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By *olace50 OP   Man
4 days ago

Northampton

So its seems socially ok for women to outwardly talk about and own a sex toy or even multiple ones , but a male shagging a neoprene arse attached to a mahogany board brands him as a pervert , Discuss

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By *ittlebirdWoman
4 days ago

The Big Smoke


"So its seems socially ok for women to outwardly talk about and own a sex toy or even multiple ones , but a male shagging a neoprene arse attached to a mahogany board brands him as a pervert , Discuss "

Does it OP? I wouldn’t have thought so with the audience here on fab. What are your thoughts? Is this something close to your heart?

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By *eneralKenobiMan
4 days ago

North Angus

Not a clue but if you hand me a massive dildo I’m definitely pretending it’s a sword first overall else

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By *olace50 OP   Man
4 days ago

Northampton

Its a question ive often pondered whilst using my Barbara Windsor sleeve ( other old Eastender Actresses availble)

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
4 days ago

IPSWICH


"So its seems socially ok for women to outwardly talk about and own a sex toy or even multiple ones , but a male shagging a neoprene arse attached to a mahogany board brands him as a pervert , Discuss "

A mahogany board? That must be the Rolls Royce of neoprene arses.

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By *olace50 OP   Man
4 days ago

Northampton


"So its seems socially ok for women to outwardly talk about and own a sex toy or even multiple ones , but a male shagging a neoprene arse attached to a mahogany board brands him as a pervert , Discuss

A mahogany board? That must be the Rolls Royce of neoprene arses. "

All recycled materials and less chance of getting a splinter in your Japs eye

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By *ew1231000Man
4 days ago

Hullbridge, Essex

I personally think the stigma around it is fading away, I have toys and I know some of my friends do as we do discuss it!

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By *vaRoseWoman
4 days ago

Ankh-Morpork

No I don’t op

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By *otts-manMan
4 days ago

Long Eaton

I'm quite open with my toys... Rings, sounding rods, anal beads & butt plugs etc

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By *parklingeclipseWoman
4 days ago

Lincolnshire

I dont think its taboo

A number of guys have told me they use them.

Ive watched someone use one on cam 🥵🔥

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By *dible_KinkCouple
4 days ago

Aberdeen

Yes there is definitely still some sort of disparity between male and female open use of sex toys, though let's be honest, when it comes to disparity between the sexes women do tend to get the rough end of the bargain - Stud v's whore for doing exactly the same thing for example.... Let's not complain too loudly here!!

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By *liceWalkerTV/TS
4 days ago

Nuneaton

Only to prudes maybe ,hell the pleasure button is up the rear pipe grab a toy and try it out it's not "gay" .

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
4 days ago

London

Enjoy yourself. If you don't know how to pleasure yourself how will someone else? Don't settle for mediocre orgasms OP. We deserve to cum with joy, cum hard and cum freely.

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By *dstefiMan
4 days ago

Solihull

It is weird how women will freely chat about sex toys when together, but it is still a stigma for men. If I went into work on Monday telling people I'd cum bucketloads from a great anal session I'd get laughed right back out with a bunch of homophobe comments.

I guess it stems from the old competitive urge to give the impression you, as a man, are so studly that you're neck deep in clunge constantly and thus never need to wank because that's for saddos.

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By *parkle1974Woman
4 days ago

Leeds

I didn't think there was a stigma attached to it...

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By *ora the explorerWoman
4 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"It is weird how women will freely chat about sex toys when together, but it is still a stigma for men. If I went into work on Monday telling people I'd cum bucketloads from a great anal session I'd get laughed right back out with a bunch of homophobe comments.

I guess it stems from the old competitive urge to give the impression you, as a man, are so studly that you're neck deep in clunge constantly and thus never need to wank because that's for saddos. "

Where on earth do you work!

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By *igpaul1967Man
4 days ago

Barnsley

ive only once known a man in a working class factory environment, where sex was discussed openly and freely, sugest that pegging or a prostate massage might be worth trying. He was verbally hammered with such intensity he hardly spoke for a week.

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By *dstefiMan
4 days ago

Solihull


"Where on earth do you work!"

Nothing special, just a standard SME manufacturing place with a male workforce. It's hard physical work, all of it, and the banter is equally savage because when your muscles are screaming before tea break, that's how men deal.

I kind of like it, but I'm a boomer who grew up in the 70s even if most of the lads are more millennial/Gen X or Z (dunno what happened to Y).

It is very much if you can't take it and give it back, you'll get beasted, verbally at least (physical beasting or hazing is obviously non-grata these days).

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By *lways BeardedMan
4 days ago

Wetherby

I think its taboo or a stigma..just enjoy what ever.. ive a metal cock ring i love to use for that tight swell and throb, a couple of strokers and a couple of anal toys.. just openly enjoy... if women can have cupboards full there shouldnt be anything wrong with a guy having a prostate massager 🤣

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By *lackadderMan
4 days ago

Eastbourne


"So its seems socially ok for women to outwardly talk about and own a sex toy or even multiple ones , but a male shagging a neoprene arse attached to a mahogany board brands him as a pervert , Discuss

A mahogany board? That must be the Rolls Royce of neoprene arses. "

It’s so it looks good on the sideboard..

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By *enuine_J87Man
4 days ago

Eastleigh

I’ve had this discussion a few times and I do think it’s viewed very differently. For decades now it’s fun for women to have dildos, vibrators, beads, all sorts of things but men it feels like only in the last 10 years is it becoming known that men use toys, flesh light or a fake body piece etc and those guys are viewed as pervy, creepy and ‘desperately lonely’ to some people which is a very unfair judgement.

I think that’s half the reason I’ve never even thought about using anything other than my hand. Subconsciously thinking “what would a woman think of me if she knew I had this toy?” Or just as bad telling a mate. I’ve had the same mates for 34 years, we know loads about each other, seen each other naked but I bet if 1 of the group said they had a fake pussy the others would give them shit and bring it up for years.

It’s like many things that weren’t acceptable years ago… it will be viewed the same as women having sex toys but not for a few years yet!

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By *ate2theparty808Man
4 days ago

Erdington

Fuck that, I’ve got 5 of em, and I don’t care who knows it, if I had the space and money I would definitely get one of those real dolls, I just want to know how they feel

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By *igerFiestaMan
4 days ago

Huddersfield

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By *igerFiestaMan
4 days ago

Huddersfield

Oops! Can't advertise products.

I used to banter with a work colleague about sex toys, both male and female varieties on websites and sex shops. All tongue in cheek banter. Only time I felt embarrassed was in Tesco when I purchased a cucumber. I genuinely bought it just to eat, but there's always that awkward moment when the cashier gives you that quick judgement with her eyes to see what you intend to do with it.

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By *dstefiMan
4 days ago

Solihull


"I’ve had this discussion a few times and I do think it’s viewed very differently. For decades now it’s fun for women to have dildos, vibrators, beads, all sorts of things but men it feels like only in the last 10 years is it becoming known that men use toys, flesh light or a fake body piece etc and those guys are viewed as pervy, creepy and ‘desperately lonely’ to some people which is a very unfair judgement.

I think that’s half the reason I’ve never even thought about using anything other than my hand. Subconsciously thinking “what would a woman think of me if she knew I had this toy?” Or just as bad telling a mate. I’ve had the same mates for 34 years, we know loads about each other, seen each other naked but I bet if 1 of the group said they had a fake pussy the others would give them shit and bring it up for years.

It’s like many things that weren’t acceptable years ago… it will be viewed the same as women having sex toys but not for a few years yet!"

I now have a DGAF attitude to this. If I want to stick some inches of silicone up my arse and get off, I'm not asking anyone's permission

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By *wcoMan
4 days ago

West Midlands

I don't think there's a taboo, I just don't think they're any good.

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By *lackadderMan
4 days ago

Eastbourne

I have the perfect male sex toy.

It's always available, highly portable and low maintenance.

It can even bring a friend.....

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By *oeBeansMan
4 days ago

Derby

I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄

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By *wcoMan
4 days ago

West Midlands


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄"

This is a funny post, a simple laughing emoji wouldn't do it justice. Well done, Sir

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By *enuine_J87Man
4 days ago

Eastleigh


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄"

Is the cum collection tray worth the extra £45 err asking for a friend, who looks like me with a fake tash

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By *Effy-Woman
4 days ago

Scotland


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄"

Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.

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By *igpaul1967Man
4 days ago

Barnsley


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄"

Sound like a hobby to me

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By *wcoMan
4 days ago

West Midlands


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄

Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried. "

Where he inflates it I guess.

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By *Effy-Woman
4 days ago

Scotland


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄

Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.

Where he inflates it I guess."

Ahh, the blow hole.

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By *oeBeansMan
4 days ago

Derby


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄

Is the cum collection tray worth the extra £45 err asking for a friend, who looks like me with a fake tash"

It depends if £45 is worth your time taking it to a car wash to clean it out properly

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By *wcoMan
4 days ago

West Midlands


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄

Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.

Where he inflates it I guess.

Ahh, the blow hole."

Yes but I'm guessing this particular model comes with a more technical name for it.

Guessing, I promise.

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By *oeBeansMan
4 days ago

Derby


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄

Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried. "

Oh, it's nothing. It was there when I bought it 👀

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
4 days ago

London


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄

Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.

Oh, it's nothing. It was there when I bought it 👀"

Did you accidentally make a hole between the tits? There's a guy who makes a living repairing life size dolls.

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By *eliWoman
4 days ago

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"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄"

👏🏼👏🏼 Love when you're like this.

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By *Effy-Woman
4 days ago

Scotland


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄

Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.

Oh, it's nothing. It was there when I bought it 👀

Did you accidentally make a hole between the tits? There's a guy who makes a living repairing life size dolls."

You know a bit don't you 👀

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
4 days ago

London


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄

Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.

Oh, it's nothing. It was there when I bought it 👀

Did you accidentally make a hole between the tits? There's a guy who makes a living repairing life size dolls.

You know a bit don't you 👀"

I used to work nights and struggled to sleep. Channel flicking led me to the Channel 5 programs of doom. Adult documentaries 😂

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By *oeBeansMan
4 days ago

Derby


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄

Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.

Oh, it's nothing. It was there when I bought it 👀

Did you accidentally make a hole between the tits? There's a guy who makes a living repairing life size dolls."

That's crazy! I wonder what his website or phone number is 🤔

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By *oeBeansMan
4 days ago

Derby


"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄

👏🏼👏🏼 Love when you're like this."

It's cooler and my brain finally feels operational 😅😂

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By *eorge AtazderMan
4 days ago

Old Street 3rd/4th July

I’d imagine calling it a ‘Japs eye’ is more taboo than buying a latex arsehole for you to stick your spam javelin in

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By *lackadderMan
4 days ago

Eastbourne

Can you park your bike in it too?

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By *ebauchayMan
4 days ago

swindon

Only if they’re sheep shaped

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By *olace50 OP   Man
1 day ago

Northampton

See the latex sex doll takes it to another level

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