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By *he Cat Doctor OP Man
21 hours ago

Edinburgh

I have wondered how to always het viewed more so i can get more interaction and meets. I feel I have a good profile I am open to alot, I have good photos/videos. I am curious to how to get more woman rather than men wanting to message lol

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
21 hours ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

I'd start by engaging in various threads in the lounge... It made a big difference to me when I was first in the lifestyle

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By *icecouple561Couple
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21 hours ago

East Sussex

Block single guys in your mail setting, that'll help.

Women often view in 'hide on looked at me ' so you won't know they've looked.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
21 hours ago

East Sussex

Oh and your profile photo shows more of a random woman than it does of you, that'll put a lot of women off of looking

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By *onin25Man
21 hours ago

Durham

I think your profile pic might put off some women. The one with the remote is more alluring

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By *hinstrapMan
21 hours ago

sheffield

"Block single guys in your mail setting, that'll help.

Women often view in 'hide on looked at me ' so you won't know they've looked. "

Ninja mode

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By *eekaboo BellyMan
21 hours ago

Bradford

Engage in forum posts, there are people who may message you even though they've never posted on any forums. Upload new and tasteful pics

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
21 hours ago

North Somerset

I just looked.

I wouldn't look again. Too cock heavy on the photos and bareback shots with a random woman won't appeal to many.

Didn't even get as far as the text. 🤷‍♂️

Obi

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By *Effy-Woman
21 hours ago

Scotland

Your pictures cater more to men than women.

Think, less penis.

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By *he Cat Doctor OP Man
21 hours ago

Edinburgh

They woman are from different meets, isn't that what everyone uploads 🤷

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
21 hours ago

SW1A1AA

All your photos are of your cock, maybe try different photos . It doesnt have to be of your face.

Put more on your profile, what your looking for and what you can offer

Also women are less likely to message first than men so you really need to stand out if your not going to message first

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
21 hours ago

In a galaxy far far away

The drugs reference won't help

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By *eroLondonMan
21 hours ago

Mayfair

Go to Account ⟩ Message Filters ⟩ Women To Avoid; from the drop down list select Mediocre Women.

That should eliminate those aforementioned miscreants and encourage some of the high calibre crumpet to view your magnificent profile. 🩶

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By *he Cat Doctor OP Man
21 hours ago

Edinburgh

So show what? My ass 🤣

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By *WB85Man
21 hours ago

Staffordshire

I've found the forum a really good way of getting my name out there.

I mean don't get me wrong, I don't get views everyday...and I'm not inundated with messages, but I'm doing ok.

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By *Effy-Woman
21 hours ago

Scotland

"So show what? My ass 🤣 "

You have a body attached to that penis, right?

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
21 hours ago

North Somerset

"So show what? My ass 🤣 "

If you hit 'reply+quote' we'll know who you're answering.

Obi

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By *eekaboo BellyMan
21 hours ago

Bradford

Judging from the comments, I'm glad I didn't look. Thought you were just asking as being normal

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By *icecouple561Couple
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21 hours ago

East Sussex

"They woman are from different meets, isn't that what everyone uploads 🤷"

How's it working for you ?

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
21 hours ago

Glos

I view profiles in ninja mode.

I looked and didn’t get past the pics. I’d much rather see your torso than several shots of your cock with writing over it.

Engage in the forum posts, show your personality.

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By *ision21Man
21 hours ago

Newcastle Under Lyme

"I have wondered how to always het viewed more so i can get more interaction and meets. I feel I have a good profile I am open to alot, I have good photos/videos. I am curious to how to get more woman rather than men wanting to message lol"

When I first joined here I literally was plagued by messages from men as I didn't have my message settings set correctly.

Thankfully I worked out quickly how to change this.

What do women want to see is the eternal question.

I would suggest no dick pics on your profile unless they ask to view it.

We all know what a male or womans anatomy look like so it's basically same old in various forms.

Be honest in your profile I think is the greatest attraction.

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By *NMattMan
21 hours ago

Northampton

If there a secret to more views then let me know lol

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By *WB85Man
20 hours ago

Staffordshire

"They woman are from different meets, isn't that what everyone uploads 🤷"

A solo male account showing pictures of a lady is always frowned upon. Theres always a big question of whether consent to share the pics was given.

Make the profile about you and what you have to offer. Not just your dick.

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By *onin25Man
20 hours ago

Durham

"If there a secret to more views then let me know lol "

Fewer cock pics, write a decent bio about what you are like and what you want

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
20 hours ago

Round the bend

Like many women, I have our account set to ninja mode. No offence, but your photos and videos would not appeal to me at all. Just like we might not appeal to you 🤷🏼‍♀️

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By *ackal1Couple
20 hours ago

Manchester

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By *agneyandhutchCouple
20 hours ago

lucan

Sorry if cruel but you don't have a good profile or pictures. Delete the remote one immediately. I only need 1 reason to pass a profile but yours has multiple as far as I'm concerned.

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By *enuine_J87Man
20 hours ago

Eastleigh

Do what I do, occasionally upload a picture of a 35 year old brad pitt, make it a tiny bit blurry so people have to do a double take. They come to your profile, you delete the picture, you get the view.

This may or may not yield any results in terms of messages, winks, interest or future attention

Side effects may include being blocked

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By *eekaboo BellyMan
20 hours ago

Bradford

"Sorry if cruel but you don't have a good profile or pictures. Delete the remote one immediately. I only need 1 reason to pass a profile but yours has multiple as far as I'm concerned. "

He changed his profile pic to the remote one, that's crazy

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By *dstefiMan
20 hours ago

Solihull

The iconic TV remote/penis juxtaposition photo (only marginally less iconic than the sat on the toilet with a hardon photo) probably appeals more to men than women.

Could be worse though, you could only be hung like a Lynx Africa spraycan.

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By *naswingdressWoman
20 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)

"They woman are from different meets, isn't that what everyone uploads 🤷"

No. It shows a lack of discretion.

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