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Being secretive about loving gay sex

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By *ustaguy69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Livingston

I totally love raw gay sex can't get enough enough of it,I live a straight life but hunger for cock,wish my life had been different sometimes

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
2 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"I totally love raw gay sex can't get enough enough of it,I live a straight life but hunger for cock,wish my life had been different sometimes "

You are still alive. I watch gay sex for the same reason straight men watch two lesbians.

Even hotter for me is bi MFM.

There's still time to fulfil that hunger. Very easily done in a trip down to London. There are gay play nights and parties nearly every night and gay spas to explore.

I go to the straight naturist spa, and it's very well attended by those looking to explore and play.

Only you can take the first step.

Most swinger clubs I've been to have an LGBTQIA+ night.

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By *ustaguy69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Livingston


"I totally love raw gay sex can't get enough enough of it,I live a straight life but hunger for cock,wish my life had been different sometimes

You are still alive. I watch gay sex for the same reason straight men watch two lesbians.

Even hotter for me is bi MFM.

There's still time to fulfil that hunger. Very easily done in a trip down to London. There are gay play nights and parties nearly every night and gay spas to explore.

I go to the straight naturist spa, and it's very well attended by those looking to explore and play.

Only you can take the first step.

Most swinger clubs I've been to have an LGBTQIA+ night."

Thanks for that,I'll take it on board

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By *ustaguy69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Livingston


"I totally love raw gay sex can't get enough enough of it,I live a straight life but hunger for cock,wish my life had been different sometimes

You are still alive. I watch gay sex for the same reason straight men watch two lesbians.

Even hotter for me is bi MFM.

There's still time to fulfil that hunger. Very easily done in a trip down to London. There are gay play nights and parties nearly every night and gay spas to explore.

I go to the straight naturist spa, and it's very well attended by those looking to explore and play.

Only you can take the first step.

Most swinger clubs I've been to have an LGBTQIA+ night."

Thanks for that,I'll take it on board

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By *iddle aged and chubbyMan
2 weeks ago

Shefford


"I totally love raw gay sex can't get enough enough of it,I live a straight life but hunger for cock,wish my life had been different sometimes

You are still alive. I watch gay sex for the same reason straight men watch two lesbians.

Even hotter for me is bi MFM.

There's still time to fulfil that hunger. Very easily done in a trip down to London. There are gay play nights and parties nearly every night and gay spas to explore.

I go to the straight naturist spa, and it's very well attended by those looking to explore and play.

Only you can take the first step.

Most swinger clubs I've been to have an LGBTQIA+ night."

Have to agree with you, a bit MFM is really hot - been far too long since my last one!

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By *carlettsWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

It makes me very sad that people still have to hide who they truely are and how they feel especially in this day and age. I can't imagine how that must feel hiding for fear of what others might say.

I wish you all the best and hope you can find who you want to be and be happy in your own skin and be you

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By *hilled SamMan
2 weeks ago

Reading

Mmmmmm incredible reason, I’m still exploring but only just realised how hard my cock gets watching gay fucking

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By *iCurious4WomenMan
9 hours ago

Inverclyde

Why be secretive about liking other men as if it is something to be ashamed of? We are living in 2026. People are free to do as they please. However, as someone who is out of the closet and in his 30s, I've got too much self-respect and getting too old to be someone's dirty little secret, even for casual encounters. Each to their own, though.

Do you have an issue with gay and bi men who live openly? I ask because some of the closeted men who message me on here seem to have such a problem. They often lack the decency to treat me with respect, and view me as a mere fetish.

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By *dstefiMan
9 hours ago

Solihull

This is more about the performative and public-facing aspect (assuming this site is sort of public) than what anyone gets up to for real in their own time.

I'm not shy about my bisexuality or appreciation for gay sex on here. But in real life, work, family, friends etc, I don't need to display my sexuality overtly. It's none of their business and they're probably not remotely interested.

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By *iCurious4WomenMan
8 hours ago

Inverclyde


"This is more about the performative and public-facing aspect (assuming this site is sort of public) than what anyone gets up to for real in their own time.

I'm not shy about my bisexuality or appreciation for gay sex on here. But in real life, work, family, friends etc, I don't need to display my sexuality overtly. It's none of their business and they're probably not remotely interested."

Being 'not shy' in an anonymous space isn't being out; it’s being safe. Real freedom is mentioning your partner at the dinner table without calculating the risk. If you can’t do that with your friends, you aren't 'private'; you’re still in the closet, just with a different excuse. True self-acceptance means integrating your identity into all parts of your life, not just the parts where it feels safe or performative.

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By *iCurious4WomenMan
8 hours ago

Inverclyde


"This is more about the performative and public-facing aspect (assuming this site is sort of public) than what anyone gets up to for real in their own time.

I'm not shy about my bisexuality or appreciation for gay sex on here. But in real life, work, family, friends etc, I don't need to display my sexuality overtly. It's none of their business and they're probably not remotely interested.

Being 'not shy' in an anonymous space isn't being out; it’s being safe. Real freedom is mentioning your partner at the dinner table without calculating the risk. If you can’t do that with your friends, you aren't 'private'; you’re still in the closet, just with a different excuse. True self-acceptance means integrating your identity into all parts of your life, not just the parts where it feels safe or performative."

Until you treat your love life as neutrally as a straight man treats his, you aren't 'private', you're complicit in the very stigma that makes my openness difficult.

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