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By *wosome24 OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Burnley

So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

This is news to me

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

Stop the press! 🗞️

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By *okingham WillMan
2 weeks ago

.

Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight.

Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels”

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

I avoid them. If they don't have the balls to own up to being at least bi then they can do one.

Only person you're kidding is yourself, sunshine.

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By *hickthighs-26Woman
2 weeks ago

the land of vagina


"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight.

Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels”"

But but labels dont matter. Says anyone who doesnt want to admit what theirs are

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By *wosome24 OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Burnley

Exactly my point they are not being true to themselves

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By *wosome24 OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Burnley

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By *heron ShanMan
2 weeks ago

Durham


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

Is this based from the male side of the couples experience.

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By *wosome24 OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Burnley

No…. It’s based on a friend who’s a cd and claims to have sucked over 70 cocks but he’s only got 4 verifications

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By *onyHoveMan
2 weeks ago

North East

I think it's more about how you comport yourself rather than labels.

Some people will say they are bi, but don't like doing certain things, whilst some people who say straight on profile might do far more 'bi' things in the right company. When they feel safe/supported/turned on etc.

It's up to the individual. I don't think 'being true to yourself' comes into it totally, or is particularly helpful as a phrase.

If we were all true to ourselves all the time we'd probably lose our jobs after repeatedly telling boss to fuck off, or say 'I can't be arsed today' and go home.

We negotiate our world gingerly, taking time to work things out.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
2 weeks ago

lightwater

The classic” I haven’t come out as bisexual to my mates yet”

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By *eSirMan
2 weeks ago

west midlands

There not straight their closeted. I find sex with men to be a repulsive idea thats not to be offensive but genuine. Idc if your my ideal girl if you add a penis to her thats a friendship lol


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull


"I think it's more about how you comport yourself rather than labels.

Some people will say they are bi, but don't like doing certain things, whilst some people who say straight on profile might do far more 'bi' things in the right company. When they feel safe/supported/turned on etc.

It's up to the individual. I don't think 'being true to yourself' comes into it totally, or is particularly helpful as a phrase.

If we were all true to ourselves all the time we'd probably lose our jobs after repeatedly telling boss to fuck off, or say 'I can't be arsed today' and go home.

We negotiate our world gingerly, taking time to work things out."

Well it is context-appropriate for sure. I have zero need to parade my sexuality at work or even in the street. Because nobody's interested.

On here or other social sites where discussing it openly is the main feature though, I see no need to hide anything.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight.

Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels”

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But but labias dont matter. Says anyone who doesnt want to admit what theirs are "

Labias always matter. 🩶

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By *hickthighs-26Woman
2 weeks ago

the land of vagina


"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight.

Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels”

·

But but labias dont matter. Says anyone who doesnt want to admit what theirs are

Labias always matter. 🩶"

Damn labias who needs em

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By *wosome24 OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Burnley

And they are not being fair to others including the person who’s sucking there todger

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By *ornyscotsman198812Man
2 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Each to their own

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Here. There.

[tap tap tap]

My internet is jammed. Seems to be stuck on straight who are bi and paying for access to chat.

I’d turn it off but I don’t want to turn it on after.

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By *hickthighs-26Woman
2 weeks ago

the land of vagina


"[tap tap tap]

My internet is jammed. Seems to be stuck on straight who are bi and paying for access to chat.

I’d turn it off but I don’t want to turn it on after."

🤣

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By *anadacockMan
2 weeks ago

Victoria


"No…. It’s based on a friend who’s a cd and claims to have sucked over 70 cocks but he’s only got 4 verifications "

Maybe the other 64+ aren't on Fab?

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
2 weeks ago

South East


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

They are not straight then are they lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Central

Some straight men have sex with men, including many in porn. If your focus is on who they are attracted to, it's fairly common also for straight men to have some sexual contact with men whilst with a woman but they have no sexual attraction to men.

You can tie your mind up in knots, trying to think of almost unlimited permutations. Or just know what your preferences are and find people who are mutually compatible with you. It also avoids the tendency to help to make others feel uncomfortable with who they are and their behaviour. It's largely social pressure that has degraded people being comfortable being themselves. If you're comfortable, then it's decent and only reasonable to allow others to have the same freedom. Ultimately, we can each help to make our world better, by the steps we take and values we hold.

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By *KTim61Man
2 weeks ago

Tipton

The only BJ I want is from a Woman !!!

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
2 weeks ago

South East


"Some straight men have sex with men, including many in porn. If your focus is on who they are attracted to, it's fairly common also for straight men to have some sexual contact with men whilst with a woman but they have no sexual attraction to men.

You can tie your mind up in knots, trying to think of almost unlimited permutations. Or just know what your preferences are and find people who are mutually compatible with you. It also avoids the tendency to help to make others feel uncomfortable with who they are and their behaviour. It's largely social pressure that has degraded people being comfortable being themselves. If you're comfortable, then it's decent and only reasonable to allow others to have the same freedom. Ultimately, we can each help to make our world better, by the steps we take and values we hold. "

I don’t fancy men or find men attractive, I’d never date or be in a relationship with a guy and I’ve never met one yet that I want to kiss.

I also love having a bi MMF or having a man suck my cock. I really find certain cocks really hot and I love playing with them and sucking them.

So there is no way I can be straight, I also don’t think bi is the right word to describe me but I’m somewhere in between.

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By *AYENCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

When a man has sex with another man, it's homo sex.

When a man has sex with a woman, it's hetro sex.

If you partake in both, you're bi-sex. Bi stands for two, both, dual etc.

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By *hilled SamMan
2 weeks ago

Reading

I’ll admit to it lol 😜

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By *hilled SamMan
2 weeks ago

Reading

Definitely in the same thought process , can properly relate to that

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair


"When a man has sex with another man, it's homo sex.

When a man has sex with a woman, it's hetro sex.

If you partake in both, you're bi-sex. Bi stands for two, both, dual etc."

Come to think of it, Robin Williams in Bicentennial Man did come across as rather camp.

Curious...

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away


"When a man has sex with another man, it's homo sex.

When a man has sex with a woman, it's hetro sex.

If you partake in both, you're bi-sex. Bi stands for two, both, dual etc.

Come to think of it, Robin Williams in Bicentennial Man did come across as rather camp.

Curious... "

Bi curious?

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By *actile TensionMan
2 weeks ago

Sussex

I can see the appeal, but not being able to reciprocate seems unfair. So nah 👎🏻

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By *AYENCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"When a man has sex with another man, it's homo sex.

When a man has sex with a woman, it's hetro sex.

If you partake in both, you're bi-sex. Bi stands for two, both, dual etc.

Come to think of it, Robin Williams in Bicentennial Man did come across as rather camp.

Curious... "

Fluid, flexible, versatile - just don't mention the B word 🤣

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By *wosome24 OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Burnley

A lot don’t leave any verification about seeing a cd or tv because they don’t want anyone knowing especially females

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By *ino200Man
2 weeks ago

Bournemouth and London


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

Was that the BBC headline this morning ?

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By *atural_born_thriller_xMan
2 weeks ago

cockwelwyn

Does it really matter and what if the person is trans male to female post op or female to male pre op ? X

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By *acavityMan
2 weeks ago

Redditch


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

Judging by the emails I get, they’re also willing to meet men. Yes, I’m bisexual, but not interested in men who claim to be straight.

This includes the single straight guy who wanted to come round, and suck my cock before he meets up with his girlfriend.

I’m not interested in the drama

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By *Silver-Man
2 weeks ago

North Wales

Who cares, each to their own

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By *acavityMan
2 weeks ago

Redditch


"Some straight men have sex with men, including many in porn. If your focus is on who they are attracted to, it's fairly common also for straight men to have some sexual contact with men whilst with a woman but they have no sexual attraction to men.

You can tie your mind up in knots, trying to think of almost unlimited permutations. Or just know what your preferences are and find people who are mutually compatible with you. It also avoids the tendency to help to make others feel uncomfortable with who they are and their behaviour. It's largely social pressure that has degraded people being comfortable being themselves. If you're comfortable, then it's decent and only reasonable to allow others to have the same freedom. Ultimately, we can each help to make our world better, by the steps we take and values we hold.

I don’t fancy men or find men attractive, I’d never date or be in a relationship with a guy and I’ve never met one yet that I want to kiss.

I also love having a bi MMF or having a man suck my cock. I really find certain cocks really hot and I love playing with them and sucking them.

So there is no way I can be straight, I also don’t think bi is the right word to describe me but I’m somewhere in between. "

You may not be bi-romantic (relationships) but you are bi-sexual

The fact that you only indulge in certain acts of pleasure (oral) doesn’t change that.

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
2 weeks ago

South East


"Some straight men have sex with men, including many in porn. If your focus is on who they are attracted to, it's fairly common also for straight men to have some sexual contact with men whilst with a woman but they have no sexual attraction to men.

You can tie your mind up in knots, trying to think of almost unlimited permutations. Or just know what your preferences are and find people who are mutually compatible with you. It also avoids the tendency to help to make others feel uncomfortable with who they are and their behaviour. It's largely social pressure that has degraded people being comfortable being themselves. If you're comfortable, then it's decent and only reasonable to allow others to have the same freedom. Ultimately, we can each help to make our world better, by the steps we take and values we hold.

I don’t fancy men or find men attractive, I’d never date or be in a relationship with a guy and I’ve never met one yet that I want to kiss.

I also love having a bi MMF or having a man suck my cock. I really find certain cocks really hot and I love playing with them and sucking them.

So there is no way I can be straight, I also don’t think bi is the right word to describe me but I’m somewhere in between.

You may not be bi-romantic (relationships) but you are bi-sexual

The fact that you only indulge in certain acts of pleasure (oral) doesn’t change that."

I have no issues with the term or label it’s just my perception of what that term means and I don’t think I do it justice. My partner is fully bi and has been since her teens. She is attracted to men and women, been in relationships with both, loved both men and women, that to me is bi sexual.

I don’t think finding certain men’s cocks a turn on and playing with them or allowing them to play with me, on certain conditions, is bi sexual. It also isn’t straight so I think there is somewhere in between. If there is an obsession putting a label on what it it then Bi is fine and there is no shame in it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Could be anyone if you keep your eyes closed.

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By *ersatilefoxMan
2 weeks ago

Notts


"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight.

Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels”

·

But but labias dont matter. Says anyone who doesnt want to admit what theirs are

Labias always matter. 🩶

Damn labias who needs em"

That so reminds me of one of my mates, not the sharpest knife in the drawer, but women flocked around him. We were talking about oral one day, he said yeah I licked her lobelia till she squirted. I said I bet it was like a watering can.

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By *otryMan
2 weeks ago

north shields / on the road

Its when you see men or ciuples asking for str8 men to suck or be sucked by a man surely u cnat be str8bhaha

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By *ornagainchristianMan
2 weeks ago

Travelling the UK

Gonna throw my 2ps worth in here - I’m straight. I’m attracted to women and women only. Men do absolutely nothing for me. But, I do love the look of cocks, cum, and sometimes fantasise about activity with guys, but when it comes down to it, there is no attraction. It’s like the feeling of wanting to know what women experience or something? I don’t even really know how to explain it. Gender-curious maybe? It’s all a spectrum just like what you like

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Tetbury

Yes, plenty of offers from straight guys wanting to suck me off, and a few have, they dont want veris.

They want a passable or convincing TV thats going to wear everything they love, look and smell great but with something different un their undies.

Had a guy in my bed last night, straight on his profile, hardly saw his face, he was down on me for ages and then wanted my cum all over his face.

I think the term is "fab-straight"

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

Why do you care?

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By *igpaul1967Man
2 weeks ago

Barnsley

What does it matter really. I don't really like devisive labels because of the us and them factor. But I still think they are a use full shorthand for boundaries. In every day life sexuality is need to know anyway

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By *wosome24 OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Burnley

We care a lot

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Chichester


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

People do what people do accept it’s part of life and crack on

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By *ew2buryMan
2 weeks ago

Forums.


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this

People do what people do accept it’s part of life and crack on "

It's only an issue of you really care about the gender of your sexual partners previous conquests. If that matters to you it's worth asking why... And if it's a risk based concern, do you check on on how many partners your straight shags have as well, and demand sti results from all.

Otherwise, indeed, crack on !

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Chichester


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this

People do what people do accept it’s part of life and crack on

It's only an issue of you really care about the gender of your sexual partners previous conquests. If that matters to you it's worth asking why... And if it's a risk based concern, do you check on on how many partners your straight shags have as well, and demand sti results from all.

Otherwise, indeed, crack on ! "

People are gonna say what ever in heat of moment to get laid. Especially in a club no one is asking or spilling off a resume of sex likes lol

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By *Silver-Man
2 weeks ago

North Wales


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

But bi women is fine? Lots of straight women on here play bi?

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By *ew2buryMan
2 weeks ago

Forums.


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this

People do what people do accept it’s part of life and crack on

It's only an issue of you really care about the gender of your sexual partners previous conquests. If that matters to you it's worth asking why... And if it's a risk based concern, do you check on on how many partners your straight shags have as well, and demand sti results from all.

Otherwise, indeed, crack on !

People are gonna say what ever in heat of moment to get laid. Especially in a club no one is asking or spilling off a resume of sex likes lol "

that's why I get odd looks when I offer references.

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By *iHubby73TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Durham

I do love messages off straight guys telling me what they want to do to me or how they would use me

Straight or not, the idea of turning the head of a straight alpha guy is very horny to me

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
2 weeks ago

South East


"Gonna throw my 2ps worth in here - I’m straight. I’m attracted to women and women only. Men do absolutely nothing for me. But, I do love the look of cocks, cum, and sometimes fantasise about activity with guys, but when it comes down to it, there is no attraction. It’s like the feeling of wanting to know what women experience or something? I don’t even really know how to explain it. Gender-curious maybe? It’s all a spectrum just like what you like "

I haven’t seen a face pic of you, or ever seen you in person but I 100% know that I wouldn’t find you attractive, I wouldn’t fancy you and just ok site alone I wouldn’t want to do anything sexual with you.

I have also seen a picture of your cock and I can 100% say if I see your cock in real life I’d want to play with it and suck it because it’s a really nice looking cock, that would definitely turn me on.

I wouldn’t want to kiss you, I wouldn’t fall in love with you after, I wouldn’t even have to know your name but I’d happily give you a blow job and let you suck mine and have a bi MMF with me partner with you.

Personally I don’t think that’s bi sexuality but it isn’t straight either, so I don’t know what to label it so Bi will do

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By *hank you sirMan
2 weeks ago

colchester

I'll admit to it, just saying

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
2 weeks ago

Newport

Try being a couple with bi hubby. Hubby is openly bi and Vers but when other men message it's like secret bi stuff or shallow demands.

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
2 weeks ago

South East


"Try being a couple with bi hubby. Hubby is openly bi and Vers but when other men message it's like secret bi stuff or shallow demands. "

The secret open to almost anything wink wink

Code

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot


"Exactly my point they are not being true to themselves "

It's not about being true to themselves, it's because they blatantly lie, I've seen so many guys on here with Straight and looking for women and couples on their profile that are also on Fabguys as bisexual, I'd say a good 95% of messages looking for a meet that I get on this site are from guys with straight on their profile, basically they lie because some women and a lot of couples don't want a bisexual man.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight.

Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels”"

Labels and judgement - bang on. It’s not for you make this call about other guys - chat understand for the life of me your insistence on doing so! Live and let live - the need to add the subjective tags says more about you than them. And it’s not exactly fun, the judgy wudginess of it all.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot


"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight.

Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels”

Labels and judgement - bang on. It’s not for you make this call about other guys - chat understand for the life of me your insistence on doing so! Live and let live - the need to add the subjective tags says more about you than them. And it’s not exactly fun, the judgy wudginess of it all. "

Labels are important, in my lifetime homosexuality was illegal and it's been a hard battle to get to the point where being LGBT are protected characteristics, people of the same sex can get married, civil partnerships are legally binding when it comes to inheritance etc. Also saying you are straight to attract women and couple id dishonest, there have been threads where couples have complained about supposedly straight men trying on with the straight hubby during a meet. In the real world you can be in the closet but on a hook up/swinging site someone's sexuality is pretty important.

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By *andcruiser50Man
2 weeks ago

Kendal

REMEMBER. We are all on a swinger site and we all fill in the profile and hope to attract a like-minded mate.

When I joined FabSwingers, I was curious about men so I put on my profile bi-curious, and I got inundated with messages from gay men offering to educate me, give me a good time and show me how to take Cock. This isn't what I joined FabSwingers for, I was looking for couples or single ladies, no mention of single or multiple men so I changed my profile back to being straight. So you can't read much into what A profile says you can only tell what is on offer when you chat at length or you meet up.

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By *hickthighs-26Woman
2 weeks ago

the land of vagina


"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight.

Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels”

Labels and judgement - bang on. It’s not for you make this call about other guys - chat understand for the life of me your insistence on doing so! Live and let live - the need to add the subjective tags says more about you than them. And it’s not exactly fun, the judgy wudginess of it all.

Labels are important, in my lifetime homosexuality was illegal and it's been a hard battle to get to the point where being LGBT are protected characteristics, people of the same sex can get married, civil partnerships are legally binding when it comes to inheritance etc. Also saying you are straight to attract women and couple id dishonest, there have been threads where couples have complained about supposedly straight men trying on with the straight hubby during a meet. In the real world you can be in the closet but on a hook up/swinging site someone's sexuality is pretty important."

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
2 weeks ago

West London

Maybe they just enjoy a good blowjob?

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

The judgement and self-righteousness and “I-decide-what-people-I don’t-know-are-even-though-I-have-no-idea-about-individual-circumstances” is pathetic and shows people in this thread in a bad light. Get out more!

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By *AYENCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight.

Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels”

Labels and judgement - bang on. It’s not for you make this call about other guys - chat understand for the life of me your insistence on doing so! Live and let live - the need to add the subjective tags says more about you than them. And it’s not exactly fun, the judgy wudginess of it all. "

Judgy wudginess - that just might be the gayest word I've ever heard 👍🤣

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By *ANiCURETV/TS
2 weeks ago

Winchester


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

If you haven't had one from them yet, you don't know what a real blowjob is like! 😏

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
2 weeks ago

Swansea

I suspect (as confirmed by one or two answers above) that many feel the labels on here don't match how they see themselves.

When do you become bi? Reading some of the comments on here you'd think the first time a man touches another man's penis he instantly catches the bi, but what if you have tried it once, didn't like it and don't ever want to do it again? Presumably this person isn't bi while someone who enjoys both sexes equally clearly is. Between these two is a continuum and at what point we each feel the transition from not being to no occurs will vary. The bi curious label is even less helpful for many. It may fit those who are interested in experimenting but for anyone who knows exactly what they do and don't like it's not a great description - particularly as it appears to be mean a kind of bi-lite to many.

Who knows, and who cares? It makes zero difference to anyone.

P

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By *avid BlackhardtMan
2 weeks ago

Walsall

We live in a world where people can identify as a dog, or a giraffe, or a train.

Don't worry about other people and how they see themselves. Let them be.

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By *AYENCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"We live in a world where people can identify as a dog, or a giraffe, or a train.

Don't worry about other people and how they see themselves. Let them be."

And they're clearly delusional - of course I worry about letting delusional, deceitful people anywhere near my wife, she's very precious to me.

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By *inkyukxxxCouple
2 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Personally don’t see the obsession with labels and having to fit into someone’s little label box. Everyone’s interpretation is different as long as your happy with your own sexuality and know what you want and don’t want then great. Other grown ups can make the same decisions about themselves with their own interpretations and if you want to judge people on that go ahead it says a lot more about you than the people being judged

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By *mdikdaveMan
2 weeks ago

Canterbury

Most blokes will put their cock in anything, a gh for example...anyone could be anyone the other side 😆. People can be called whatever they want....I want to recognised as a tree!!!😆😆

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By *lack Jack 4UMan
2 weeks ago

London


"Most blokes will put their cock in anything, a gh for example...anyone could be anyone the other side 😆. People can be called whatever they want....I want to recognised as a tree!!!😆😆"

I think it was Brigette Bardo that said "Sex is 10% friction and 90% imagination.'

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Slough

Sacré bleu 😜🤣🤣🤣

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Slough

Btw OP it's not just blow jobs, some of them luv to dine out of a well used arsehole, give head, etc.

Also, they wish to experience being topped, which is not my thing, but we never say never...!

To me it matters not, if peeps enjoy who's to say it's wrong (only the narrow minded peeps find it necessary to judge...)

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By *ervent_fervourMan
2 weeks ago

Grimsby


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

Leave them be. Why are you being homophobic?

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By *rickie-dickieMan
2 weeks ago

South Durham

I get lots of looks, winks and messages from straight men. I initially start a reply with a quick reminder that I'm male.

I don't really care how someone identifies, bi, straight, gay, whatever, as long as he's comfortable with the idea of sex with a guy, talking about sex with a guy or is curious about sex with a guy. Oh, and yes, hand and blowjobs are sex.

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By *erry 58Man
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

Sometimes I can’t believe what I hear and see these days ,, unbelievable

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By *iscretefuncoupleCouple
1 week ago

Blackheath

Unfortunately as you say the world isn’t just black and white. It’s many shades and tones of grey. I am what I call metrosexual. No interest in meeting a guy for 1 on 1 sex. However in mmff and mmf situations I am orally bi. Don’t take or give anal. Had been swinging for a good 20 years before I discovered this. Everyone is different. Wouldn’t it be boring if we all liked the same thing !!!!

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By *eggy 70Couple
1 week ago

Romford

Does it mean they're bi when they're begging a bloke to come round for a BJ when I'm not there ??

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By *r_Discrete200Man
1 week ago

Cardiff


"Does it mean they're bi when they're begging a bloke to come round for a BJ when I'm not there ??"

I’d say that’s more than bi. Just need to state it so no confusion.

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By *ojo79555Couple
1 week ago

belfast


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

Straight guys love sucking cock

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By *exiislayCouple
1 week ago

anywhere

We find the same, straight guy messages told not looking for straight males and by magic words of suckicus cockicus they instantly become bi haha

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By *arah midsTV/TS
1 week ago

walsall

I can 100% confirm they do hehe

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By *DAnnette3TV/TS
1 week ago

Brighton

The amount of messages I get from so called straight guys increases every week. They want to fuck a TV but eager not to put the women off, and so they don't include us different gurls in their interests. I prefer guys who are up front about their preferences and they generally have a better chance of getting into my knickers.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
1 week ago

Chichester

The fear of missing out on snatch is strong for most

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By *horskin!Man
1 week ago

your kink

I am straight but I love to be watched so anyone can watch but some cannot touch i love the thought of them wanting to touch

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By *dstefiMan
1 week ago

Solihull


"The fear of missing out on snatch is strong for most "

TBF it is a great film.

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By *iver78Man
1 week ago

barton upon humber

I and I dont want bjs of anyone who isent female !! Is there a table for me ? Im feeling left out lol

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By *dstefiMan
1 week ago

Solihull


"The amount of messages I get from so called straight guys increases every week. They want to fuck a TV but eager not to put the women off, and so they don't include us different gurls in their interests. I prefer guys who are up front about their preferences and they generally have a better chance of getting into my knickers. "

Partly why I stopped identifying as a TV/TS and decided on Man. I don't want to meet anyone in any sort of denial that it's gay sex, not a girlfriend experience with extra cock.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
1 week ago

Chichester


"I and I dont want bjs of anyone who isent female !! Is there a table for me ? Im feeling left out lol "

Conservative maybe

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By *IG-JIMMan
1 week ago

kingston

I’m confused 🤣

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
1 week ago

Didcot


"The amount of messages I get from so called straight guys increases every week. They want to fuck a TV but eager not to put the women off, and so they don't include us different gurls in their interests. I prefer guys who are up front about their preferences and they generally have a better chance of getting into my knickers. "

Same, I just message back saying "sorry I'm not interested in Straight or Fab Straight guys" the normal response from they is that they insist they are bisexual, one tried to get out of it by saying he selected straight on his profile by accident even though his profile also said looking for women, no mention of guys TV/CD or TS, just looking for women.

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By *illySlutinOxfordshireTV/TS
1 week ago

North Oxfordshire


"No…. It’s based on a friend who’s a cd and claims to have sucked over 70 cocks but he’s only got 4 verifications "

Very little of the sex that I have is through this site, which is lucky as I only have three verifications! I have had sex with quite a few more men than that through here, but some men don’t want to leave verifications (and I don’t always or even often bother asking them to). This is undoubtedly partly because the majority of men who want to fuck me or want me to suck their cocks who are on this site describe themselves as ‘straight’ on here and some probably actually think that they are.

I have had sex with about sixteen times that number of men this year anyway, so claiming to have sucked 70 cocks is entirely credible.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
1 week ago

Didcot


"No…. It’s based on a friend who’s a cd and claims to have sucked over 70 cocks but he’s only got 4 verifications

Very little of the sex that I have is through this site, which is lucky as I only have three verifications! I have had sex with quite a few more men than that through here, but some men don’t want to leave verifications (and I don’t always or even often bother asking them to). This is undoubtedly partly because the majority of men who want to fuck me or want me to suck their cocks who are on this site describe themselves as ‘straight’ on here and some probably actually think that they are.

I have had sex with about sixteen times that number of men this year anyway, so claiming to have sucked 70 cocks is entirely credible.

"

^ Exactly

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By *mateur111Man
1 week ago

Southampton

I'm a so called straight guy

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By *rHotNottsMan
1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

What are you gonna do about it?

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By *r X46Man
1 week ago

Liverpool

Unless there is some sort of massive surge of women handing out free blow jobs, then guys are going to look at other ways to get their rocks off.

I could post on here asking for blow job and would be inundated with offers from guys. Or is could go to a gay sauna and have someone sucking me off within about five mins of turning up.

It would probably take me a good six months of hard work trying to get a blow job off a girl on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago


"Year, you’re right, they ain’t straight.

Give it 5 mins and someone be be along spouting something about “labels”

Labels and judgement - bang on. It’s not for you make this call about other guys - chat understand for the life of me your insistence on doing so! Live and let live - the need to add the subjective tags says more about you than them. And it’s not exactly fun, the judgy wudginess of it all.

Judgy wudginess - that just might be the gayest word I've ever heard 👍🤣"

And you might be the most rigidly narrow-minded individual I’ve seen on here 🤣

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By *ubmissive guyMan
1 week ago

Liverpool

I find this whole discussion a bit pointless. If someone meets someone of the same sex and indulges in sexual activity. There Bi, if someone is curious about trying, then there Bi curious. Meeting a guy for oral, if your a guy, because you can't find a Female to do it doesn't make you any less Bi.

The thing that annoys me is we have to put everyone into neat little boxes, for our brains to understand someone. I'm sexually submissive to Women. But the number of times Ive been chatting to a Woman or couple and I tell them I'm totally straight. They delete all messages and block me,. Submissive doesn't mean Bi.

What about a couple, who occasionally indulge, in dressing up, the guy doesn't do it without his partner being there. He doesn't rush out and buy a whole wardrobe of Womens clothing, its just a bit of fun they occasionally share.Is this guy a TV?

Back in the early 70s if you were into Bowie and the glam scene chances are youd dress in Womens clothing and makeup for a night out. In the early 80s if you were into Duran Duran etc youd wear eyeliner. If you were into goth music youd wear eyeliner black lipstick and nail varnish by the end of the 80s, if you were into the glam rock scene well it was full on pink makeup spandex jeans and half a tin of hairspray.

The thing is these people weren't all gay or bi or trans, it was just the fashion of the time and Im sorry for the huge post, but as I said you cant fit everyone into neet little packages

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
1 week ago

Chichester


"Unless there is some sort of massive surge of women handing out free blow jobs, then guys are going to look at other ways to get their rocks off.

I could post on here asking for blow job and would be inundated with offers from guys. Or is could go to a gay sauna and have someone sucking me off within about five mins of turning up.

It would probably take me a good six months of hard work trying to get a blow job off a girl on Fab."

lol ouch get your Kevlar in ready after that

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By *heekynHimCouple
1 week ago

Now live permently in Costa Del sol, Spain. NOT

We've met a few

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By *lym4realCouple
1 week ago

plymouth

Most of the Bi men we know say that most of their messages come from so called straight men ? basically they reckon they are just after a warm willing hole though but just another label really and even the Bi men we know get quite a bit of abuse for being so ?

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
1 week ago

Kingswood

They are gay/bi regardless what they called the themselves but also who cares ?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
1 week ago

near Putney Heath


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

I always have to check the age and location of these kinds of comments to see where the OP's perspective is coming from.

Surprise! Sexuality, gender identity and orientation is on a spectrum.

I'm attracted to transwomen with a penis and transmen with their clothes on. Do that make me gay or a lesbian. Not quite because I'm not attracted to the non-masculine parts and describing myself as such is unfair to actual gay and lesbian people!

I like to wear male clothing. Mostly because it's mostly practical! does that make me a cross dresser or transvetie or drag king? No it doesn't.

Look we only get the options that the forms give us at the moment and at one point I thought i was asexual or aromantic because I'd gone of sex and men in general fo about 2 years.

There's about 45-50 sexuality orientations identified so far so it's no longer just LGBT- The '+' stands for all the other identities.

Maybe that man that has his penis sucked by a trans person doesn't know that he has other orientations to choose from so he just picks straight because that closest one.

Some trans women, cross-dressers, and Drag Queens are extremely beautiful and exude an exaggerated femininity. I'm not going to crucify men who are attracted to that who identify as straight.

I'm nearly 45 and I have to be honest and navigate with transpeople and cross dressers about what I'm attracted to in terms of the masculine elements: cock, masculine chest, no boobs and no vagina.

I tie shibari, I can tell the sublte differences in men and women assigned at birth..based on bone and muscle structure. It's more than the visual for me. Women's pelvis is different. Men's arm are longer even if they are the same height as a woman.

Most people's brain do not register those tiny differences. It's a case of do they look like a woman and is there enough attraction for whatever sexual act they want to perform.

Women touch my boobs..I sadly feel nothing but a distraction but they get super aroused if they are bi. When I touch women's boobs during shibari, it's more a technical skill than any form of sexual attraction on my part.

People hide their sexuality, orientations and gender identity for many reasons. There are people out there who will use it against them so I can't advise anyone to "out" themselves when they could potentially lose families, friends, homes and jobs.

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By *oiluvfunMan
1 week ago

Penrith


"So called straight guys are willing to get bjs from

Cd and TVs but they won’t admit to this "

They are not “so called straight”, they are straight guys frustrated by the lack of women in Fab, blinkered by thinking that Fab is the only place in the world to meet women, and eventually succumbed to the temptation of “it’s just a bj mate, I won’t tell anyone, it’s just a willing mouth”…….

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By *olds CoupleCouple
1 week ago

Louth Lincolnshire


"Exactly my point they are not being true to themselves "

And if they can't be true to themselves they won't be true to anyone.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
1 week ago

Didcot


"Exactly my point they are not being true to themselves

And if they can't be true to themselves they won't be true to anyone."

In most cases they are being deceitful, they think by putting Bi on their profile , it will reduce their chances of getting their willie wet with women so they lie, couples with a straight hubby probably wouldn't be comfortable with a bi guy which is what makes it deceitful. Loads of guys with straight profiles on here are also on Fabguys as Bisexual and a good 95% of the guys who contact me for a meet have profiles saying they are straight and only interested in women and MF couples.

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By *wosome24 OP   Couple
7 days ago

Burnley

Yep they won’t put bi on there profile because it scares the ladies away.. some blokes are like dogs! don’t care where they stick it

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
7 days ago

South East


"Yep they won’t put bi on there profile because it scares the ladies away.. some blokes are like dogs! don’t care where they stick it "

Must admit whilst I was still figuring it all out, I kept mine as straight, as I didn’t want to put off couples messaging us. Then I thought fuck it, I’m not being honest or fair to myself or others. Also if it puts people off then we are not meant to play with each other anyway

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By *atural_born_thriller_xMan
7 days ago

cockwelwyn

Lets add some controversy here x so called straight guys you are getting off being close to another guy I don't think you are straight you are hiding behind the it's all about her you are just scared and until you admit that to yourself you will always be second best in your own bedroom x thoughts people or am I just speaking what I believe is the truth ? X

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By *ornLee86Man
7 days ago

Welwyn Garden City

swap stories in t gram

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By *lackadderMan
7 days ago

Eastbourne


"No…. It’s based on a friend who’s a cd and claims to have sucked over 70 cocks but he’s only got 4 verifications "

Perhaps he isn’t very good at it?😂

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By *otTheReal01Man
7 days ago

London

I refuse to play with any guy who has straight on their profile. Lying is shit.

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By *iver78Man
7 days ago

barton upon humber


"I and I dont want bjs of anyone who isent female !! Is there a table for me ? Im feeling left out lol

Conservative maybe "

🫠🤣

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By *illySlutinOxfordshireTV/TS
7 days ago

North Oxfordshire


"No…. It’s based on a friend who’s a cd and claims to have sucked over 70 cocks but he’s only got 4 verifications

Perhaps he isn’t very good at it?😂"

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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