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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " I avoid them. If they don't have the balls to own up to being at least bi then they can do one. Only person you're kidding is yourself, sunshine. | |||
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"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight. Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels” But but labels dont matter. Says anyone who doesnt want to admit what theirs are | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " Is this based from the male side of the couples experience. | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " | |||
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"I think it's more about how you comport yourself rather than labels. Some people will say they are bi, but don't like doing certain things, whilst some people who say straight on profile might do far more 'bi' things in the right company. When they feel safe/supported/turned on etc. It's up to the individual. I don't think 'being true to yourself' comes into it totally, or is particularly helpful as a phrase. If we were all true to ourselves all the time we'd probably lose our jobs after repeatedly telling boss to fuck off, or say 'I can't be arsed today' and go home. We negotiate our world gingerly, taking time to work things out." Well it is context-appropriate for sure. I have zero need to parade my sexuality at work or even in the street. Because nobody's interested. On here or other social sites where discussing it openly is the main feature though, I see no need to hide anything. | |||
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"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight. Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels” • Labias always matter. 🩶 | |||
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"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight. Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels” Damn labias who needs em | |||
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"[tap tap tap] My internet is jammed. Seems to be stuck on straight who are bi and paying for access to chat. I’d turn it off but I don’t want to turn it on after." 🤣 | |||
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"No…. It’s based on a friend who’s a cd and claims to have sucked over 70 cocks but he’s only got 4 verifications " Maybe the other 64+ aren't on Fab? | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " They are not straight then are they lol | |||
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"Some straight men have sex with men, including many in porn. If your focus is on who they are attracted to, it's fairly common also for straight men to have some sexual contact with men whilst with a woman but they have no sexual attraction to men. You can tie your mind up in knots, trying to think of almost unlimited permutations. Or just know what your preferences are and find people who are mutually compatible with you. It also avoids the tendency to help to make others feel uncomfortable with who they are and their behaviour. It's largely social pressure that has degraded people being comfortable being themselves. If you're comfortable, then it's decent and only reasonable to allow others to have the same freedom. Ultimately, we can each help to make our world better, by the steps we take and values we hold. " I don’t fancy men or find men attractive, I’d never date or be in a relationship with a guy and I’ve never met one yet that I want to kiss. I also love having a bi MMF or having a man suck my cock. I really find certain cocks really hot and I love playing with them and sucking them. So there is no way I can be straight, I also don’t think bi is the right word to describe me but I’m somewhere in between. | |||
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"When a man has sex with another man, it's homo sex. When a man has sex with a woman, it's hetro sex. If you partake in both, you're bi-sex. Bi stands for two, both, dual etc." • Come to think of it, Robin Williams in Bicentennial Man did come across as rather camp. Curious... | |||
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"When a man has sex with another man, it's homo sex. When a man has sex with a woman, it's hetro sex. If you partake in both, you're bi-sex. Bi stands for two, both, dual etc. • Come to think of it, Robin Williams in Bicentennial Man did come across as rather camp. Curious... Bi curious? | |||
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"When a man has sex with another man, it's homo sex. When a man has sex with a woman, it's hetro sex. If you partake in both, you're bi-sex. Bi stands for two, both, dual etc. • Come to think of it, Robin Williams in Bicentennial Man did come across as rather camp. Curious... Fluid, flexible, versatile - just don't mention the B word 🤣 | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " Was that the BBC headline this morning ? | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " Judging by the emails I get, they’re also willing to meet men. Yes, I’m bisexual, but not interested in men who claim to be straight. This includes the single straight guy who wanted to come round, and suck my cock before he meets up with his girlfriend. I’m not interested in the drama | |||
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"Some straight men have sex with men, including many in porn. If your focus is on who they are attracted to, it's fairly common also for straight men to have some sexual contact with men whilst with a woman but they have no sexual attraction to men. You can tie your mind up in knots, trying to think of almost unlimited permutations. Or just know what your preferences are and find people who are mutually compatible with you. It also avoids the tendency to help to make others feel uncomfortable with who they are and their behaviour. It's largely social pressure that has degraded people being comfortable being themselves. If you're comfortable, then it's decent and only reasonable to allow others to have the same freedom. Ultimately, we can each help to make our world better, by the steps we take and values we hold. I don’t fancy men or find men attractive, I’d never date or be in a relationship with a guy and I’ve never met one yet that I want to kiss. I also love having a bi MMF or having a man suck my cock. I really find certain cocks really hot and I love playing with them and sucking them. So there is no way I can be straight, I also don’t think bi is the right word to describe me but I’m somewhere in between. " You may not be bi-romantic (relationships) but you are bi-sexual The fact that you only indulge in certain acts of pleasure (oral) doesn’t change that. | |||
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"Some straight men have sex with men, including many in porn. If your focus is on who they are attracted to, it's fairly common also for straight men to have some sexual contact with men whilst with a woman but they have no sexual attraction to men. You can tie your mind up in knots, trying to think of almost unlimited permutations. Or just know what your preferences are and find people who are mutually compatible with you. It also avoids the tendency to help to make others feel uncomfortable with who they are and their behaviour. It's largely social pressure that has degraded people being comfortable being themselves. If you're comfortable, then it's decent and only reasonable to allow others to have the same freedom. Ultimately, we can each help to make our world better, by the steps we take and values we hold. I don’t fancy men or find men attractive, I’d never date or be in a relationship with a guy and I’ve never met one yet that I want to kiss. I also love having a bi MMF or having a man suck my cock. I really find certain cocks really hot and I love playing with them and sucking them. So there is no way I can be straight, I also don’t think bi is the right word to describe me but I’m somewhere in between. You may not be bi-romantic (relationships) but you are bi-sexual The fact that you only indulge in certain acts of pleasure (oral) doesn’t change that." I have no issues with the term or label it’s just my perception of what that term means and I don’t think I do it justice. My partner is fully bi and has been since her teens. She is attracted to men and women, been in relationships with both, loved both men and women, that to me is bi sexual. I don’t think finding certain men’s cocks a turn on and playing with them or allowing them to play with me, on certain conditions, is bi sexual. It also isn’t straight so I think there is somewhere in between. If there is an obsession putting a label on what it it then Bi is fine and there is no shame in it at all. | |||
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"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight. Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels” That so reminds me of one of my mates, not the sharpest knife in the drawer, but women flocked around him. We were talking about oral one day, he said yeah I licked her lobelia till she squirted. I said I bet it was like a watering can. | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " People do what people do accept it’s part of life and crack on | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this People do what people do accept it’s part of life and crack on | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this People do what people do accept it’s part of life and crack on People are gonna say what ever in heat of moment to get laid. Especially in a club no one is asking or spilling off a resume of sex likes lol | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " But bi women is fine? Lots of straight women on here play bi? | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this People do what people do accept it’s part of life and crack on that's why I get odd looks when I offer references. | |||
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"Gonna throw my 2ps worth in here - I’m straight. I’m attracted to women and women only. Men do absolutely nothing for me. But, I do love the look of cocks, cum, and sometimes fantasise about activity with guys, but when it comes down to it, there is no attraction. It’s like the feeling of wanting to know what women experience or something? I don’t even really know how to explain it. Gender-curious maybe? It’s all a spectrum just like what you like " I haven’t seen a face pic of you, or ever seen you in person but I 100% know that I wouldn’t find you attractive, I wouldn’t fancy you and just ok site alone I wouldn’t want to do anything sexual with you. I have also seen a picture of your cock and I can 100% say if I see your cock in real life I’d want to play with it and suck it because it’s a really nice looking cock, that would definitely turn me on. I wouldn’t want to kiss you, I wouldn’t fall in love with you after, I wouldn’t even have to know your name but I’d happily give you a blow job and let you suck mine and have a bi MMF with me partner with you. Personally I don’t think that’s bi sexuality but it isn’t straight either, so I don’t know what to label it so Bi will do | |||
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"Try being a couple with bi hubby. Hubby is openly bi and Vers but when other men message it's like secret bi stuff or shallow demands. " The secret open to almost anything wink wink Code | |||
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"Exactly my point they are not being true to themselves " It's not about being true to themselves, it's because they blatantly lie, I've seen so many guys on here with Straight and looking for women and couples on their profile that are also on Fabguys as bisexual, I'd say a good 95% of messages looking for a meet that I get on this site are from guys with straight on their profile, basically they lie because some women and a lot of couples don't want a bisexual man. | |||
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"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight. Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels” Labels are important, in my lifetime homosexuality was illegal and it's been a hard battle to get to the point where being LGBT are protected characteristics, people of the same sex can get married, civil partnerships are legally binding when it comes to inheritance etc. Also saying you are straight to attract women and couple id dishonest, there have been threads where couples have complained about supposedly straight men trying on with the straight hubby during a meet. In the real world you can be in the closet but on a hook up/swinging site someone's sexuality is pretty important. | |||
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"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight. Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels” | |||
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"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight. Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels” Judgy wudginess - that just might be the gayest word I've ever heard 👍🤣 | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " If you haven't had one from them yet, you don't know what a real blowjob is like! 😏 | |||
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"We live in a world where people can identify as a dog, or a giraffe, or a train. Don't worry about other people and how they see themselves. Let them be." And they're clearly delusional - of course I worry about letting delusional, deceitful people anywhere near my wife, she's very precious to me. | |||
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"Most blokes will put their cock in anything, a gh for example...anyone could be anyone the other side 😆. People can be called whatever they want....I want to recognised as a tree!!!😆😆" I think it was Brigette Bardo that said "Sex is 10% friction and 90% imagination.' | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " Leave them be. Why are you being homophobic? | |||
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"Does it mean they're bi when they're begging a bloke to come round for a BJ when I'm not there ??" I’d say that’s more than bi. Just need to state it so no confusion. | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " Straight guys love sucking cock | |||
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"The fear of missing out on snatch is strong for most TBF it is a great film. | |||
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"The amount of messages I get from so called straight guys increases every week. They want to fuck a TV but eager not to put the women off, and so they don't include us different gurls in their interests. I prefer guys who are up front about their preferences and they generally have a better chance of getting into my knickers. " Partly why I stopped identifying as a TV/TS and decided on Man. I don't want to meet anyone in any sort of denial that it's gay sex, not a girlfriend experience with extra cock. | |||
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"I and I dont want bjs of anyone who isent female !! Is there a table for me ? Im feeling left out lol " Conservative maybe | |||
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"The amount of messages I get from so called straight guys increases every week. They want to fuck a TV but eager not to put the women off, and so they don't include us different gurls in their interests. I prefer guys who are up front about their preferences and they generally have a better chance of getting into my knickers. " Same, I just message back saying "sorry I'm not interested in Straight or Fab Straight guys" the normal response from they is that they insist they are bisexual, one tried to get out of it by saying he selected straight on his profile by accident even though his profile also said looking for women, no mention of guys TV/CD or TS, just looking for women. | |||
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"No…. It’s based on a friend who’s a cd and claims to have sucked over 70 cocks but he’s only got 4 verifications " Very little of the sex that I have is through this site, which is lucky as I only have three verifications! I have had sex with quite a few more men than that through here, but some men don’t want to leave verifications (and I don’t always or even often bother asking them to). This is undoubtedly partly because the majority of men who want to fuck me or want me to suck their cocks who are on this site describe themselves as ‘straight’ on here and some probably actually think that they are. I have had sex with about sixteen times that number of men this year anyway, so claiming to have sucked 70 cocks is entirely credible. | |||
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"No…. It’s based on a friend who’s a cd and claims to have sucked over 70 cocks but he’s only got 4 verifications Very little of the sex that I have is through this site, which is lucky as I only have three verifications! I have had sex with quite a few more men than that through here, but some men don’t want to leave verifications (and I don’t always or even often bother asking them to). This is undoubtedly partly because the majority of men who want to fuck me or want me to suck their cocks who are on this site describe themselves as ‘straight’ on here and some probably actually think that they are. I have had sex with about sixteen times that number of men this year anyway, so claiming to have sucked 70 cocks is entirely credible. " ^ Exactly | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " What are you gonna do about it? | |||
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"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight. Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels” And you might be the most rigidly narrow-minded individual I’ve seen on here 🤣 | |||
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"Unless there is some sort of massive surge of women handing out free blow jobs, then guys are going to look at other ways to get their rocks off. I could post on here asking for blow job and would be inundated with offers from guys. Or is could go to a gay sauna and have someone sucking me off within about five mins of turning up. It would probably take me a good six months of hard work trying to get a blow job off a girl on Fab." lol ouch get your Kevlar in ready after that | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " I always have to check the age and location of these kinds of comments to see where the OP's perspective is coming from. Surprise! Sexuality, gender identity and orientation is on a spectrum. I'm attracted to transwomen with a penis and transmen with their clothes on. Do that make me gay or a lesbian. Not quite because I'm not attracted to the non-masculine parts and describing myself as such is unfair to actual gay and lesbian people! I like to wear male clothing. Mostly because it's mostly practical! does that make me a cross dresser or transvetie or drag king? No it doesn't. Look we only get the options that the forms give us at the moment and at one point I thought i was asexual or aromantic because I'd gone of sex and men in general fo about 2 years. There's about 45-50 sexuality orientations identified so far so it's no longer just LGBT- The '+' stands for all the other identities. Maybe that man that has his penis sucked by a trans person doesn't know that he has other orientations to choose from so he just picks straight because that closest one. Some trans women, cross-dressers, and Drag Queens are extremely beautiful and exude an exaggerated femininity. I'm not going to crucify men who are attracted to that who identify as straight. I'm nearly 45 and I have to be honest and navigate with transpeople and cross dressers about what I'm attracted to in terms of the masculine elements: cock, masculine chest, no boobs and no vagina. I tie shibari, I can tell the sublte differences in men and women assigned at birth..based on bone and muscle structure. It's more than the visual for me. Women's pelvis is different. Men's arm are longer even if they are the same height as a woman. Most people's brain do not register those tiny differences. It's a case of do they look like a woman and is there enough attraction for whatever sexual act they want to perform. Women touch my boobs..I sadly feel nothing but a distraction but they get super aroused if they are bi. When I touch women's boobs during shibari, it's more a technical skill than any form of sexual attraction on my part. People hide their sexuality, orientations and gender identity for many reasons. There are people out there who will use it against them so I can't advise anyone to "out" themselves when they could potentially lose families, friends, homes and jobs. | |||
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"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this " They are not “so called straight”, they are straight guys frustrated by the lack of women in Fab, blinkered by thinking that Fab is the only place in the world to meet women, and eventually succumbed to the temptation of “it’s just a bj mate, I won’t tell anyone, it’s just a willing mouth”……. | |||
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"Exactly my point they are not being true to themselves " And if they can't be true to themselves they won't be true to anyone. | |||
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"Exactly my point they are not being true to themselves And if they can't be true to themselves they won't be true to anyone." In most cases they are being deceitful, they think by putting Bi on their profile , it will reduce their chances of getting their willie wet with women so they lie, couples with a straight hubby probably wouldn't be comfortable with a bi guy which is what makes it deceitful. Loads of guys with straight profiles on here are also on Fabguys as Bisexual and a good 95% of the guys who contact me for a meet have profiles saying they are straight and only interested in women and MF couples. | |||
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"Yep they won’t put bi on there profile because it scares the ladies away.. some blokes are like dogs! don’t care where they stick it " Must admit whilst I was still figuring it all out, I kept mine as straight, as I didn’t want to put off couples messaging us. Then I thought fuck it, I’m not being honest or fair to myself or others. Also if it puts people off then we are not meant to play with each other anyway | |||
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"No…. It’s based on a friend who’s a cd and claims to have sucked over 70 cocks but he’s only got 4 verifications " Perhaps he isn’t very good at it?😂 | |||
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"I and I dont want bjs of anyone who isent female !! Is there a table for me ? Im feeling left out lol Conservative maybe 🫠🤣 | |||
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"No…. It’s based on a friend who’s a cd and claims to have sucked over 70 cocks but he’s only got 4 verifications Perhaps he isn’t very good at it?😂" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | |||
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