FabSwingers.com forum: Pegging, what’s in it for her?

By *utandabout2026 OP Man
14 hours ago

hersham

Genuinely interested

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
14 hours ago

(User no longer on site)

Freshly dried clothes by mother nature.

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By *orphia2003Woman
14 hours ago

Tonypandy.

Can be many things.

Psychological control, playing with gender norms, intimacy, watching a guy experience something different.

Really does depend on the dynamic.

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By *dstefiMan
14 hours ago

Solihull

My wife and I have used a Feeldoe (strapless with a bulb that goes inside her while the shaft goes inside me) and particularly if I ride her using it, she gets a lot of sensory pleasure from the movement. We have managed virtually simultaneous orgasms from it on occasion.

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
14 hours ago

hersham

So you’re saying it can be the change of role/dominance

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By *vonne5exMan
14 hours ago

Doncaster

"Genuinely interested "
I suppose it's revenge

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
14 hours ago

hersham

Hahaha

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By *b1980Man
14 hours ago

Burnley

Yes please

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
14 hours ago

hersham

Well you didn’t last long chief

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By *loodydeliciousMan
14 hours ago

Tyneside

There are double ended pegging dildos so everyone gets something out of it.

Otherwise it's like oral, only the receiver really gets the physical pleasure, but the giver can enjoy it too.

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By *wingAway79Couple
14 hours ago

Surrey

Power!!

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
14 hours ago

hersham

"Power!!"

Can you expand? X

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
14 hours ago

hersham

Forgive the pun haha

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By *aptainlongdickMan
14 hours ago

CRAWLEY

It takes a different type of girl to do that. If she's your gf. She either is very comfortable with. Wants to please her other half or off your nut on something lol

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
14 hours ago

hersham

Different to what? The norm?

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By *igpaul1967Man
14 hours ago

Barnsley

An ex from many years ago wanted to peg me, and I was too immature to accept it. She said it was something to do with penis envy and the power dynamics. We all have regrets sigh.

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
14 hours ago

hersham

Tried it for the first time years ago. Didn’t like it. Have been played with since, not as imposing, and realised it was just a maturity thing. Does that make sense?

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By *dstefiMan
14 hours ago

Solihull

I think what we observe here is the difference between people who've seen it in porn and wanked off to it, and those who've done it with an interested partner.

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
14 hours ago

hersham

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
14 hours ago

hersham

Yes there is a contrast

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By *igpaul1967Man
14 hours ago

Barnsley

"I think what we observe here is the difference between people who've seen it in porn and wanked off to it, and those who've done it with an interested partner."

Not sure what this means

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
14 hours ago

hersham

"I think what we observe here is the difference between people who've seen it in porn and wanked off to it, and those who've done it with an interested partner.

Not sure what this means"

Me neither bro

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By *dstefiMan
14 hours ago

Solihull

"I think what we observe here is the difference between people who've seen it in porn and wanked off to it, and those who've done it with an interested partner.

Not sure what this means"

Sorry, do I need to use fewer and smaller words?

It's not always like it is in porn.

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
14 hours ago

hersham

Would a woman who’s never considered it, try it for a male partner because he expressed he’d enjoy it?

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
13 hours ago

North West

I get to give my partner pleasure. What’s hard to understand about wanting to do that? 🤷‍♀️

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
13 hours ago

hersham

It’s not hard to understand. Just looking for different opinions. What’s wrong with that?

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By *oyboxcouple1Couple
13 hours ago

Kilmarnock

"I get to give my partner pleasure. What’s hard to understand about wanting to do that? 🤷‍♀️"

100% this

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By *NMattMan
13 hours ago

Northampton

Would genuinely entertain being pegged

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By *orksguy1965Man
13 hours ago

Howden

I would love to be pegged

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By *urious girlyWoman
13 hours ago

Barnstaple

My issue with pegging is obviously when I guy performs anal he can feel the resistance on his cock, I can’t with a strap on so I get really anxious about pushing too hard too fast and hurting them. So I don’t really get anything out of it but have no problem giving it a go if a guy is really in to it

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
13 hours ago

North West

"It’s not hard to understand. Just looking for different opinions. What’s wrong with that?"

You asked what’s in it for me. I told you. Yay.

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
13 hours ago

hersham

Because I think the “what’s hard to understand”’was unnecessary

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
13 hours ago

hersham

But that’s ok. I’m sure you didn’t mean to come across like that when replying to a genuinely curious fabbers

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
13 hours ago

North West

"Because I think the “what’s hard to understand”’was unnecessary "

Maybe. I think your wording of “what’s in it for her?” felt confrontational so seems like we’re both irritated.

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
13 hours ago

hersham

Sorry I didn’t mean to phrase it like that. I’m genuinely interested in the mutual enjoyment aspect. I apologise for it coming across like thatb

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
13 hours ago

North West

"Sorry I didn’t mean to phrase it like that. I’m genuinely interested in the mutual enjoyment aspect. I apologise for it coming across like thatb"

Apologies here too 😊

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By *utandabout2026 OP Man
13 hours ago

hersham

Thanks Julie, I’m genuinely curious. Perhaps with a bad inclination in my approach haha

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By *laytime_13Woman
11 hours ago

Lincs

Pre joining fab, I had a bf at the time who expressed an interest in being pegged. I was very vanilla and naive and he didn't approach it well so needless to say it never happened.

A few years on and the idea of doing it with a partner is an absolute turn on.

I can get just as much pleasure and enjoyment out of being the giver rather than the receiver as it were,and yes there is also the dominance aspect with this one.

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By *DirtyGentMan
11 hours ago

Barnsley

"I get to give my partner pleasure. What’s hard to understand about wanting to do that? 🤷‍♀️"

Good on ya

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By *666Man
11 hours ago

Warrington

I'm a 53 male, a 23 year old female messaged and wanted to peg me, it was her fantasy. When I said yes she said she couldn't concentrate and had to leave work. We arranged a time for her to come round, she was late because she couldn't concentrate. She pegged me and I showed her how to peg me in different positions. She orgasmed so many times, she loved it.

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By *unLad213Man
11 hours ago

Huddersfield

"I'm a 53 male, a 23 year old female messaged and wanted to peg me, it was her fantasy. When I said yes she said she couldn't concentrate and had to leave work. We arranged a time for her to come round, she was late because she couldn't concentrate. She pegged me and I showed her how to peg me in different positions. She orgasmed so many times, she loved it. "

Lucky bastard!

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By *ubby CD SlutTV/TS
10 hours ago

St Austell

She gets to give her partner pleasure while showing her dominance and power x

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By *oujustneverknowMan
10 hours ago

Norwich

We've hot a double ended dido bulb end goes in her shaft goes in me. Best position is me on top it stay i her better. And she usually climaxes many times with me riding her..its not about domination or control it's about sharing the experience and understanding wants a desires. It's pleasurable for both of us. But she will fuck me standing up if the sex swing comes out to play and she gets me at the right height..

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By *weetspicycoupleCouple
10 hours ago

sussex

Wife here.

It's sharing special intimate moments.

It's the excitement of wanting to give them pleasure and an amazing orgasm and watching them cum hard.

Giving not just taking is incredibly important and satisfying in a relationship.

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By *oujustneverknowMan
10 hours ago

Norwich

"Wife here.

It's sharing special intimate moments.

It's the excitement of wanting to give them pleasure and an amazing orgasm and watching them cum hard.

Giving not just taking is incredibly important and satisfying in a relationship."
totally agree

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
10 hours ago

Bedfuck

A girlfriend I met at a club pegged me with my strap on I bring with me, she loved the fun of fucking me gripping my hips and the pad of the strap on pressing and rubbing against her clit while she fucked me. Had it done by several women and they've all enjoyed fucking me.

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By *vaRoseWoman
7 hours ago

Ankh-Morpork

What’s in it for me…

Firstly, I share in a vicarious joy of seeing his eyes roll back, hearing his moans, and watching his body respond to the stimulation. Knowing I’m the one responsible for that, without the distraction of my own physical stimulation, it’s incredibly arousing and his pleasure becomes part of mine.

Secondly, I fucking love the power. I love having control of his pleasure. Learning his body, seeing exactly how it responds, then conducting that response like an orchestra. Faster, slower, building, easing off… it’s immensely satisfying to me. The control is just as enjoyable as the act itself.

Finally… pride. That satisfaction in knowing you can give another person that experience. Those quiet little moments after and the flashbacks where you smile and know “Yeah… I did that”

You could ask this about any particularly one-sided sex act. What would I get out of giving a handjob? Or what would he get out of using his fingers or a toy on my clit? It’s not exclusive to pegging. Giving and controlling pleasure is pleasurable.

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By *outhman15Man
7 hours ago

southampton

Not tried it but i would like to, with a gentle woman

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By *orphia2003Woman
4 hours ago

Tonypandy.

"Would a woman who’s never considered it, try it for a male partner because he expressed he’d enjoy it? "

That would depend on the individual. Some might, others wouldn't consider it. It's about communication.

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By *ifelover999Man
4 hours ago

Eastbourne

Cant think anything worse than having some shoved up my arse

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