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By *ddiddy OP   Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

hi people did anyone else notice that it is the same people on the forums all the time out of all the profiles on here only a few regularly post on the forums not that we are complaining the forums are great fun we are kinda new here too so cum on dont be shy people try it post something on here

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

everyone is free to post - their choice if they don't want to I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's true that there are a number of regulars who frequent the forums.

However, we were all newbies once.

Try attending a social or two, as quite a few regulars attend such events, and you'd get to know them too.

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By *ddiddy OP   Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

yes i suppose not complaining just airing my thoughts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are a great place to make new friends and keep in touch with old ones.

I know there are lots of people out there that read but seldom if ever post, as has been said we were all newbies on here once, and i for one found it a great way to make friends............... try it you may like it xxx Raz xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was thinkin same thing, and its a pity more people dont use it cos i have found the forums so informative...and sooooo funny ....more people shud use it ....xxx

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

you could also say the same for the chat rooms, though those that post may appear not to change much one will notice that there are a large number of couples who post alot, and it could be one or both who are posting under a single profile, then of course theres the lurker's those who read the forums but seldom if ever post, same can be said for the chat rooms some people may log into those but never actually interact with those in there, it takes alsorts to make a world and swinging is no different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have been members here for nearly 2yrs but have only recently been contributing to the forums. We have tried the chat rooms too, but the conversation is too spasmodic and too quick for a thick bugger like me to join in. For the time being we are enjoying the forums, but we really just stumbled across them

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon


"hi people did anyone else notice that it is the same people on the forums all the time out of all the profiles on here only a few regularly post on the forums not that we are complaining the forums are great fun we are kinda new here too so cum on dont be shy people try it post something on here "

isnt that preaching to the converted

if they dont come on the forums how they going to read it

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

i think i qualify as a lurker !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever come on here myself but no wot ya mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have only just started looking through the forums not posted much as when i have i've put my foot in it lol,

But have found out some interesting stuff and had a few questions answered,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably qualify as an occasional poster

But as a consequence of posting on here, had a great holiday this year with a lovely lady for company (and no we're not BI - just as mates), and getting to know some other great people!!

Like anything else in the world the more you put in the more you get out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have only just started looking through the forums not posted much as when i have i've put my foot in it lol,

But have found out some interesting stuff and had a few questions answered,

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I wouldnt worry ink...most of us have put our foot in it so to speak.

But if we do, we apologise and carry on.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I remember you all joining the forums.....

So I couldn't have been THAT scarey....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember you all joining the forums.....

So I couldn't have been THAT scarey.... "

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Not scary to me at all, as I belong to a number of online vanilla forums since 2002, and this is no different to the others, honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have only just started looking through the forums not posted much as when i have i've put my foot in it lol,

But have found out some interesting stuff and had a few questions answered,

I wouldnt worry ink...most of us have put our foot in it so to speak.

But if we do, we apologise and carry on. "

Thanks peaches, Will bare that in mind next time

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"I remember you all joining the forums.....

So I couldn't have been THAT scarey.... "

twins seperated at birth perhaps?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"I remember you all joining the forums.....

So I couldn't have been THAT scarey....

twins seperated at birth perhaps? "

I remember you joining as well...... you drove me insane ...

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"I remember you all joining the forums.....

So I couldn't have been THAT scarey....

twins seperated at birth perhaps?

I remember you joining as well...... you drove me insane ... "

nowt changed there then

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

I don’t think they are if you care to look back. Over the last 12 months there has been an influx of new people. (744threads this jan so far compared to only 46 in the whole of January 09) Some stop on weeks, some months and some for good. Yes there is probably a third who are very regular here but there are many who pop in and out every few weeks or so. It brings welcome added input I think which is always good.

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By *ddiddy OP   Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

but some people do come on the forums but like we were are shy to post something just wanted to say there is no need to be shy thats all

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"hi people did anyone else notice that it is the same people on the forums all the time out of all the profiles on here only a few regularly post on the forums not that we are complaining the forums are great fun we are kinda new here too so cum on dont be shy people try it post something on here "
i think rugby did a thread on them there lurkers out there!!!! lots watch but dont post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi people did anyone else notice that it is the same people on the forums all the time out of all the profiles on here only a few regularly post on the forums not that we are complaining the forums are great fun we are kinda new here too so cum on dont be shy people try it post something on here

isnt that preaching to the converted

if they dont come on the forums how they going to read it "

Not really. A lot of people read these posts and don't contribute for whatever reason.

I know that it took me a while before I contributed as I'd read a thread be about to join in when the thread turned into a love in amongst certain members. It then seemed rude to interupt !!

I'd say to those lurkers out there to jump in and add your thoughts: the more the merrier !!

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I am a lurker then, I watch ans rarely post

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I am a lurker then, I watch ans rarely post "
well u lurk so well darling

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"

I'd say to those lurkers out there to jump in and add your thoughts: the more the merrier !!"

I second that

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"

I'd say to those lurkers out there to jump in and add your thoughts: the more the merrier !!

I second that "

I third it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens in the forums?

I am never in it.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

We might join this forum malarkey seems it could be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all just like to say Hi and will try and add now that I have built up courage to say Hi...So Hi...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Dr. Snog ,

I read the forums but seldom contribute as I don't have an opinion about much really.

Nice to read you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a lurker then, I watch ans rarely post "

Yeah right Pinnochio lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Dr. Snog ,

I read the forums but seldom contribute as I don't have an opinion about much really.

Nice to read you x "

Well thank you very much..Seems we are very much alike...Wanna swap phone numbers?...

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"hi people did anyone else notice that it is the same people on the forums all the time out of all the profiles on here only a few regularly post on the forums not that we are complaining the forums are great fun we are kinda new here too so cum on dont be shy people try it post something on here "

I think one time the website owners said only 0.5% of people on the website use the forums. There loss lol the forums are great.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"I am a lurker then, I watch ans rarely post

Yeah right Pinnochio lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi to all the alleged lurkers!

If you lot are lurkers, then I guess I must be one too, ha ha!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

forums for me is better than chat

as i find a lot more good topics than you very rare get in chat

i post about that interested me an for others

plus if you need help or advice theirs always some 1 to answer it

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I've had a few days off - like the forums for a variety of reasons - we've met some lovely people as a result of posting - it's good fun Z xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"...Wanna swap phone numbers?... "

Bloody ell Dr, your a quick mover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi people did anyone else notice that it is the same people on the forums all the time out of all the profiles on here only a few regularly post on the forums not that we are complaining the forums are great fun we are kinda new here too so cum on dont be shy people try it post something on here "

I must be feeling brave hun - this is my second post today finally after 7 months lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done that man.....

grab a chair, take ya clothes off and join in...

Oh wait, should only say that at chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...Wanna swap phone numbers?...

Bloody ell Dr, your a quick mover "

Have to before me Chest turns grey...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"...Wanna swap phone numbers?...

Bloody ell Dr, your a quick mover

Have to before me Chest turns grey... "

Evening Snogs - missed me? Z xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he misses steve more ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...Wanna swap phone numbers?...

Bloody ell Dr, your a quick mover

Have to before me Chest turns grey...

Evening Snogs - missed me? Z xxx"

Not allowed to talk to you cos Steve said he would smash me face in and he is scary....

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I think he misses steve more ya know "

lol - yep - carpet burns not with standing!!!! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Dr. Snog ,

I read the forums but seldom contribute as I don't have an opinion about much really.

Nice to read you x

Well thank you very much..Seems we are very much alike...Wanna swap phone numbers?... "

I'm quite happy with the one i've got thankyou xxx what a nice man xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think he misses steve more ya know "

Leave us alone.We are just good friends thats all officer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think he misses steve more ya know "

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Yup, Steve and Snoggy had a thing going I believe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Dr. Snog ,

I read the forums but seldom contribute as I don't have an opinion about much really.

Nice to read you x

Well thank you very much..Seems we are very much alike...Wanna swap phone numbers?...

I'm quite happy with the one i've got thankyou xxx what a nice man xxx "

He really is a little SP. aint ya snoggy

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"...Wanna swap phone numbers?...

Bloody ell Dr, your a quick mover

Have to before me Chest turns grey...

Evening Snogs - missed me? Z xxx

Not allowed to talk to you cos Steve said he would smash me face in and he is scary.... "

You big fibber Dr i never said a word

and if ys say that again i will smash ya face in. lol

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Dr. Snog ,

I read the forums but seldom contribute as I don't have an opinion about much really.

Nice to read you x

Well thank you very much..Seems we are very much alike...Wanna swap phone numbers?...

I'm quite happy with the one i've got thankyou xxx what a nice man xxx

He really is a little SP. aint ya snoggy "

I try...Gosh never posted so much thanks everyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...Wanna swap phone numbers?...

Bloody ell Dr, your a quick mover

Have to before me Chest turns grey...

Evening Snogs - missed me? Z xxx

Not allowed to talk to you cos Steve said he would smash me face in and he is scary....

You big fibber Dr i never said a word

and if ys say that again i will smash ya face in. lol

Steve "

Oooo would ya swear as well...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"...Wanna swap phone numbers?...

Bloody ell Dr, your a quick mover

Have to before me Chest turns grey...

Evening Snogs - missed me? Z xxx

Not allowed to talk to you cos Steve said he would smash me face in and he is scary....

You big fibber Dr i never said a word

and if ys say that again i will smash ya face in. lol

Steve

Oooo would ya swear as well... "

I swear like a trooper as it is

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I missed you two...Cant wait for me invite to your next party....

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Bloody hell snogs just spotted your fron chester and we all go out in chester from work and now Zoe is giving me 20 questions about my nights out lol

Steve

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I missed you two...Cant wait for me invite to your next party.... "

Well, we've never had a party but when we do we'll def invite you, Z xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyones choice some just stick to forums some stick to chat rooms, myself i do the odd forum but always in chat xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hell snogs just spotted your fron chester and we all go out in chester from work and now Zoe is giving me 20 questions about my nights out lol

Steve "

I saw you in Bar 69...xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I missed you two...Cant wait for me invite to your next party....

Well, we've never had a party but when we do we'll def invite you, Z xxx"

Hope there will be plenty of jelly and ice cream...yum...

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I missed you two...Cant wait for me invite to your next party....

Well, we've never had a party but when we do we'll def invite you, Z xxx"

How lucky to have your own personal Dr on stand by lol xxx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I missed you two...Cant wait for me invite to your next party....

Well, we've never had a party but when we do we'll def invite you, Z xxx

Hope there will be plenty of jelly and ice cream...yum... "

Of course there will!!! in the bath though so may not want to eat it! Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I missed you two...Cant wait for me invite to your next party....

Well, we've never had a party but when we do we'll def invite you, Z xxx

How lucky to have your own personal Dr on stand by lol xxx"

I am a very lucky girl though! Z xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I missed you two...Cant wait for me invite to your next party....

Well, we've never had a party but when we do we'll def invite you, Z xxx

How lucky to have your own personal Dr on stand by lol xxx

I am a very lucky girl though! Z xxx"

The Doctor is always in....

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I missed you two...Cant wait for me invite to your next party....

Well, we've never had a party but when we do we'll def invite you, Z xxx

How lucky to have your own personal Dr on stand by lol xxx

I am a very lucky girl though! Z xxx"

You are Z, no doubt the DR will be wanting to practice his mouth to mouth skills at some stage tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I missed you two...Cant wait for me invite to your next party....

Well, we've never had a party but when we do we'll def invite you, Z xxx

How lucky to have your own personal Dr on stand by lol xxx

I am a very lucky girl though! Z xxx

You are Z, no doubt the DR will be wanting to practice his mouth to mouth skills at some stage tho "

I have a perfectly good knitted pillow I use for that kind of thing thank you young person...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I am sure snoggers would be a perfect gent in any situation after all you cant buy class

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sure snoggers would be a perfect gent in any situation after all you cant buy class

Steve "

Why thank you Steve you are my favourite again...

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"did anyone else notice that it is the same people on the forums all the time out of all the profiles on here only a few regularly post on the forums "

if this site had stats on profiles on the number of forum posts made (as seen elsewhere) then surly there would be a hard core of peeps at the top of the list .. but hey if you have an opinion then state it - it is after all (a) a free country, and (b) a free site

and even if yr opinion is not conformist to that of the majority there is free discussion and debate as to why you are wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When and wheres the next fabs social.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"When and wheres the next fabs social."

One being held in Barnsley on Feb 06th we'll be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When and wheres the next fabs social."

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To name the 3 that I'll be attending:

12 Feb at Eureka's in Kent organised by O1dKingCole

29 May at Club Mystique at Gloucester organised by MadChick

29 Aug at Chams at Darlaston organised by MadChick

Other notable ones I know:

BBW Bash at Chams on 31 Jan 10

Valentines social on 06 Feb at Barnsley organised by kevnkat

ZoeRose's Goodbye 20s at Chams, organised by ZoeRose and Ahabs, can't remember the date off hand

All can be found in the Meetings section of the forums right at the bottom!!!

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"When and wheres the next fabs social.

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To name the 3 that I'll be attending:

12 Feb at Eureka's in Kent organised by O1dKingCole

29 May at Club Mystique at Gloucester organised by MadChick

29 Aug at Chams at Darlaston organised by MadChick

Other notable ones I know:

BBW Bash at Chams on 31 Jan 10

Valentines social on 06 Feb at Barnsley organised by kevnkat

ZoeRose's Goodbye 20s at Chams, organised by ZoeRose and Ahabs, can't remember the date off hand

All can be found in the Meetings section of the forums right at the bottom!!! "

may we ask why are the majority of socials held at clubs?

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"

may we ask why are the majority of socials held at clubs?"

Mainly for convenience and the fact many already attend. Well that and the fact there is some privacy there without cameras etc.

Saying that the ones in Barnsley are top draw held in a swingers friendly pub on a closed night so people can relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"may we ask why are the majority of socials held at clubs?"

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Facilities are there already, like bars, food, jacuzzi, sauna, playrooms, showers, lockers etc...

They are public places with bouncers and staff that will look after the attendees if there are any troubles like unwanted persistent attentions

No tidying up the morning after

... to name a few!

What's not to like to have socials at clubs!!!

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

arent socials a place to meet fellow members, get to know them, etc, with no pressure of playing?

if at a club then isnt there the pressure of playing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arent socials a place to meet fellow members, get to know them, etc, with no pressure of playing?

if at a club then isnt there the pressure of playing?"

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No pressure at all!

In fact, a lot of peeps just sat around in groups to discuss everything under the sun without playing at all! Great fun!

That's the good thing about having them at clubs. If you do meet someone that tickles your fancy, you can just disappear and play in one of the rooms!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"arent socials a place to meet fellow members, get to know them, etc, with no pressure of playing?

if at a club then isnt there the pressure of playing?

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No pressure at all!

In fact, a lot of peeps just sat around in groups to discuss everything under the sun without playing at all! Great fun!

That's the good thing about having them at clubs. If you do meet someone that tickles your fancy, you can just disappear and play in one of the rooms! "
well said PN......i have been to clubs and played ....but have also been to clubs and not played ...at anytime i have never been pressured

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

Well add to your list the socials planned in Manchester in Feb and another in Newcastle in late April - both being held in public venues - just purely social gatherings for the purpose of peeps getting to know new friends and cementing online friendships

The newcastle one late last year was a blast.. and though sadly we cant make the next ; it will surely be even better

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Well add to your list the socials planned in Manchester in Feb and another in Newcastle in late April - both being held in public venues - just purely social gatherings for the purpose of peeps getting to know new friends and cementing online friendships

The newcastle one late last year was a blast.. and though sadly we cant make the next ; it will surely be even better"

Yep the northern ones are pretty good and yep the social side is what a lot want. Others are getting together with people they have chatted with from out of their normal area. Never any pressure to play though i have found. But its nice for some to be able to do so if they choose. At other times its great to get out and about with a group. Think the fact that you can do both at different socials is a winner all round for everyone.

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