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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is one born with it, or can it be developed/cultivated?

Personally, I believe it is a bit of both, and having confidence in oneself certainly helps!

For example, Soapy has presence, all eyes are on him as soon as he walks into the room.

OK, it may have something to do with his ridiculous outfits, however, he has presence all the same IMHO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh get ya coat ya pulled xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ohhh get ya coat ya pulled xx "

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PMSL!!!

You'll have to settle for a hug and a kiss instead over cyber space!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much like leadership abilities, presence is something which can be developed and improved upon, but the basic foundations are something someone is born with.

Those without can only learn to mimic those with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Those without can only learn to mimic those with."

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Our current PM springs to mind indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think presence has to do with appearence. Since I shaved my head, and stopped wearing glasses, and it's been about 15yrs now, people definately see me differently. I used to walk down the road and people would sometimes bump into me without any consideration, I would walk into a pub and get ignored at the bar, lol.

Now its totaly different. People always give me room to pass on the street, and when I walk into a bar, I'm never waiting long to get served. People seem to show me a lot more respect, and it can only be because of how I look.

Because of this, I have loads more self confidence, and I think that this is a connection too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think presence has to do with appearence. Since I shaved my head, and stopped wearing glasses, and it's been about 15yrs now, people definately see me differently. I used to walk down the road and people would sometimes bump into me without any consideration, I would walk into a pub and get ignored at the bar, lol.

Now its totaly different. People always give me room to pass on the street, and when I walk into a bar, I'm never waiting long to get served. People seem to show me a lot more respect, and it can only be because of how I look.

Because of this, I have loads more self confidence, and I think that this is a connection too "

Well we thinks ya looks great anywyay xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree self confidence has a lot to do with presence.

However, it is very easy for one to be over confident and ends up being a egomaniac!

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"Those without can only learn to mimic those with.

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Our current PM springs to mind indeed! "

At least Gordon doesn't need to be airbrushed on an election poster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yu either have or you havent...

and key in inspirational leadership in business.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

I can recommend Robert Townsend's Up the Organization: How to Stop the Corporation from Stifling People and Strangling Profits.

Townsend's the guy who invented the Avis; we try harder slogan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can either blend into background or get noticed immediately it just depends what im wearin or what im doin or what kind of mood im in!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With me its the boots without them I'm a total wallflower ..................... lol

xxx Raz xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can never be a wallflower if I try, if I am quiet or subdue, then there is something wrong with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i blame my star sign im gemini!!! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i blame my star sign im gemini!!! x"

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And I'll blame it on mine as I am Aquarius!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"i blame my star sign im gemini!!! x

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And I'll blame it on mine as I am Aquarius! "

I'm a Pisces.........whats my excuse?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i blame my star sign im gemini!!! x

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And I'll blame it on mine as I am Aquarius!

I'm a Pisces.........whats my excuse? "

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You are mad! Nuff said!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"i blame my star sign im gemini!!! x

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And I'll blame it on mine as I am Aquarius!

I'm a Pisces.........whats my excuse?

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You are mad! Nuff said! "

Moi?

I'm sweet, shy, retiring and wouldn't say boo to a goose........... in real life that is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a Pisces.........whats my excuse?

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You are mad! Nuff said!

Moi?

I'm sweet, shy, retiring and wouldn't say boo to a goose........... in real life that is "

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Eh, hmmm, I have yet to experience those qualities you mentioned!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

i think its one of those things ya either have or ya dont

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