FabSwingers.com forum: Ghosting 👻👻

By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
1 week ago

funky town

Have you done it?

Did you feel bad about it afterwards or not care?

Have you also had it done to you and felt a bit meh about it when you were the recipient?

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By *actile TensionMan
1 week ago

Sussex

Haven't experienced it yet, either way

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"Haven't experienced it yet, either way"

Thats good

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By *areDevil99Man
1 week ago

West Midlands

Done it, had it done!

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
1 week ago

Northumberland

Nah im a man of my word and integrity! I just wont do it.

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"Done it, had it done!"

Do you think its an "ok" thing to do? Did you feel bad after in both scenarios? Or more so when it happened to you?

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By *inkShyWoman
1 week ago

near Windsor

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"Not on here.

Ghosted my fiancée when I found he cheated. Felt amazing. "

I would say thats an absolutely warranted ghosting

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By *BelfastGuyMan
1 week ago

Belfast

Boo or putting the willies up someone?

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 week ago

Round the bend

We did it to our very first social meet on here. Made the mistake of exchanging tele details before meeting up for a drink. He knew we had another social the weekend after and continuously tried calling us throughout the whole evening, and sending texts asking if he was still in with a chance! Oh and he looked at least 15 years older than his fab age too.

I think this ghosting was deserved

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"Boo or putting the willies up someone?"

I think the whole point is not putting the willies up someone as you dissapear before. Pooft 💨💨

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By *Effy-Woman
1 week ago

Scotland

I have, kind of. And yes I felt bad, but the stuff I had going on in my life at that time meant more. I have since apologised and thankfully the ghostee was understanding enough to still want to meet me.

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By *inkShyWoman
1 week ago

near Windsor

I don't think I've done it. But sometimes ADHD brain means I forget to reply to people and they may slip down the inbox. In real life, people know I will come back to reality in a 5- 6 business days/weeks/months.

Ex ghosted me when I was 24. Didn't feel great after 5 years 🤣

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By *ildatheart01Man
1 week ago

Petersfield

I have just let conversations fade out when I’m getting one word answers. Is that ghosting?

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By *morousZoeWoman
1 week ago

Cumbria

Someone told me on here ghosting only counts if you’ve met face to face. But it’s also sad if you’ve been chatting for weeks and weeks then poof - gone.

I’d always rather be upfront with people if I’ve changed my mind/life stuff gets in the way and I need to stop talking.

A guy I dated did it to me at 19, it was shit then too. I prefer feeling of closure.

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By *NMTruckerMan
1 week ago

Lyneham

You can't get ghosted if you can't get a reply

any tips and tricks for starting convo's on here 😅

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By *earditallWoman
1 week ago

Lancaster

Ive done it with good reason if someone's been a bit of a knob.

And had it done to me a couple of times when was supposed to meet up but I won't chase anything,if they don't respond I won't bother again type of thing.

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By *actile TensionMan
1 week ago

Sussex

"Haven't experienced it yet, either way

Thats good

Oh no wait there was this one lady. Was just a few fab messages though so not sure if it counts.

Chats were well in-depth, like multiple paragraphs. One day it went cold, I felt they were worth a double message, read with no response so I left it. Days later came a new veri 💔

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By *areDevil99Man
1 week ago

West Midlands

"Done it, had it done!

Do you think its an "ok" thing to do? Did you feel bad after in both scenarios? Or more so when it happened to you?"

Bad both times but it's just part of life. If someone is constantly contacting you when you don't want it, it needs to be done. And if someone doesn't want me contacting them that's fine. I'd never try to get around it.

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"Someone told me on here ghosting only counts if you’ve met face to face. But it’s also sad if you’ve been chatting for weeks and weeks then poof - gone.

I’d always rather be upfront with people if I’ve changed my mind/life stuff gets in the way and I need to stop talking.

A guy I dated did it to me at 19, it was shit then too. I prefer feeling of closure. "

I would disagree with that tbh i think messaging counts especially if its been long term and with the intention to meet. It refers to dissapearing with no explanation wether youve seen someone face to face or intended to is irrelevant.

I feel that probably makes whoever told you it feel better or excuse some of there behaviours. Again i could be wrong. I often am

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By *Effy-Woman
1 week ago

Scotland

"Someone told me on here ghosting only counts if you’ve met face to face. But it’s also sad if you’ve been chatting for weeks and weeks then poof - gone.

I’d always rather be upfront with people if I’ve changed my mind/life stuff gets in the way and I need to stop talking.

A guy I dated did it to me at 19, it was shit then too. I prefer feeling of closure. "

On here I would consider ghosting to be, arranging to meet up then disappearing. It's a bit shitty if you have been messaging back and forward for a while then radio silence, but that happens all the time.

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By *BelfastGuyMan
1 week ago

Belfast

"I don't think I've done it. But sometimes ADHD brain means I forget to reply to people and they may slip down the inbox. In real life, people know I will come back to reality in a 5- 6 business days/weeks/months.

Ex ghosted me when I was 24. Didn't feel great after 5 years 🤣 "

We need a neurospicy group so we understand each other.

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"Someone told me on here ghosting only counts if you’ve met face to face. But it’s also sad if you’ve been chatting for weeks and weeks then poof - gone.

I’d always rather be upfront with people if I’ve changed my mind/life stuff gets in the way and I need to stop talking.

A guy I dated did it to me at 19, it was shit then too. I prefer feeling of closure.

Yeah i agree it does happen. Its even worse when said person comes back under a new alias and doesnt even aclnowledge you 🤣🙈

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By *arzanandJane2016Couple
1 week ago

the big city

We’ve been ghosted twice, we’ve been asked for a second chance by one of them which we’ve declined.

Rather than ghost we told a couple we couldn’t meet and it we only due to coming on 3 / 4 days early and we got a load of abuse for it.

It’s a no win situation sometimes here

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"We’ve been ghosted twice, we’ve been asked for a second chance by one of them which we’ve declined.

Rather than ghost we told a couple we couldn’t meet and it we only due to coming on 3 / 4 days early and we got a load of abuse for it.

It’s a no win situation sometimes here "

Yeah im not here to say if its wrong or right noone knows what goes on in peoples lives and everyone has the right to not communicate with who they want i guess

I just wondered how people feel about it both ways as in do they feel shitty about it or can just shake it off as oh well.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 week ago

Round the bend

Do they have to have blocked you for it to be a real ghosting?

Or does it count if they put months of graft into trying to meet you, thousand of messages, photos, voice notes etc daily, only to stop messaging a couple of days after meeting.

If so, yeah. That made me feel like complete shit and knocked my confidence massively.

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
1 week ago

Hampshire

I don't consider it ghosting unless we've arranged a meet. Up until that point if conservation drops off that's just what it is xx

But if we've arranged a meet I wouldn't ghost.

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By *Effy-Woman
1 week ago

Scotland

"Someone told me on here ghosting only counts if you’ve met face to face. But it’s also sad if you’ve been chatting for weeks and weeks then poof - gone.

I’d always rather be upfront with people if I’ve changed my mind/life stuff gets in the way and I need to stop talking.

A guy I dated did it to me at 19, it was shit then too. I prefer feeling of closure.

Yeah i agree it does happen. Its even worse when said person comes back under a new alias and doesnt even aclnowledge you 🤣🙈"

It doesn't feel great, I know. If that happens I just assume I've done something that's put them off and try not to read too much into it.

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By *enuine_J87Man
1 week ago

Eastleigh

Been ghosted many times, sometimes I feel like I know why but most of the time they just vanish mid conversation and I will never know why.

I have also ghosted yes for various reasons, became really obsessive, 15 texts in a row during times I can’t even reply. When they go from very chatty and interested to just one word answers or a single emoji as a reply.

I don’t feel bad ghosting, I feel far worse telling someone that it won’t work out, especially if they like me

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"Do they have to have blocked you for it to be a real ghosting?

Or does it count if they put months of graft into trying to meet you, thousand of messages, photos, voice notes etc daily, only to stop messaging a couple of days after meeting.

If so, yeah. That made me feel like complete shit and knocked my confidence massively. "

I would define that as ghosting yes. And im not suprised that sounds awful

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"I don't consider it ghosting unless we've arranged a meet. Up until that point if conservation drops off that's just what it is xx

But if we've arranged a meet I wouldn't ghost. "

Oh yeah i agree i think its the leading up to a meet.

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By *otpants79Man
1 week ago

Wokingham

Never done it and never will.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
1 week ago

Hull

Had it done to me when money was involved !! Not nice

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
1 week ago

Chester

Yes I've had to done a few times, at the chatting stage, after a meet and after a situation-ship, all times hurt, so I'd never do it to someone intentionally

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 week ago

Round the bend

"Do they have to have blocked you for it to be a real ghosting?

Or does it count if they put months of graft into trying to meet you, thousand of messages, photos, voice notes etc daily, only to stop messaging a couple of days after meeting.

If so, yeah. That made me feel like complete shit and knocked my confidence massively.

I would define that as ghosting yes. And im not suprised that sounds awful"

It was awful. Left me with fab trust issues for sure

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By *lueDressWoman
1 week ago

Bath Somerset

Constantly being ghosted as Im not encouraging them to be sexual.

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"Do they have to have blocked you for it to be a real ghosting?

Or does it count if they put months of graft into trying to meet you, thousand of messages, photos, voice notes etc daily, only to stop messaging a couple of days after meeting.

If so, yeah. That made me feel like complete shit and knocked my confidence massively.

I would define that as ghosting yes. And im not suprised that sounds awful

It was awful. Left me with fab trust issues for sure "

I think some people are all about the chase and the end goal. I think it says a lot more about them than it does you especially if they didnt make that clear beforehand.

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By *ornyguy666Man
1 week ago

Nottingham

Been ghost before so bloody annoying

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
1 week ago

Kingswood

I have done it as the lovely lady turn out to be not so lovely. Ended up snapping my SIM card and deleting FB for good. Been done to me by a girl I met in Ibiza many years ago we said we’d meet back up once home she stopped replying after a while Lool

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By *estructionDollyWoman
1 week ago

Manchester

I agree, I feel it's still ghosting if you haven't yet met someone but you've been talking loads and have been planning on meeting up/swapped details and then they disappear or just stop responding. I've had this happen to me a fair bit recently tbh, and it does feel quite shit. Breadcrumbing is another, where they seem to ghost then pop back up a few months later to dangle a carrot and keep you on the hook then disappear again.

I try not to ghost people, sometimes conversations just fizzle out and that's fair and understandable. I don't consider that ghosting. The only time I tend to ghost someone now is if I have a reason to be worried about their reaction if I rejected them or they make me feel uncomfortable, so I will just block them to protect myself really.

I try and be honest with people and explain why I probably won't see them again (or no longer want to meet) in most cases, we are all adults and should be able to talk to eachother honestly and openly.

If someone is no longer interested in meeting me I'd rather they just be honest and tell me so I can move on instead of leaving me in limbo and overthinking it.

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By *earditallWoman
1 week ago

Lancaster

"Someone told me on here ghosting only counts if you’ve met face to face. But it’s also sad if you’ve been chatting for weeks and weeks then poof - gone.

I’d always rather be upfront with people if I’ve changed my mind/life stuff gets in the way and I need to stop talking.

A guy I dated did it to me at 19, it was shit then too. I prefer feeling of closure.

Yeah i agree it does happen. Its even worse when said person comes back under a new alias and doesnt even aclnowledge you 🤣🙈"

Had this also and when they use the same pics and try message you again

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
1 week ago

Birmingham

I only class it as ghosting if I know the person, conversations with strangers don't count in my eyes. I've never ghosted people I've had some sort of relationship with, I always be honest and communicate it like adults.

Those who disappear and resurface whenever they feel like it though? I feel no way about not answering their message which may be a form of ghosting but they made their bed.

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit

Years ago a bloke ghosted me, we'd met a free times. He just stood me up, no word from him untill days after.

He said he'd left his phone at work?! Yeah right he'd used fab that same day. Block.

I haven't really ghosted, more just blocked people when they got too pushy or said something I didn't like. Not those I've met in RL though, just here.

I've sort of ghosted a friend, in real life, when it got to the point of me having to do all the messaging first.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 week ago

London

I've been ghosted and done it to others. If I don't think we're going to be in each other's lives, there's no point maintaining contact. If they are negative or are having a bad influence on me, I cut them off. It's ok to limit access to people you don't think should have it. I don't feel guilty. When it happens to me, I understand the rules. It's their choice.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
1 week ago

Always on the move

Had it done to me plenty of times. Part of modern life really init. Yeah its shit, and personally I wouldn't do it, but...each to their own I guess

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By *WB85Man
1 week ago

Staffordshire

Its been done towards me.....someone that found it difficult to communicate.

I don't ghost myself, I much rather be open and clear.

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By *olo ladMan
1 week ago

Manchester

"You can't get ghosted if you can't get a reply

any tips and tricks for starting convo's on here 😅"

I think that’s getting ghosted 😂

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By *aulkMan
1 week ago

Bathish

"You can't get ghosted if you can't get a reply

any tips and tricks for starting convo's on here 😅

I think that’s getting ghosted 😂"

Nah, that’s preemptive ghosting!

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By *ikerabbits!Couple
1 week ago

Surrey

Haven’t done it but have been at the receiving end. Bothered? No. It’s only an issue of concern if family or very close friends do it. To date they haven’t 🤞

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
1 week ago

Niche

Not in person.

I've had the odd early stages chat where the chat itself disappeared and they've gone UNLOS.

I usually just shrug it off and consider it a bullet dodged.

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By *onin25Man
1 week ago

Durham

Yes, once, I had stuff that I was dealing with in my life and wasn't in the right headspace to be starting any sort of relationship. I felt very bad about it, should have done things differently but wasn't thinking straight.

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By *mf123Man
1 week ago

with one foot out the door

No idea cant remember if i done it or not not sure if i had it its that long since i was activeley hunting my prey sorry im no help in this quest

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By *inkShyWoman
1 week ago

near Windsor

Ex ghosted me when I was 24. Didn't feel great after 5 years 🤣

We need a neurospicy group so we understand each other. "

We do! My friends understand I go MIA and will return eventually after I've finished whatever obsession has taken over my life.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 week ago

Reading

I do sometimes the friendly ghost where I just start messaging a lot less.

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By *rispy KremeMan
1 week ago

wolves

Got catfished so had to ghost after 😬

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By *peedyGMan
1 week ago

Telford

Yes i've been ghosted a few times, nothing you can do about it unfortunately 🤷‍♂️

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By *wingersGilfandDHCouple
1 week ago

London, United Kingdom

Yeah I've been ghosted. Drove to the next city and waited. Oh well. I enjoyed a day out! X

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By *viatrixWoman
1 week ago

Back in Surrey, Dahlings!

I have done it and have had it done to me too.

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By *tannersMan
1 week ago

stanley

Not been on the receiving end of it

I don’t think I’ve done it, certainly not deliberately, hopefully none of my fab friends feel like I have ghosted them

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By *ealitybitesMan
1 week ago

Belfast

I've never had it done to me as far as I know but I've done it twice with no regrets.

One was fab related and the other not but my reasons were similar on both occasions.

They were both manipulative and completely obsessed with what others were doing.

They were quick to accuse others of doing the very things they were guilty of and in both cases when I disagreed with them or tried to tell them that they were in the wrong I became their main target.

I physically walked away from one and ignored all attempts by her to engage me in conversation especially when that quickly turned to threats.

I virtually walked away from the fab related one because I wanted nothing to do with the drama or the manipulation.

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By *astManOnEarthMan
1 week ago

nowhere

Shrugs

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By *arand25Couple
1 week ago

Crowborough

We had that last weekend, it sucks big time. A guy was very keen for an MFM with us, S got very excited & we all messaged a great deal leading up to the day.

Two days before the meet he went quiet, read our messages but no reply. Didn't show up of course then when we checked his profile he'd blocked us.

Timewasting prick, I hope he reads this & knows what a turd we think he is.

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By *ou only live onceMan
1 week ago

London

I don't think I've been actively ghosted or ghosted anyone. In the real world, friendships fizzle out but I don't think I've ever made the conscious decision to stop replying to someone.

On here, messages come and go - with some people you know that doesn't matter as it works for you both.

If I like someone, I'll often drop them a random message - off the back of a thread for example - even if they hadn't messaged me in a while, but maybe I'm misjudging them wanting to ghost me! 😰

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
1 week ago

SW1A1AA

Whats your definition og ghosting op

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By *hinstrapMan
1 week ago

sheffield

Neve done it. Always been straight up with people. Sometimes not taken well.

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By *BelfastGuyMan
1 week ago

Belfast

Why do people strat to chat on here then all of a sudden hide?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 week ago

Reading

"Yeah I've been ghosted. Drove to the next city and waited. Oh well. I enjoyed a day out! X"

Now that I would never do. That's horrible. Glad you turned it into a positive.

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By *wcoMan
1 week ago

West Midlands

I was gonna ghost the thread but then I realised that nobody will friggin' notice.

Tradesmen ghost all the time...Just say you don't want the job!

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By *r SensualMan
1 week ago

London

Never been “ghosted” from a meet perspective, nor have I ever ghosted anyone in the same way. Have had chats initiated by me & by others where they’ve fizzled out as the other person/couple just stopped responding 🤷🏾‍♂️

Now being in a place of abundance, such things happening don’t phase me anymore

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
1 week ago

Reading

Yeah I can think of at least once where I'd been talking to one person loads and then someone important reappeared in my life and I never told the first person why my messaged stopped. I do feel bad. Even though it happened years ago. Jacob, if you ever read this, you deserved better than me.

I was in a long-term long-distance relationship with someone, and mid-conversation he ghosted me. I legit thought he died and mourned him as though he had. By this time, we'd known each other for years too!

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By *ou only live onceMan
1 week ago

London

Ah, actually, I have been ghosted...

Was chatting to someone for ages. We arranged to meet at a group social. Few days before the social (which involved quite a lot of travel for me), she went AWOL. Nada. That did sting as you are left wondering what you did. I think it's odd that adults can't say they're not into someone.

I still want and had a good time - she turned up with a bloke she'd been seeing and barely said hello. Explained the ghosting, I guess. 🤣

She pitched back on here a few months ago and slid into my DMs...easy delete.

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"Whats your definition og ghosting op"

I suppose my definition is someone who just dissapears without a trace stops talking im not meaning after one or two messages. Im meaning after a long time, building a connection agreeing to meet etc. However i am aware other peoples definitions are different

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
1 week ago

Transsexual Transylvania

The only ghosting I've done was at Halloween. 👻🎃👻

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

Herts/Leeds

Yes a number of times, including someone I had known and been meeting for years...suddenly vanished. No idea why. I’ll never know I guess

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By *awtybikerMan
1 week ago

Barnoldswick

Not done it, but had it done to me a couple of times.

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By *iver78Man
1 week ago

barton upon humber

Only done it once , and tbh I should of just blocked then, but they were very full on and bombarded me with calls texts

Iv been ghosted before , especially of women on here , I don't blame them , I'm pretty boring haha

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
1 week ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Yes I've had it done to me after meeting someone several times and people I've messaged and meeting has been discussed.

I'll hold my hands up and say the past year I have unintentionally been guilty of it, life has just not given me the mental capacity to remember to message, or I think i have and a week or two later I realise I havent 🫣 so apologies to anyone I may have made feel like I did.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
1 week ago

SW1A1AA

No i dont think ive been ghosted.Messages can fizzle out.

I kind of ghost people when i just dissapear and dont say anything. But they know I always come back. Their used to it now

Ive never arranged to meet someone and not turn up and ive never had it done to me thankfully

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By *oxy-RedWoman
1 week ago

pink panther territory

Had it done ,he connected me later we sorted it and he's done it again

No going back this time,I honestly don't know why people can't just say sorry I'm not interested anymore we are supposed to be adults

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

I have been. They abruptly cut off contact with me - I assume cos i could not give the level of commitment they wanted (may be completely wrong) - they blocked me on Fab, watsapp and phone, but would then unblock long enough to send a message and then block me again, so I could not discuss what the issue was. It is the reason I left Fab in 2024, no idea if she is still on here.

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By *ot_Rod43Man
1 week ago

newcastle upon tyne

Had it done to me a couple of times. It doesn’t bother me. If they don’t want to talk anymore that’s fine. They could just say but I think some people are scared to say and take the easy option

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By *007ManMan
1 week ago

Worthing

I've unmatched on dating apps if the woman is too far away. Other than that I let them know if there is no chemistry.

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By *oomlMan
1 week ago

Fareham

Never done it but had it done to me a few times.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
1 week ago

Paradise, Herts

People I’ve met? No. People I’ve been chatting to, yeah probably but I get fed up with fab and don’t come on for a while so it’s not really intentional but I suppose it could be seen as that.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 week ago

Round the bend

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By *evilinDavina1Man
1 week ago

Bristol

Not to the best of my recollection.

I am shit at replying to texts or voicemail though

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 week ago

Round the bend

"We had that last weekend, it sucks big time. A guy was very keen for an MFM with us, S got very excited & we all messaged a great deal leading up to the day.

Two days before the meet he went quiet, read our messages but no reply. Didn't show up of course then when we checked his profile he'd blocked us.

Timewasting prick, I hope he reads this & knows what a turd we think he is."

I can imagine it sucks, but I think it's much worse if they do it after you've done the deed! Dodged a bullet!

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By *augar40Man
1 week ago

bromsgrove

Have you done to me after chatting to the lady for awhile and then arranging the meet we will travel to her area and book some accommodation and then radio silence

I've never done it myself. I never contemplated it. I'll be upfront and honest if they are not for me.

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

I can imagine it sucks, but I think it's much worse if they do it after you've done the deed! Dodged a bullet!"

Is that not the etiquette? I thought that everyone ghosted/blocked those with whom they had partaken of 'The Sex' with? I understood that was a requirement of admission to the clique (apprentice level)

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
1 week ago

North West

I’ve had long breaks in conversations. That’s just my brain space and is never meant as ghosting. Daily or even weekly conversation is what happens on this site for me and if that’s you, reading this, chances are I still enjoy our intermittent chat 🫣❤️

Actual ghosting? I don’t think I’ve done a full ghost although I’ve matched energy and noticed the conversation fizzle.

I’ve been properly ghosted on one of my couples accounts. Multiple daily messages and lots of excitement over the course of a couple of months and then one day the conversation was deleted on another platform and the profile gone from here with no explanation. That hurt 🤷‍♀️

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 week ago

Round the bend

I can imagine it sucks, but I think it's much worse if they do it after you've done the deed! Dodged a bullet!

I missed that memo 🤣🤣

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 week ago

Round the bend

I've always looked at ghosting as people who have arranged to meet, then blocked at the last minute - or those that do it after the event.

We've had quite a few fab friends who we've spent months chatting to, and all of a sudden they have evaporated and come to a stop. I know I've unintentionally been guilty of that, as have they, but there was no talk of actually meeting. It doesn't bother me..people move on.

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By *eorgesdad69Man
1 week ago

Long Eaton

Had it done to me too many times, I now see the pattern emerging so call their bluff to save me being disappointed when they don’t turn up.

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Mayfair

"Have you done it?

Have you also had it done to you."

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Let's stick with brevity for once: No.And.No.

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
1 week ago

South glos

Call me Derek Acorah because the ghosts love me 😅

Tbh i’d much rather just get ghosted than all the breadcrumbing / slow fading nonsense where you suddenly get one message every 3-5 business days after consistent communication- and they think you won’t lose interest after a day of it

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 week ago

Leeds

Never done it, never had it done x

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 week ago

Round the bend

"Call me Derek Acorah because the ghosts love me 😅

I think they hope we lose interest once they've got what they set out for. Must make them feel less of a wanker

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By *ustAnotherMan
1 week ago

Tamworth

I've done it when I've tried giving the polite and gentle let down but they've not taken the hint. I don't like doing it though

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By *emptme1993Man
1 week ago

manchester

I’ve never done it to someone, had it done to me before though

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By *arierWoman
1 week ago

birmingham

Had it done to me, doesn’t phase me in the slightest. I’m married at the end of the day, I wouldn’t allow it to get to the point I develop feelings for it to cause me upset.

I have done it to other people too. If they make me feel uncomfortable in any way or they’re rude. I don’t feel the need to explain myself to people like that.

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By *ellhungvweMan
1 week ago

Cheltenham

If you are talking about meets then I have never not turned upto a meet without a decent amount of prior warning beforehand (life happens). I have had meets cancel but, again, they have told me before hand and that is fine.

If it is convos on here then many just die a natural death. That’s the way it should be.

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By *ermite12ukMan
1 week ago

Solihull and Romford

I've done it to a friend who I'd not bothered to contact and neither had he. Then out of the blue, will you come to his b.day party along with your partner? Nope. We won't know anyone.

Also been ghosted. Once when I sort of knew that the person was not going to turn up at mine. So not really a problem. But before that I was driving to a UK airport. When I got a call.

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By *oeBeansMan
1 week ago

Derby

I don't think so, I feel like things have generally fizzled out on both sides rather than full on ignoring each other but in terms of ghosting someone, I've generally told them if an issue has come up or whether I think we've run out course. I won't lie, I probably still talk to them though while pluck up the courage to tell them and things go on longer than they should 😅

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By *ongandthick888Man
1 week ago

Leeds

Last week I was accused of ghosting because I didn’t reply to 5 messages from someone who I’ve never spoken to in my life.

It made me realise people must misuse that term a lot.

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By *ingh89Man
1 week ago

Birmingham

"Have you done it?

Did you feel bad about it afterwards or not care?

Have you also had it done to you and felt a bit meh about it when you were the recipient? "

I have experienced it on the receiving end almost 99% of the time. Was not great to begin with but got used to it.

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By *heekycppl2016Couple
1 week ago

Worthing

We been messaging a guy who said a day to meet, then changed it, now he not opened our message for over a week but seems to be on a lot. Gone from wants to meet to not replying. Not going to chase it as plenty of others on here x

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By *dstefiMan
1 week ago

Solihull

Done it to a guy I hooked up with one time. It was OK in the moment (I spanked him, he liked it, then started on with calling me Master etc which isn't me and pestering messages) but it wasn't a great meet in the grand scheme of things. Made it clear I thought we were after different things but he kept on trying. Blocked in fabs and other PM channels because I felt he had the potential to become overattached.

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By *aked beachMan
1 week ago

Just A Stranger In A Strange Land.

Never done it myself, I got ghosted a few weeks ago by a Lady on here. Seems common thing these days so I just kinda moved on.

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By *025IncomingMan
1 week ago

Co.Antrim

I've only done it when the person has done something I didn't like or disrespectful or the likes.

Normally I would be upfront with people and try not to do it but sometimes people deserve it.

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By *heElvingtonTwoCouple
1 week ago

The Ramtops

Not done it but certainly been on the receiving end of it pretty much universally. Everyone that has made plans to meet has ultimately smokebombed out

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By *heElvingtonTwoCouple
1 week ago

The Ramtops

"We been messaging a guy who said a day to meet, then changed it, now he not opened our message for over a week but seems to be on a lot. Gone from wants to meet to not replying. Not going to chase it as plenty of others on here x"
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Sounds about right had that happen twice in the last week. Yet to experience anything else to be honest

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By *heElvingtonTwoCouple
1 week ago

The Ramtops

Well that’s not completely true one couple turned up to their credit but that is still a piss poor ratio

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By *carlettsWoman
1 week ago

Harpenden

Never done it.

Have been ghosted on here in the past but not in real life. People often hide behind social media.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
1 week ago

Telford

Done it in the sense that I stopped messaging as it got weird ha. I had said I didn't like the way he was talking about carton things but he didn't take that on board so I poofed.

I have had it done to me also, I think it's a little different when you've communicated and they've ignored the boundaries etc.

I wouldn't just poof without explaining my issue.

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By *arzanandJane2016Couple
1 week ago

the big city

Here’s my 2 pence

I think personally it comes down to nerves, people sign up to Fab upload their content and then can’t wait to start talking about Hot wives, who’s wanking now, couple seeking couple for hot fun.

But when it comes to the crunch either it’s not a joint effort reciprocated by both parties in the couple or it’s fantasy about to become reality the balls shrink and it’s easier to fade away.

We’ve had it even when we’ve set a date and moved into a group chat - radio silence as the day approached.

Sad times for those people and I think that’s why people get frustrated here

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By *apua New GuineaMan
1 week ago

nearby

Hhmm, I didn't think I had either way and then remembered, I have been on here, they are still on my friends list though.

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By *nmyknees69Man
1 week ago

Rushden

"Have you done it?

Did you feel bad about it afterwards or not care?

Have you also had it done to you and felt a bit meh about it when you were the recipient? "

I’ve never felt the need to. It’s rude and hurtful. Just be honest to start with.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
1 week ago

Swansea

I have done it, but reconnected soon after and we have since married to each other.

Mrs S&N

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

"I have done it, but reconnected soon after and we have since married to each other.

Mrs S&N "

Guess the ultimate ghosting is divirce

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
1 week ago

South Wales

I was ghosted after my first ever solo social meet when we were very new to fab. If did bother me at the time as we had been messaging for a few months and I assumed I’d done something wrong but I’ve learnt that this type of thing just happens sometimes so I don’t think it would bother me (as much) now.

I haven’t intentionally ghosted anyone but sometimes things just fizzle out xx 😘

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By *oughmanMan
1 week ago

Sunderland

Never done it and I wouldn't without a very good reason. I've been on the receiving end but I don't expect anything less from this site.

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By *an ClioCouple
1 week ago

Boston

Conversations can fizzle out and people can get distracted by a new one. That isn't ghosting.

Arranging a date, time and place for a meet then the other party disappears, never to be seen again happens far more often than it should. This even happens when they are well verified profiles.

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By *ynamicnatureMan
1 week ago

Doncaster

Never been ghosted nor have I ever ghosted.

I'd imagine it would leave me feeling a little crap if no explanation was given, and with that in mind I wouldn't leave anyone hanging.

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By *lack King DomMan
1 week ago

London

"Have you done it?

Did you feel bad about it afterwards or not care?

Have you also had it done to you and felt a bit meh about it when you were the recipient? "

Happened once, dead of winter, made sure to include methods of verifying intentions before socials now

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By *rs_ReformedWoman
1 week ago

your hotlist

Yeah i had someone ghost me yesterday before a meet, bit pathetic really if you're not coming its common courtesy to let someone know then they're not waiting for you.

Their loss anyway 🤣

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