantasy is a bisexual MMF threesome, with my partner or friend and myself in matching lingerie. The other man—a strong yet gentle, passionate, and hopefully hairy guy—should be curious and excited about being pegged by me and keen to fuck my friend. In my mind, it's so hot, but I am not sure if it will be the same in real life. What I like about that fantasy is the absolute liberation, balance, equality, and openness between genders. Nobody and everybody are the centre of attention neither. But, is it maybe too cerebral? Tell me about your experience How you tried or fantasised about it. How was it? Thanks for opening up this discussion. It’s a subject that’s quite close to my own swinging interests (read my profile), so I’ll definitely be following the comments with interest. I’ve experienced an MMF before, and it left me curious to explore my bisexual side a little further. At the moment I’m particularly interested in exploring bi-oral experiences and seeing where that curiosity takes me. One thing I’d really like to hear from the ladies here is how you find the experience of being approached about MMF situations. Do you receive many genuine offers, and is Fab actually a good place for women to meet compatible single men or other people for this sort of experience? As a single guy, I find arranging threesomes can be hard work, to be honest, especially finding people who are genuinely on the same page. It makes me wonder whether having an MM profile might actually be more suitable for guys who are specifically interested in MMF experiences with women, but I honestly don't know. From a female perspective, does the type of profile make much difference to you? Would you be more comfortable responding to a genuine single male profile, an MM profile, or does it really come down to the individual, how they present themselves and how they approach people? I’m genuinely interested in learning from the female perspective rather than making assumptions. I’d also love to hear from anyone who has explored similar MMF dynamics, whether it lived up to the fantasy or surprised you in some way. Thanks again for starting the conversation. It’s a subject that’s definitely relevant to my own desires, and I’m hoping the comments over the coming days and weeks might help me understand how other people experience and approach this side of swinging. I think it would be nice to plan that experience with a partner/friend you trust who wants the same, and then look together for a third participant. Finding that kind of regular is the tricky thing. I guess, its easier if you have a couple profile. " Not strictly on topic, but having had a few threesomes my favourite was one where we all had individual connections with each other. It really blew the potential “additional person there as a sex toy” issue out of the water. Mrs TMN | |||
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" Not strictly on topic, but having had a few threesomes my favourite was one where we all had individual connections with each other. It really blew the potential “additional person there as a sex toy” issue out of the water. Mrs TMN" this sounds interesting can you explain a little bit more how that actually came about? Was that through fab, and how did you get the introductions made between the three of you. Before, you all got together for the main event, so to speak, | |||
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"I would say most of my 3sum have been MMF as they are so much more fun. I like to give as well as receive pleasure and will a MMF there is loads more opportunities to do both. They are far more relaxed and they flow better, boundaries are respected but are more open to new experiences. The main thing I never had a meet someone walks away unsatisfied, everyone has a great time. " what she said tbh everything after having a good MMF experience is vanilla to me | |||
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" Not strictly on topic, but having had a few threesomes my favourite was one where we all had individual connections with each other. It really blew the potential “additional person there as a sex toy” issue out of the water. Mrs TMN this sounds interesting can you explain a little bit more how that actually came about? Was that through fab, and how did you get the introductions made between the three of you. Before, you all got together for the main event, so to speak," We all met individually via fab initially then the connections developed from there over time. | |||
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" Not strictly on topic, but having had a few threesomes my favourite was one where we all had individual connections with each other. It really blew the potential “additional person there as a sex toy” issue out of the water. Mrs TMN this sounds interesting can you explain a little bit more how that actually came about? Was that through fab, and how did you get the introductions made between the three of you. Before, you all got together for the main event, so to speak, We all met individually via fab initially then the connections developed from there over time." Absolutely get this if you’ve got a connection when you’re coming together to meet up it’s gonna be so much better than sort of going into things cold if you get me. One idea I’ve been thinking about to 9ffer to make an MMF meetup a bit more exciting would be for the two guys to meet the woman separately first, then all come together for the main event. I think it could be a nice way of easing into things, especially if someone’s a bit shy or nervous about going straight into an MMF situation. Personally, I think it sounds quite exciting. The only question is whether you’d try to do all the meetings on the same day, or spread them over a few days/weeks to make things a bit easier. What do people think about this idea? | |||
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